the diary of the wife that finally decides to take control

ill start out by telling you guys why I decided to start writing this "diary".

For the past year or so my husband and I have been in this "swinger's" lifestyle. He watches me get fucked and in return he....... no he just watches me get fucked and likes it Anyways him and I always seemed fine about it till lately when my sexual response to him was running dry. We hadn't met with a man in so long and I was longing for a nice big cock. Finally I started chatting around and came across a young man who was pretty cute and so innocent that the automatic atraction to the sweet innocence drew me in and I couldn't help but want to take him in my arms and show him what a real woman felt like. I guess when I am horny I get pretty dominate cause I scheduled it and didn't even bother my husband about it. I just told him we were going to meet him and thats final. so the next day we drove from portland OR all the way 3 hrs up past Seattle. My first thought of this "boy" I was meeting was "damn he's so young looking" I almost felt guilty but as we sat there during dinner my longing erge to jump his bones right then and there grew and after a take and a game of pool we headed to a hotel. It was slow and steady at first. but before you know it we were kissing and rolling all over the bed. The softness of his tight, skinny, smooth body made me tight and wet. I didn't even make him give me oral, I wanted his meat inside me right then. I pulled off his pants and pulled him to me. Who the fuck cares about condoms, I want to be knocked up anyways. instant his hot wet dick slid easly into me. I guess I was tighter then he has ever experienced casue he came fast. He was a talented one though and even when he came he stayed hard and deap for me, pounding away until I spasmed into a deep pasionate orgasim. I knew then why I loved my husband.... I mean who wouldn't love someone who lets you experience such wonderious orgasms from another man cock????
Anyways, The night grew and fell with hot passionate sex that lasted for 4 and a half hours. he left me breathless and full.

I laid there that night knowing I didn't want to lose the power I felt that night with that boy.... The power I felt as I road his innocence with everything and anything I wanted.... hell It was pure fun sex. So the next day I asked around and someone here mentioned a website that talks to women about how to take control of your husbands by using their sex drive as a tool. it seemed fun so I thought about it, made my choice, dug my heals in, and dove into a life I KNOW I am going to love!

I will update through comments in this post about each day and my growing of control. so keep coming back here and check up cause you never know what I may say next.

May 12th, 2009
Today I started my control. After a long days of work I came home and went to bed. We laid there and I knew exactly what to do. I flew one leg aross my hisband's legs and stradled them so he couldn't more. I used the hot body oil I had on the bed side and started massaging his manhood. I knew he loved it and was wanting to join in on the fun but with me in that position he couldn't really move. I started in on with asking him about his day. he struggled but answered. we sat there for a few minutes talking about his day as I strocked his cock gently. Finally I went on with my demands. I explained to him that I wanted him to do all the laundry by the time I came home tomorrow. he started to protest and as he did I slowed my stroking way down and was almost bearly touching him. his noticed the change in strokes and a look of dissapointment drew across his face. once again I asked him if he would do all the laundry. He strated to protest but as I went to remove my hand and get off he quickly changed his mind and said ok. for the next 4 or 5 minutes I spent the time talking about what I wanted him to do and stroking him. speeding up when he did what i wanted and slowed when he protested. He didn't protest much though and each time I made him repeat it to me he got it straight each time. " hey I did good for a first timer" i thought. And as I wanted to see I came home to a clean home and clean clothes....... I like this game

may 13th, 2009
today went on as usual, my husband did his demands well and correct and as we neared bed he even tried hard to impress me more....as if he had to get me to be impressed to repeat last night .....LOL we went to bed and I laid there next to him.... this time not straddeling him and played with his man hood as I explained my wishes for the next day. I told him I wanted him to do the dishes, and clean the cats box and make dinner....
as a dog does when you wave a bone by him he agreed without arguement.... I am so enjoying this... in fact I loved it so much that for the firtst time in awhile I was turned on and wanted my husband more then anything... lets just say this... he as defently rewarded that night.....

I think I am liking this

may 14th, 2009.
I guess not all trained dogs do as they are told and still come back with a smile....

My husband did his chores well but his stubborn side shined today and when I requested that he would take me to school he made me feel guilty and stupid....trust me it was not left unpunished. that night I didn't even tough him. i told him I was very disapointed in his actions and his punishment was no sex till friday and no porn or anything the next day. I told him the chores for the next day.... he agreed but slumped a little as a dog does when being punished......

"good boy ..... listen to your master"

may 15th, 2009

I love this master thing.... I think I can get use to this...... My husband did as he was told today and made no arguement when I requested that he let me cum first. he pasiently watched as I got myself off and he joined in when I asked and we made love and fell arelax cuddling.... I told him he could have the day off the next day

May 16th, 2009.

