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shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 07:28:12 Reply  That whole day was very strange..I daydreamed about sex and had NO problem getting hard, but of course, being at work I got NO relief, but it was sure good to be sporting a good woody. On the drive home I was thinking about this and I started to think about sex and sure enough my dick got hard, the funny thing was as soon as my wife popped into my head...my dick started to deflate. This cause for some serious concern..what was onto here??? These thoughts kept turning over in my mind and I realized that something odd was happening...I could THINK about anything sexual and get hard, but as soon as SHE entered my thoughts, no good..the feeling what start to pass and the inevitable limp dick results. The scene from this morning was really bothering me badly by now..I kept seeing myself in my mind's eye, standing naked in the bathroom trying with ALL my might to do what I wanted to do so badly and for so LONG....a chance to have an unimepeded cum, no CB dribbles, no half assed attempts to get off....a real live cum oppurtunity and I couldn't even keep it up ! Shit SHE even TOLD me to do it and I couldn't get it up all i could do was try and try, but the second I blocked her out and turned my thoughts anywhere BUT to her, I was fine....damn..this is serious.... I started to understand that I was developing some kinda sexual mental block when ever she was around..it was strongest whenever she was actually present, when alone I could try to get hard in the CB and I would as best I could with out discomfort, but hell, with her there, I couldn't seem to make it. I played back in my head all the times in the past with the weekend releases, why didn't I have a raging hard on? the answer? SHE was ALWAYS right there!!! This woman has gained control of my dick and the worst part is that it was starting to bleed over into everyday life for me,,if I got too horned up, I'd think of her and poof, gone, I'd return to normal and do whatever task was at hand, the daydreams of sex would STOP........... more
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 08:05:29 Reply  I knew I was onto the right thought track here.. I was smart enough to know she had this weird Zen like control over me..she broke me down, threatened me, insulted me, rediculed me, pushed me, tested me, observed me..all of this and I was pretty much helpless to really do anything about it, short of packing up and leaving and taking the big financial and emotional Divorce hit...oh my my, what have I gotten myself into here? One thing was for certain...I wasn't going anywhere, I KNEW I couldn't take that kind of hit in mylife and I KNEW she knew that too..yes..she actually had me "by the balls" When I got home after picking up the kids, I prepared dinner and straightened up a bit and then she got home...she was in a good mood ( thank god cause I KNEW we had to finish the business from this morning and last night) and she even came up to me, gave me a little kiss and a little pat on my ass and asked how's my Boy-ee ??? We had a nice family and good family time afterwards and after the kids went off to bed..it was time..to talk.....as soon as we got into our bedroom, her attitude changed immediatly from being all sweety and nice-y nice to serious.....this isn't going to be good I thought.... She told me to sit on the bed, while she stood before me, that pose of arms folded and serious facial expression....she began.....about last night and this morning...I am going to tell you this once and only once....we have an agreement..you signed a contract, I still have the divorce outlines ready to go at a moment's notice..I allow you to stay in this marriage at MY discretion, not your's, do you understand me clearly? All I could was say yes...............she went on....You had no right nor do you have ANY right to ever question ANYTHING I do or say..is that clearly understood? ahh yes it is.... she went on to tell me...I have made so many sacrifices during this marriage and you ( meaning me) have made little or none until now, therefor I am going to clear this up once and for all..you will not speak or interrupt me unless I say so...... I want your honest answers mister.....do you have problems with me going out ? I told her no..she then said then why did you get so bent out of shape last night? I told her it was because I was very worried and angry and hurt and upset that she just disappeared like that with no word, call, message, nothing...she grinned and said good, NOW YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS....do you have problems about me going to that club? I answered no and said it's just harmless fun and besides I trust you and you deserve a little downtime from all this..she grinned again and said well..we are making progress here aren't we..good answer.... she added, imagine the shoe on the foot here, I KNOW YOU can't be trusted in the same situation, funny isn't it..but anyway let;s move it along.... She then asked me did it bother you when I told you about that dancer " I said no not really ( I lied) she looked at me closer and said I think I smell something here, smells like bullshit, look at me in the eye and tell me...did it bother you??? I stammered a bit and finally said oh okay, yes it did bother me...and she asked oh really? how so? do tell me.... I told her that I didn't like the way she desrcibed that guy's dick, she had a dreamy look on her face and most of all I really didn't like that sing songy voice she made while telling me about it and finally I said it was like you degraded me, made me feel inferior like you insulted me as a man..I didn't want to hear it okay? She looked at me and then said, well I guess you'll have to get used to that now won't you..I enjoyed myself going out with the girls and yes I will be going again and I can assure you , Thursday night is MINE and I'll do whatever I want...oh stop looking at me like I just kicked you in your balls, lighten up will ya...it's not like I can't CONTROL myself, unlike some people in this room..so what else do you have to say about that? I said it's okay with me if you go out, I trust you..and she raised her voice and exclaimed..you're DAMN RIGHT it's okay for ME to go OUT. I will do whatever I please IN or OUT of this house and if you can't handle that....pack you bags and leave now..I'll file for divorce and you'll be gone, you will not ever be able to come back under ANY circumstances, you'll end up to be what we BOTH know you'll be..a broken shell of used to be man, ALONE, broke,a real great big has been..go to your ghetto whores and sluts, they'll tire of you soon enough and toss yer useless ass out onto the street where you belong ! and YOU know it, without ME keeping you straight and narrow, you're as good as done mister more..........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 08:24:08 Reply  I did my best to keep some semblance of dignity and composure, it was very tough but I sat through her tirade. She then demanded to know WHY I broke the CB....I had to answer her..I said it was because I was so upset..she said..oh now come on...that's no answer..I want the WHOLE truth.... I said well, I figured we reached the end and what difference would that have made, I came to see it as my personal prison and I wanted my freedom. ( I KNEW she wouldn't like this answer). She resonded with an eye roll and and said well asshole, there's the door to freedom, right there.all you have to do is get up and walk through, not so tough ya know Mr. tough guy cop.. personally, I don't think you have the BALLS to do it, but fuck it, give it shot if you aren't happy here anymore..go ahead I dare ya.. she was getting a very nasty streak here and I was actually a bit taken aback..she kept pushing me..go ahead, don't worry, you'll be free, broke of course but free nonetheless...give it your best shot.......... Finally I just broke down and sobbed and said ..I can't.. I don';t want to...she asked why? and all I could say was I want to be here, be married to her and be a good father and make tings right again and do whatever I have to do to make it that way...... She lightened up and said...good..I KNEW you'd make the RIGHT choice....she sat down next to me and once again consoled me like Iwas a child and told me in a sweet voice...I'm proud of you my love ( did she really say MY LOVE?) you have been so very good it would have been so shameful to throw it all away..now...tell me you LOVE me.......I told her I loved her and she hugged and kissed me and said good I love you too, that's why I had to do all this..it's all for love. We sat like that for a little while until she gently spoke and said it's time for bed and tonight will be special, you're free of the CB and I think you have finally earned your reward now....go clean yourself up and I'll be in here waiting for you lover.....go on..... I did as she said and I felt like I was outside of my own body looking down at myself...I was going to break celebacy tonight if I read her correctly...at last !!! god at last !!!!! more...........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 08:51:58 Reply  My mind was spinning while I prepared myself and the thought crossed mind like lightening..oh my god what if..... I returned to our bedroom and there she was, sitting in front of her dresser and mirror, brushing her beautiful blonde hair...naked...not a stitch of clothing. I removed my clothes and stood behind her naked and just admired this beautiful 100% all american WOMAN sitting before me. We both looked at each through the mirrow and when our eyes met, we smiled and you could FEEL the love in this room..it was POWERFUL. She got up and went to the bed whispering to me, stay and watch me Lover...she crawled across the bed making sure I got a great look at her fine heart shaped ass wiggle across that bed and she flipped that blonde hair and peeked back at me and winked and said in a sexy husky voice...c'mere lover, your woman needs her man...I crawled slowly across the bed to her, she now laid on her back and I had a full view of that fine body and wonderful bushy blonde pussy and those sweet pink nipples, as I straddled her, she spread her legs wide open and held her arms out to me and said come on baby take me, i want it sooooo very bad and I KNOW you want me too...take me.....do it NOW !!! her eyes flashed on fire, her face and neck were starting to redden.. I was beside myself with lust .. I laid across her body face to face and we looked deeply and lovingly into each others eyes..and..the kiss...oh yes...THE kiss...so sweet and so eager..tongues immediatly flashing, probing, exploring....oh yessssss...feeling her warm body against mine her beautiful breasts crushed against my chest....we were about to go to heaven......we kissed and nuzzled and hugged tight and for the first time in a very very long time, I was actualy MAKING LOVE and NOT just fucking..no siree...this was real honest to goodness romantic love making with MY dear sweey loving wife, my soulmate, my lifepartner, my everything.... We continued to kiss and whisper undying sweetnesses to each other, so gentle, so loving, so...right......our hands began exploring each other, mine going to her breasts and hers working her way down my sides, going lower and lower, a gentle flash of her hands across my bare ass cheeks felt so fine...ohhhhh yesss.....I could feel both her hands firmly take hold of my ass cheeks and I could feel her begin to grind herself into me and she pushed her hands down ever so slightly, giving me the signal to pleasure her....she moaned take me now, please, take me now, I'm so hungry for you, now.....do it now... I slid my hand down to her blonde bush and began to lightly play across her lips and ever so gently brush her clit, using my thumb and index finger across her lips and clit, she moaned loudly and began to hump my hand....a let my finger eneter her just a little and I felt she was soooo wet...god she's sooo wet, she's never been like this ever before, not even when we were younger....mmmmmm baby....I played my finger in her pussy and rubbed her clit with my thumb and I felt her reaction instantly, she began to breathe harder, her face got more red, her neck reddened even more, I felt thos nipples harden up and she was now starting to furiously hump my finger, her hips pushing up and down, side to side ( man where did this come from, this is a new experience for me..she's RED HOT) She really got into this she moaned and cooed oh yessss oh yessss damn oh damn do it do it..make me CUM....I'm gonna CUM !! ( holy mother of god !! is this MY wife here??) I continued to work her and I happily felt my own loins were WIDE AWAKE oh Baby yeah....My cock was like steele. as hard as I can ever recall it getting...who the fuck needs viagra baby....not when you have 130 pounds of hot blonde wife under you begging for it.......... I worked her good, she came ...oh boy did she cum..she had one arm wrapped around my neck practically choking the shit out of me and the other hand was still grabbing at my ass..she actually dug her nails into my ass and it was painful, but a GOOOOOD painful....holy moly this was well worth waiting all these years for.... more
