Pussy free for 1 year - celebration ideas.

My 1st anniversary of being pussy free is coming and I was looking to celebrate in some way. I'll be with my wife on vacation 2 days after the official date so we will have the time to do something special then. I was hoping to get a few ideas from this forum.

Right now my only plans include making a cake. I searched for recipes with cum in the icing, but it looks like I'll have to experiment with that on my own.

I did find this:
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I am aware that without knowing me or my wife it would be difficult to think of something appropriate, but I'm open to ideas. The only idea that I have come up with, other than a cake, is the addition of a chastity belt. Pussy free and erection free. Right now I can come whenever I want, as long as I'm not in her.

If you celebrated your first pussy free year with your wife, what would you do?

Thank you so much!

male chastity is a definite must. Maybe wear a strap-on at the same time and fuck her with the strap-on, making her cum but not you! Go down on her wet cunt when you've finished, perhaps suggest you find her a hung stud for her to celebrate with privately?

If your wife has denied you her pussy for a year and you feel the need to celebrate that,
you need to be in chastity. Trust me, you'll be much happier after she gets you caged.

There is something about a married male being pussy-free that helps put cuckolding into perspective. It is a great feeling to know that you're not man enough to fuck and an awesome feeling when you realize that you will never have intercourse again! It's just plain comforting to know that you'll never again have the pressure or anxiety to have to try to perform sexually with a woman.

I fully agree that chastity is a given. I further believe that castration should be the ultimate goal in a cuckold marriage but unfortunately many feel that is too extreme. I have always been fascinated by the thought of a voluntary de-balled eunuch husband, which is my goal.

I would strongly consider some form of homosexuality as a celebration for being pussy-free. Not having sex with a women almost suggests that you should be having sex with a man. Being cut-off from my spouse years ago and her constant humi!iation (at my request) was definitely the catalyst to me turning gay. Years of her and her ex-husband only allowing me to view gay porn was also a strong contributor to me now being a card-carrying homosexual. For your pussy-free celebration, I would suggest that you and your spouse spend the evening at a gay bar where you can dance with the men and then see what happens from there. Be sure to tell the guys what you and your spouse are celebrating. Maybe you can go to an adult book store and spend some quality time in the booths with some needy men. Maybe you can suggest that your spouse hire a gay male or a transvestite stripper to come to your home and put on a show for the pussy-free boy. Just make sure that the stripper is fully aware of the reason for the celebration. That should make it more interesting.

Congratulations on being pussy-free for a year and I hope that you can continue being pussy-free indefinitely. Welcome to the club and good luck!


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I ordered a chastity belt from China. Let's see how it goes. We have a strap-on but that seems too much like PIV sex. Maybe it will be feel less like sex while in chastity. A hung stud would be completely up to her, but I can suggest it.

I can understand why people feel castration is extreme. If you lose the balls I think you will lose the rest of the attraction.

I know that she would want to see gay sex. This is a very interesting suggestion. I've never done something like for her.

Thanks for the answers!

You don't have to become 'gay' in order to achieve this, Letting the Bull fuck you and sucking him off should be more than enough to show him your $ubmi$$ion to a superior male.

Congratulations, although an odd thing to be celebrating it is indeed v erotic and allows you to focus so much more on the pleasure of your wife.
I know from personal experience, as I have not had my dick in my wifes pussy for about 16months, that it really does become all about HER pleasure.
Much respect

The belt came. I did a test fit and it went well. It is obvious that I need some hair removed. I bought a strap-on harness that should work with the belt. It has a triangle mount, I inverted it so the point is facing upwards. That seems fine. Now I am counting the days (September).

fit test

Congrats! You are now as you should be.

So linuxcat, what is the actual anniversary date of you being pussy-free?

I personally love the liberating feeling of being married to an attractive woman and being pussy-free. I also love the delicious humi1iation of some of our family members and friends knowing that we no longer have sex and that I am totally fussy-free. Preferring Cock to pussy has been a natural progression for me.