Today was a rollercoaster of actions. my husband was so sweet today. When I got home he greeted me with a kiss a dinner out and then a nice body massage when we got home. I felt so relaxed. He told me that even though he had a day off he gladly made a list that I could fallow to help think of chores for him. this is what it said:

I love you more than anything in this world and want more than anything to show you how much I love you. Strangely your new attitude and my rewards has made me actually enjoy doing and being however you want me to be. Although I recognize its your decision on any of this, I would like to let you in on at least what I know will keep me motivated.

It would be nice if you could separate my instructions from my rewards. For instance if you are rewarding me with sex, then let me enjoy it for whatever time you wish then separate it into my instructions, perhaps manipulating me with your hands or changing the way we are having sex. I recognize its totally your choice. I just want you to know how much I enjoy your touch and sex, and would love to have you sit on my face (especially after you have been satisfied by.... ;)) or let me go down on you more. I also want you to know how much your letting me hold you and rub against you keeps me motivated. The entire time I'm doing that, I'm thinking about you and my responsibilities and looking forward to my next reward when I do well. However I do recognize if I'm a really bad boy you may take that away as punishment. I'll try harder than anything not to lose that.
I probably could use a LOT of training on my attitude and my interactions with you. I'm sure you won't hesitate to let me know when I've been bad like you let me know this morning. I'm sorry for last night, I'll keep trying.

Honey I love you more than anything in life. Please always know that and your pleasure should ALWAYS come first. If you wish to cum first or let that be my only reward, I will have to appreciate it. I just love so much more with you and hope we can make all this last a life time, please let me show my love for you for a life time.

Now to my task for the day:
Here are just some of the tasks I can picture being asked to do, just bare in mind I am working now too, but I'll do whatever you want and I suspect all these, because I wouldn't want you to have to do them and not need me, I just hope you now have a desire to live in a cleaner house than we have been:

Only cum when you tell me I can
Full body massage for you
Rub your feet
Make you dinner
Make your lunch
Make the bed daily
Make sure our room is picked up
Shopping
Dishes
Laundry
Sweep entire house
Mop the kitchen
Clean the bathrooms especially toilets
Vacum and if needed shampoo floors
clean the cat box
Clean the bird's area
Clean the office
Clean the Family room
Clean the inside of the cars
Wash the cars
Mow the lawn
weed
Clean the garage
Wash the windows
Eat what you tell me I can
Behave the way you want me too

I love you.


The night wasn't all that good though and arguements did arise.... After a bit I finally told him I had had enough and he was going to be punished. I told him no sex that night and he had to make my lunch and finish all of my invitations and send them. Also fix the truck and clean anything needed to be cleaned.... he finally agree and without a word I turned around and went to relax.

He will learn....sooner or later he will learn to obey me....

WOW your a hot one
let me know what you think of my small cock send message on this please

This diary could be one to watch!!

Cannot wait to find out where this is going. Please keep it up.

I get the feeling it would be nice if we saw here more than what he gets to see when you come home.
it might be painful

GeorgeV
I think you forget that I am a very teasing young lady.... if I were to post more of me then what I did then i would be too easy and I wouldn't really get to tease like I oh so love to do...... And I wouldn't get to hear (read) all of your pleasings to see more of me..... that wouldn't be fun now would it....

but thank you anyways....

Angel_Love, VERY sexy pics! You are a beautiful woman.

I wish my wife would touch me more then a few times a month, MOST times I am locked in a pink cb-2k chastity cage and hardly ever permitted orgasm... your hubby is so lucky to have you even id all he ever gets is teasing with orgasm.... More then I get!
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

how big is the hubby's cock?

HOT girl BTW

May 24th 2009

Sorry for the delay of writing.... this week has been a hassel of plans....

So hubby is doing well he had a few wrongs but I made sure he regreted them and was punished and he has done so much batter. in fact I dont think our house has looked this clean since we moved in. and everyday I have a delicious lunch he prepares for me which is good.

So tonight and tomorrow morning I am meeting my boyfriends and try to get pregnant..... God this is going to be fun. Hubby is very horny cause since the last few days he has been bad I told him he cant have sex with me till monday night.....

Anyways I know I haven't wrote much but I promise monday I will update and tell you all about my dates and stuff. I am going to go get ready he will be here in 2 hours.

angel, love your look. thanks for posting (typed this one handed ;)

just another positive 'keep it up' bump!

I was in Portland when this story began and I'm in town a few times a year. PM me and lets chat.

