Are the 'Brothas' aware what's happening?

Just curious about how aware are the average well hung black dudes out there about how much in demand they are these days? It seems to me if I were one of them (instead of a fate-accepting cuckold hubby) I would be fucking every pretty white wife I could get my hands on. Do I sound envious? HELL YEAH! Seriously, does the average black dude know the meaning of an leg anklet on the right side, or a Queen of Spades tattoo, hot wife jewelry, toe rings, etc.? I'm just wondering if the jewelry I'm buying for my wife will be effective advertising, and if so what is the best kind to get the message out there to potential bulls?