Anybody done financial servitde to their wife or her and her bf?

Title says it all.

I'm single but I've done this before with single women and on one occasion for a couple. Kneeling down to hand over money to them.

It was a duel type thing where we were friends and hung out but that didn't stop them (until the bf wasn't comfortable with the dynamic) from using my fetish for their financial advantage.

One funny incident I remember was hanging out at their place having some takes and watching TV. During a quiet period (they might have went to the kitchen to make a snack...can't remember) I grabbed the local paper and started checking the help wanted ads.

When she (I'll call her Jane...not her real name) came in she saw me reading through them and stood before me while I was sitting on her couch.

She asked why and I said that I was just curious to see what part time work was out there. Jane was surprised saying that I had never mentioned doing something like that before and asked what brought me to do so now?

Kinda embarrassed to say it outright I squirmed in my seat for a second or two while she was looking down on me and I finally clued in she was expecting an answer and wasn't going to let it go. I got it out by not saying anything by awkwardly smiling and looking down at her feet and looking up at her. It took me doing that twice (all in about 4 seconds mind you) before she clued in and she laughed slightly and a combined smile/smirk came across her face. I think she said something like "OK" in an amused and condescending way and then she walked back off into the kitchen.

My wife wanted to fuck more guys so I got her a rent house to have a boy friend over any time she wants.
Cucked before cucking was cool

Anyone else?
tony

me too for my ex!

I payed my ex about $200 and then she didnt talk to me for about a month. I was upset @ first, but now I'm thinking about giving her more. I can't help it. It turns me on so much. Can't decide if i should give her more or not.
tony

Yes! Absolutely Yes! Give her more!

I was going to wait and see if some one thought I should. We live far apart now, we arent friends on facebook, but we still private message each other on facebook. How do you think I should go about it? Or do you think i shouldnt?
tony

Yes

How should I go about it? Should I bring it up in a round about way and see her reaction, or should I just beg her to take my money?
tony

So I just wrote my ex and apologized for not sending a Goddess tribute in a while.
tony

send her some more $$

I would love to pay a man to date or fuck my wife. Any expenses he incurs from contacting her (phone/Internet bills), travel expenses (plane tickets/taxis/car rental/gas/hotel), luggage and handling, clothing to wear during visits, food/holy water/entertainment, reimbursement for time taken off work, and any other unforeseen costs should definitely be taken care of by the cuck. All the bull should ever have to worry about is eating, relaxing, and getting what he wants out of our wives. Their time is more valuable than those of a sexless cuckold or his dissatisfied wife who made a bad choice. The bull is providing a great service and is essentially a Godsend for the couple. After all tangible and intangible costs are taken care of, then I would start thinking of what the right tip/tribute would be on top of that. One could also get the bull's own input on what he expects is fair.

I give every dime I make to my wife. Or let's say, it is direct deposited. Any money I have is given to me by her, and it is all on a debit card so she can see my every purchase.

This is very hot.... I am sure my wife would love taking complete control over all the finances.

I wrote this in another post, but here it is. my ex wrote me on facebook the other day. She wrote "ha ha ha ha, just been checking out your cuckold comments lol, your such a loser! need to post more and cant wait for payment" I couldn't believe it. My jaw dropped, and my heart was beating like crazy when I read this. I hadn't realized she had looked at this site!
tony

Bony Tony,

I found your situation fascinating already before you told us that your ex had seen your posts. It is remarkable that she has. I assume she knows of your frequenting the site and your screen name from when you were together? I'd be very curious to know how she came to see this site and identify you. (I assume that she found the thread by searching your screen name.)

In any event, I've been thinking about an arrangement that should benefit you both and was going to suggest you offer it to her. Now that she monitors this thread, perhaps she will see this post and it will stimulate some evolution in your (non-)relationship.

(1) I think that you should offer her to make a regular monthly tribute of a set amount. I leave it to you to determine how much it can reasonably be – but it ought to be enough that it is a significant expense for you based on your income. (I'm thinking, more than your cable/internet bundled package, but less than your mortgage/rent – but perhaps you can afford more.) You will make the payment on a regular date a couple of days before you sit down to pay your other regular monthly bills. This will ensure that this expense takes priority, never comes-up short, and – equally important – never just blurs into you regular expenses as an experience for you. (That is another reason it ought to be a significant, but not unrealistic, lift. You need to keep feeling it month after month.)

