Almond Joy... Mounds

As far as sex in general goes... I'd have to say I'm that old Almond Joy/Mounds commercial...

Sometimes I feel like a nut... sometimes I don't.

Where does fantasy and reality blur for most of you, there is this whole ongoing debate in here over levels of things

Totally in agreement with you. My name is WestMIbull29, but I've been on the cucked side and also enjoyed it. However, hit me with it at the wrong time, and someone is probably going to get their ass kicked.

Lots of things turn me on, but after awhile they play out.. then maybe a few weeks or months down the road I'm ready to do it again.

I'm w/o a girlfriend right now, I'm divorced... I've dated and been w/ quite a few girls in the last year and a half, and had some amazing experiences, but how do you even bring up these fantasies to a new girlfriend? Seriously, I haven't kept someone around long enough to let the sex get to the level where it needs some spicing up.

The whole 24/7 thing has to be bullcuckolds brownie, I couldn't do it. Not a chance. I have the desire to be cucked once in awhile, but I'm a man, I need to be a man, ya know?

I've read about the whole 'castration' fantasy, now that is some permanent, fucked up cuckolds brownie.

Anyway, just some thoughts...

WestMI out.

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I'm the same way, damian. Fantasy is one thing but taking it to another level is difficult. You, unlike many on this site, are a rational thinking permister. With my g/f, weve been dating for awhile but initially when i expressed interest in interracial movies and such i didnt get specific. For example, i just said i like to watch porn....and she did too! so cool....THEN i showed her interracial and she liked it too...YES! Then we tried different toys....got her a black dong to play with and she likes it....YES! And of course expressing (verbally) your fantasies in bed helps alot once you've gotten to that comfort level with your bitch. A gradual progression is essential. Also it works better when youre in a more long term relationship and understand the other permister better.

Just to comment on the 24/7 cuck thing, that is ridiculous. If there are "men" out there who like that cuckolds brownie, they are a waste of space and need mental help. To watch your wife g/f taken by a black man is extremely hot, but to be a cum dump and servant to blacks or a dominatrix is dome disgusting cuckolds brownie.

love this post. I have played many roles myself. I scoffed at several of them afterwards saying "never again". But when the situation came up again, I did it again. And it was exciting and erotic. But then I had some regrets afterwards.

My gf likes me when I am submissive in public. But I'm not submissive in public. But can be in private.

I hear the same frustration here in this site. Men want to be cucked in private. Its erotic. But their wives won't do the erotic domination, but will be rebellious, etc. in real life.

As for the 24/7 fantasies. I think that men who have experienced the fantasies are aware that 24/7 is not a realistic option. My opinion: Once one has experienced the cuck or sub fantasy, it is easy to understand why it is not realistic for 24/7 application.

It is similar with "body/mod" or castration fantasies. For most people, once the reality is close, we see the reality, and rational fear returns. For most people.

On the topic of doing this within a long term relationship. If my gf just fucks someone else, she is being their partner. If she shares her feelings and fantasies with me, and then I cooperate with her in achieving them, I am her partner. Because I am in the 'partner' mode, I enjoy hearing how she feels, and having some role in assisting her to achieve her fantasies. It is essential that she includes me before and after. I DO feel jealousy, but it is overidden by my desire to help her achieve happiness.

However, her acknowledgement of my role is essential. This is shown by the cuckold dance wherein she finds a way to bring me excitement while she enjoys hers.

Summary: When she is cheating, she is not with me. She is with him. When she is cucking, she is being erotic with me before, during and after. The energy of the encounter comes from us. The bull is incidental. We even have an impermisteral 'moniker' for him. We are connected to each other before, during, and after. Her description of her feelings after is, perhaps the most erotic and 'intimate' part.

Perhaps human beings are NOT monogamous by nature. Monogamy is a political issue. We have found a method of practicing our natural polygamy within the safety and security of a legitimate partnership.

Is this making any sense to you guys?
I will make you crazy.

Hornykracka, I agree! I've been thinking the same exact thing.Alot of what I've read here,& on some other posts, crosses too many lines for me. There's got to be a limit to what a permister allows himself to do.

Makes alot of sense Jacana,

and lol yeah... body mod... castration... oh lordy no, not my cup of tea.

Just to add a little perspective from a girls point of view....I have found girls...18 to 33....will far exceed the limits most men think they should stop at.....for whatever reamister, once we are heated up, usually there are very few bounderies that we wont cross....think about it....watch porn...and some of the other porn you cant normally watch....you think it is just for money....think again....the money is the excuse to be able to enter into such outlandish acts....oh well...enough....such as it is....Missy

A parting shot....most and I mean most guys are tame compared to most and I mean most girls....Missy

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VT....you didnt call my number correctly....try using one hand ...like you do when you are typing in here.....such as it is ....Missy

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VT....I am lost...dont have any idea what you are talking about...if you mean I am married.....I have no idea where that came from....I, Missy am not married and never have been....but it might be the way of the future if the right man comes along...such as it is....Missy