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 09:32:00 Reply  She was so wet and her pussy was absolutely dripping wet, her juices were running down into my hand, I geedily licked them up, I even offered her a finger to suckle and she DID !!!!! another FIRST she tasted her own pussy !!!! I raised my ass up a little and with one hand , positioned my hard cock at her slit and began to gently rub it up and down then back and forth all the while we were in a serious lip lock. Aftera little pussy teasing, I felt her hand over my hand that was holding my cock and she pushed foward and then moaned, FUCK ME BABY..........oh GAWD....I eased foward and felt the head slide right in...oh oh oh sooooo tight....like a glove...oh christ....I gotta take it slow and really really get off on this...3 years and finally payday....the eagle is definately flying high. I eased into her getting the first few inches in and it was snug and wonderful, all wet and warm and I could detect that faint smell of her sex...my nostrils began to flare and take it that wonderful scent..she began bucking up and down when I went side to side and we'd switch it, like we were reading each other's minds... I moved into position and raised her legs up to my shoulders and at long long last buried my full 6 inches into that wonderful pussy..I could feel my balls right up against her asshole and this made me go nuts..I started to get my motion and stroke going..like riding a bike folks, one never forgets.... I started on my first few strokes and I felt another new FIRST, her hand found my balls and she started to gently squeeze and loosen and squeeze , like she was milking them...I fucking lost it,......I came like a banshee...I shot a huge laod right up her and I almost passed out....I got maybe 10 strokes at best, 10 FULL strokes and was done....I unloaded...couldn't be helped..too carried away..she was beside herself in lust almost in a crazy rage of lust...moaning more more more make me cum I need your cock I need it NOW..I need more,,,give it to me..fuck me do it do it hard.... Oh my god, she's wild !!!! she a fucking wild woman !!!! one of her hands is clawing my back and ass, the other NEVER let go of my balls, she starting to really put a vice grip on them now...shit...wait...nooo..noo..too tight....let go... she was pulling them now and squeezing way to tight..she's trying to stuff them in her pussy is what she's doing, my cock is going limp ...fast and it slid out of her dripping wet pussy with the head ending up in her ass crack..the head so super sensative, I felt her other hand leave my back ( thank god, I must be bloody) and she gripped my deflating dick and damn if she wasn't rubbing the head across her ass crack..I couldn't take it no more...the head was too sensative after such load and after all these years...just couldn't take it anymore...too much..too soon... starving men should never eat 10 pounds of filet mignon in one sitting.... She was trying desperately to stuff my now limp dick back into her pussy and she was writhing and grinding and pushing and humping air..I looked down at her face...eyes wide open, face blood red, neck, chest red, nipples like erasers, I looked further down and saw a sight to behold..her pussy was slightly gappped open with cum and pussy juice dripping down the crack of her ass..the lips were blood red man....glistening...wet matted blonde pubic messy with juice and cum and the head of my cock being pulled into her to no avail. She started muttering , not actually talking...sorta muttering..I need it..bad....c mon...get it up...give me cock...fuck fuck fuck....I need it now! even with all this new found dirty bed talk and her wantoness..my dick was done folks..it was deader then shit...she started to get more louder....I need to cum I need to cum..make me cum....get it up....get it up..do it..make me cum..she was frantic and now so was I but for another reason..she was frantic to cum, I was frantic to get her off but the dick said no way Jose..I grabbed hold of it away from and started to furiously jerk it, but actually almost hurt, still so sensative...noooo good she was beside herself now...you got your's I want mine...do it get it up.... The more she implored the more hopeless it became, finally I rolled off her and laid panting beside her and she suddenly raised herself up and grabbed my face by the chin and bought it right up to her face..we were eye to eye..she looked insane man ! I never saw that look ever..she looked like she lost her mind..insane...her eyes were burning...right through me!! she gritted her teeth which now made her look like a cross bewteen super pissed and angry and just plain crazy..her hair was matted and she was sweating and red faced and wild looking... She said ( I may add in not such a sweet way) what the fuck? you gonna leave me like this ? you can't do this??? I was actually frieghtened..I tried to back away and she grabbed my hair and yanked my face harder and repeated...you gonna leave like this you fucking cocksucker ??? I was really starting to trip out now, I was actually freaking out I was down right scared of her..she's finally gone over the hill and she AIN'T coming back...this language....never...she only recently added some profanity to her language but I KNEW it only came out when she was super duper pissed off, especially at me.......... Eyes blazed with a fury I never saw and I was scared...yeah scared ....she practically yelled at me..well? can ya get it up and finish the job or are you gonna fag out on me ( what the fuck did she say??). Who the hell is this woman..this is NOT my wife..I have NO idea who this maniac is and I'm in some trouble here, cause she has no intention of letting this go. I felt a new nasty sensation, she grabbed hold of nuts again and this time, very roughly squeezed and squeezed very very hard until I actually cried out in pain and tried to pry her hand off them, this only made her grip worse,,,this bitch was working out and I never recalled her being this strong..oh god please let go you're hurting me..... no good she wouldn't let go..she finally looked me sqaure in the face and said if ya can't get it up ..then eat me...eat me now..get me off.....eat her?? what?? eat her pussy? NOT after I fucked her and unloaded I ain't doing any such thing..never did before and I ain't starting now I was thinking....this is when it really turned ugly......... more..................
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 10:03:34 Reply  She had me by the balls literally and the face and hair and was out of her mind..finally I had to do something, I figured I better overpower her and end this right now....the first thing I did was use my strong grip to pry her off my balls...we had a struggle for control of My balls, everytime I tried she resisted and it was a tug of war, finally I said fuck it and really got her hard by her wrist and yanked with alot of strenght..there! free! but not before one of her nails caught my scrotum but good, I was bleeding..she cut me ! I pulled away from her and ripped her hand off my face and she tried to grab me back by pulling my hair...I got loose and when I tried to jump off the bed, I turned back to see where she was and then whammo...lights out ....I never saw it coming..she knocked me out cold....she caught me in the side of my head, closed fist..bam..I never got hit so hard in my life..no MAN ever hit me like that..It felt like Ali got me..( I now knew how Joe Frazier felt )..I crumbled to the floor like a sack of used shit. To this day I have no idea how long I was out, but when I came to very groggily, I was still on the floor and the pain..oh christ the pain..my head felt like I was hit by a train..jesus christ what's all this wet shit on my face and my mouth ?? I put my hand up to my mouth and felt my chin and mouth..didn't hurt, nope, not blood..what the fuck is this shit...it clear like fluid..I tasted it and it tasted like salt water..huh?? it was all over my chin and some on my chest and ewww now I can taste whatever this shit is my mouth..I started to spit out and was still groggy and then I tried to get up, but I slumped down again... Then I felt the pain down below..that's right ! my scrotum, she cut my sack pretty good, I looked down and the shock and horror registered immediatley...what the FUCK ????!!!!! Jesus Christ !!! I was clad in a pair of her panties !!!!!! fucking shit,,what the fuck??!!!! and the crotch is bloody !!!! I lost my mind with fear...I was afraid to reach down..oh god no..she cut my balls off..oh dear lord NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!........thankful heavens when I placed my hand inside the fucking panties, the old boys were BOTH still there whewwwwwwwwwww..I examined the cut and it was nasty looking and it started to sting pretty bad, the blood stopped and i had a nasty little gash but there were where they were supposed to be thank god...... I quickly looked around the bedroom to see if my assailant was anywhere nearby waiting to ambush me again ( I was now back In the USMC and/or the street at work) I quickly visually scanned the area..all clear..enemy not sighted....look listen sniff...be alert...my senses were way way up..I was in a combat mode..okay the coast is clear..she isn't anywhere in here for sure.....I got up weakly, shook my head out and the first thing I did was rip those fucking panties off.. i grabbed a PJ bottom and then it hit me...my fucking GUN, where is my piece ??!!! Oh shit it better where it's supposed to be.....I went and checked ./..yep, there like it should be ( unloaded of course)...I slowly appraoched the bedroom door, which was closed..I stopped and listened at the door...no signs of anything so far..I got down and looked under the crack and saw light. I slowly opened the door and peeked around, i could see everything in the hall the lights were on, I walked down and checked the bathroom..okay...the kids rooms..check..both there and sound asleep..so far so good, time to head downstairs....take it easy Bro..take it slow and easy..we have an emotionally disturbed person on our hands ...watch it.... When I got downstairs, I checked the kitchen first and ther she was..... she was sitting at the table drinking a water bottle, looking like hell..puffy eyed, hair tangled and messed up, wearing her robe, with one hand clutching the throat part. I stopped before going in and let her se me..she looked up and waved a hand at me like....leave me alone.... more...............