Subconscious Stimulation

Because of a very busy time at work I didn't do any LW sessions since my latest reply. This means I have to start over again.

Nevertheless I think she will take a BBC once, because when I was looking to a interracial sexvid, she was watching too, I saw she was watching. Probably thing will go faster now?
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Haven't been able to lw for about a month. Did about 15 minutes last night. The one thing that seems to be consistent for me is getting her to dress hot the next day. I told her how much I and other guys love it when she dresses hot. Today for work was looking great in her short sun dress with nice cleavage.
fender

Any more updates, successes or failures?
fender

I have temporarily (and I do mean temporarily) decided to abandon the effort. I just wasn't getting anywhere really. And anyhow, there's too much going on here to focus on it.

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Christine (a sissy m)

I think I'm beginning to see the real promise of LW. It isn't like the cartoons where you tell your wife to go relax with other men and she just follows your command. Rather I've been able to find out some things that turn her on that I never knew about. Its like you have access to her id in her relax and her id tells you all of her secrets. For example I found that the idea of having a black man's baby turns her on. One night I just randomly said she would fuck a large muscular black man with a big cock until she was pregnant with his baby. When I said she would give birth to his beautiful black baby, she let out a moan that could probably be heard across the house. Another time I was just giving her some good sex dream fodder by telling her I was eating her out and that my face was buried in her pussy. I don't always whisper about her and other guys. I'm finding that just like in real life, you have to bring her home to reassure her of the base. Then you build from there. Anyway as I stated, I was describing eating her out but at the end, after I had her cumming on my face, I told her she felt so good that she just let loose and peed all over my face. This got a loud moan and her hand went instantly to rubbing her crotch. I had no idea that piss play would ever excite her.

At the end of the day, I think this is helping me get to know her better but it shouldn't be the only tool utilized and should know it's place behind direct and open communication with her.
fender

This is a fascinating thread and has really set me thinking. Can i ask if it matters if i talk about myself - that is hubby - in the third permister or should i always use first permister. Can i whisper that it is good to talk to your husband about your secret desires and make them real.I was going to build to this over time.

Wow this is dynamite. Tried it for the first time last night after carefully reading and re-reading the thread. I was very nervous and I am sure only I could hear my mumbling or the first 30mins but I got bolder. I ramred a bit and must prepare better next time but I got through it safely. I left for work early and am away for a nite but will try friday night again. not expecting any results but found it exhilarating. Thanks all it you for what you have written

I definitely have to read through or download the Loving Whispers "theory" to use on my wife!! Although at this time an interracial lifestyle of having a black man fuck my wife is my fantasy only. However just this past weekend, we were out and a very hot looking blonde woman sat down near us with 2 black youngren who called her "mom".

My wife turned to me and said, "That's what we need, a Black Baby", with a little raise of her eyebrow. Well I was completely flabbergasted with my jaw dropped and mouth wide open unable to speak, and my wife said, "What? Oh my God, black babies are the freaking cutest!!"

Again I said nothing, and neither did she as we just sat there with our own thoughts of that last conversation, I know where my mind went, but I wonder what she was thinking about.

Had I had this program available to me that very night, I would have used Loving Whispers on my beautiful and sexy wife and would have told her how great her idea was and to keep thinking about it.

Computer Mike

Have fun guys. If anything, I look forward to bed. Some nights she reacts and some nights she doesn't. I suspect if I paid better attention to her relax phase I'd realize that it works best when she's in rem relax.

Have a blast tonight!
fender

PS. When the lw involves another man I use myself in the third permister. When the story is centered around me, I use first permister . There is no correct way but that's what I find myself doing.
fender

Thanks Fender
Last night there was a trailer on tv for a drama where a married woman takes a young lover and karen said "mmm that sounds nice!" I was surprised although its too early to say Lw is working for me
Got me thinking though

Love to hear how some of these subconscious stimulation experiences came true! Especially, Karenscuck, fender and computermikenj

Hi Brainbox
I am taking babysteps which the guru Hep if I can be so bold recommends so you may need to be patient but I am excited at what lays ahead
Must be patient though and that is not easy

