iwashyde
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#1 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 01:19 · Edited by: iwashyde
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iwmwtcm
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#2 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 01:30
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Take advantage of the situation to reassure her that you love her and will be there for her no matter what.
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Allen
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#3 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 03:56
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Sorry to hear that. Its not that easy to find someone you can really trust without putting a lot of time into it. Now is you time to really step up and make her feel like the queen she is. Take her out, cuddle her, and do everything she likes to support her. Time to put aside the cuckold in you and bring out the man in you.
Good luck and remind your wife that she is strong and doesn't need to be disrespected.
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nocluescooby
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#4 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 03:57
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I second reassuring her that you still love her. Additionally you could treat her to a day of beauty at a day spa. Women always love this, and she will appreciate the thought.
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iwashyde
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#5 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 20:57 · Edited by: iwashyde
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WhiteWolf
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#6 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 23:24
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Hopefully in time she will find a new boyfriend  |
rdvrk
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#7 Posted: 9 Nov 2009 23:56
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Oh, what a shame! I was really enjoying your updates. I'm always fascinated by couples that are in a similar situation to ours.
Anyway, a good opportunity to treat her like a princess and remind her that you're always there for her. My wife went through a totally hellish breakup a few years ago, and it brought us a lot closer in many senses. I spent a lot of time comforting her and taking care of her broken heart. It took her quite a while before she was ready to date again.
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iwashyde
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#8 Posted: 10 Nov 2009 04:03 · Edited by: iwashyde
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cigarman
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#9 Posted: 11 Nov 2009 20:33
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iwashyde
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jamie427
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#10 Posted: 12 Nov 2009 19:48
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Tell her that she will find another guy soon, and encourage her to start looking as soon as she is ready. My wife cried for two weeks after her last break up, but she has a new boyfriend now, and everything is going very well for all of us.
jamie
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cuck4princess
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#11 Posted: 13 Nov 2009 16:30
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Next time she's out on a date you oughta fix the tile next to the bathtub, man. How's she supposed to climb in and take a nice bubble bath with a step like that?
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PalmCoastCouple
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#12 Posted: 13 Nov 2009 18:34
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It's funny how people on here forget that emotions are also part of the Hotwife-Cuck lifestyle. 99% of the fantasizers here post only about sex, sex, sex... but those of us who actually live it realize that feelings are a part of the deal.
The head rush of a new lover can just as easily become a crushed heart if things don't work out. Rejection, breakups, spats... those are no easier for a married woman dating someone.
My wife tends to go through highs and lows, riding the wave when she finds someone new (like now), but experiencing the downside when they part ways. You have to be extra supportive, loving and reassuring during those times. Time will heal the sting. A rebound guy could help, but ONLY if she initiates it. Don't try to force someone on her (it will backfire). Most of all, remember that women need their husband to always be there 100%... so be there for her. This too shall pass, and if you do your part she'll be looking for the next guy soon enough.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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ch72278
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#13 Posted: 13 Nov 2009 21:07 · Edited by: ch72278
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Umm, I might be Wrong but even if she didnt say no, It still could be considered R-A-P-E.
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wifedateshubwaits
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#14 Posted: 14 Nov 2009 23:33
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Quoting: PalmCoastCouple You have to be extra supportive, loving and reassuring during those times. Very true words. It's times like these where you need to be strong. Let her know that you are there for her. |
Johnnyangplay
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#15 Posted: 16 Nov 2009 15:00
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I would definitely suggest just comforting her and making her realize that she can trust you. Once she's back in the right headspace to try to trust someone again, then go out and try finding a new guy. Let her do that though, and don't force it on her. That's just not going to help anything.
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atlas332000
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#16 Posted: 25 Nov 2009 10:49
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no anal sex
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rdvrk
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#17 Posted: 4 Jan 2010 00:46
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Hey, how are you guys doing?
My wife is also in the process of breaking up with her long-term boyfriend, but it's a friendly breakup. She says she needs some time off of dating, we'll see where that goes.
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