EX WIFE

Was wondering I read alot about guys saying there ex wife used to cuck them, now they are trying to get new wife to do same.
Was wondering why did the EX-Wife leave you ?

The bottom line is it's very difficult for woman to seperate sex from love, and all to often they will fall in love with a bull and leave you.

yeh thats a very thin line we cuckolds have to walk. we want our wives to fuck bigger dominant type men - because it turns us on and we want our wives to ahve great orgasms. but then theres the risk that once your wife knows what shes missing - she may want it all the time. still want her to fuck other guys tho.

In my case it was the bull not my ex.... he was "uncomfortable" with me being around.

I disagree with that statement, 100%. Some women (more than you think) do have the ability to separate sex from love. Many claim to want that attachment, but would be just fine NOT having it. Sex is about feeling good, and sometimes emotions just make things more sticky.

My two cents.


Answering on my husband's behalf, but she was a lying crazy bitch that couldn't tell you the truth if her life depended on it. They had deeper problems than infidelity.

Yes, it is a thing that you guys have to watch out for when trying to live out your fantasies. The reality is that your wife will get close to her lover; when she is with her lover a lot of time will be spent talking, kissing cuddling in between bouts of sexual activity. I have got very close to mine, although in our case it was me who instigated it.

Be sure that you are not only of the risk but also willing to take the consequences!

People keep telling me this, but we have the opposite problem.

It is our joint desire for my wife to really fall hard for a lover. She wants to feel the emotional power that comes with a new love and a deep relationship and that you can't get from a NSA, casual, fuck-buddy, well-defined boundaries sort of a thing. (She had plenty of those.) Real romance.

I want to feel the emotional punch of having her emotional commitment directed elsewhere, a feeling of being left alone more powerful than her just being away for the weekend with a guy, the fear of abandonment and loss that would come with a real rival experience.

We both understand the risk and actually crave it. The trouble is we can't find it. She has had a number of boyfriends since she decided to be open to wherever it could go and not just seek sex. They date, movies, museums, dinner, etc. as well as fuck like rabbits, but it never goes anywhere. Our experience is that most men who are willing to date married woman are not good at and/or not interested in commitment and intimacy. (If they were, they would be dating the huge number of willing and looking single woman, I guess.)

As an added wrench those few who are tend to be uncomfortable with the reality of our marriage. The men willing to look for true romance with a married woman expect/accept troubled marriages and affairs, where the wife is neglected and unhappy and seeks her "true soulmate," or whatever. These same men tend to be confused and repelled by a situation of consensual "looking" by one married partner. (Let alone the idea of fetish cuckolding.)

If you think about it, I guess it makes sense. Men who are open to the risk of a committed relationship are not going to be that comfortable a women who has one and is willing to risk it for a thrill.

Sigh.

i had the same problem. i told her i was ok with her fucking other men, and when i started losing my grip i told her she was supposed to just be fucking them but she "fell in love" with one, left me and married him.