She wants to, bull wants to, hubby needs convincing!!

So here's the scenario and I'd love everyones thoughts here. An old friend and I reconnected after years. Of course the chatting got very hot and the next thing you know it became an incredibly strong passionate sex filled email chat. she's 30, tall beautiful and sexually charged like you wouldn't believe. So here's thing: she's married. But here's the interesting thing: she's married to a guy who insists that in bed she tell him all about how she loves to fuck other guys. He's totally into the fantasy all on his own. As my relationship developed more with her she's started to direct him more towards the idea of doing it in real life. Unfortunately he either has very little to say on the subject or just says no. But what's crazy is that she tells me it's his goto bedroom play. Almost to the point where she's getting tired of making up new and interesting was to tell him how she loves fucking other guys while they're fucking. So he's totally turned on by the thought and plays it out ad nauseum in the bedroom everytime they have sex.

So the question is, what is the next step? Are their babysteps she can take?what has worked for you guys? Have any of you girls been in this situation before? He is clearly into it. Where to from here?

Any and all help would be greatly appreciated and I'll be happy to report back how it is going.

Until then!

not every1 wants their fantasy to become reality, and even fewer can handle it properly when it does
J

you should respect his decision. That is his marriage, his fantasy. He knows what he wants more than you do.

I guess that until he really wants to go through with it...it should stay his fantasy and she will have to deal with the angst. Just tell her that until he has changed his mind, you will not be able to get involved.

Let her deal with it, and he may, or may not come around. Don't get involved with a pist off husband. Wait in the wings and see what happens.

She does not want to go behind his back, I take it?
(I mean, I'm guessing you don't give a rats ass about him, I figured you as her friend, not his)

I like the simple approach. You fuck her eyes out and give her many orgasms. Fill her pussy with 2 or 3 loads of your come. She goes home and tells hubby everything and ask if he wants to kiss his wifes come filled pussy. I would go all in that he laps her pussy til he comes in his pants.

Is this a case of "its easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission"?

I dont agree. Get him on-board first. It will be much more enjoyable for everyone concerned.

From your description of the scenario its clear he wants this. He's just a little scared. Its obvious that he has thought up all kinds of fantasies and he's probably scared of losing his wife.

This situation is the opposite of what I normally see on this site but the advice is the same. She needs to convince him that she loves him and it wont damage thir relationship. As soon as his fears go away, you will be up and running. Dont give him time to change his mind. Get her on her back with her legs in the air as soon as possible!

Good luck!

Tell your friend to tease the hell out of her husband, but not to let him cum or not to let him cum too often. When she's teasing him how much she wants to fuck you. She can tell him how she will reward him afterwards by fucking him silly and once she gets to fuck you and that she wants him to get sloppy 2nds. After a couple days or weeks he'll be begging her to fuck you.

Hmmm. You left out some specifics, so I'm going based on what you DID say. It sounds like she hasn't specifically told him about YOU. Only that she's trying to convince him to make the fantasy a reality by fucking someone else. If she wants to move forward, I think she needs to come clean and tell him EXACTLY what's going on with you and her.

There are many reasons he may be resistant: Afraid of friends/family/co-workers finding out, losing her to another man, doesn't think he could handle it, KNOWS he couldn't handle it, among others.

By nature, most people are afraid of being out of control. If she tells him exactly what is going on, then he might consider you and her doing it, as conditions (like you living out of town thus easier to keep secret) might fall within his comfort zone.

I do NOT recommend she cheat on him behind his back with you. The ramifications could range anywhere from a screamfest to a double homicide (yours and hers).

If he's not onboard, then forget it. She might, with time, get him to come around, but until then, hooking up with her is only a recipe for disaster.

In reality, people make their own choices. Yeah, you might read stories on this site about sissy cucks, forced feminization, chastity devices, and men who have no control over the dominatrix wives who gleefully fuck around and flaunt it in the cuck's face, but a lot of this stuff is fantasy. And when it isn't, at the end of the day, 99% of these men CAN make the choice to end a relationship. Do you really think there's a man out there who TRULY can't extricate himself from a CB3000? Or who can't pack his things and move out (permanently) if he REALLY doesn't like what his relationship has become? Even blackmail control is a slippery slope. And the meekest and most downtrodden are capable of striking back when pushed to a breaking point.

