desperate husband

My wife is a sexy and beautiful woman. I have no interest in being humiliated as some men in this board want. I just want her to be aroused sexually as she hasn't been in years. I would even enjoy watching her with another man who could get her to really let go like she used to do. She was once a very sexual sensual woman who enjoyed all sorts of sexual activities. But lately, when we have the rare sexual encounter she mainly just lays there and allows me to do it. Not very inspiring or fulfilling for either of us. Do you think this could be something that opens her eyes again? She used to enjoy watching porno movies at times and seemed to really enjoy the interracial scenes.
Are there other men like me here who just want their wives to respond so much that they are willing to do this rather than really desiring it for their own appetite fullfillment?
Ladies, any input would be appreciated.

Thanks from a desperate husband.

She's probably tired of yur little penis. Has she had youngren. Despite feminist propaganda, after a woman has youngren her cunt opens up to make future young bearing easier. So if u have an avg. sized punty little white penis she probably isn't feeling anything. If she shys away from the superior black cock, try a larger white cock. There are some out there just not as many. Once she realizes SIZE makes a difference, the rest will come easy, hopefully in her cunt.

Actually, mine is above average. I don't think it is simply a size issue. I think she could possible be turned on by the taboo of interracial, and of course if he was well above average in size, that might contribute as well.

Perhaps it might do your guys some good if you and your wife go see an marriage counselor, or psychologist... etc.

flyfreejonsie,

I'm far from being an expert, but I've had dismal experiences with counselors (I'll explain later).

You may want to confirm her "fantasy" of an interracial experience by renting some interracial porn movies. Try to find:

"Once You Go Black 3"
"Mrs. Behavin'"

The above have more of a "plot", most interracial porn movies are geared towards the guys - just humping and pumping - and there are plenty of them out there (and you never know, your wife might enjoy them). If she does enjoy the "humping and pumping" interracial movies it may be a clue that she is turned on by rough, big black cock sex!

If your wife enjoys the interracial porn, then surprise her with a black dildo (she may love you for it). carbonsmudgeck out the following:

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Your wife may be harboring a secret fantasy about being taken by a big black cock, but may be too shy to tell you and resulting in sexual frustration.

If there's no improvement in your sex relationship - look for a counselor that specializes in sexual problems - NOT your general run-of -the-mill doucarbonsmudge bag counselor!!!

Now, my explanation on my counselling experiences:

After 6 years of counselling (and laying out some serious dollars on my part), my wife decided she no longer likes sex! It's been almost 5 years without for me.

When things started on the downslide I tried everything:
dildos - they were good for awhile, especially BIG ones
vibrators - she thought they were wierd
"couples" porn movies - she'd fall arelax

Then we tried counselling. I've gone to counselling with her, stating that how many men would remain faithful to a wife who isn't interested in sex! The counselor changed the subject - stating that sex isn't very important in a healthy relationship! I'm convinced that relationship counselors know less about relationships than the average permister.

You may have to just come out and let her know that "no sex" is not going to make a healthy relationship - she may open up.

I wish I could tell you that I've found something that's worked for me, but so far - nothing!

Keep us posted on your progress - what you find out may be helpful for many of us.