advice needed

I should have called myself wannabe. Wife is VERY conservative and does not take much. I REALLY want to watch her with a VERY well hung man. We have talked about a 3some in bed during sex and at the right time she gets hot. Any advice how to get her to finally try it for real? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

One typical cuckold wannabe strategy is "slowly getting her ready" - by little encouragements here and there, casual mentioning of how it turns you on once in a while etc.

I believe this strategy is useless, especially if your wife is a real conservative type.

If you are willing to take some risk, here is your best option: Arrange with a guy (could be a bull you meet online, could be a guy you just met on vacation) before wife knows anything about it. Make sure the guy is someone who really wants to fuck your wife, someone who is for sure better at fucking than you, and someone who is willing to work with you in turning her into a true cock lover and you into her lil cuckold.

If you can, go away on vacation and make sure he is there also. While away from home, your wife is likely to lose some inhibitions. Three of you should spend a few days together, with you encouraging at every step of the way that the two of them are close. For example if you go somewhere that rents jet-skis (only two people on it), make sure the two of them go and do it while you sit ant watch. Try to make this happen as much as possible for the whole time.

(if playing pool, the two of them are on one team, they play another couple, you get the takes)

anything else you can think of that will give your wife the feeling that he is acting as her partner. this may make her see him in a different way. some conservative women do not even see men other than their husband in a sexual way. but the more she is with him, in a way him acting as her man, she might start getting wet, even just a little, when his body rubs agains hers and when his arm bumps into her chest.

After this initial prep, I say you gotta bite the bullet, get the three of you in a place where they can fuck (hotel room ideal), and bring up the subject. if you are luck once he starts flirting with her, she wont put up a fight and maybe you can sneak out for a bit while they ease the tension, and you can stroll back in when she is spread eagle on the couch.

good luck.

your wife soon

Jack,

THANK YOU for the great advice. I have asked quite a few other people in other forums / sites / chat rooms, and so far your advice makes the most sense. I LOVE the picture you included with the caption "your wife soon". I got hard instantly when i saw it and read your caption! Thannks.

Anyother advice that you and / or others may have would still be VERY MUCH welcomed!

I do not DIS agree with the above but don't totally agree, in the sense that I am not sure it would work. I also have a very conservative wife. And I've found that NOTHING works if she thinks I'm setting her up or aiming her towards my goal. What has worked is simply showering her with affection, being very romantic...and coupling THAT with the notion of playing with others...how lovely she'd look as you watched, etc...and then, the best thing I ever did was take her to swing clubs and swing parties. It took a long time and MANY assurances that she didn't have to do anything (which is a cornerstone of almost all such clubs..they really stress that no-one needs to participate and that NO means NO). Funny thing was that once there and with a take or two...she played more than I did! Now, I'm not lying...I still have a long way to go, but the swing clubs did more than any other thing I ever tried as far as just getting her to accept the idea of being with another man. For most conservative women, I think a big hurdle is that they feel it's cheating (even if the hub. approves). But at the swing club it's just a big party and the playing around is so pervasive they can ease into it. So, you might also see if you can find a swing club and convince her to try JUST GOING..don't power her to participate....then see what happens.

There is a great main stream movie called Animal Instincts in which the husband watches his wife have sex with other men. It's a great way to bring up the subject with your wife.

Just pop the movie in, cuddle up together and watch it. The whole movie is based on the premise. He sets up cameras in the other room and watches her.

But only the first one is good. The sequels suck. Make sure you get the first one with Shannon Whirry and David Carradine. I watched it with my then soon to be wife and it brought up the subject perfectly. Here's what the cover looks like:

jackdaniels
This is a so beautifull picture! Please, do you have some more? Who is she?

You all are GREAT. I can't believe all the GOOD ideas i am getting! HOPEFULLY between these I will find one that will work. Jamesriske, does that move address any interracial topics?

To all, PLEASE keep the great advice comming. I will post IF I finally get her to try other men!

lilcuck,

No, it's not interracial. It's just a b movie about a husband who comes home and finds his wife having sex with the cable guy and get's turned on . So she starts having sex with other men while he watches and video tapes. It's a WONDERFUL way to bring up the topic.

Just pop it in and say that you rented it or bought it and thought it might be a good movie. Other than the topic, it's a cuckolds browniety movie but not so bad that she won't believe you. Shannon Whirry is very hot and it does have David Carradine in it to lend some credibility. Just make damn sure you get the FIRST one with DAVID CARRADINE, all the other ones suck.

Buying it new or used could run you about 80 bucks on DVD. Try to rent it from netflix or something if you can.

My wife has just started sucking black cocks while I watch and we are loving it. In a nutshell, here's how I did it:

Met a woman who admitted she wanted a swing relationship.

Told her that I had experience with swinging in the past.

Showed her the movie Animal Instincts and we started talking. Admitted to her that I liked to watch.

She said that was perfect as she wanted to swing but would get jealous if I did it with another woman.

We tried it with a white guy, she kissed him and rubbed his dick while I watched. It was BORING for both of us.

Waited a month then talked her into a black guy for something more taboo.

She jacked one off, we both liked it better.

Now she's sucking one and we like it much better.



See how I did it?

Question: My wife just started facebooking. Like I said before, she is very pretty, but VERY conservative sexually. She recenly requested a black man to be one of her facebook friends. Is this a significant step in the right direction or is it my wishful thinking?

Have you straight out talked to her about the subject? all of these guys advice may or may not work, but at some point the two of you should sit down and talk about it.

No I don't really think her having a black guy as a friend on face book is really an indication. It probably just means she is open to black friends.

Animal Instinct is a good movie to open up the subject though, but you need to talk, talk and talk more and will need to continue talking through the rest of your life if you want to stay together in this lifestyle.

I'm not saying your trying to do this, but I read about guys trying to trick their wives into this all the time and it blows me away. Marriage is about communication and give and take. How in the world can those guys survive if the guy tricks her into it?... Ok enough on my soap box...lol Good luck.

mred, Thanks for the good advice. I have to say I like this better than trying to trick her. I will have to get my hands on that movie.