I'm not judging you or chastising you, just pointing out some facts to consider.

WTF??! she simply needs to grab him by the balls...
Joe Preston

Chances are, he gets these feelings of doubt after he's cum. One reason why women who choose to cuckold their hubbies are increasingly insisting on chastity for the cuck. If you could keep his passion peaked with no release at that moment, eventually he'd become your boy and willing partner.

Very wise advise by jcage...any time I have ever felt the pangs of any jealousy have been after I have obtained relief (when I have cummed!)...so long as I am hard as a rock watching my wife getting pounded between her beautiful legs by another male, I just absolutely love the experience...if I don't cum, the erotic enjoyable feelings go on and on and on!
I don't wear any chastity device, but I have learned this fact in myself and I will not ever cum until my wife's bull has left us and I am finally alone with my wife. Then I can finally find release for me! For me to cum any sooner, while the bull is with us, would create jealousy feelings in me and a guilty conscience for letting her do it.

I did not get one thing here: is she telling about guys she in fact fucked, or is she making up scenarios to keep him "happy"?

If the latter, I have sort of the same thing going with my gf...(I would not mind at all that she fucked around, we have just not got to that point yet) and she sometimes insists very hard during sex that she is telling about fucking she has done...its very arousing during sex. After, she do not have to tell me, but I know that she maybe have exaggurated a bit....BUT

What if she did the same.....I mean really "confessed" hard, and kept on teasing him with this "true"story? Just to see him reaction...and further, tell him about you...that you may come over anytime he should wish...maybe showing him some e-mails...

The twilight zone between fantasy and reality is sometimes very sexy....test out the waters, find out where he sets the limit....make this thing an obsession for him....

Another thing that is sometimes a little funny on this site.....



Yeah...sure...go all the way....this "poor man"has a fantasy....why not put him in a cage, pour cum in his face, castrate him, make him suck his brothers dick, .... , way to go man


A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

its just amatter of time .he will agree in the last

OK folks..... REDIMAC .. has the right idea... the grabing of his balls...
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The following has worked for me in the past. The Wife... starts adding some role play to their marriage. A little Bondage. Get him a blindfold and basic cuffs and straps to hog tie him to the bed.

A few sessions of Mistress/sub role play will give her more power over him and raise the bar for him as to WHO is in control. ...

Next SHE gets him a Cock Strap... let's him fuck with around his balls.. He'll love it..

Then hand cuffs for when he's kneeling in front of her.. add the riding crop about now...

A week later.. She tells him to go into the bedroom and put on what's on the bed....

He'll run to the bedroom. There is his 4 cuffs, cock strap or leash.. a body harness, and a collar...

She comes in and attaches the leash.... Now his boy is fucked.... he will do anything she say's and if he is still into hearing about how she fucks other guys... well its now all set.

In the next week, she takes him out of town. Nice dinner drinks at a hotel. Has him make a nice bubble bath for her. While he lights candles, opens wine and gets into his gear.....

She comes out and has him sit in a chair telling him she just wants to look at him and tease him... She cuffs, chains ropes what ever she can to make sure he can't get out of the chair.....
Sips her wine while teasing him until there is a knock on the door.

Blindfold on him... she goes and opens the door.. Lover is there...

He comes in.. and she chats with the lover as if the husband wasn't there...
She tells the lover that Hubby always wants to know how I fuck other people .. So to night she is going to let him listen..

They fuck.. ... Lover leaves.. and she now teases husbands aching to be released cock and balls with her crop...

she only releases him when he promises to be her slave and to worship her... and to do as she says in bed...

He'll do ... He's now a cuckold... Trust me it works.. Takes about 6 to 8 weeks of build up...

After all who could resist a woman looking like this..

HOT BULL

No a single comment about the picture??? What are you all dead?

Amazing pic!!!

very sexy body....please post more pic's of this slut
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

If my wife came surprised me with an outfit like that...my dick would be so hard...I wouldn't have enough skin left to blink. Then I would think...uh-oh...what is she going to do to me?

masonstiles: anything new?

Well I'm glad you like the picture. She is my slut and I use her but I've promised to find a cucky for her to tease. Check my posting in other topics if you are interested. Hot Bull

So have you grabbed your cucky by the balls and told him you are fucking around on him or not???????/

What no follow up stories??????