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 10:36:11 Reply  I stood for a moment not really wanting to say anything..but stayed my ground just the same....she looked uo at again and then said.."what do you want?"... I said just tell me...in a soft voice ( like we're trained for at work in a volitile situation..talk soft and calm).. tell me..what happened ? She waved me off again and started to get up and head for the sink, her back to me. I asked her again, please, tell me what happened in there, I need to know what happened?? She turned slowly and looked at me with a difiant look on her face and mumbled I'm sorry, it got out of control..I didn't mean that to happen....I'm sorry.... and she started to cry. well okay..she seems to have gotten a grip on herself so I figured I'd slowly approach and sit at the table in a non threatening way and ask to come and sit . she stayed there and she said she was sorry again and I said okay but why did you hit me and please tell me , what did you hit me with? she said sorry about that, I was mad and I hit you with my fist are you okay?? I said well I'm not sure..I hope I don't have a conciussion for christ's sake...she lowered her head and looked down at the floor...sorry...I really am sorry.... I said okay then..how long was I out? She said only a few minutes, I made sure you were breathing ..I then asked her and then what happened..she looked at me she said I think you know...I said no tell me....she said I was so angry with you...you were so selfish..you only really cared about yourself...I was so mad that I had to teach you a lesson, so while you were out, I got over your face and squated and placed myself up to your mouth and made you take me..you were out so I just let everything drip out into your mouth....I was still mad , so i decided that since you couldn't do anything about it I might as well put you in panties like I said I would someday. Oh god I thought oh no....she did that to me?? oh no..my first reaction was to get and run to the bathroom and garggle for the next two weeks. She saw my reaction and damn if that slight evil grin did not manifest itself for a split second on her face.... All i could say was one word...why? and her answer?? you failed me, plain an simple, you failed, here I gave you everything I had, did things, said things acted that way to please YOU and YOU failed ME...she started to cry again.... I sat there in a daze.. I was in the middle of the greatest sex of my life one minute, then the next minute I am locked in a life and death struggle for my balls, then I get the shit kicked out of me by a woman half my size, wake up bloody with a mouthful of vile cunt juice and cum from my own cock... a pair of panties on me and she says to me I failed her?? Oh and let's not forget my wounded scrotum..oh no..we can't forget that. It was late and the kids were sleeping and I know I didn't feel like arguing and yelling and screaming and thankfully neither did she. I asked her..well..what do we do now??? She looked at me and said I really don't know right now...just so you know, I'm calm and I am not crazy and I never intended to hurt you, but you fought with me and I guess instinct took over.......oh really? instinct?? you beat the crap out of me, you sucker punched me and laid me out like a sack of potatoes and then you did that other stuff....I think that is way over the top don't you?? All she said was 3 years of work and look how it all turned out..maybe it's best if we do it now..get it done and over with....we're not gonna make it. I sat there and drank in what she just said,,,I KNEW what she was saying and yes I think she was right..i really didn't want to be near her and I really didn't like what I witnessed in there earlier. I asked her..how do you want to do this..are we going to do it friendly or are you gonna carry out all those threats? She said let's do it friendly as possible okay..I think were a bit even don't you ?? I sat there thinking well let's see 13 years to this point of being married, 2 kids, I'm the one that will have to go and I'll be paying, she'll have a much easier go of it then me, but what the hell....better take her up on the offer..I will never live this beating down from tonight and I bet she will always hold it over me..she kicked the tough cop's ass and put him in her panties for good measure. maybe we can navigate through this with less damage..I'll llse for sure, but maybe I can limit the damage..I can't live like this anymore.... I looked at her and said..okay....we'll end here and now...no more....you go your way..I'll go mine and please...let's remember always that we ARE parents and we must take good care of OUR kids okay? Just give me a chance to get a place to go and have a chance to confer with an attorney and I'll get out of your hair..just please play fair and we';ll get this done quicker, okay? again she started to cry and ran for the bedroom and locked the door......I sauntered to the couch and fell down there with tears in my eyes................... to be continued...............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 11:12:18 Reply  I laid there thinking..well..it's over..all done...humpty dumpty has taken the great fall and all that other horseshit...where the fuck will i go, what of my kids, this house..all this shit played out in my head the only difference from past times was this was IT..the real deal...it was done. I wasn't taking anymore abuse..hell I took way too much as it is...grovelly little yes M'am of course dear anything you say Hun....Jeez what was i thinking? suffer the indignity of being dick jailed, having the shit beat outta me at home no less,.. she's sooo lucky I don't hit women or really anybody else and the final insult, made to swallow my own load..ewwwww christ..I'm gonna puke......it's gotta be now and it's gotta happen......where will I go.............. That morning was the MOST uncomfortable day of my life to that point..we avoided each other and played nicey nice until the kids left for school..we didn't have a lot time before we had to leave for our jobs, but we got some discussion going..the logistical stuff.... We agreed I could stay until I had a place and had time to get a lawyer and she told me she would place a small amount of cash aside and give it to me so i could get my own account and the worst part..we agreed as to the time to tell the kids that daddy is leaving...( damn this makes me out to BE the BAD guy)..anyway..we went through some stuff and agreed to be civil. She even showed genuine concern over the brand new lump on the side of my head and even volunteered to take me to have it checked, i waved her off..nahhh...we had to stop it here and leave for work and besides she was starting to get very weepy and I could feel those tears of sadness stab my heart through and through... I had to bolt...fast or I would throw myself down and beg forgivness...hey ! wait a second... she 's the nut here not me !!! To cut out anymore personal stuff here, I am going to skip through a bit..I really don't like reliving alot of this ,so bear with me folks....... More...............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 11:33:08 Reply  Over the next two months or so, we both consulted our attorneys had a little back and forth and were moving towards legal seperation..the FIRST step to the big D...it was going just as I had figured, I was going to take a thumping, even though she stood to her word and tried to make easier and a little more fair, but shit happens........... I found a little studio apartment not too far from the station through a pal and settled into bacholorhood once again..strange shit that was..felt like a fish out of water..but it was okay and the place became home after a while... After a long career I finally caught me a break and received that promotion to detective I wanted for so long, a little more money and more interesting work...good for me..something to build upon. I saw my kids plenty and we had fundays..always doing something fun and new and exciting ( I am not going to speak anymore of my children during this story)..I was adjusting better then i thought possible. Now for the golden question?? what of the future EX bride??? well we spoke mainly via telephone quite a bit.mostly family issues and a few legal things, but we did have some good talks and actually kept it friendly..after all we had a long history, married 13 years, dated for 3. We even saw each other once a week or so at the house. She was always nice to me and I to her, she looked very good and she even complimented me on looking pretty darn good too, I started to work out vigoriously again and I even shaved my longtime mustache off and now that I was out of uniform and in a suit, I changed my hair style and dressed better, no more jeans and sweat shirts or team sports crap for me..she said she had forgotten how handsome I looked clean shaven..she always begged me to dump the 'stache, but I thought I looked meaner ( for the bad streets) with it...a cop thing I guess... A funny thing we BOTH noticed was the fact that NEITHER of US stopped wearing our wedding rings..habit I guess.....we went to dinner a few times even and had a couple of full family outtings...this wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. In case you've been wondering,, what of the former sex addict, womanizer?? well I guess my wife did a thorough job and thanks to the therapist..I thought more with my big head and learned to control the little head...it's funny as to how when I was married I constanly had an overpowering need to fuck, anybody, anytime, expect the wife at home and now that I no longer had a home obligation...a strange turnabout occurred...I wasn't interested in dating right now..nor did I jerk off everyday and all that crap and bouncing after work with the sqaud left me NO thrill...empty, useless BS..I preffered going home to my little place and .....get this folks....read and learn to cook ....cook for real..like a chef cooks...who knew??? I was learning and enjoying my new rank and assignment and generally acting my age and people noticed, those who knew me all agreed I changed for the better..more mellow, less loud and aggressive, just a regular dude, I became much more a gentleman..no more rough edges, they were fading fast...but still not interested in any new gal and there times I met some and thought hmmmm maybe,.....but nahhhh..maybe a bit later on......... more..........