Her old Lover is coming to stay with us!

First, let me give you some background.

My wife (I'll call her Maria) and I are in our 50's and, while throughout our 30-year marriage I have been faithful, she has had at least two affairs. The first was a short affair with her supervisor at work when we were in our 20's. She flirted with him, then began wearing sexy underwear to work to tease him, and eventually brought him home at lunchtime (while I was at work) and let him bend her over the couch and fuck her. I suspected nothing at the time (what a cuck I was) and only found out about it because she told me several years later. I'm not sure why she told me (maybe she was trying to assuage her guilt feelings?) but since then have come to hope that she was doing it because she enjoyed teasing me and feeling sexually superior. Anyway, my reaction was immediate arousal, and, more than once, I fucked her hard as she described their sexual encounter.

The second affair began back in the early 1990's, when she joined a chat group on MIRC and began attending group get-togethers in another state (without me). She developed several friendships, both male and female. One of her best friends was Dave, and he introduced her (online) to a woman (Kathy) who lived in the same small town he did. I guess I shouldn't have been surprised that my wife and Kathy became close, because now she could visit Kathy and get to see Dave as well. Maria would stay about a week with Kathy in the summer, and call me every day to let me know what she was doing. She was open about her visits with Dave too, but made it sound like there was nothing romantic or sexual about their relationship. Still, I couldn't help but be suspicious, and turned on too, when she told me that Kathy and her husband would "double-date" (my term, not hers) with she and Dave. The four of them would take day trips together, visiting tourist spots, canoeing in a river nearby, etc. It was hard not to see my wife and Dave as a couple.

I was so turned on by this I felt I had to know more about Maria and Dave's relationship. I was too afraid to come right out and ask, ashamed of feeling so submissive and perverted. Instead I secretly installed one of those security programs on our computer...the ones that stealthily take screen shots when there is activity on the computer which can be viewed later. I found out that my suspicions were right. Dave and my wife did a lot of internet chatting and flirting. I even saw screenshots of them video-chatting, and of Maria exposing her tits for him, and Dave exposing, and apparently jerking off, his thick cock for her. Instead of being upset at her betrayal, I felt guilty for invading her privacy, and removed the security program. (How submissive is that?)
Eventually, Dave found his own wife and (I assumed) Maria's affair with him ended.

Despite his marriage, though, Dave and my wife continued to communicate occasionally, now mostly by phone. I would always feel suspicion when she would take a call from Dave and go out to the backyard to have some privacy. (Suspicion and an erection...a suspicious erection.)

Anyway, about a week ago, Maria came to me and told me that Dave was coming for a visit. I think most cuckolds would understand the feelings that kind of announcement would generate. It turns out that Dave is taking a short-term (three months) construction job in our area. Without consulting me first, Maria offered our home to him to stay for the length of the job.

My wife and I have never discussed her affair with Dave, and she may even think I'm not aware of it. On the other hand, she knows I like to fantasize about her being with other men, though she probably doesn't realize the extent of my interest. Do she and Dave plan to carry on their affair right here, in front of me? Do they think they will be able to keep it secret, or maybe they don't care what I think? And what does this mean about my relationship with Maria?

On the other hand, they might just be friends now, despite their previous relationship. I know I should discuss this with my wife before he comes (also before he cums), but am afraid that revealing my desire to be cuckolded now might scare her and make her cancel his visit. What do I do?? Anybody with experience in this situation??

Life is getting shorter, talk with her. Share your desires and see where life takes you.

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sounds like she wont to get it back on with him for old time sake that big thick cock of his is still in her mind ,i would get ready to be cucked by him

keep us up dated lucky old you
let me know what you think of my small cock send message on this please

She knows already that her being with another man turns you on. Next time the two of you are having sex, guide it toward fantasizing about someone else fucking her. Then float the idea of her being with Dave when he comes to visit, as if it were entirely your idea. See what happens! Phrased as a fantasy, you can gauge her reaction. And if she asks, "Is that something you would really want me to do?" then you can tell her that you just might.

I don't think the risk is too high, and if you play it right, you might get her to be open with you about the sex she'll be having anyway :D

What a conundrum you have. If you openly tell your wife you want her to fuck this guy again you risk alienating her. This would also alert her to the fact that you were snooping on her. If you say nothing you risk never experiencing the joys of being cuckolded. What to do what to do?

