fleshlight instead of sex with wife

My wife and I are getting heavily into offense and have considered a fleshlight. Basically she’s not going to fuck me again until I can manage to last more than a minute (likely 10 minutes) and the fleshlight will be my practice tool. Is it true that it’s annoying to clean and prep for sex?

Not really...cleans up pretty easily and a little lube works great. And, it really does feel like what I remember my wife to feel like inside!

Cool, thanks! I think that decides it for us.

I rekon this guy is never getting in her ever again...

The biggest difference there is that I am no longer allowed to see my wife nude.

pirate, so you have zero sexual contact with her what's so ever?
Are you happy this way?

I wouldn't say 'happy', but I love her and am devoted to her. And, she didn't say it was forever, she may change her mind someday...at least I hope so.

My Wife just recently bought me something similar. Its not a fleshlight but its a clear jelly type with a moulded pussy on one end. She says that I only deserve a fake pussy since I don't have a real cock. Have only been allowed the pleasure of its use once so far. It has been over 2 1/2 years since I felt a pussy and I came in a matter of seconds with its use.
Really looking forward to it again since there is zero chance of ever getting the real thing again.
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Ultimate tease yesterday...my wife allowed me inside her (first time since May); allowed me a few strokes, then got up and left. Still frustrated, but at least I got to play with her breasts and for a minute or so got to remember what she feels like inside!

Hey denied cucks! I last posted in the sexless anniversary thread about my situation. In general I get sex ~once a year. Had it in June this year and after that in the heat of the moment I told my gf it would be hot if that was all I got for the year. She ran with it and until the new years my only orgasm will be coming from my hands. Its been pretty humiliating to have her lie back once I have gone down on her and tell me to finish up and watch as I hump my hand.

We have a fleshlight, which I asked if I could use, she said I'd be cheating on her and my hand so that I couldn't...very cruel. I think she might beat my balls as I jerk it tonight so that'll be exciting as I will at least feel her "touch" as I stroke...oh the joys of being a submissive wimp

What an exciting day! I woke up this morning, alone, as usual. My wife came into my bedroom wearing only panties. Her lover has not been over for a while and I was hoping she would maybe grant me a repeat of last week when she allowed me inside her for a few strokes, but no. Instead, she granted me an orgasm! And, she actually gave me a hand job, which she only rarely does. She allowed me to cum on her chest and I was looking forward to my normal clean up duties, but she grabbed a towel and wiped it off. I actually felt cheated, but am greatful for the much needed orgasm!

I recently had a birthday. and, as I expected, my wife ignored me (at least sexually.) However, today, after much begging on my part (yes, I know I'm pathetic) she agreed to a blow job. She timed me and allow me one minute inside her mouth, but no orgasm. She actually paused to look at the clock in the middle of the wonderful experience! When the minute was up, I started stroking my cock, expecting as usual for her to walk away, which she did, and not care if I continue to masturbate, which she did not! As she walked away, she said "The agreement was I would allow you inside my mouth for one minute, but you would 'let it hang with no orgasm.' I was both very excited and very frustrated as you can well imagine!

Naturally, I'm hoping for actual sex tonight (I know, I'm ever the optimist!) but I know deep down that I'll remain frustrated, probably for weeks, if not months more.

This morning I mentioned to my wife that I really enjoyed her hand and mouth on my cock yesterday and that being left 'frustrated' was both frustrating, but oddly enjoyable as well. She said that it isn't going to happen today and maybe not for a long time again. Naturally, being the pathetic loser I can be at times, I begged for her to stroke me a few times, agrgeeing to be left frustrated again. She moved her soft, wonderful hand to my cock, stroked it about three times and as she walked away said "You mean like that?"

I love my wife!

LAst night, my wife allowed me into her beautiful pussy! I was able to bring her to orgasm (yes, I know how to do that, even as a cuck) several times, but was not allowed to cum. Just after 'the big one', she pushed me off and said too bad, you should have cum. Now you'll have to wait until tomorrow...

I didn't relax well, again.

I'm curious. Whayt does a fleshlight feel like? Is it anything like fucking a pussy? I just can't imagine actually getting off on one or one feeling good.