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 12:05:17 Reply  A little time went by during our seperation and we were fast becoming pretty good friends all over again..the legal thing was slowly winding it's slow way down the road and to be honest ( we both spoke about it and agreed) we weren't in a hurry for the divorce to come through..we kinda liked this seperation thingie..I guess ( and she agreed) you can say we could BOTH say we are still officially, legally married, but LIVE seperately..we started to enjoy this arrangement. My wife receieved a pretty big promotion at her job and she was thrilled, alot more money and some travel and over all very happy with the results of her efforts with her firm..she was so happy as a matter of fact, that her friend's from her job threw a big party to celebrate and she asked me to come, she said she wanted me to share in her happiness and come celebrate with her..I balked at first, then she giggled into the phone and told, ya know, I'm making a little more then you now and if this keeps up, you won't do so bad when the divorce is finalized..I laughed with her..genuine good laugh.... I did attend the party and boy was she a knock out man..she looked GREAT and was she one happy gal...so outgoing and bubbly and I could see right away she had the admiration and respect of her peers at work, even the BIG boss thought she was the best thing ever, he raved and raved about her. I actually looked at her working the room and felt a feeling of pride and joy and yes happiness for her and at the same time sadness and regret for me..it crossed my mind that maybe I had held her back so much and she finally broke free and well......nobody likes to think of themselves as a hinderence to someone else..but damn if I did...boy oh boy will you look at that?? she is something..smart, good looking, funny, outgoing..I never saw her in her work enviroment and I marvelled how well she was doing......ahhhhh that's my girl.....my girl??? sniff sniff not anymore Brother..oh but hey lighten up, we'll always be tied together , we were and still are a family. I sat there at the party feeling a bit clumisy and out of place, I knew no one and nobody knew me..she did graciously introduce me around and a few women gave me sideways looks and the men were better they seemed more interested in asking my about the cop stuff ya know.... I did see our old friend, that young girl who notorized the contract...I sure hope she wouldn';t recognize, me I sure looked different..she was with some older guy and was obviously working him pretty good, a partner in the firm maybe?? he's old enough to be her grandfather..sheesh... ahhh and over there....ahhh yessss... the SLUT with some guy half her age and the best part is he's black heheheheh..chuckle chuckle... It was then that I noticed how many guys at this shindig seemed to vye for my soon to be ex bride's attention...holy cow.....look at 'em go....all kinds of guys, most of them young and all different sizes and shapes and colors.. I watched her entertain with some jokes a small group of young guys and then move onto to another group.. had to laugh and said under my breath,,yo go girl hehehehe...the grin was wiped off my face in a hurry................. I watched as a huge, well dressed and obviously wealthy looking black man about late 20s or so, walk up to the former Missus and sweep her up in a big bear hug and plant a huge kiss...on ...her...lips....and they stayed LOCKED...oh oh.......he towered over her and had her around the waist and she saw standing on tippy toes kissing this monster and I mean really kissing him... I watched as she broke the kiss, and smiled and was making a hand waving motion ,like she was cooling herself off..all the while NOT removing her arm from around this man's waist and he has his arm squarly around her shouders. They were standing in the middle of small crowd and she was obviously beaming and he had a big smile on his face..he was shaking hands everywhere, people came up and formed a line to greet this guy, mostly women, but a few guys too. I guess he must be somebody important. more...........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 12:37:53 Reply  As I sat there watching, they finally seperated and he moved off to another group..oh good maybe just a good friend co worker type..okay.... a little while later I decided time for me to head home, i gotta a bit of a drive and work early..so off in search of her to say nighty night and best wishes..... I walked past the table where the slut was seated and she looked up at me and believe it or not, even while that black guy had his hands all over her, she fucking winked at me and smiled...I kept going.. I found the wife talking with the big Boss and when she saw me she excused herself and came over to me..I told her I had to pack it in and she sincerely looked disappointed that i had to go, she took both my hands in hers and moved foward and kissed my cheek..she thanked me for coming to her party and for being gracious..she said I know this had to be a little tough, you don't know anyone an all, but you've made me very happy by your being here. I joked with her..well i think you did a okay Hun ( another old habit...Hun) I for one am very impressed, I mocked bowed from the waist, kissed her hand and made my soutern gentleman voice, with that M'ma, I must be going, I will talk to you soon, good night fair lady..as I was about to leave she said oh wait a second hang on please wait..I want to introduce you to one last person..wait here, I'll right back.....so I stood there. Oh shit..no...please don't do this to me.....here they came, HOLDING FUCKING HANDS..my soon to be ex wife with her black male friend.... They they stood right in front of me, she was absolutely beaming..she formally said, I'd like you to meet James ( his will be the only name I use throughout this story)..James, this is-------- my soon to ex husband.. he reached out his hand and I shook and it was firm and sure alright..he looked down at me right in the eye, some kinda corporate training thing I guess..he actually bowed slightly and smile a huge toothy white grin... She said that James is the head of the Atlanta office and he spends alot of time up here in our office, it may be that when the Boss retires, James has the fast track as lead partner..he may look young, but he's a sharpie..she giggled. Now that he was up close I got a real good look at this...kid....shit, he ain't more then 24 or 25, how the hell could he even have a law degree ? turns out he's 29 and had some good connections and yep he had a law degree. I stood there quite uncomfortable and my wife saw that right away, she said to james, could you please excuse us, I'll see you later ( I didn;t like that) he walked off after telling me what a pleasure it was to meet me...yeah right he was probally thinking..sucka..I'm gonna ball your wife tonight..have fun jerkin it officer....off he went.... My wife read my thoughts immediatly..she frowned at me and said look, I don't have to explain anything, especially to you, but I will tell you that james is very sweet and thinks very highly of me, he's a real gentleman and he is without any doubt the up and coming power in this organization..it is to MY benefit that I stay on his good side so he can get to know me personally as well as professionally ( I really hated that "personally" part) I know what it may look like to you, but it's not what it seems, he's asweetheart of a guy and I'm lucky that he seems to have an interest in me..look around will ya,,,look at all these young chippies, 20 something red hot bimboes..he can have any or ALL of them, but he seems to have an interest in ME, I'm not really sure what he thinks or where he thinks it will go, but I better do whatever I have to...this is important not only to me but to the kids and actually to you too...James set up my promotion and he's talking about seeing how I do and taking it even higher, an executive slot...get my drift?? I need this guy in MY corner, no correction WE need James you, me the kids, the oppurtunity he represents to US, well I cannot comprehend it right now...just hang tight, we'll talk tomorrow, call at home, we;ll talk..okay get going and drive safely.....I walked away and she added, watch youself at work will ya Hun ? more............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 28 Feb 2008 06:26:24 Reply  On the drive home, I kept thinking about the party..it was wierd..I took notice of the fact all the men that were older, like the senior guys at the firm all had these much younger women hanging onto them and the funniest part was the direct opposite, alot of older women had young guys, what a scene....well i guess it's that way in the corporate world..I was from the blue collar civil service world and this was a whole new ballgame to me. My wife was very much at ease and had an obvious comfort level, this was HER world and she fit in very well from what I could see...good for her..... My thoughts then went to on to a more serious subject...James.....I was NOT thrilled with James, as a matter of fact I already was developing a dislike for him and damn if I just met him...I sure didn't like that look he gave me, he squeezed the shit out of my hand on purpose I'm sure and that cat eating grin and little bow....what a crock of crap... The absolute worst part was the way my wife was all over him..Jeez, she has about 12 years on him and I sure did notice the sparkle in her eyes, but then again she did tell me, after all ,what was actually doing..I almost forgot how cunning and smart and manipulative she can be..she did say she had an ulterior motive and that WE ( I like when she said WE) would benefit and in the end, it really wasn't my business anymore now was it...she was free to do whatever, with whom ever where ever, right? same with me....ahh try to get past it will ya I thought to myself. The rest of that night I kept flashing back to the scene of the party, my wife kissing that gigantic black guy...why did he have to be black?? I mean , being a cop, I deal with blacks all the time, she had little to no contact with black folk, but me?? I was always around blacks and believe it or not, I was no near as prejudiced as many of my peers, but still..it bothered me that this black man had a very LARGE interest in my soon to be ex wife and she seemed to enjoy the attention. That kiss was all too REAL......ahhh lights my boy go to sleep.............. more...........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 28 Feb 2008 06:50:06 Reply  I was pretty busy all day long and when I got home, there was a message on my machine..it was from the therapist, who I hadn't seen in quite a while..it was a reminder of a follow up session that I long forgot about....I had forgotten that I agreed to attend several follow ups spread out over 6 month periods and now it was time for a follow up, next week.. I thought why bother, we've been seperated for like 5 months by now, what was the point? Oh what the hell, might as well go, probally be the final time anyway and besides I kinda enjoyed the last few sessions, I always seemed to feel a little bit better afterwards and it DID help me control my addiction,,but this time, my wife wouldn't have to attend if she didn't want to..I'll have to ask her.....which reminds me..I gotta call tonight..she told me to call her.... I did call her and after a little chatting about our days, the kids, some family matters and nothing new with the divorce, we got down to business...She told me once again that she thought I was wonderful and so very gracious for going to her party and she even said she was pretty proud of me and that I looked good and so nice all dressed in a suit and tie and so clean cut and groomed..she even joked and wanted to know "who's dressing you anyway Mister?" I laughed and said oh? you like?? she said well yeah duh....I said well I can assure you, I dressed myself..I pick my wardrobe and every article and accessory and I am happy to say this is the NEW ME.... She giggled and said yes I like, I like..woohooo..you looked great...but anyway, let's talk...I really didn't want to be the one to bring up james first, I figured to show her I much different I was, I'd let her tell me. She got more serious and said that James is a very importnant guy around her firm, in fact she found out last night that he will be voted by the board of directors, upon the Boss's retirement next month, to be the new CEO and head partner..she said that in her new assignment and title she'll be working to smooth the transition and be James' direct liason to the main office. I said wow, that guy? he's going to be the top banana? she said bet on it..I said but he seems so...young? She said forget his age..he is outrageously ambitious, he's a real outside the box thinker and mover and doer ( I didn't like these terms and was sorta unfamiliar with them)..she said he IS the power and he told me he has many great plans and ideas and new directions and business to be gotten for our firm..he's the REAL deal and I have the inside track with him.... I had to ask her about having the inside track, what that really meant.. she explained well you know, it's pretty obvious that he is attracted to me so don't you think it would be smart for me to line myself up with him ? I had to ask...would this lining up be personal or business ?? She did NOT hesitate she said if it need be, BOTH..my heart sank a bit at this reply..I could take business but I hated the personal part. More..........