Ideally, you would get her account number and go to her bank in person to make the deposit each month. (People who have your account number can deposit to your account, but may not withdraw. To be extra sure, she can arrange with her bank to expect deposits from you.) Since you say she lives some distance, however, her bank might not have a local branch for you; but you can at least go each month to your bank and arrange in-person for the money to be transferred. The point is that you should have to go and do this yourself as a ritual, not let it become an automatic transfer or otherwise quick, painless thing. I like the "go-to-the-bank" option because it is (a) inconvenient for you, (b) undemanding of her, (c) still arms length from her; but if it can't be done, then perhaps something like making the payment through a certified check or a postal money order would do. She would then have to deposit on her end, but at least you would have the drudge of going to the bank or the post office each month to make the payment to this Goddess who ignores you – keeping it front and center in your mind. (And, like all the options I've suggested, there is no possibility of bouncing the check.)

(2) In return, for your making this monthly tribute, she will send you (once, not monthly) a picture of her with her new man (if she has one.) This picture need not be porny or racy (though she might want it to be when she reads further) but it should show a loving, happy couple. You will place this picture, suitably framed, by your bedside. Each morning when you get up and each evening before bed, you will stare at this picture and masturbate while you tell yourself (aloud!) how she is the best woman you ever have or will date, how lucky you were to ever have her at all, how undeserving you were of her, how lucky she was not to get stuck with you, how much better her new man is for her than you, how generous she is to still let you play a small role in her life, and how that role is the most important thing in your life. All the while, you will look only at the picture unless you are closing your eyes to imagine them together.

This is to be the only way you allow yourself to cum. Because it is the one way you will have orgasms, you may also want to add other times (like when you get home each day, for instance) but you must do it when you get up and before you turn-in without fail. You may want to make a second copy of the photo to bring with you if you travel, since you will need to do this whether you are relaxing in a hotel room, your mom's couch, a friend's guest room, a camping tent, a red-eye flight or whatever.

You will NOT annoy your ex by describing or reminding her of what you do with her picture in PMs, although you may describe them here at length in the hope she'll find it amusing to look in sometime. You will also not friend her on Facebook, phone her, write to her, or otherwise attempt to be a part of her life unless and except as she specifically invites you without prompting. (And I think your default assumption should be that she won't – so don't hope too much; better to accept your fate and rejoice that you are getting better than you really deserve from her.)

(3) However, there is one reamister you may need to PM her. You see, you will need her permission to become intimate with any other woman.

You can go ahead and date all you like, but you must keep it chaste. If you want to go further – like making out with a woman, or getting naked, or fucking her, you will need an OK from your ex first. If I were you, I would be prepared to offer persuasive tribute to gain an assent, because if she doesn't give it, you'll need to refrain and/or refuse no matter how much you want it or your new girlfriend wants you. Even if it means you need to break-up or the new girl dumps you.

But don't worry. Anytime you buy a gift for a woman you are dating or courting (like flowers for Valentines or jewelry for her birthday, but not date expenses like the dinner tab or movie tickets) you'll need to make an extra tribute to your ex of double the expense of the gift (rounded up to the nearest dollar), so she'll have an incentive to let you date any woman who is interested in a guy who seems a bit tight on the budget and afraid to get intimate with females.

But when and if you do get intimate, you might want to be careful about the logistics of where and how, since you still need to follow your wake-up and before bed rituals regardless. This is also why it might actually be kinder to you if your ex chooses to send you a relatively tame photo of her and her guy. Since you will keep it by your bedside always – and never hide it – anyone who spends time in your bedroom will see it. Racy, suggestive, or explicit pictures will be obviously attract more attention and require more explanation.

(Maybe you ex will ask you which you prefer. Quite a dilemma when it comes to what will be your sole stroke material – something hot for you, or something you don't have to explain to others? Of course, if you ex is truly generous to you, she'll send you more than one picture. Either way, you might consider now and then asking her for permission to display additional copies in other places – like your desk at work, you car, your wallet, your living room, kitchen, or bathroom. You really can't have too many reminders of the thing that gives your life meaning, structure, and joy.)

If she allows you to implement this arrangement, it will allow you to live a life of devotion and obsession while she will gain the benefit of your (well-earned) tribute without her having to see you or even speak to you on the phone. (And again, don't pester her on the PM. Only when you need to beg her permission or indulgence.)

If it is worth it to her, what could be better for you?

Good luck on getting this set. It would be a vocation worth having!
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

My own household arrangements are similar. My paychecks are directed deposited to her account and she handles all household income and outgo. I receive weekly maid's wages which are dependent on job performance.