You are such a beauty. Your husband is lucky to be serving you. I hope you continue to increase your dominance over him.

waiting to hear more keep it going angel_love

We want to hear every detail of your pregnancy risk sexcapades this weekend! Hope it went well!

Is this the website that inapired you?
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hey everyone. Man its been awhile.... yeha I know I suck at this writing daily stuff.
So the meeting with my boyfriend went well It was so nice and he fucked me so hard I felt it for days..... My husband though has not been the best boy lately he has slightly fallen from fallowing my rules and I have had to punish him a lot lately.... he will come around to my ways sooner or later....
So to answer London couple's statement...... We found out I was ovulating the weekend we met with my boyfriend.... So since I have wanted a baby for quite a bit we decided to take the risk and try for a baby.... Still too early to test but when the time comes I will let all of you know.....
Oh and thank you to everyones comments..... Ask me questions and I would love to answer any....

Oh Razor my husband is about 4 inches when he's hard

good to hear u at it angel_love, hope its going well, are u going to fuck others. not just the boyfriend to get bred in a party situation or that is going to far? .......best wishes soft

... I didn't get pregnant, but I'll keep trying.

soft: Yes I would like to have a party with several guys, because I would rather not know who the man is. That way my husband and I can raise it and not have to worry about the man wanting to be a part.

Love this thread! I figured you'd been getting ideas from Real Women Don't Do Housework, then I read the other thread where someone suggest you check it out. I first found that site when we were only married a few years. It scared me and at the same time excited me to no end to have a wife that used sex to control me. I showed it to her one night and she was only mildly interested. Coincidentally (with this thread), that night was the only time she really tried it - she worked me towards orgasm and then asked to go off birth control (she wanted a young and I was still hesitant). I figured she would have jumped at the oportunity to use this in our life but she said she felt guilty using sex to get what she wanted. Little did I know at the time, we would take a series of very small steps and wind up way beyond my early hopes.

I'd love to hear more of your adventures! Have you ever edged your hubby to see how turned on you can get him? That is such wonderful ***! I often thought it would be fun to have my wife challenge me to see how many days I can take her teasing and edging before I break down and beg for release. It would be even better if there were something big that she wanted and if she could get me to give in, she would get it.

soft: I think my husband is planning to surprise me with several guys at our Wedding rededication. We didn't really have a real wedding the first time and are having a full one with family, friends, reception and all, this saturday and I think he has suprise for me. If he is a good boy he does...;)

nooo: You better believe I like to keep him on edge. I don't usually let him cum in me any more because he simbly not big enough to cause give me very much pleasure, and it has been fun with controlling him, but we fall in and out of it. I'll get in the mood and take control for a week or so then things will die off. That's why I have trouble keeping up on this diary. One thing I'm not going to back off on is my fun with my ohter guys. ;)

I love your attitude of taking what you want and you are more than sexy enough to pull it off. I know I'd be following you around the house like a puppy dog if I were your husband. I think the way you described the on and off controlling is probably the way I'd like it as well. That allows for time to ramp up the teasing and drive him crazy, while having some down time for normal relations.

Hope you have a great party and I look forward to hearing about it next week.

angel_love thats so hot hope u really enjoy and ur hubby will love it.I remember as if only yesterday my slut being fucked by at least four different guys over what was quite a few hours and she just kept going it was so erotic to watch.Each of those guys did her at least twice if i remember correctly though hard to think if every one did her. i was in a state of excited hard on lost count really. But she did say she was well and truly fucked at the end of it lol

Well... Our wedding rededication went wonderful!!! it was the perfect wedding that I had ALWAYS wanted. Everyone that we wanted to be there was there and it was the perfect day.

Turns out I guess it is harder to get 4 guys together than expected. My husband finally let me in on what the plan had been at 7 that night. He had spent over a month planning it even set up an AFF account (angel_loves_more). From reading the emails it really sounded like the guys would show, but then 3 of the guys cancelled that day and one of the guys didn't respond to his phone when we tried to see if he was still going to make it. He sent an appoligy the next day saying he was sorry.

Its too bad my regular guys aren't into sharing me, I've tried asking them before and they say they like having me to themselves. ...

Thank you all for your kind words. I love my life the way it is and I don't see it changing other than maybe taking more control from my husband. ;).... As far as disciplining my husband, I don't want to turn him into a wimp, I just want to have him do what I want. Witholding contact has seemed to work pretty well. For extreme situations like last week when he embarrased me, or when he wont agree to something I slap his balls. That seems to get him in line.

Anyway here are some wedding pics, to bad we didn't have ones with guys fucking me in my wedding dress or veil...