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 28 Feb 2008 07:26:55 Reply  My wife went on to explain, she first became involved in a project about a year ago ( we were still married and living together and I had NO idea all this was happening)..she said this was a project directly related to the Atlanta office and it was a biggie, real important, a huge lawsuit that had to be won, no ifs ands or buts and the project was being handled personally by James, the Atlanta chief of operations because it was sooo very critical...she said it was her job to do all the research and preperation and leg work and basically bring the whole thing together..this was a career maker she called it...anyway..it all worked out, they won, James was the BIG hero and she got a ton of recognition and was so very thrilled and impressed that James flew to New York to see her and the Big Boss personally to give her the full credit for an outstanding job. That's when she first met him in person. She told me that she was a bit taken back when she first saw him, he's so BIG and he's black..she said she wasn't expecting what walked in the door, she thought James would be a nerdy lawyer or executive type, she never saw his photo and this being NY and he being in Atlanta, their paths never crossed. She said she was shocked at how good looking he is. I asked her just how big is that sucka anyway, he towored over me even..she said he's almost 7 feet tall and he could have went pro in the NBA if he wanted after college but he chose the corporate law field instead and by the way, he is very very,personally wealthy..huge money we're talking here. I cut in and asked, is he married? she said no I said there has to be someone, a guy like that will have thousands of women throwing themselves at him..I heard her laugh and say yep, but it's ME he's interested in... ( sheesh I don't like hearing that at all). She went to tell me that after they met, he asked her out to dinner right away and she polightly declined telling him she was married..and he said oh no I'm sorry I meant taking you to dinner to thank you for a job well done, please allow me to this for you Mrs---------. This dinner will included all the executive staff as well, my treat, please do come, I'd be honored blah blah blah..... She said they did that dinner..on a THURSDAY night of course and he was gracious and a real gentleman and very entertaining and fun and light and blah blah blah..( I wasn't digging the details here)..anyway after he left to return to Atlanta..it seemed he called her just about everyday at the office and at one point even offered a new position down there if she was interested, she turned him down sighting family issues. She told me that James started to line up special projects that would be given directly to her and before she knew it, she started to be attending board meetings and such and her star rose quickly in the NY home office, with the Boss taking full notice, then she got the BIG promotion, thanks to James, who had hand picked special cases and projects for her. She said all this took place over about one year's time. I asked her, did you SEE him any other time, other then that first trip he took here? she said ....yes...as a matter of fact he made it his business to come to NY about twice a month and we would usually meet at the office and then on thursdays, if he was in town, I'd go meet him for dinner instead of hanging with the girls....( my heart was sinking fast) I didn't want to push this issue too far but I had to know more...so what happened at these dinners? anything important? she said well yes of course, we discussed business naturally and he started to tell me that with my good work, he could see big things in my future ( yeah BIG things , like a 12 inch black cock I thought..I hated this fuck even more now) She sensed I was getting a wee bit edgey so she I think she LEFT out a few details.... She did tell me that nothing happened other then business but she did say that the more she actually saw him,the more he turned on the charm and made it plain to her that he was interested in her on a more personal level. She said relax will ya..I ain't you, I didn't crawl into bed with him so calm yourself down okay. She said he was tough to resist but she did..she said it was all part of her over all plan to advance and advance FAST..I asked her look tell me the truth here, you like this guy, I mean LIKE him or what ?? she said yeah I like him, he's so damn nice and a sweetheart guy and so good looking and big and strong and such a powerful man, what gal wouldn't like him? and..he's gonna help US. more.....
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 28 Feb 2008 07:50:06 Reply  Now I was curious about that statement..he's going to help US..how I asked?? She said that when the board votes him in, he'll be leaving Atlanta and relocating here in NY ( oh oh he's going to be here..I no like-y) She said that James told her that when he takes over he intends on giving her another large promotion to a vice presidentcy. She said that this wouldn't happen immediatly, but he assured her it WILL happen. I asked her and how does he intend on doing that? she said oh don't be silly, he'll be the BIG BOSS he can do ANYHTHING he wants and he has damn nearly gaurenteed me this position from all the good work I've done...look here, this isn't a Bimbo promotion ( I didn';t KNOW that that meant)..I am a very professional, capable person and I have gained some influence of my own..but having James in my corner will seal the deal. If this all works as planned, we're talking well over 6 figures, bonuses, car, new house, the works, think of the kids here..what this can mean to them, no struggling for college money, better life style..you name , we can do it. best of all is that YOU benifit too. I'll be making way more then you and when we finalize, I'll change some numbers more favorable to you okay, I promise, I'll have that in writing you'll see. She told me I need YOUR help on this do you understand me?? I need you to co operate and not fuck any of this up, if you do, I'll slaughter you financially in court and you can bet on that. Now look, there may be a few unpleasant details for you, but all I ask is keep in mind I'm doing all this for US, you, me, the kids. I asked what unpleasant details...she hesitated ..then answered..well since you asked...prepare yourself......James will WANT me to be his he has told me so and I'll do whatever I have to get what I want...( I almost had a heart attack)..she yes, if I have to sleep with him, date him, fuck him, whatever...I'm going to do it and you will NOT fuck this up, you will help me, assist me and most of all be supportive and most of all Babe ( she called me babe) just BE THERE for ME okay..I could never do this without you in my corner slugger. I was silent then heard my far away voice....................yeah okay Hun, I'm with you.......... More.....................
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 28 Feb 2008 08:34:25 Reply  My wife told me a few more details of her "plan" she said that this will probally play out over some time, but she believes that sooner or later James will probally tire of her more then likely..she said look, I'm a good 12 years older then him and with him being here in NY, imagine how many other high end women are going to be drawn to this guy like fireflies..I'm counting on that believe me.. I;ll make sure they'll be drawn to him and sooner or later, he'll move on..he's way too charming, rich and good looking to lock himself down to someone like me..just too much compitition out there ya know? I said welllll....it's pretty likely you're right but I still don't like it. You're playing a very dangerous game you know..she agreed and said look if all else fails, I can always SUE him for sexual harrassment and she laughed...this scared me. She went onto explain that a guy like James isn't going to really see a long future with some one like her, an ex husband, couple of kids, office romances burn bright and fade fast... he just has too much going for him to tie himself down too long, I KNOW what I'm talking about..trust me ( famous words there) so you see he gets what he wants ( yeah i thought..you) and certainly , I get what I want and we go on our merry ways. Simple, perfect, but we have to do this, it's our best shot.... I kept asking her why do you need ME so much in all this? She said I will need you to support me in alot of things..first being to smooth the way with MY family, especially my Father, you know he just LOVES you..if he knows I'm dating a black guy, it's gonna hurt bad..my mother won't be too bad and my sister..well I'm not sure...but you have to help on that front and you have a real big job...we have to keep this way from them as best as possible. I KNOW I;ll be very discreet, believe me, but I NEED YOU to be discreet too. I'm going to need you BIGTIME with the kids..that's where you really hit the home run for me...look, you're going to benifit more ways then one here..I may have to be away from home..alot and I'll need you take on the home front responsiblities, I know you can do it, you've done it so well already, so it shouldn't be too hard and besides, it's a chance to stay back at the house alot..you stay there with them, better that then taking them to your place, with school and all and friends, well you know what I mean. I had to stop her here..I told her I really didn't approve of all this insanity, this was crazy and dangerous and blah blah blah....then she hit me with the bomb........... She told me that if I went along with it all and did everything she needed from me, kept my big mouth shut, controlled my temper and such...I get the BIG reward..she told me she would be more then willing, no happy and overjoyed to trash the divorce and I could have MY choice, come back to her for good or I could just leave it the way things are..seperated and live apart or we can go our seperate ways for good, MY choice..not HER choice..the ball will be in MY court and she will abide by whatever decision I make..she then said you know..I still love you and I'm afraid I always will and really want you in my life always..I would hope and pray we could do this together and then be together for good like we should be. She had me there, she hit the button..no question..I was hooked. I balked again and asked..what if he doesn't tire of you then what? she said oh he will, I'll eventually show him a side he won't like very much..I have it covered...okay I thoiught, that makes sense I should KNOW.... I asked what problems will this cause at your office..she said it wouldn't matter really, the place is like a modern day Soddom and Gohmorrah;;she said half the place is fucking the other half and their all the same type, ambitious, greedy, step up, fuck you, fuck me types...don't worry, there will be NO trouble there and besides if I have to leave, my resume will get me a similiar position soon enough, with big bucks too boot. I asked her a money question..what about my place I can't afford rent and NOT actaully live there and you know my shift changes can be a problem, not to mention if the shit hits the fan and I get stuck at work, what about the kids then?? She told me forget the rent, I'll pay it for you, a gift okay, not a loan..a gift...as for your shifts, we can always get my sister or mother to watch the kids as long as you do your job and shield them away from what's going on. Besides, I won't be gone all the time ya know, I still be home quite a bit so I think we can cover any thing that may pop up, plus you can always , in an emergency have your sister take them if need be and to top off this wonderful offer, I'll suspend your child support while you are actually with the kids, no need to soend more then you have to okay? more...........