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Kokcold girl
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# Posted: 27 Dec 2007 09:30:04
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hubby keeps saying "go, go" and makes up rules that I agree to--namely, any1, anytime, anywhere. But this is not how the reality shows up. Apparently, my "anyone" definition is different than his and I'm s'posed 2 kno this. I'm kinda @ a loss here. He gets really hot when I'm playing but then the "rules" aren't good enuf. I REALLY like playing and have no shortage of takers. But getting them convinced and setting up a date and then being told no is not only frustrating but makes me come off flaky to these men--which makes it harder to get another date. I DO try to schedule dates during non-family time. The 2x he's played, the women got WAY to attached and some of the reasons were how he played the situation, i.e. single women acting the damsel in distress. And I got upset by these situations. So, he won't play anymore. I do realize that some jealousy is part of the humiliation he wants. But I don't want that--which makes it hard for me 2 share the experience. If he's being "cool" about it, i can share but if he acts, in the least, that it bothers him, I shut down. Now, we're to the point where I have 3 guys interested and am afraid of doing anything to further any of the situations. Him? Hung up on the size of his penis. And now I can't get off with him or by myself. And don't say counseling. This is not something that a counselor would suggest anything other than "quit that lifestyle". This won't work 'cause I don't know that I can quit. I think he's koko cuck on here and has posted before. But we need some feedback. Where to go? What to do? Are we being unreasonable?
Kok's girl
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joguy
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# Posted: 27 Dec 2007 18:31:10
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are you two on different computers in the same house? or the same one at different times. interesting story anyway, and you look like a hot couple. good luck finding that middle ground so you can continue to enjoy your perversions. hope you keep us updated too.
joguy
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joguy
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# Posted: 27 Dec 2007 22:24:50
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you two are funny using your laptops, and I love the way she holds your penis in her fingers
joguy
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draclif69
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# Posted: 27 Dec 2007 22:39:36
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We have something in common...by myself or by herself, we haven't been able to give my wife an orgasm in about a month. It's basically shut down. Nothing works, not her big dildo, not her fav vibrator, not my mouth and finers and certainly not my dick. It's actually causing us to feel disconnected and making us nervous. She hasn't dated or fucked anyone which means I haven't been cucked yet. She flirts online and gets very excited when she does but she sucks at it and so it usually doesn't go anywhere. I want her to get royally fucked by a real cockmaster but that's not yet happened. She's not really pursuing it either. That means that, so far, we're fighting mental deamons. I'll be interested to hear about any breakthroughs you have in this area.
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Kokcold girl
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# Posted: 28 Dec 2007 03:08:45
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draclif69--i tried the online flirting. It sux. You get a lot of single wannabes who either aren't really men, young, or good-looking as they make out. And women (or at least me) have to kinda know the other party (male or female). I quit doing the online thing.
On another note, me getting on here and getting some feedback has helped OUR sex life. I may even get to go out & play w/o hurting US.
Kok's girl
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nhsouthguy
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# Posted: 29 Dec 2007 07:25:27
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What you really need for a good orgasm is some passion and excitement, either with each other, or with someone else. Have to get back to the mental state that you were in when it was all exciting, etc. - and just let go of any inhibitions and go for it, knowing that it can really have a positive effect, not a negative effect. Maybe something that is briefly secret, etc. - something that generates excitement and passion.
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nhsouthguy
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# Posted: 29 Dec 2007 07:26:49
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What you really need for a good orgasm is some passion and excitement, either with each other, or with someone else. Have to get back to the mental state that you were in when it was all exciting, etc. - and just let go of any inhibitions and go for it, knowing that it can really have a positive effect, not a negative effect. Maybe something that is briefly secret, etc. - something that generates excitement and passion.
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Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
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# Posted: 15 Jan 2008 03:07:25
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You two will have fun... when you learn to communucate every feeling, desire, fantasy and expectation for your selves, each other and anyone you may choose to bring into your relationship.