I have a weekly checklist of chores including all cleaning, etc. and of my training program (daily dildo sucking practice, etc.). If I do everything perfectly, I get paid $200. But the amount is reduced for any item not done or found lacking. (Each item has a set value, allowing my mistress to passively prioritize for me.) Since completing the whole list requires all my free time in any given week, I very rarely earn the full amount. Things like having to work late, travel for work, visits by those who don't know, etc. are no excuse and can wipe out most or all of a week's potential wages.

At the beginning (a decade ago) I received the wages in cash on my knees each Friday after review and inspection. I still kneel while she reviews the checklist, but now I get a check which I deposit in a separate checking account. This was instituted to reinpower my place since the checks I receive all say clearly in the memo line: "Maid's Wages," and the account title is [My Name] Sissy Maid Services Account. The custom checks have a big pink triangle and a printed slogan which she changes each year or so when she has me order new checks. (I never use them all - I think she just likes to change the slogan. They currently say: "Gay Slave Seeking Master," but previously said "Proud Sissy Maid!") She has me pay by check for many permisteral expenses, including anything by mail. (The most humiliating was when I used them for tickets to my college reunion.)

We do have joint credit card and even ones where I am the primary cardholder legally, but she shreds the one in my name when they arrive. I have one card for emergencies that is on an account in her name. I've never used it, but I understand that it is set up so that cardholder services will call to alert her each time I use it.

My wife says her ideal would be for me to file a separate tax return that shows only my maid's wages and lists that as my occupation. But she requires the income from my job, so that is not very realistic and probably never will be. So I earn money but never see it myself and have credit but never use it myself, as she says, it isn't perfect but it is the best we can do.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

My wife and I have talked about this. Looks like we are taking a big step toward this. Getting a checking account in my name that has a debit card. She is going to transfer a set amount at the begining of the month. Also the account will send email notifications to her address when I spend over an amount set by her. So she will know throughout the day when I am spending money.

Thanx MrsBlackBlowupDoll. Awesome Idea. I can't stop thinking of it
tony

I do a form of this with a coworker. Basically we play fantasy football every year and I lose to her so much that I'm paying off debts for the entire offseamister! It's exciting! And she loves it. She keeps saying "I LUV spending your money!" and she means it!

That's hott. You should also buy her a gift congratulating her on her win, while handing over the money you owe her.
tony

My wife is in the Medical field and is going to be graduating soon with her Doctorate, she is thinking of opening her own practice. She has talked about me working for her as her office manager, I would do all the filing, answering phones, scheduling appointments, and insurance billing. I can only imagine the amount of power she would have over me then...... I have thought about her making me work a lot longer hours than her too, get to the office a couple hours before her and have to be there a couple hours after her, and maybe she would work 4-5 days a week and I would have to work 5-6. So she would have more time to do things to relax while I am making her business run better.

bony tony, we actually started by betting things like the loser has to go get breakfast and bring it to the winner at their desk. I realized then that when SHE won, instead of me, it was a turn on. That's when I started doing subtle things to try and lose. It slowly escalated to a certain amount of money per game, then to a dollar a point, etc. When she complained about how it wasn't fair because her team wasn't as good, and would feign not betting me, I escalated to giving her better odds, like if she lost, she would pay a dollar a point, but if I lost it would be 5 dollars a point. Etc. And when my debt got so high, I told her I'd like a payment plan, and that was when she said it would be 25% interest every month. So you see how it turned into a several month long payment schedule.

Last year, I gave her my PayPal name and password, so she could just buy things online and transfer cash to her account. It's worked out well for both of us.

Dunkin..... Thanks for sharing. Does she ever show you what all she is buying with your paypal?
How often does she use it?

She texts me to let me know. Although it's usually just to transfer cash into her account. She hasn't done it in a couple months since I've been paid up, but football seamister starts this week, so I'm excited.

It goes beyond financial as well, into the area of public offense. Since that's off topic here, I won't post about it. I'll find another thread later and post some details and maybe Screenshots of ims she's sent me.

Dunkin..... do you plan on making the steaks higher this seamister? Do you think she knows you want to pay her?

Sounds great Dunkin. Would love to hear about the offense as well. If you post else where, let us know.
tony

Dunkin i absolutely love your story! Please let us know where you post the offense part if you do.
I am also curious if she knows that you lose on purpose, and how obvious it is that you are just trying to give her money.
thank you for sharing
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Dunkin.... How is football seamister going for you????