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 28 Feb 2008 08:52:04 Reply  I had to admit..she seemed to know just what she was doing, she is a smart cookie and cunning..god what a skeemer...best I ever came across..hell at work I've seen professional con artists that look like amatuers compared to her..she had all the angles and bases covered and I'm sure I'm still NOT getting ALL the details, but fuck it..in a for a penny in for pound and best of all..as far as I can see..nothing ILLEGAL is going on so we're all okay there....looks damn good..if she pulls it off, she'll be very wealthy, hell WE'LL be wealthy, I can retire and maybe become a chef like I really would like to..no more cops and robbers for this ole dog..I likes it...but I'm still a little shakey..it all sounds to good to be true to easy and we all know that what's too good to true usually winds up NOT being true....hmmmmmm I told her..okay..you got me..I'm in...we'll have to work all this out fully and have back up plans and other contigencies, but let's move on it....she giggled and said wow hun, you sound like those old boys in the board room..i like it lover..you're making mommy hot when you talk soooo dirty like that hehehehehehe....we both enjoyed a good laugh an evil conspiritors laugh...the kind you hear in hell for all eternity. When she made the remark "making Mommy hot" It flashed in my mind the Therapy appointment, better ask her now before I forget and we start having phone sex something ( I hated to change the subject cause I felt my dick stir)..by the way I have an appointment for another therapy follow up, you know that 6 month thing, I decided to go but I was wondering if you'll go with me..she asked when I said next week, she checked her calender and said would go with me...good..I like when she goes with me..that female doctor gives me the creeps somethimes. We wrapped up the call and made plans to meet in person this weekend to continue our little "conspiracy". I went to bed later that night thinking this was pretty "out there" but hell yes, if anyone can pull it off she can..I just don't like the idea of that fucking nigger all over her..she BETTER KNOW what she's doing... I started to replay in my mind, her and james kissing at the party again and my cock stirred..................... more
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 06:55:46 Reply  We had a face to face meeting that weekend and I must say, I was very impressed with all her plans, she even had a few back ups for babysitting and we also agreed that she would have a key to my place and she would keep things there like clothes, make up, etc..as a "back up location". She even had a written script for me to memorize and learn, using numbers to indicate each different possible scenario, which I thought was sensational..she REALLY put a huge amount of time, effort and thought into all this. To give an example, she said scene #1 is you are at the house and will remain there to take care of the kids and such for at least 24 hours, Plan#2, the same, only 48 hours, Plan #3, the same Friday through Sunday..on and on she went ...she covered everything...it was kinda overwhelming at first, I thought how the hell am I gonna remember all this stuff, thus the written "hard copy" as she called it, with a PC disk also. She then had me make up my own work schedule and give it her so she would know right away at a glance if I was working days or nights etc...she had every base covered from what i could, emergencies included..pretty good stuff...all I had to was rehearse some things with her, and learn everything as best as possible. The reason for all was because she had to make herself as "available" as possible to James..she said this would show him that she would do ANYTHING to spend time with him and it was very important in what she called the "courting stage". Most of all she carefully went over with me about keeping control of myself and sticking to the plan, she said there might times when I would be "put upon" and I had to act accordingly. I told her yeah okay I got it..it will basically work out that whenever she's with him, as much as possible, I have to take over at home and make it as easy as possible for her to do so..play the part of the enabler ...be there to help her make it all happen..okay all set let's do it...now..the BIG question, when do we start ?? more.........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 07:11:03 Reply  My wife told me that James will be coming to NY on Thursday ( that day again...LOL) and I have to be ready by then..we double checked the schedule and it worked out perfectly, I would finish work and be able to get to her place and be there when she was ready to leave, thus the kids and such are covered..I'd be off until Sunday..so it worked out well. She said this a very important day / night, it would James' very first full night in NY and she's sure he'd want to go out and celebrate and want her to come..so she was ready to go. She told me that no matter what she would expect to be home some time Thursday night, late probally, but she'll get home..she said that she really didn't want to show herself as being to eager or anything like that..she wanted to play this out slowly at first so she could have full control.. Her plan was that I would stay overnight ( on the couch of course) and when she left for work Friday, I'd be there all day and night to care of things there and she would be free for Friday night if James wanted to go out... She told me that everything was set for James' move, the firm set up a place for him to live and transportation, they did everything to smooth his move here and all was ready, all he to do was arrive, come to the office, then check out his new place and he was free until Monday. She even told the kids already that dad's going to be there and Mom's got business to care of and she said the kids were very excited that I'd be home with them..they really preferred being at their home then mine anyway ( more room, familiar setting, etc.). All she wanted to know at this point was one thing....are YOU ready , slugger?? I said give it your best fastball Momma...I'm good to go... more....................
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 07:25:54 Reply  Between our weekend meeting and Thursday, I had some time to digest all this in my mind as well as attend my therapy follow up. Although I agreed to go along with all this, I was still emotionally apprehensive, why the hell should I do any of this I asked myself? I mean here I am, seperated and just waiting for the divorce to be final, yet she tells me that she not only still loves ( which I could understand) but that she will shit can the divorce or at the least make it a much easeir situation financially on me..so what do i have to lose??? other then my mind maybe, nothing really...it was a win'win situation she was putting on the table, but yet it all sat very uneasy on me. I mentally reviewed all the events of the past 3 years, like a strange crazy movie running in my head....let's see...I used to be the MAN of the house, did what I want when I want with whom ever I pleased...then I got put under the threat of divorce and ruination that in effect went a ways to emasculating me and making me 2nd banana to her #1 banana, then being denied sex, having to do therapy, being pushed around, told what to do when to do it how to do it why to do it and no, absolutely NO sex whatsoever, getting a total mental make over, being forced to wear a chastity cage for a helluve long time, living in fear of being found out, having ONE and only ONE shot at sex and I blew it badly and got my ass kicked on top of it, my balls sliced and kicked out of the house and worst of all having her tell me I had a small dick...a shortdick...officer pee wee. What was wrong with me?? I MUST be crazy to go along with any of this..If I really had any balls, I'd told her no..you're on your own..you do what ever..leave me out, I too busy rebuilding my OWN life and I don't need you fucking me around anymore..... However...I realized that all of these events were played out by her like a master plan..she wrapped me up in her will and I was either trapped or too weak to break free or maybe I just didn't want to...hmmmm..it seems that I am willing to do what she says because I WANT to do so....I am one sick puppy I'm afraid...I better get to theray fast........... more................
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 07:45:14 Reply  On the day of my therapy appointment, she did in fact meet at the doctor's office, but she did a strange thing, she told me to NOT say anything about being being seperated..the doctor did NOT know that and hadn't seen us in almost 6 months, the last time we were here we were still living together..so i asked her why and she just said, let me do the talking..just go along...oh okay anything you say Hun... The visit was cordial and the Doctor said she was very pleased to see us so happy looking, the wife put on a great big show, she was holding my hand and making all kinds of shows of affection and telling the Doc we were going great and that we probally won't have to come back anymore because I was a totally NEW man and the wife kept profusely thanking the good Doctor for all her help and blah blah blah.... The doctor then turned to me and asked how i felt and what i thought, i felt her hand tightenen on mine..a signal from her...a non verbal signal..don't you dare fuck it up now.....I looked at the Doc and said ( a little robotically perhaps) oh yeah Doc...everything's been going great of late and I am so happy that we've reached a whole new place in our lives and relationship and yada yada yada,,blah blah blah..... The Doctor did give me an odd glance, paused before saying anything, looked us over, then smiled and said..hmmm yes..you do look much happier and I have great confidence in you both......by the time the session ended after a whole lotta blowing smoke up everybody's asses..it was over....we were pronounced cured and we were done.... When we got out of there, my wife leaned into me, kissed my cheek and said good boy, you did well..we don't need any distractions..let's get outta here..I gotta do a little shopping before I head home, care to join me?? I figured oh hell why not ( in the past, I'd NEVER go shopping with her ever if it could be avoided), I figured she's in such a good mood, I kinda like spending a little more time with her ( boy I really have changed..LOL)...so she was all happy and giggly and bubbly and kept a pretty good grip on my hand, which did NOT go un noticed by me..I liked that...... more...............