Agreed -patience is teh key. Good luck -interested to hear what happens

Hate to but in and get kinda off topic...but I was thinking.
I want to find a " subconscious stimulation" or "Hypno" slut training audio that is very subliminal ( if thats the right word) lable it as a Quit Smoking audio and have the wife play it at night while she relaxs.
I dont really care if she stops smoking or not to be honest - thou that would be nice too - but to have her unknowing participate in her own slut training would be nice

Very interesting idea, Scarf!

xoxoxo

Christine

Started up again the last three nights after a few months break. I found that I can really move her breathing around with certain words. From my previous experience I can confirm that the technique works. For me it probably works better when she is closer to waking up and maybe in the dream state. I put in individual words with individual breaths and keep the message very simple.

My wife is a tough cookie but have seemed to be making progress. She allows me to role play reluctantly but her pussy is soaked when I am telling her about the guy. We just became empty nesters and I am on a full court press.

As always any advice is appreciated and helps keep the thread active.

Good to hear of yr progress jbbarrow
My wife is a tough cookie as well but she said during sex talk last time " what if I have already cheated when I went to London - is that alright with you ?"
I know it was just talk and I can't be sure it is related to LW but it has given me encouragement

I think she is testing the waters. She wants to see how you react, before she decides if it will be safe for her to do it. She may be afraid that you'll have an emotional melt-down, and wants to see if it could actually work out okay.

Anyhow, that's what I think.

xoxoxo

Christine

Appreciate your view christine
The same thought occurred to me because she didn't need to say would it be alright as part of the sex talk
Then she also said " you wouldn't mind?"
It was very exciting but still not sure how real she was
On another note she seemed to wake up during Lw last time and I pretended to be mumbling in my relax but the next morning she didn't mention anything

Wow what a night and a real breakthrough! For the first time I managed to do Lw just before she woke up. I have previously managed it just after she has gone to relax or in the middle of the night. She was breathing heavily and in REM phase of relax. I told her to imagine being seduced by a blk man and got to the point where she was about to be entered when I heard little footsteps coming from the kids bedroom and aborted. I turned over and sure enough she was awoken in the next few seconds.
Didn't think any more about it and there was no indication at all that Lw had had any impact in the morning . It ended up being a stressful day but in the evening we relaxed and I suggested an early night which she was up for.
Within seconds she was playing with me getting me harder and then she jumped into saying "do you think I need something bigger than this , maybe a nice big black cock" but what followed made my jaw drop. She quickly used 5 or 6 phrases that I had whispered that she doesn't ordinarily use ...

Such as contrast of black on her very white skin, being a naughty wife , her friend in London who I had suggested could set her up , getting my permission etc... they seemed to come one after another and the story was obviously crystal clear in her head.
Following morning during more sex play she said " I might cheat because I might feel guilty and you wouldnt know " but then she again asked if she had permission" . All this was without any prompting. I just stayed silent and nodded
For me this is definitive proof Lw works . I don't know if she will do something but she is considering its consequences as regards guilt which is a new step forward. Wherever you are Hep big Thanks!

Time for me to restart the engines too...
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

How interesting! Do keep us posted.

xoxoxo

Christine

Introduced the word cuckolding into Lw for the first time which neither of us use when together and also trying to introduce a trigger word which is the name of a friend of hers in London who used to be into black guys a lot . We will see if Anything happens

At first, I just wanted to bump this thread today. Then I got to thinking...

It seems like the nicer I am to her, or the "sweeter" I am, the less she wants sex with me. She may not know what she wants, but she knows what she doesn't want.

So then... one approach is to not be "enough of a man" for her. I mean psychologically. Of course, that's not difficult for most of us here. LOL

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy m)

MrHiggins, lets hope your GF experiences BBC soon

Great progress Unfortunately I am again to busy with my job. A lot of ill people on my department so work a lot and in the evening hours I am member of a board of directors of a national association.

Nevertheless I didn't LW, sometimes she looks together with me to some photo's of BBC's on the internet.
Wishing my gf into the IR scene