I hope you can relish the joy of being pussy-free throughout your marriage!


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Nice! lol

linuxcat, any update?


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Absolutely!


Glad to hear you're taking advice seriously.

linuxcat - Are you still pussy-free?



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Any other husbands (cuck or not) enjoy being in a pussy-free marriage? If so, who made the decision to forbid intercourse for hubby? Was it the husband, wife, lover, or some mutual combination? How long have you been happily pussy-free? Do you admit to your friends or family members that you are no longer allowed intercourse and that you prefer it that way? Would really like to hear from the husbands that truly prefer their marriage to be permanently pussy-free and your feelings on remaining celibate 'as long as you both shall live.'


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mwfslutforbm

I'm as close to pussy-free as you can get. My wife weaned me off pussy starting in 1992. I'm finally to the point that I don't miss it any more. I get lots of sex, just no more pussy.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life

This is an excellent attitude which is (fortunately) shared by many men who love all things woman; yet thankfully prefer her sexuality to be satisfied by other men. This generally works best when the gentleman feels very happy whenever she keeps him pussy free. The wife understands hubby's lack of sexual desire, accepts her freedoms and has no hurt feelings.

Celebration should reflect hubby's sincere appreciation of wifey freeing him from his sexual obligations to her by keeping him pussy free. Vacation, jewelry or any gift that honors her and brightens her eyes is appropriate for the occasion!


Plenty of guys feel very relieved once the wife takes her pussy off limits. Celebrations should be often. She needs to know that denial of her pussy always keeps you keenly aware of her desirability! You can't thank her enough! This is her only real reward for denying you her pussy!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Pussy-free is the only way to be for me!

I am both amazed and gratified for how completely I have shifted to now actually being turned-off at the mere sight of a woman's puss while constantly being excited by simply thinking about Cock. It's weirdly wonderful when I stop to think that as a male that has been married to a beautiful woman for nearly 30 years, I am PROUD to be pussy-free for over 24 years while relishing in being a queer faggot cocksucker. All the while being thankful that her ex-husband stepped into our marriage and took the reins of her neglected sex life while making me pussy-free. I love being a cuckold hubby!


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wife is in the process of ween me off pussy right now. I lay next to her now knowing I wont get to fuck her so my cock stays soft even while she lets me lick her.

Obelix1

Penetrative sex is so overrated and a cunt is kind of gross. I love being pussy-free and my wife really likes it.

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Just a short update:

I'm pussy-free for nearly three years now, only 2 more months to go. At the end of February, on the 26th, it'll be three years. My wife weaned me down and finally off of pussy, and even when I wrote my last post on this thread, I didn't know for sure if I was done fucking yet. However, I am restricted to hand jobs only from my wife, and occasionally eating her pussy, even though eating her has become only once or twice a year.

There weren't any celebrations or official announcements, and I still need to reach the point of being permanently impotent. My wife says she can't wait until I'm limp forever, and I'm looking forward to it as well. I keep thinking it's going to be here any day, but it's really taking it's time.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life

I'm not entirely pussy-free, but pretty close.

My wife and I have been practicing denial almost since we started dating. For most of the last 10 years, she has kept me locked in a chastity device 24/7 at my request. During that time, she would let me out for "a little teasing" every week or so, but my orgasms were restricted to every 4-6 weeks, the longest period to date being 3 months.

When we play, she sends me to the bedroom to get the bed ready by putting a towel down in the center for me to lay on, get out her favorite toys, and wait for her. Occasionally she will have me restrain myself to the bed when I'm done (as much as I can solo). She will come to the bedroom and secure my restraints and head off to the bathroom. She always likes to shower before and after sex, so I'm only able to wait, tied to the bed, with my modest erection bobbing around until she returns.