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 08:06:34 Reply  The shopping she had in mind was NOT what I had expected..she went to a high end lingerie shop...very expensive place..very expensive and very exclusive....I was trapped and couldn;t escape this...she was there to get herself some red hot new lingerie for tomorrow night..oh jeez, why did I agree to go along??? I wasn';t a happy camper watching her be fawned over by the young sales girls, having her try this and then that...I gotta say though I did enjoy the view....these were some super HOT eye candy-girls working here and I also took notice of the very high end women shopping there too, there was even a stray guy here and there...hehehehe..... What blew me away was what she eventually chose...Black lace bra, panties, with a very high cut and black see through stockings and garter belt..the gater and stocking even had a skimpy thong that went with them in case she wanted that instead of the panties...holy shit this stuff was HOT and the sales girl kept complimenting her on the choice, saying yes...Black...it goes so well with your creamy white skin and lovely blonde hair, perfect together she said Black and Blonde..a perfect combo. I almost shit my pants when the girl said that and noticed my wife wink at her say, oh yes..black and blonde..that's EXACTLY what I had in mind..then she turned to me and said what do you think Hun?? I almost couldn't talk..I stammered welll it'll look great on you..yes...very nice or some such shit I babbled.......any semi little hard on I was trying to develope while checking out the eye candy instantly faded because I realized WHO this outfit was for and it sure wasn't for me. While my wife was paying for her purchase she and the sales small talked and I heard the girl say to her, excuse me Miss...my wife said that's Mrs._______ , the girl said oh yes of course, she said to my wife that she hoped that I would enjoy the outfit, because your husband doesn't seem to look so happy with your choice and usually when the husbands or significant others join the lady for their shopping here, well, the men are usually so much more ..how shoudl I say?? animated??excited perhaps ?? Perhaps you'd like to change your selection ??? My wife giggled and told her oh no, this is wonderful and I'm very happy with this and do love what you called this look, it never occured to me, so appropriate...BLACK AND BLONDE..very clever young lady..I like that !!! Then I saw the sales girl put her hand to her mouth to hide and stifle a little laugh..something was either said that i didn't hear or something was exchanged between these two..whatever it was I didn't know, but they BOTH sure shared something.........it was onto to the next stop...sheeshhhh........... more..........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 08:35:09 Reply  I wasn't too thrilled at this point..I told her was it really necessary to have me come along, I mean I KNOW who you're shopping for and WHY, I don't want to have my face rubbed in it you know, I was getting a little annoyed to say the least... She looked at my with a sudden hard look and said I was afraid of this, I knew it...we haven't even begun the 1st step and already your whinning ohhh booo hooo I don;t like it,,make it stop I wanna go home wha wha wha....stop it..stop it now..I will tell you ONE last time, get with the program, behave and don't spoil our time together, lord knows there won't be much alone time for us soon, so quit it will ya...then she smiled and took my hand again.... then I said oh okay hun..sorry about that you're right, I'm okay...just have to get used to all this. We then went to a jewelry store where my wife picked out and purchased a beautiful pearl necklace and matching braclet set..white pearls that were stunningly georgeous and stunningly expensive..holy shit, she has spent about 3 grand already and she isn't DONE yet !!! The last stop ( thank god) was another high end joint..this time..shoes....she took forever to choose and evetually she couldn't, so she merely bought three pairs, at 300 bucks a shot !!! 3 different pairs of black heels and matching handbags..gawd....this was outrageous...she's spending money like it was going out of style..I was a little pissed thinking now I know where all the child support must be going..she has an enourmous wardrobe already and it's growing bigger every day..shit.... When we were done, she said let's go grab a quick bite before I head home okay, my treat..(anything you say your higness), While eating,..I couldn;t resist..I asked ya know, I KNOW with your raise you're doing pretty good, way better then me and with my kick in for the house, you are definately doing well, but this??? isn't this a little how do you say?? exhorborant?? She waved her hand at me and said silly, I didn't pay for anything, including this meal....James' gave me his American Express Card...heheheh it's a freebie...he wanted me to go shopping on him and get whatever I wanted, so, that's what we just did....another added bonus Hun....oh my I feel terrible babe,, I never thought about you, would you like something, you can have anything, a new suit, shoes, ties, shirts, whatever you want..you can have !!! I saw a fantastic leather jacket that would look sooo good on you....let's get. it .come on...James won't care, believe me, this is mere pocket change to him you know....he's VERY generous and I think you deserve a little something too. My initail reaction was to turn her down flat, I ain't taking nothing and I really don't like how freely she's running around spending this guys cash, that thought musta been written on my face and she said to me..oh come. on .I still have a little time, I drove in today, so let's finnish and then get you something okay ?....then I thought fuck it why not, this guy is most likely going to be balling my dear wife tomorrow night, if not then, then surely sooner or later, so why not? he's loaded and I should get a little payback from him..besides I really don't like that fucker... We eneded getting that leather jacket and she was right, I looked like a killer in the thing, so soft and fashionable, highgrade leather..lambskin they said...beautiful jacket man, I'm going to love wearing this...my wife said ohh la la it's perfect..you look fantastic in it.....ahhh..nice.....I just had the fun and joy of spending 1300 dollars of the enemy's cash...whoopiiii for me !!! more...............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 08:43:15 Reply  When it was time for her to head home, she kissed me, on the lips this time, a little longer with something actually in..it was nice...a good liplock with my hunny bunny and a tight hug..her eyes all sparkly with affection, calling me her favorite pet name Slugger. She reminded me of tomorrow, that I call her before I left for work to confirm I was on the way and to try to get there as soon as possible, better if I could get there before the kids got there ( I kinda liked the sound of that..we'd maybe have a little time alone, at the house..hmmmm ya never know)..she kissed me again and said something to the effect that if she didn't leave she might do something stupid...heheheheh she giggled..me too and I stood at the curb waving her off..... more..............
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 09:14:29 Reply  When the big day arrived she called me like 5 times during the day, she seemed pretty nervous for some reason but didn't say on the phone, but she seemed like she needed to talk to me to get some kind of assurance. I tore ass outta work, hit the highway and sped all the way home ( a nice little benefit of being the police..I could speed and not worry) and speed I did, I made it up there in record time, a good hour before her sister was due to bring the kids home. having her sister close by was great, the wife told me that since I moved her sis really came to her aid and the kids usually got off the school bus at her place instead of ours cause their mother didn't make it home in time..so this worked out well. When I got inside I saw that she was in her robe and her hair was done up beautifully, the best I'd ever seen it, so shiny and silky, wonderfully thick straight blonde hair, no grey on this one..shoulder length which framed her face and neck perfectly..subtle streaks of different shades of blonde, even though she was naturally blonde she liked those highlight thingies and it did look good on her I must say. But what really got me was the make up job....this was NOT what I expected..she used little or no make for all the time I knew her and with the exception of our wedding day, I can't recall anything like this...perfection, not too much but enough to make her look ...different....younger maybe?? I wasn't sure, but her eyes had a slightly different shape now and her lashes looked thicker and her skin was flawless, perfectly smooth, slight blush on the cheeks and she had the sexiest shade of red lipstick and her nails had that double tone of matching red and white....fantastic.....I had to stand and admire her for a minute and I told her so..she smiled and said I'm glad you like it...I just got back from the salon not fifteen minutes before you got here and by the way...congrats Baby, you made record time...nice..... She waved me into the bedroom to show me her dress which was laid out on the bed....I'd never seen this one before, she said it was the results of another shopping spree and laughed, she picked it up and held it against her body for me to see...it was a beautiful plain black satin-y looking cocktail dress, those thin little, what they spaghetti straps, very elogant looking and it matched her well..that black on blonde theme she wanted. She said she choose this dress cause of it's plainness and I agreed it wouild NOT take away from HER..she would be the focus not the dress...man she was looking very very very good and my dick definately was stirring. She asked me which shoes and I couldn't tell one pair from another, but I picked a pair of nice heels, one of the new pair she bought yesterday and she said good choice, that was the pair I picked too..see? we think alike still donm't we and she laughed and came over to me and kissed me a peck on the cheek saying watch it, don't mess the make up okay and giggled.... She told me she spent the day getting ready and she was all set, bathed, pampered, powdered, styled ,made up, the works, even had her teeth whitened up some more..she said it took her damn near all day...this is work, but it'll be worth it......now....she said.....stand back Slugger...and...behold....... She stepped back and said drum roll please..I smiled cause I KNEW what was coming...she dramtically removed the robe...............HOLY MARY MOTHER OF GOD!!!!!!!!!!!..MY eyes! MY eyes!............. She took a quick step and slipped the heels on then started to pose and prance.....she had the black undies set on, the pearl necklace and braclet, but what got me were TWO things, the necklace was the type that went around her neck like a choker thing with a portion that hung like a pendant in front..sooo very tasteful and HOT HOT HOT and then I saw the little tiny single matching pearl stud in her belly button..holy fucking christ !!! I was stunned !!! I didn't even notice the same single pearl earrings until she directed my attention to them..I was way too busy staring at her , drinking in the WHOLE thing....wooooooo nelly !!!! The only other jewelry she had on was her wedding and engagement rings and she even asked me if she should keep them on ....she waited for an answer and I was still gawking and she said well, they're staying and THAT better be YOUR answer mister ! OMEGOSH.....wooo weee was she sooo freaking hot, then I noticed the body...oh the body oh the BODY !!!! this was NOT MY wife of old my man...this was one super toned, well proportioned, long , lean, alabaster porcelien doll here.. with perfect curves and long lean well defined FEMALE legs..the bra was a push up and man oh man what great boobs, she's got smallish to medium, a 34, but damn those babies were perfect and when she turned around and mocked bent at the waist giving me a sexy pose, the ass...oh the ass..perfect heart shaped ( she ALWAYS had a fine ass)..she sent with the thong and her cheeks were on full display..creamy white ...oh soooo inviting..my dick repodned like it used to rock hard, straining in my pants, I was seeing red lights, man.... more....................
