she doesn't want anymore

My girlfriend, who is 20 years old, loves black man. We have dated several times with black guys and she enjoyed it very very much. But since a couple of weeks she doesn't want it anymore. She says that i was to much into it. I am very dissapointed and want to go further but she doesn't. I don't know what to do know.
Alwin

alwin11...I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but my guess is that your relationship with your girlfriend may be in trouble. Don't want to make you uneasy...just my humble opinion. As an unhappily married female, the things I used to do because I knew they excited my hubby, are now things I refuse to do precisely for the same reamister. I know it sounds bitchy and shrewish, but when things are rocky, the last thing a lot of us want to do is make our men feel like everything is fine. Maybe by withholding that from you, it's her way of pleading for you to pay more attention to her???

I guess you are right sarah anne. It feels like trouble. The point is that she asked for it and even last week she asked for it and now she says that it is over. I asked why she asked for it last week and she said that she did it for me. I cannot follow her. It is so complicaited. She often talks about it and when I do, she blaims me that this is my only turn on.
I have given her all the attention I can give her. She is my princess and I tread her like that.
Alwin

don't give up the fight, okay?! If she's at all like me, she probably pursued the mutual interest in black guys in hopes that when you saw or knew that she was screwing around, in reality you wouldn't get turned on but rather you'd get angry and enraged.

Sounds to me like she's looking for you to "take control" of her and of your relationship. Perhaps you might consider treating her a little less like a "princess" and a little more like your "plaything"...then again, maybe i'm a total nutlog.

Alwin,
I agree w/ sarah. What you need to do is pay more attention to her without talking about black guys and focus on your relationship w/ her!
Attention is what she needs from you, she's thinking right now that you are only w/ and happy w/ her is because she fufills your fantasy. Cool your jets for awhile and like Sarah said, treat her like a princess and tell her how much she means to you w/ no mention of bbc and in a month or two she'll come around!! She likes it as much as you, but she loves you, and you should feel fortunate w/ your situation, i'm in the same boat so i know what i'm talking about! Let her come to you about doing it again!
Good luck!
marc-br549

My girlfriend loves sex with big black guys. She has experiance with about 10 black guys and she always enjoyed it very much. But since about 7 months she tells me about sex with blacks, but it never happends anymore. We even have gone to a club, there was a black and white party, and when we were at the gate she didn't want to go anymore, so we went home. I never pushed her and always told her how much she means for me. She is my everything but it is very confusing. Last week she tells me that she wanted to go to that club again and on the evening itself she didn't want anymore and we staid at home.
Alwin