She always emerges from the bathroom, naked and smiling. When she approaches the bed she likes to ask me what it is that I want. By this time I am usually in such a horny state that I can barely spit out words. I usually stammer out something like "make me beg you to not be allowed to cum" or "make me eat my cum". I'm not very original and have difficulty elaborating on my deeper fantasies.

From there, she will lay down on the bed, with her head towards my feet, drape one leg over my chest and scoot up so that her shaved pussy is just barely out of reach of my tongue. She will then proceed to fuck herself with her favorite dildo, which is easily twice as big as me in both length and girth. While she makes me watch that monster cock slide in and out of her pussy, lips firmly gripping its sides, she'll ask me "Is that what you wanted to see?" "Do you like watching me?" From time to time she will stop and move closer so I can strain to reach her pussy with my tongue. But will then use her heel to push my head back on the pillow to just watch in frustration while she finishes herself off with her favorite vibrator.

When she's had enough, she may end our play time and have me lock myself back up. Or if I'm particularly lucky, she will climb on top of me at start edging me with her hand. After long periods of chastity, my cock is extremely sensitive, so every touch is electric. She knows she could make me cum in seconds if she wanted, but draws it out until I'm delirious with lust.

If I manage to calm down enough, she may put my cock inside her. Although it's usually only for just a few strokes just so I "ddon't forget what I'm missing." Fucking me until I cum almost never happens. I get to finish inside her maybe once a year. When I am allowed to cum, it's by her hand almost exclusively. More often than not, without letting me cum, she will then ask me if I've had enough, and regardless of my answer, she will slowly ease up on the teasing until she stops completely.

Once I calm down, she unties me and has me put my chastity cage back on.

At this point it's almost a ritual. We don't vary the recipe very much because it seems to do the trick for both os us consistently. The only thing I would change, other than convincing her to cuck me, would be to make good on her threat to restrict my orgasms to 3-4 times per year and cut off my cock's access to her pussy entirely, save for the very occasional few "reminder strokes."

Honestly, it drives me crazy every time and never gets old.

elwoodnchastity
That has to be one of the Hottest things I've read on here in a long while, she really know's how to tease you to the point of destruction. Constant edging and allowing you to cool off before repeating the whole saga again and again is obviously working for both of you. I loved how she lets you slip into her pussy for a moment or two, not long enough to achieve anything, just to remind you of what you won't be getting. The woman's a fucking genius!
You're going to have to work a lot harder on her to persuade her to actually cuck you, that would be the icing on the cake!

elwoodinchastity

That is amazing, thank you for sharing

hando

Congrats

So how's it going now? Still pussy-free 3 more years later ?

I'm now 5 1/2 years pussy free. Virtually nothing has changed, except my wife told me a few months ago that she has no interest in my penis whatsoever. I asked if that meant I was never going to have intercourse again, and she said maybe sometime in the far away future we might try again. That's a definite NO coming from her. I get about two hand jobs a month, but nothing else except she has occasionally had me eat her about twice a year, but sometimes not for two or three years. What I miss the most is not eating my own cum out of her, or anyone else's either. There's nothing hotter than having her point to her soaking pussy just after I've cum in her, and hearing her say,. "You know what to do!". I love seeing my semen ooze out of her pussy and gather on her ass so I can spread it out and then suck it off of her. It's easy to imagine it's been left there by another guy. I need to have a talk with her about getting one of her friends to leave me a big load to clean up.
Natural Born Cuckold
Pussy-Free For Life

I'm approaching my fourth year being 100% pussyfree. Plus the three or four years previous where I got sex 2-4 times a year and chastity.
I'm now her feminized full time sissy.

kinky couple

good for you.. how does it feel being 100% pussyfree?

how does it feel when you tell someone that you are pussyfree?

it's been a year without pussy for me. Prior to that we went 3 or so years with maybe twice a year. She's apparently gotten enough dick these last few years to finally live out our fantasy of her cutting me off entirely. We've been cuckolding off and on for nearly 20 years, and in the last few years have really begun to live out some of our most extreme fantasies.