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redimac
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# Posted: 15 May 2008 18:08:51
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I posted this in another thread, but perhaps it helps clarify my personal thoughts:
I don't care if cucks are gay bi or whaterver.... I do have an intellectual curiosity as to how they think about themselves however.
I still say, most cucks I come across are closet gays, and very few are really open w/ their wife about their orientation. And then there are those who prob are gay, but don't have a clue.
Like any orientation, gayness is very blurry, particulary in this lifestyle, yes?
Joe Preston
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gussie
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# Posted: 15 May 2008 18:26:48
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I don't know about orientation, I do know that I am attracted to both men and women. My wife knows about it, because she joins me on occasion, she likes men, and has had sex with women.
I have been called quite a few things both on line and in person, I don't label myself I leave that to others, I think of my self as a versatile opportunist.
Now I expect some men will think I am gay, and some will not. Have I engaged in gay sex, yes I have, did I enjoy it, yes I did. Have I engaged in hetero sex, yes I have did I enjoy that yes I did. I am not exclusive as to gender, just exclusive who I partner with.
Most of my male partners who met with me and the wife are married, sometimes their wives also joined, and sometimes I cannot lie were with single men, normally I take the submissive role. It has nothing to do with guilt or anything like that. I like to please people, whether it be men or women.
I don't fanatasize about just one gender, but I have fantasies about both, am I in the closet, with most people I probably am. My wife knows as welll as a few close friends, but to the outside world I appear to be a normal middle aged man, I pay my bills take care of my children and go to work. because of my job, I am very discreet with my lifestyle, some people do not understand anything they don't want to.
Would I turn down an encounter with a woman or a man, depending on how they present themselves probably not. Would I choose one over another, again it depends on how they present themselves.
There is a lot of pressure in today's society to come out one way or another, but being stubborn I will probably continue to have sex with both genders just to have fun.
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afwmisom
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# Posted: 15 May 2008 18:30:48
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redimac, are you mixed race? curious as to your own experience.
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redimac
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# Posted: 15 May 2008 19:10:04
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gussie
Good for you. I for one enjoy being with someone who clearly likes being in his own skin.
afwmisom
Mixed? Not that I know of... I'm sure that you know from my musings that I'm a bull. I guess that if I have a label, I'd be pretty much straight...but then I do have a complete fascination with this lifestyle. I'm not interested in cucks sexually, use them in every way up to but short of physical sex to heighten the process with his hot wife? You bet. It’s simple for me really, the complexities of a cuckhold/hotwife/bull relationship is an overwhelming high for me.
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justtheguy
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# Posted: 31 May 2008 14:04:30
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Quoting: hot4it31 I fail to see how a black alpha male asserting his dominance over a little white sissy in any way could possible suggest homosexual tendancies.
First clue to identify homosexual behavior: when you are a guy fucking/sucking/being fucked/being sucked by another guy...you're gay.
Use whatever dom/sub rationalization makes you feel better, but as Dice Clay put it, either you suck dick, or you do not suck dick, there is no middle ground.
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redimac
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# Posted: 3 Jun 2008 17:57:43
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justtheguy
You got it..pretty much. But most involved would argue that the line is much more gray.
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redimac
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# Posted: 2 Jul 2008 02:07:13
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Just rererad this thread... I'm still learning.
Joe Preston
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subhub174014
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# Posted: 2 Jul 2008 02:29:48
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I don't think i agree with you.
Come to think of it by looking at some of the stuff here maybe you are right. But I don't consider myself gay or bi or anything I guess. I feel that I am a true cuck! I do enjoy watching her and yes I enjoy the creampie,but I have to be worked up watching or something to really get into it. Also I have cleaned him a couple of times AFTER,but then agin it was the heat of the moment. I have ne desire to have a man touch me in anyway,nor do I wish to pleasure him in some way as that would be cheating my wife out of her pleasure and ultimately mine as well. I am definately not into the womens clothes or any other kink that seems to be here....just being a cuck!
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lessthanfive
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# Posted: 4 Jul 2008 05:46:19
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I think you're way off base. I don't know who you are talking to but I think that they were speaking out of some kind of weird eroticized fantasy and not talking reality when they said that stuff, if they said that stuff, to you.
As far as the cuckolding fantasy goes, it has probably a million variations. And the whole "you must be gay" thing shows you don't understnd it in the least. Cuckolding is a form of humiliation play, which is often IMHO engaged in by people who are in control and highly effective in real life. They like to enjoy the other side of things in play or sex life. For me, if I enjoyed men, the thoughts of contact with men or creampies etc. would not be humiliating in an erotic way, they would just be straight gay sex. I don't like men, it would be humiliating, and the humiliation excites me.
But then again, your posts and your tendency to want to comment on everything is generally annoying to me as well, so maybe I am being a little harsh.
I think you're probably a white guy wearing his mommy's panties, or perhaps one who really is gay.
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