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Jim B Member 8	# Posted: 17 Dec 2009 19:34:12 Reply My wife and I are a white couple in our 30s. We are happily married and I don't want to do anything to hurt our relationship. That said, I am very turned on by the idea of her submitting to a black man. She has told me on several occasions that she finds black men very attractive. She has encouraged me to invite a black friend of mine over because "he sounds nice", but I also suspect that she wants to see what he looks like too. (I told her about how muscular he is). She has always been conservative in bed, so I'm not sure what she would think if I suggested that she seek out a black lover. I think it would boost her confidence to take control of our relationship and to know that she is attractive to other men. I know that I do not fully satisfy her sexually and she deserves the pleasure that a bull could give her. Knowing that she finds black men attractive, do you think she would be receptive to the idea? How can I let her know it is ok without her losing respect for me? I don't want to lose her altogether, but if she were to get complete sexual satisfaction from another man I would be willing to give up my role in that department if she wishes. I need advice from cuckolding wives.
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Jim B Member 8	# Posted: 17 Dec 2009 20:10:39 Reply Thanks for the info, Allen. I would still love to hear wives' take on this.
Jim B Member 8	# Posted: 18 Dec 2009 18:40:04 Reply Any advice ladies? I really need your opinions. See also my post under " interracial cuckold".
tiny tom Member 155	# Posted: 20 Dec 2009 12:19:23 Reply Sorry that i'm not a wife, Jim B, but i do have a suggestion. Why not invite the nice and muscular Black friend over as your wife has suggested. Then if they seem comfortable with one another try to let them have a little bit of time by themselves to get acquainted. For instance, if you have your Black friend over for dinner maybe you could offer to do the dishes and clean up in the kitchen while the prospective new couple sit together in the other room. You don't want to be too obvious that you are match making but if they hit it off, maybe nature will take it's course. After all, your wife has already said she's attracted to Black men. Best of luck .
draclif69 Member 2102 Pictures: 29	# Posted: 21 Dec 2009 02:22:00 Reply From your writing, seems to me the seeds of her interest in his seed are already laid. You must simply let time pass and before you know it she will be getting laid, without you. That said, realize that there will be a loss of respect for you. From first hand experience, your wife will see you differently as you both struggle with the confusion of doing something so different from the principles you both likely have about marriage.
iwmwtcm Member 673	# Posted: 21 Dec 2009 07:45:14 Reply Dont just let nature take its course. You dont want her to have an affair behind your back. Talk to her about your fantasy and get her on board before letting it happen.
jimhall Member 78 Pictures: 2	# Posted: 21 Dec 2009 21:36:31 Reply I used to talk to my ex about the guys she found attractive while I was have sex with ehr. It seemed the closer to her orgasm she was the more she would open up. She had many affairs with my knowledge & would tell me about them afterword. The sex didn't break us up it was money that took its toll. But, I know she enjoyed herself as she told me she did. Why not take some nude pictures of your bride & share them here or send to me & I'll let you know what I would like to do to her. suckbigjim@yahoo.com
Allen Member 1310	# Posted: 30 Dec 2009 16:32:45 Reply Quoting: tiny tom For instance, if you have your Black friend over for dinner maybe you could offer to do the dishes and clean up in the kitchen while the prospective new couple sit together in the other room. You don't want to be too obvious that you are match making but if they hit it off, maybe nature will take it's course. After all, your wife has already said she's attracted to Black men. This is how things kinda got started with my wife and her bf. I would end up leaving them alone from time to time...letting them flirt with each other not having to worry about what I might see or say. Eventually that flirting led to....much happiness
ericslife Member 30	# Posted: 18 Jan 2010 07:24:23 Reply I used sex toys to really have fun with her and wind her up in a way i couldn't. strap-ons and sex talk, while making love to her with the larger than me toy, i would then plant the seed,,,"imagine if this toy was a real cock in you, hot and throbbing, would you like that?" stuff like that. but only say stuff when she is really into it and horned up. Then like a week,month later when she is ovulating have your friend come over. After he leaves have sex and start the role play all over, but now she will have a image of him while you use the toy. my Ex gf now has 2 lovers and we talk all the time about them and she knows i gert off on it.. my 2c and good luck Eric
Jim B Member 8	# Posted: 31 Jan 2010 04:56:36 Reply So my wife mentioned tonight how " some women prefer dark meat". Later she told me how she was in charge and how I was of no use to her at the moment and how she would let me know when she required something of me. I went around for hours with a hard on, massaged and kissed her feet and then licked her ass while she got herself off with her toys.
Jim B Member 8	# Posted: 31 Jan 2010 14:49:07 Reply Oh yeah, and afterward she told me how she thinks she's going to enjoy being in charge from now on. I started to say how I really enjoyed it too and how it is so much easier for me if she just tells me what to do. Then she said,"Shut up and listen!" She then told me that I was no longer allowed to question her spending habits or where she goes or who she hangs out with. She also told me I was to ask for permission whenever I want to jerk off and that I must only do it in the shower with her supervision. It is a huge turn on having her take control like this. Is it possible she is getting me ready to be a real cuck?
Vol92 Member 480	# Posted: 2 Feb 2010 02:49:57 Reply Quoting: Jim B Is it possible she is getting me ready to be a real cuck? It looks like things might progress into her cuckolding you. Good luck and please keep us posted. Isn't it great being bossed around by the woman you love?
Allen Member 1310	# Posted: 2 Feb 2010 14:40:40 Reply Outstanding!!!
MWC26 Member 96	# Posted: 2 Feb 2010 19:43:01 Reply Nice! A very similar thing is happening to me right now.
K McDonald Member 308	# Posted: 3 Mar 2010 18:41:11 Reply Try having your friend over, then when you go to pour drinks, you'll be out of your favorite beverage, so you'll have to go to the store to get more, but when you get to the store, they'll be out of what you want, so you call and tell your wife that you have to drive across town to get what you'll need. She'll know that she'll have time then. Let us know how it turns out.
name Member 1160	# Posted: 6 Mar 2010 06:25:40 Reply My wife suggests a few Mandingo and Mr.Biggz movies (fucking white girls, of course) to encourage her to take your black friend.
name Member 1160	# Posted: 9 Mar 2010 20:32:29 Reply Another option is to take her to an interracial club and tell her to accept dancing with black strangers. Things may just happen, smoothly.
minuteman Member 28	# Posted: 4 May 2010 20:02:52 Reply I am in the same need of help with convicing my wife. I may not be as far as "Jim", but I have made some progress. Like Jim, we have been married 15 years and I dont last long and she is frustrated since I have never given her an orgasim. She goes topless at beaches, we have sex with the curtains open at hotels, and she has some very sexy cloths we talk about wearing in public. Just lately I have started talking to her about teasing men at bars while she wears revealing cloths. I just bought her a VERY sexy dress that I told her I wanted her to wear to flash men at the bar, or while she is dancing. After trying it on, she said she could only wear it to a dark bar, because when she walks the front slides off her tits. Two weeks ago she got a massage from a man. I was of course tunrned on and wanted to no the details. I asked her if he was attractive, but she said he was old and no turn on. She does have a friend who gets regular massages from a young attractive guy that rubs her ALL over, even in the shower. She asked me if I wanted her to go to him, and I think I messed up by not asking her if "its what she wants". All along I have told her that I wanted her to do this and that, but I think I should be saying " I no thats what you want " I know you want to show off your hotwife body". Please help with advise. I think she will wear a see through top and go to a bar and let me watch her from a distance. She is very conservative during the day. What else do you recommend to get her to reveal or show off??
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