fleshlight instead of sex with wife

I have thought of it, but haven't broached the subject yet. We do, howevere, have a strap-on with a large penis for her to ride as well...recently bought and not tried yet. She is afraid I can't handle it, since it is pretty big. In fact, we talked about it yesterday. She mentioned a two month break of all contact other than cuddling. After that, she may be open to the strap-on.

We'll see...

My wife and I are getting heavily into humiliation and have considered a fleshlight. Basically she’s not going to fuck me again until I can manage to last more than a minute (likely 10 minutes) and the fleshlight will be my practice tool. Is it true that it’s annoying to clean and prep for sex?

Not really...cleans up pretty easily and a little lube works great. And, it really does feel like what I remember my wife to feel like inside!

Cool, thanks! I think that decides it for us.

I rekon this guy is never getting in her ever again...

The biggest difference there is that I am no longer allowed to see my wife nude.

pirate, so you have zero sexual contact with her what's so ever?
Are you happy this way?

I wouldn't say 'happy', but I love her and am devoted to her. And, she didn't say it was forever, she may change her mind someday...at least I hope so.

My Wife just recently bought me something similar. Its not a fleshlight but its a clear jelly type with a moulded pussy on one end. She says that I only deserve a fake pussy since I don't have a real cock. Have only been allowed the pleasure of its use once so far. It has been over 2 1/2 years since I felt a pussy and I came in a matter of seconds with its use.
Really looking forward to it again since there is zero chance of ever getting the real thing again.
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Ultimate tease yesterday...my wife allowed me inside her (first time since May); allowed me a few strokes, then got up and left. Still frustrated, but at least I got to play with her breasts and for a minute or so got to remember what she feels like inside!

Hey denied cucks! I last posted in the sexless anniversary thread about my situation. In general I get sex ~once a year. Had it in June this year and after that in the heat of the moment I told my gf it would be hot if that was all I got for the year. She ran with it and until the new years my only orgasm will be coming from my hands. Its been pretty humiliating to have her lie back once I have gone down on her and tell me to finish up and watch as I hump my hand.

We have a fleshlight, which I asked if I could use, she said I'd be cheating on her and my hand so that I couldn't...very cruel. I think she might beat my balls as I jerk it tonight so that'll be exciting as I will at least feel her "touch" as I stroke...oh the joys of being a submissive wimp

What an exciting day! I woke up this morning, alone, as usual. My wife came into my bedroom wearing only panties. Her lover has not been over for a while and I was hoping she would maybe grant me a repeat of last week when she allowed me inside her for a few strokes, but no. Instead, she granted me an orgasm! And, she actually gave me a hand job, which she only rarely does. She allowed me to cum on her chest and I was looking forward to my normal clean up duties, but she grabbed a towel and wiped it off. I actually felt cheated, but am greatful for the much needed orgasm!

I recently had a birthday. and, as I expected, my wife ignored me (at least sexually.) However, today, after much begging on my part (yes, I know I'm pathetic) she agreed to a blow job. She timed me and allow me one minute inside her mouth, but no orgasm. She actually paused to look at the clock in the middle of the wonderful experience! When the minute was up, I started stroking my cock, expecting as usual for her to walk away, which she did, and not care if I continue to masturbate, which she did not! As she walked away, she said "The agreement was I would allow you inside my mouth for one minute, but you would 'let it hang with no orgasm.' I was both very excited and very frustrated as you can well imagine!

Naturally, I'm hoping for actual sex tonight (I know, I'm ever the optimist!) but I know deep down that I'll remain frustrated, probably for weeks, if not months more.

This morning I mentioned to my wife that I really enjoyed her hand and mouth on my cock yesterday and that being left 'frustrated' was both frustrating, but oddly enjoyable as well. She said that it isn't going to happen today and maybe not for a long time again. Naturally, being the pathetic loser I can be at times, I begged for her to stroke me a few times, agrgeeing to be left frustrated again. She moved her soft, wonderful hand to my cock, stroked it about three times and as she walked away said "You mean like that?"

I love my wife!

LAst night, my wife allowed me into her beautiful pussy! I was able to bring her to orgasm (yes, I know how to do that, even as a cuck) several times, but was not allowed to cum. Just after 'the big one', she pushed me off and said too bad, you should have cum. Now you'll have to wait until tomorrow...

I didn't sleep well, again.

I'm curious. Whayt does a fleshlight feel like? Is it anything like fucking a pussy? I just can't imagine actually getting off on one or one feeling good.

Yes, it does feel very much like what I remember pusy to feel like...minus the 'clenching' a woman can do with her muscles. But, as a masturbation device, it is one of the best out there!

I haven't been allowed inside since that night in September and didn't get to cum then.