KokomoCuck As a cuck you must learn to deal with your emotions, realize that your a secondary party to wife and her lover, you are for their enjoyment in humiliting you, ordering you about, dressing you up, and having you serve their needs, or maybe just sitting at the foot of the bed or another room, maybe even thinking about them making love in your own bed as my wife does to me. (WHILE I AM AT WORK) I am always dressed in fem underwear, bras, silicone breasts, fem shoes, and such so she can humiliate me in public. Jeanne often talks very openly about how I do not please her and her lovers can in public. I had some very insecure feelings at first but by taking those feelings and turning them inward to my self and into my fantasies I have discovered that I am very turned on knowing that I can no longer please my wife. I want her to love her boyfriend more then me the pethetic little sissy fag she married, hell it's the only way I can cum anymore! I need more and more each time. I am addicted and she loves giving it out to watch me stroke my little pee pee with two fingers and leak sissy juice into my panties. The feelings of insecurity and inadequacy will soon subside and you will find happiness while a bigger cock makes your wife feel like the woman she is, you will look foward only to cleanning up his seed from her and stroking your little dick while they cuddle, kiss and humiliate you.
Kokcold girlTake control be decisive and firm with your cuck. lead him down the path he so longs for (as all sissies do). We being sissies will have our pouts and tantrums, our little hissy fits and we will even cry at times. Thats what we do after all we are sissies not real men. Jeanne has taken all my male underwear and had me publicly throw them away in the laundry-mat. This was done for two reasons, 1- she established control (she pics out my panties and underclothes everyday) and two she emasculated me in public. She has me shave head to toes, wear only female perfume and keep my toenails painted 24/7 this is to keep me in check and at all times knowing full well that I can be exposed as the sissy I am even if she just wants to get a little giggle for fun or if I piss her off. Your cuck is there for you first and foremost if he loves you as I see he does he will follow where you lead. Take control of him and reinforce the big cock is what you need and he can not offer. The sooner you are the dominant one the sooner he will take the submissive role and you and your lover can become a couple with a sissy tagging along for your use and ejoyment.
Above an beyond all else be honest and always love one another enough to realize this is what you both want... sorry if I ranted and rattled along... Just thoughts from a succesfully cuckolded sissy who learned to deal with wifes secret affair by becomming submissive and sissified because it suppressed the macho bullshit that went through my head that I absolutely hated myself for. The best thing that ever happened to me as a person was my wife cheating on me!! It has made me love her in ways that were once unimaginable..... Good luck to you both... all the best is yours.
Sissy Jess
Sissy fag Jess... come and clean up my pussy now you little fag!
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KokcoldGirl
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 17:01:14
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Sissy Jess
I can't do it. I can play the game, to an extent. I GET that he wants to explore his fem side and some humiliation. I GIVE him that. But it's not 24/7 for us. I want him to still be a man. And he can't give the the control of being a man all the time. So, we're backing off of me being so dominant. I'm quite submissive and so we're slowing down a bit.
However, i do appreciate everyone's advice and encouragement. Just a little lost and new to this part of the lifestyle.
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Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
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# Posted: 21 Jan 2008 04:14:36
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KokcoldGirl
Hi Jeanne here,
First you are right for backing off if that is what you want. We did at one time too. I thought I wanted Pat(male name) and Jess too, well long story short after meeting a great lover with a great cock I could care less about Pat and I love having a more submissive Jess around me as of late. Altough Pat still does all the man stuff around and even repairs our vehicles, builds, repairs, landscapes, and anything else I want ( infact to see him on any given day you would never know as an outsider that he is a sissy) (of course there are the select few and lots and lots of strangers who know Sissy Jess) I to am not a whole lot dominant in nature although having sissy being submissive has brought out some what of dominance in myself towards Jess. I commend you for being honest in your relationship and taking steps that you need to keep your love going. You will both need to realize what each other needs and compromise to keep one another happy. It will work and you will be just fine... Hugs Jeanne
Sissy fag Jess... come and clean up my pussy now you little fag!
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