Switching??

Do any of you ladies find yourself switching back and forth? wanting one thing for a while (being in charge, dominating, etc) then going to Sub? I definitly lean more towards sub but every once in a while I like to dominate my husband, and make him do what I tell him to do. Is it one way or another for you guys or do you switch?
For example I LOVE making him wear panties (I made a post about it in the sissy board) and spanking his ass and telling him to clean the house on all fours wearing a skirt, but I also get instantly turned on if the ropes and cuffs come out and he grabs me by the hair and drags me to the bed. Also have been kind of exploring the 'boyfriend' aspect as well (you know, having a boyfriend that comes over, go on dates with, have sex with in front of my husband, etc), so I'm just looking to see if this is all "normal"

yes i find myself that way wanting my hubby to take control but then wanting to make him be my sub i know its confusing him and wimps never make decisions!!

You need to get the best of both worlds...find yourself a dominant boyfriend and have him grab you by the hair, pull you to the bed, and then tie you down and have his way with you. But have it done in front of your hubbie. Maybe you tie him to a chair to make him watch you and your bf but your bf takes advantage of the situation. Maybe he forces you to do things that have always been off-limits to your husband, or breaks any limits you arranged with your hubbie. Your forced to submit and he's humiliated and forced to watch.
From my favorite wrestling T-shirt...
"Here...hold my headgear while I kiss your girlfriend"