Is This Bad?

Is this not good?

It's embarrassing and pathetic to admit, but I still kind of hold a flame for my ex gf. She was gorgeous and way out of my league, and in the end left me because I could not please her in bed. She has since found a new, real man to please her, and is doing really well.'

I still fantasize about running into her though, having her rub it in about how great her life - especially her sex life - is, while I have nothing. She used to love to humil1ate and dominate me; everyone knew I belonged to her. I would still love to be told how much better off she is without me, how much better her new man is, just to put me in my place so I have to accept my submissive status...

Is this bad?

Old habits die hard, as they say. I'm sure that if you happened to run into her she would enjoy reminding you of your various failings.

Yes Sir, you are right. She always loved to rub it in, and she would be right to remind me of all my failings; I was never able to pleas her and she is with a man who is able to do that now. It is humil1ating.

I love this. I have the same issue. My gf at school was gorgeous. In touch now years later and she is beautiful. I couldn't resist telling her about my cuckold fantasy. Although it's not her thing, it was delightfully humiliating to admit how useless I bed still am

That does sound humil1ating; what did she say?

For me I just know my ex would really gloat about it, since she has been so much more successful in her career than I have to work two jobs and she still makes much better money and looks gorgeous. Plus, I was kind of high and mighty about the breakup; being reduced to admitting I'm jealous of her would be very embarrassing.

Well, unfortunately her mattie is boring and she has strayed a couple of times with others. Thats when I said I wished she would of done that to me. She didn't understand till I explained, but said she would do it to me now if we were together to make me happy. I offered to buy her some underwear but she declined

Her marriage that was meant to say. Not mattie

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You are right. You are worthless to her sexually. A total failure. I know that because I TOO am in the same boat! I had a wife I could never satisfy or make cum, not even once. My girlfriend threw me out of her house and my current wife hasn't spread her legs for me in so long I can't even remember. That's 3 women in a row that I totally deprived and failed sexually. Welcome to the club.
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There is nothing wrong with you. You can be as successful as any stud there is! Cock size does not matter in the least!

Believe in yourself. Have confidence and don't be afraid to demonstrate confidence. Don't run off at the mouth. Let the ladies discover you. Ladies always search for the gentleman, so just be sincere and she'll find you! Ladies love sincere appreciation. Rock on that idea and forget all the cuckold, subm1ssion, h umil1ation and related silly behavior that drives women away. We know all too well how that philosophy leads nowhere fast!

What do you say about trying a different tack? You certainly have nothing to lose and you sure could use a good win right now! You know that you can win. I know that you can win. The ladies sure can appreciate another confident gentleman! You can be THAT guy!
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