My wife´s boyfriend wants to go public

I am a brazilian cuckold.
My wife is dating a blackman and he is very possessive about her.
He often relaxs here at our house.
Now he wants to keep my chastity device key with him (he does not let me fuck her) and wants to all our family and friends to know our situation so he can be with her at parties and every weekend even with our closest friends visiting us.
He also wants to go out with her to malls and stuff.
I am considering telling everyone our situation and accept his terms.
What do you recommend I do?
Thank you.
Erock.
Erock

i think you have to accept it

Fantasia ou realidade?

Real.
Erock

Can you understand why surrendering the key to him will help you become a better cuckold?

[i][/i]It is difficult to advise you without knowing more about your life, career, etc. But here are some general thoughts:

Life is short and you will regret more what you did not do than what you did and you get more from life by being who you really are and doing what you really dream of than you do by living for other people's expectations and conventions. If your wife is OK with this and you think that you can take it, I would say to go for it and enjoy the ride.

Having said that, you and your wife should consider the likely repercussions as they might truly play out and not as they do in either a porno fantasy or in a soap opera cautionary tale. What will be the reactions of your family and friends, really? It is not likely that they will suddenly join in happily to your arrangement. But will they flip out? People are different and most of them mature and worldly enough not to act as either stereotype. When my wife decided we should tell people, we started with friends and went slow with family. At this point, my family knows, but not all of hers. Families and family dynamics are different. You should both honestly consider yours.

When we revealed things, we got all kinds of reactions. Some people were shocked and we lost some friends. Some (fewer) were amused and intrigued. Mostly they were uncomfortable and it took a while for them to adjust. The majority of them did not approve at all, but eventually accepted it. Some grew a bit more distant, a few closer. The key thing was that we did not try to f-o-r-c-e people to be in the scene. We were just honest with them about it. (Well, not entirely, but that is another story.)

One thing to be careful of is the potential backlash against your wife. Some people will try to protect themselves from what they find shocking and sordid by just labeling her an evil cheating bitch and viewing you as a victim who is too weak to stand-up for himself. This "Poor Erock, nasty immoral Mrs. Erock" thing can be hard on her and could lead to her and her new boyfriend being shut-out by people.

One other thing: We never told my coworkers or colleagues because we were concerned it might damage my career - reducing my potential for promotion. My wife thought she would prefer to have the income than to allow a bunch of strangers (to her) in on our personal business.

In the end, who you tell is a call only the two or three of you can make because only you know the people and can best judge the fall-out. But being honest about who you are and what you want has benefits either way. If you want this and don't out of fear, you will likely spend the rest of your life wishing you had the chance again. Whereas if you go through with it you will find some people accept it and that will mean you have increased chances to meet like minded people in the future. And this is true even if it goes very badly.

Good luck and please keep us informed.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

dear friend,
first of all let him keep your chastity device key and let him keep you 7/24 in chastity. after this you will see it will be much more easier to obey his every wishes to let you some relax. when he own your chastity key you will see he also own your life and you wont need to think or worry about your development next steps... with a little key he owns you cant imagine how it helps to satisfy his every wish. and next step he will be introduced as a bull of your family to your family and friends. some of them will be understanding and some of them will reject this strongly but this is your life and you came to world just once. you dont need all your friends and family members approval. the aim is they will know a new family member as a bull is owner of your wife and your cock. infact it means he is new owner of your both life. you might even arrange a little cuckold marrigae ceremony to announce your bull to your close around. in that ceramony you might give your key maybe your wedding rings to him and and he might give you his rings or symbols showing that he owns both of you. later bull might spend so much time in your wifes social life lagally. they or 3 of you might go shopping , cinema ,parties and keeps her hands there, hold on her and kiss her as a permanent part of her life... all these things give you incredible painful brain orgasms since your cock kept in caged. you will learn and discover this new type mind blowing brain orgasms instead of penis ejeculation

Thanks....foot slut.. any more tips:?
Erock

I think you should tell your friends and family of your cuckold relationship. I think it will lift the burden of having to hide your cuckold relationship from everyone. I did not agree to revealing our cuckold relationship. However, I found out that my wife had told her family and friends that she was fucking other men and that I accepted it. Then at one of our parties, one of my wife's sisters, announced to everyone that my wife was fucking one of the guys at our party, but that I don't mind. I was humiliated but had to admit that I did not mind him fucking my wife. My wife made me get up to let him sit next to her. She also told me to get him a ***** as he put his arm around my wife and kissed her.
If you do tell your family and friends, be ready for some ***********.

Bill playing with my wife's naked big TiTs on beach

I also do not hide their relationship with my lover. We often appear together in public. My husband is ****** to accept it.

Hard to say. Most of our family knows now. It's hard to hide a big black man in your house lol

When we began letting people know, it was surprising how many had already guessed what was going on. People pick up on these things quicker than usually given credit. When my wife began telling other women especially, most of them said they had known for a long time just played along as if it was a secret.