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 09:24:36 Reply  While she was truned around giving ass eyecandy, she did that little hair flip thing and one eyed peek over her shoulder and said in that deeper husky voice while rotating that ass....c'mere slugger and cop a feel.... I didn't hesitate, I went to her and leanned in and caressed her lovely bare asscheeks gently, smoothly, she purred and she went ohhhh meowwwwww meowwwww...mmmmm ...she backed her ass up into my groin and went meowwww again and said in that same voice, this lil pussy feels something nice...ohhhhhh mmmmmm..she driving me fucking nuts, my cock was at FULL staff...I could feel the pre cum wetting my drawers..then she kinda danced away from me and said ....oh daddy....look at this kitty.....with that she backed uop to dressing table and leaned back on it and faced me....she peeld the fron of the thong away and there it was man........the gold.....the goods, man.....me, the heavy
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 09:53:50 Reply  Blonde bush she always sported was mostly gone now..in it's place was a perfect wax and trim job....perfect...I could see sweet pink lips with a perfectly cut and shaped V above, that pretty dark blonde color..oh jesus save me...never would I ever have believed this was MY wife..never ! I was overwhelmed....this is too much...my eyes were popping, so was my dick...I was sooo hard, I must have started to drool..she raised up one leg for a btter view andI could cleary see her little bud at the top of her lips...those lips looked a little moist too....she stood like that for a few seconds giving me a full look and then she asked..what do ya think?? all I could manage was a head shake up and down...yes yes yes......All I could say was like a groaning yeahhhhh baby.....yeah......I stood there nailed to the spot transfixxed at this sight...she gave me a real good long look at all this and I could no longer stop myself, I started to rub my dick through my pants with one hand while the other covered my mouth in disbelief..... She then kept her pose and said in that sexy voice...take it out...take it out......so I did and I let Willy hang out of my unzipped pants, hard as a rock with my fist wrapped tightly around it, the head was red as hell and drooling precum in a glob hanging a long string from the head..to my fingers and dripping off and onto the floor...she purred again saying oh my oh my....you're so hard and the head..oh yeah I love the head...mmmmmm....jerk it for me baby, I want to see you jerk it for me......I watched her while a started to stroke, she dipped her forefinger just barely into her pussy and then she stepped down and came towards me, she stood directly next to and placed one arm around me and the other, she bought her pussy scented finger to my nose and let me take it the wonderful aromoa.....ohhhh jesus...she looked down at my fist with theat hard dick poking in and out while I pumped and she smiled and said jerk it for me...do it...all the while let me sniff and lick her finger....mmmmsge reached out to her dresser and pulled a few tissues out and then held then near the head of my cock and then she laid it on good....that's it..jerk that fucking cock off baby...stroke that dick for me, I wanna see you cum..shot that big nutcream..bust those fucking balls..do it do it now...I was quickly losing it...I felt my balls tighten up, the shaft turn steel hard, the head expanding, the pulsing, the throbbing, my heart racing, my head spinning, my legs growing weak, I was clenching my asscheeks and asshole open and closed, I felt her arm drop from my waist and she squeezed my ass and told me one last time...cum...shoot it I want broken balls..break those balls now.... The place went all red it seemed, her voice, the words she used, her scent of perfume, her hot body next to me, all that creamy flesh with flashes of black and white pearls, blonde hair, the scent of her pussy in my nose................here it cums !!! I gritted my teeth, clenched up my ass hard and let it go...I blasted the first glob right OVER the tissues she was holding and then she quickly placed the tissues closer to catch the load..blast after blast, as hard a cum as ever I had, even more intense then that time we did it months ago..the first cum for me since then..intensity beyond my wildest dreams....I kept shooting....I musta have had 10 strong spurts, the most I can recall and then it subsided into drools and large drops, with cum strands hanging from the slit in the expanded head....oh my god look at that will ya....go cowboy!!! There was definately the aroma of man cum close in the air, I KNOW I could actually smell thatmale scent, so could she cause she made a big sniff sound and sadi yeah baby I LOVE that scent, smells like a man..smells like cum...mmmmmmshe held the tissue for a second and with one good glob still hanging from the slit, she reached her pussy finger down and ran it gently over the slit..I almost cried out, sooo sensitive, she teased it real bad...my cock jumped up and down and she teased another smaller glob out and then did something I will NEVER forget............... she bought her finger up to her nose and sniffed and went ohhhh ahhhhh ohhhh ahhhh goooooood...I love that man cum scent and then she flicked her tongue to her fingertip and took a little taste...the first time she ever had cum in her mouth ( as far as i knew anyway hehehehe) with her other hand, i felt it go to the back of my head and she turned me head and face towards her and she smiled and playfully bought her finger up to my face with some cum still on it and said... taste...take it baby..show me..taste....it makes me hot...do it....she placed her finger to my mouth and then I did what she asked I opened my mouth and wrapped my tongue around her finger and she started to fingerfuck my mouth with it.....she coooed oh yeah that's it...taste it, good yes??? I shook my head yessss.....when I cleaned her finger off, she sent to the tissue and got some more and we repeated the same thing, she would taste, then me... we did this a few more times until most of the cum was either gone or absorbed into the tissues..... more................
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 29 Feb 2008 10:12:33 Reply  This all happended pretty quick..just a few minutes actaully, but it seemed like time had stopped and stood still..this was by FAR the hottest experience I may ever had to this point in my life and of all the people in this great big world, it was with MY wife....I never would have believed she could be like this, look like this talk like this and be so fucking sexual and hot and alluring and teasing and seductive..I was mere putty in her hands and was GLAD to be, no make that THRILLED beyond all to be like that... I had even no real thought about tasting male cum ( while conscious anyway LOL) I was sooo taken in by the whole seductive process..I was just happy to be part of it..it was sensational and I will never forget it. After a minute or so of standing there and both of admiring our work,,she suddenly went oh shoot...we better cut this out and she giggled and said let's get cleaned and get moving, I want to be out of here before my sister gets here....I reluctantly agreed and we set off to cleaning up..... LIke ALL men, once you cum, your mind returns to reality...my bliss of just moments ago was replaced by some pit in the stomach feeling now..I KNEW what was coming, she was LEAVING and going to be with another man..this was all designed to be for the benefit of somebody else, not me..and I started to sink into a funk...I wasn't mad , just more sad. I cleaned up and she got fully dressed, took one last gander at her self and did any last second perps and then came out to me and looked me in the eyes and in a half whisper, with somewhat of a nervous look, she said...this is it....take a look..she posed again, this time fully dressed and I gave her my thumbs up sign and said...you are too beautiful for words my Love......my eyes started to tear up and my voice choked..and she had a look of genuine concern on her face and all she could do was say to me...yes..I know, I;m scared too, I'm thinking here, maybe we shouldn't.....for a second here I have hope..yeah lets's call this off....she then said..this is harder then I thought,,oh please Hunny, help me get through this and when it's over, it'll be just us and we'll do things like this whenever we want..but...now..I gotta get going...wish me luck.....I stood and muttered you don't need luck..god help James, he has no idea what he's in for..poor shmuck..she lajghed, kiss my a quicky ( on the lips at least) and out the door she went....I stood at the window and watched her call pull away and sadly watched the most wonderful, cunning, manipualtive, domineering, lovely, sweet, nasty, insulting, bitch of woman drive off.................... More later...........
shtdick Member 72	# Posted: 1 Mar 2008 07:26:53 Reply  After her car faded away..I was bought back to the moment and I wasn't feeling to good about all this again. My wife had never looked or acted tis ever before and I KNEW it was not for me and that was a thought I needed to push aside..better get ready for the kids...... My sister in law showed up..the proverbial soccer mom in her what else? mini van, with not only my two offspring, but her two as well. She got out and all the kids tore assed into the house and made for the downstairs playroom, not before stopping to greet me and beg to play PS2 BEFORE doing homework...no good I said..get that done first and then you can play..they all hit the books downstairs while the SIL and I talked for a bit. I've always gotten along pretty good with her and being the little sister by 4 years, my wife was always being her second mother when they were growing up. My SIL was a decently pretty woman but she didn't get the blonde hair..her's was brown, but she did have that wholesome, all american girl look, with a few freckles thrown in too..not bad..she looked pretty good as she got older too...but NOT in the same league as her big sister. I also knew she had a "reputation" years ago, I had heard some stories that she was everybody's little darling and as the rumors went, she gave quite a mean blowjob..but I never knew for sure and it was NEVER discussed by my wife, so they were just stories, no basis built on hard cold fact...anyway............. We small talked a bit, her telling me that she thought it was great that I got to spend all this time with the kids and blah blah blah....she was a bit of a nosey body so I had to be careful what I said around her, cause she immediatly started to pry about what's with this arrangement anyway..she gives you the boot, you're back, she's not around..what gives??Are you guys getting back together,,,blah blah blah.... She went on and on..non stop blabbering..I just kinda stood there and didn't really hear everything she said..my mind was on my wife and the scene that had just played a little while ago and what this night was going to bring.... my SIL never let up..talk talk talk, .............. Finally she said something that snapped me back...she mentioned something about my wife and her job..that caught my attention...she told me ya know, she's been a bit of drain and strain on me lately, especially since you moved...I don't mind of course, I know she needs help what with the house and kids and that job, but I just wish she would spend more time at home, I mean she's NEVER around here.....she's constantly going to the old well, meaning ME, and asking favor after favor, and it's always because she has to work..she goes down there and , I kid you not, she'll call very late and tell me that she can't make it back when she said and could I stay longer and such....I mean MY husband isn't thrilled ya know..I spend more time around here then I do in my own house ..she's never around what's up? All she tells me is that she's working. Then she brings this girl, Trudy here sometimes, to baby sit and at least I get a break, she NEVER hits on Mom to babysit anymore it seems, but this Trudy, she's here alot, didn't the kids mention her to you?? Ahh..Trudy?? who's trudy? and