how do I get her to tell me the truth?

Ok guys,my wife regularly sees two guys that are very well endowed and yet she wont tell me that what they give her in the bedroom is better than what my average pecker can,she holds on to that bs line that size doesnt matter when I know good damn and well that it does.....in one way or another,Im sure she doesnt want to hurt my feelings and just cant get past that part of it that really turns me on....she says at first she was hesitant about doing it at all but know she is hooked and knows just how good it can be....she just wont tell me...do most women hold onto this little lye like my wife,I just wish shed let me have it,it took me months to get her to admit shes in love with one of them and I never came so hard in my life....

Size matters, but only to a point for most women. The basics of the female anatomy mean that a pecker that is four to five inches long should meet the minimum size requirement for vaginal stimulation. However, most woman will still feel fuller with an 8 inch cock than a 4 inch cock. It's not stimulation per se but sex has a lot to do with psychology, and if feeling that fullness gets her off then she's going to want an 8 inch cock. But its not a feeling most women need to reach maximum climax. This site will lead you to believe otherwise but I have seen women screaming in exctasy with multiple men using only their fingers and tongue. Also, at some point dicks do become too big for vaginal sex and it will hurt. But yet again that may be something some women are looking for, but very few. But for the overwhelming majority of women something around 5 to 6 inches long is all they need for vaginal sex. But the girth is important too. I haven't seen any studies regarding that and suspect it would vary from woman to woman. I am very thick and have been amazed when women hold up and cross their first two fingers and say most guys are that thick. In vanilla relationships over 90% of the women I am with tell me I am the thickest they have ever had. When I fuck them they say their sore, but its a "good sore". Now all that holds up for vaginal sex. For anal sex longer can indeed be better. It scares the hell out of alot of women, but once they get use to it then an 8 inch cock will provide more stimulation then a 7 inch, then a 6, then a 5 and so on. I think thickness then actually becomes a problem. I don't have a monster thick cock but its well above average and have had the odd woman say she does anal until she sees how thick I am.

So my point is don't assume your wife is bullshitting you. I saw a survey once that said 43% of women say size matters, 44% say its nice but not necessary and 13% say it doesn't matter. There's at least a fifty fifty chance your wife is telling you the truth.

From talking with a few (Dominant) women. Length isn't really that important. In fact, most women aren't physically able to handle a long cock.
My EX wife is a good example, though I'm average length when erect, mine is rather skinny, and if I went deep into her with it, she would cringe in pain.

What most women like is a fatter cock.

Just my 2.8 yen's worth.
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

Good point twisted. I also know one major cuckoldress that hates dicks larger than 7 inches. She loves the feel of a guy slamming into her and she can't have that if the dick is larger that inches. This girl has fucked 100s of guys and if you're over 7 inches she rules you out as a potential. The whole big dick thing, including big black dick, is usually the guy's fantasy ... and the woman goes along with it. That is not to say, however, there are not women out there that love big black dicks, its just, as twisted says, thickness is usually what women prefer and length usually becomes a problem. Lucky me, since I'm average length and VERY thick!

Montreal Dom,

Don't ya just love the fact that were both putting holes in other people's fantasies with reality?

Bottom line people, if your wife is going to cuckold you, LET HER CHOOSE THE MAN!! and the activity.

Especially if your going to be submissive to them. You might be in for a nasty or a pleasant surprise. My experience with Dominant women has always, except for one freaky biatch, very pleasant.
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

There's another cuckold site I was reading, not as good as this one, with a thread for hotwives: Which is better: length or girdth? Overwhelmingly the women say girdth, and many of them also say if it's over 7 inches it is a problem. Now if a guy gets off on it then there's no problem with their wives satisfying that pleasure for them. But if hubbies really want to see their wives in pure pleasure don't go to long, 6 to 7 inches, and get a good thickness - but not coke can thickness. Having said that, some women really do like really long and thick, so get them that if thats what they want.