Yes, it does feel very much like what I remember pusy to feel like...minus the 'clenching' a woman can do with her muscles. But, as a masturbation device, it is one of the best out there!

I haven't been allowed inside since that night in September and didn't get to cum then.

Yesterday I made my purchase. I bought a harness that was designed for men to use. There is an opening for my cock and balls to hang below as well as a butt plug attachemnt, which I removed...maybe next time I'll use it. As I was using it on my wife for the first time, I was amazed at the sensations you take for granted during sex. Obviously, my cock felt nothing at first, although once I got a rythm going, my head would slide into her ass crack, which felt wonderful! She responded just like she does with her lovers, by wrapping her legs around me and urging me deeper inside her. The beauty of sex in this manner was her enjoyment coupled with my frustration. When she had orgasmed to her satisfaction, she simply pushed me away and snuggled up next to me on the bed. As we lay there cuddling, she reached over and began stroking my cock. She stroked faster and faster, but stopped before I could cum, and got up and left. I was instructed to use my fleshlight if I wanted to cum...which I did.

What a night!

my wife bought me a melon, cut a hole in the end and made me fuck it whilst she watched me, she said it was the nearest thing to a pussy i was going to get....very humiliating, then after i had cum in it she cut me some slices and made me eat it.

This thread reminded me of this picture series: The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

My wife wickedly got me excited and took me to the edge of orgasm when she knows I am weak and vulnerable and easily manipulated.
She then made me beg for her to forbid me any sex! Forcing me to admit that I " want it that way" and that I dont deserve it.
She also powerd me to agree that she can be unfaithful to me anytime she wishes and that I will accept it without complaint.
As an " insurance" she took video clips and photos of me feminized and powering me to admit that I am a Gay sissy faggot. She even made me agree that for the rest of my life if ever I was allowed sex it would be by being used by another man!!!

So now she well an truly has me under her total control as she threatens to send these photos ( some of which are in her iphone ) to my friends or family if ever I do complain about anything!

I feel totally dominated, used and submissive for real!!!! ( and stangely enough it is not an unpleasant situation!)

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Welcome to the club! My wife has always made a point of making me beg for the various humil-iations and deprivations she devises. Among other things, I have begged her unknown numbers of times to never, ever let my cock know the inside of a pussy, ass, or mouth (hers or anyone else's) and now never to know the touch of a hand other than my own. Each item was taken progressively, but the begging to stick with it - and the thanking her for "being so strong for me," never seems to stop (or to stop amusing her.)


Yes, our lives are quite similar! My wife has never blackmailed me this way (it would have been hot for me, but it wasn't something she was interested in) but there are plenty of pictures and, or course, now there are many who know anyway. But limiting all my future partners to men - that has happened. As usual, it has become something I am required to beg her for (sometimes before witnesses) regularly. The one twist we have is that I have been barred from coming this way myself. I can pleasure men and have them please me, but I can't come except with my blow-up doll.

It has become almost the goal of my life now to convince her to relent and let me orgasm with a guy. And yes, that I have come to this remains indescribably hot to me.
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The photos in the link posted by Zombiewoofer3 on Nov. 12, 2012 were kinky hot ! Who else here thinks pirateinthemountains should have his wife place the Fleshlight inside her vagina and then let him fuck it? Maybe take some photos or a video and post them ?

Hey Pirateinthemountains :
You need to ask your wife to let you fuck her in the Fleshlight and then post the photos or videos of it on here, since she will never let you have any of her real pussy again ! !!! I want to see her make you beg for it while you fuck the artificial pussy !!!!!!!

Totally agree with isandman,so hot to see that

She won't do it. She won't even let me use it while she is in the same room with her.

Awww ! I wanted to see her deny you the use of her artificial pussy cum hole ! !! !!!!!!

She won't let you use the artificial pussy to cum in her when you are in the same room with her ? Can I cum in her hot cunt while you watch ? Please ?

anyone been made to use a blowup doll whilst their wife watches ??

isandman02 -- She might allow that, except you're 2000 miles away.