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Thanks for the pic, it is a bit conservative but that makes it nice to see besides the ones with the stockings and black dildo

Thanks for the update and the nice pic of your beautiful wife. We have been following your thread regularly. You describe the events in an erotic manner and open the developments like a mystery novel. Keep it up.

Our(myself and spouse) guess is that a lot happened during your absence. There were tears in her eyes. This clearly shows that this time the massage was not limited to only the foot of the wife touching the penis. She was o.k. with that much as she had admitted that she had over reacted last time. We were discussing the possible scenarios with each other.It seems that William must have pulled the foot ( read your wife) nearer and probably made it touch his bare tool. Your wife must have had mixed feelings of enjoying and inner resistance. She must have said no no. But '"Will"" must not have listened to her pleas and being experienced with similar situations in past should have moved ahead. We sincerely hope that they had a quickie before you returned. That was the reamister for the out of sort and "'proper'' behaviour shown by them in the tub and also the seating arrangement .

She will take another day or two to come to terms with what has happened. You may tell her that you do not like her to be tense as you love her so much. You can not see her carrying the burden of some silly things for which she is not responsible in any manner.Ask her to have faith in you and unburden her self by confiding in you to make you happy and without any fear. You tell her that you can even now call Will for dinner without any feeling of uneasiness on your part .

Best of LUCK. Please keep us updated.

Lying in bed last night, my wife opened up and told me what happened Friday night.

That's certainly very exciting, but there are some hurdles to overcome.

But these may be a gateway on how to proceed...

The next time you talk, begin by telling her that you've been thinking about what's happened with her and William, but not any negative thoughts.

Admit to her that, for a while, you've fantasized about her being with a black man. If she objects and says it's terrible or crazy, and she doesn't understand how a man can be like that, explain what I've said before about just replacing the black dildo with a real dick, etc.

Tell her that, as long as all adults involved are consensual, and nobody is getting hurt, it's only wrong if we approach it that way - with a closed, narrow perspective, with social inhibitions telling us what we can or can't do.

You can use this recent experience as an example. She mentioned the she has repeated concerns that it's "her fault". This reflects that she feels she's done something wrong by having his hands on her body, having her foot pressing on his cock...being intimate with him...and enjoying it. But if it doesn't bother you (the hubby)... and it certainly doesn't bother William, and she enjoyed it, and it was safely done... ...well, how can it be wrong if all parties enjoy? At that point it's just antiquated inhibitions which are preventing us from enjoying something exciting and new.... like trying a dildo for the first time, you just gotta let go a little and enjoy the excitement.

Now, at this point you must be very careful. She will probably suspect that you arranged the set up with her and William. If this happens you will be trapped. If you tell her the truth, she will be mad that you plotted behind her back. If you lie to her... well, it's bad to lie to your wife, especially about something so serious. Be prepared to respond if she asks you if you set up the encounter with William. I don't usually recommend lying, but since you've already fabricated a story, you should probably stick to it (this is why I've recommended being open and communicative with her- lying is bad).

If she freaks out, finish by saying that he had his hands all over her body, she was pressing on his cock, she was enjoying it, and everything's fine- the only negative feelings she has are stemming from inhibitions that she can let go of.

Then let her settle down for a few days and don't mention it. Be the normal, loving husband. Let her realize that people can do things like this and it will be okay. We'll see how she processes it.

ralphgoff, I think you are handling this perfectly, stay on track, no need to jump into your fantasies with her at this point. Keep up the reassurance.

You will have to tell her at some stage what you have in mind, the thing is to find the best timing
I don't know to what extent you could use Friday's events as something that made you realize how exciting it could be to see her with Wiliam...
Take it easy, and good luck!

More thoughts....

When she freaks out, she may turn her thoughts toward you. Such as...
"Doesn't my husband treasure me? How could he stand to let another man take me? Am I not special to him?"

If that happens, you should tell her that you absolutely treasure her. The intent is to use the bull as just a sex toy, and not to interfere with the relationship and the life-connection that you two share. And if, at any time, either of you feel like damage is being done to the relationship, you have the control to switch it off, and say it just didn't work out.

If she wonders what enjoyment you would get out of it, let her know that you would enjoy it vicariously through her... That the sexiest thing for you is to know that she's going through some mind-blowing sex.
Repeat that you treasure her and that you wouldn't want anything to come between the two of you, and that you and she have complete control over that.

any luck with the camera?

The Pics are pretty much worthless.

You should try the "zoom in" feature on the picture and enhance. I could see William and your wife pretty well. After reading your story and about what William was doing it shows up pretty clearly. You can't see the hands or faces clearly but you can see whats going on.

