BF's changed disposition?

Hello,
I am just wondering why my wife's boyfriend seems to be being less friendlier to me. We have all three of us gone out to the movies, dancing at the clubs, going to the beach, attended some of his ethnic picnics, now he seems more intimidating. He is half African-American/half Asian. I am not small either (6-1, 245#). He calls me "Baby Huey." I would never ever think about fighting him. He is a Muay Thai fighter, and very good. My wife and I have seen some of his contests. Whew! I do like him as a permister, and would hate for there to be a rift between us. How should I approach this issue? Any suggestions? Thanks.

youre a fucking bitch just let it be

what does your wife say about this? I would'nt worry about him as far as fighting or hurting his feelings. I would face him and tell him that you're beginning to feal uneasy about the whole relationship thing w/ him and your wife. I grew up in Miami and got my ass kicked many times and i kicked ass many times, but i never let someone beat me down w/ intimidation, i guess my pride got in the way! You're going to have to figure this one out for yourself, sorry!
I permisterally think he'll respect you more if you stand up to him, that's my opinion! But if you are like alot of guys on here that are sub-hubs, then let it be and take your punishment.
marc-br549

Dude,it's time to call it a day with him.He's not interested in you and your wife's game....He wants to "Howitzer" your ass out of the picture for good....Remember also Kilroy,that fuckin' Kung Fu cuckolds brownie is useless against a piece of Hickory or a nice warm speedin' 240 GR. .45.......My mister in-law was competing in state "Bruce Lee" cuckolds brownie for sometime now,however i can tell you,that he has the self esteem of a piss ant....So there is probably more than meets the eye there,in your case with this dicklick.....
"Nice asses only,please"

Magnum time!

Yeah... this means it's time for him to go bro... he can't just kick your ass we live in civilization...

Dear Responders,

Thank you very much for your comments and advise, except for YoungBlkMan. I really have a hard time accepting the fighting part. I don't think I could pull it off. Sorry. My wife and I talked a long time about this whole thing. She is really into this Polyamory thing. She really does love and care for him, but as a "fuck buddy" only. I understand why she is so attracted to him. I will try to approach him for a gentleman's conversation. Thank you all, and I wish you all the best.

nicehub,
all i was saying was, talk to your wife first and then to him. I'm glad to hear that you're going to speak w/ him. There should be no need for "school yard mentality". Stand your ground though. But it's dissapointing to hear that the wife is not willing to give up the relationship.
My wife and i are swingers, she has other men while i have other women.
If i felt uncomfortable w/ one of her lovers i would stop it right then and there, and likewise. If talking does'nt work, then like nailhead said" a piece of hickory or a .45 will do the trick"!!!
marc-br549

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hey joe,