Sounds like progress.

I keep telling her I want to see her mess with a bbc. I asked her last week if we could look for one this weekend for her to atleast give a handjob. She keeps telling me Im the only dick she needs. But at the same time she enjoys all the roleplay we do. Last nite we were getting ready to order some porn off pay per view and she made a comment that gave me a huge sign of hope. I suggested the porno with white women on black dicks of course(she knows my favorite) and she said just her luck that I would fix her up with a black guy that didn't have a big dick and she would have to do it again. I know it came from out of know where, I had know idea what 2 say. We did get the movie which featured lexington steele and she seemed to enjoy. But I need some help closing the deal. I'm open to suggestions.

you are already there. just ask if she is ready for a date.

im in your situation too. but i think it would happen if your wife met a black man in a situation where she knows for sure it is not a set up for her to fuck him. i think it will work if it is her idea to want to fuck someone she finds herself attracted to and you are there to just grease the skids, so to speak.