You're Doing Great!! Continue with the non-jealous, unconcerned but supportive approach. She is dropping inhibitions and soon will allow the fantasy to mentally grow into erotic fascination and curiosity. Eventually, when you sense the time is right...when you're making love, engaging in erotic talk, ask her if she has had erotic thoughts of sex about William or about a black man, in general, pointing out that most normal white women have, at some point. If William continues to try, I think, at some point, she will become too aroused to stop. Then you will have to give her what she needs to feel comfortable and know that you are not being judgmental and overly jealous about it all. When she knows that for sure you will be able to share her with William when hot sex becomes a dominate pleasure issue. Not, that it's not already. It just hasn't been allowed to surface.

Just a couple questions? Was her pussy wet while she was relating it all to you? Did you have Hot Sex afterwards? If so you are probably making more progress than you might think.

Nice pic. After reading your graphic description the pic is very clear of the action . You need not worry about the quality. Your experience can be made in to a practical guide for wannabes.

My wife is still not completely herself.

I agree - give her a little time.

But then, you gotta talk to her.

Thanks for the update!

Thanks for the update. You should thank your wife for showing faith in you and confiding in you. You must appreciate her mental condition where she is in process of tasting the forbidden fruit. It seems that some details are still difficult for her to accept and tell you. We believe that Will must have pulled her hand and placed it on his tool and she must have enjoyed rubbing it. We also believe that he must have played with the pussy at least fot five minutes.
You are lucky that there is so much progress so soon. Accept our congratulations. What are your plans for the week end.

Sooo hot.

One option I don't think I've read for your explanation:
Tell her that you feel partially responsible since you brought up the BBC ideas in your sexplay. It's a much more subtle way to link the fantasy with the reality/morality in a way that isn't so risky by telling her that you simply want her to do something "wrong". Also it may help her in dropping the guilt. Then at some point maybe she'll start to be able to rectify sexuality and morality in a new way.

You're the husband, figure out how to take the blame!
And besides, it really is your fault!

Your story is a breath of real, fresh air on a website like this....imho as long as you keep a good bond with your wife, you'll find yourself quite alright. You'll get over any stomach knots, that much is pretty certain, then you can figure things out from there.

Ralph get your wifes black dildo, go down on her, lick her clit and stroke her dildo in/out. Fantasize with her that it is Williams BBC stroking in and out of her. Keep it up until she cums.

Not much new to report

Nice thread hope things progresss well for you both;)
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Mark916 has a point. At first I thought what you were doing was ok. It seemed since your wife liked the black fantasy all she might need was a little coaxing and to be assured you loved her, you wanted this to happen and it would enhance, not hurt, the marriage. But now it’s becoming increasingly obvious she wants nothing to do with the reality. Let it go for now before you ruin things between you and your wife. Maybe she will come around sometime down the road.

Ouch, Mark916 can certainly dish it. Is this the same Mark916 that has a post asking to have sex with other men's wives. Not so sure his POV is consistent with his previous posts.

You could be right on one point, maybe I should keep our private life private. Still pondering that.

We appreciate your reactions. Pl remember that you are in charge of your life. Do not base your decisions on the good or bad opinions of others. Our HONEST VIEW IS THAT YOU ARE ACTING LIKE A CARING LOVING HUSBAND. rEST IS FOR YOU TO DECIDE.

+1, your post is brilliant, with good insights, delicate touches, and your love & support for your wife are quite obvious for regular followers ; you've got all my support, and do what think is right for the two of you!

RG, this is my first post in this excellent thread that I have been following faithfully from the start. I'm glad you didn't decide to abandon it.

First off, people like Mark916 have some bizarre epiphany and then begin to ttrash a thread they have been jerking off to for months! If he's not into the scene why doesn't he just stop reading the posts?

Secondly, it seems to me you have played this all very well from the start. It is now perfectly obvious Will wants to stick his big cock into your wife balls deep. It should ALSO be painfully obvious to you that SHE desperately wants to be pounded by this guy too. She is struggling with inner changes. She is in transition. That is why you see her act in a conflicted fashion.

Speaking as a husband who has watched the pleasure on his wife's face as a black man's cock disappears into his woman's holes, you will LOVE it when she finally transitions to her true hot wife self.
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At first I was cheering you on, but now I’m definitely in agreement with Mark. I understand why you want her to do what you want her to do, but you’re selfishly manipulating her into things she doesn’t want. More than that, you’re betraying her trust. Does she know you have taken pictures of her with a black dildo shoved up her cunt and posted them for thousands of people to see? I’ll bet not. What would her reaction be if she finds out? Think about what you’re doing before you ruin what seems like a nice marriage. You may have to be satisfied with her enjoying the fantasy.

Thanks for the comments, I appreciate the differing points of view, although the tone is getting quite vitriolic.

Ralphgoff...

I suspect that mark916 and mac100 are the same user, logging in with two accounts.

He's a troll. Please ignore him.

Well said RG, well said!
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