First I would go to a Spy Shop and invest in some good home surveillance equipment and install them throughout the house. Secondly I would drop little hints of your desire for her to have sex with him. Mention that you know how horny guys get and that he will be away from his wife so he be wanting and needing a woman. When making love to her role play that you are him. Maybe she wants a threesome so play that angle also. Leave your computer on while logged in to a site that talks about MFM and cuckold encounters/relationships. When having sex with her alternate between fucking her and performing cunnilingus and each time you change positions tell her how good she taste after being fucked and how wet and loose she is when you re-enter her. After you have cum in her slide down to clean her and while doing so tell her how hot it would be if she had just had sex with him. Every night when go to bed bend down and kiss her pussy and tell it how many more days it has to wait before it 's friend arrives. Keep dropping those little hints that you think it would be erotic if she were to have sex with her friend with you in full knowledge of it happening.

Before he arrives have a talk with her. Be serious and thoughtful of her feelings, fears and concerns. Tell her that you love her and if she ever accidentally has sex with this guy you understand and won't be jealous or mad. In fact you would prefer that she be open and honest about it and not try to hide it from you. Tell her to remember all the role playing where you were fantasizing about having sex with her after she had sex with him and that maybe just maybe you should try it one night. Reassure her that you will not hold anything against her in the future. Tell her how hot she is and how you understand that he will probable want to have sex with her and if she feels the same then what consenting adults do in the confines of their home is nobody's business but theirs. Tell her that it has always been a fantasy of yours to hold her leg apart for another man to enter her. Tell her how hot it would be to watch another mans dick disappear into her womanhood. How you so badly want to hear her sounds of orgasmic bliss at the hands of another. Tell her-no show her how hard it makes your dick to think of reclaiming her used pussy after he is finished fucking her.

After he arrives and everyone gets comfortable with this new environment, it it appears that your wife isn't moving fast enough push the envelope a little. Start by leaving your bedroom door open especially when you are having sex with her. Encourage her to dress skimpily around the house in front of him. In other words try to work them to the point that they aren't or don't feel inhibited in front of each other or yourself. Finally when you and the guy are alone and preferably after a couple ****** tell him that you suspect he has had sex with your wife before. Tell him that you are cool with it and if it ever happens again you wouldn't be jealous or mad at them. In fact tell him that you had always wondered what a threesome would be like.

After that conversation you should be able to gage whether they are inclined to want to play or not. If the vibe is correct I would plan a night in which I would hope result in the watching of my wife getting fucked. I would prepare a nice dinner for everyone with plenty of wine. After dinner I would encourage good natured conversation and the consumption of ********* beverages but not to the point of ************. I would try to steer the conversation towards sex. All the while kissing and caressing my wife and complementing her on how sexy she is. Try escalating the moment by getting her to put on some relaxing cloths and by that I mean no bra and whatever else you can get her to shed. Then at some point turn on the TV. Look surprised and be apologetic that you had forgotten about the pornotape you had left playing. Of course the CD would be of a woman being serviced by 2 guys. Don't turn it off but rather try to get them into the action on the screen. If possible try to make out with your wife and if she doesn't revolt then invite your new house guest to join you in pleasuring your wife. As soon as she is topless you will then have a decision to make. Will you stay there and just watch, will you stay there and participate or will you retire to the bedroom allowing them some privacy?

Regardless of the choice you make, remember after they are finished you must kiss her cunt and thank it for receiving the copious amount of cum that I'm sure will be in her. One last thing please keep us updated on how this turns out.

Thanks to all for your answers. Qfire, you are right. Tobecuked, I hope you are. Cuckoldbull, that's a great idea; she probably is going to be having sex with him...if I can't find a way to get her to open up, I will miss all the fun. Finally, i122: what can I say, except thank you for taking the time to give a novice so much help.

I hope I can do what you advise. I am still terrified of telling her how I really feel, so encouraging her, dropping hints, etc, may be the way I can start the ball rolling. You would think that, after 30 years together, I would be able to be more honest. But being completely honest right away would probably just scare her. I will do my best to follow i122's game plan; modifying it, of course, according to her reactions, and later, his reactions. I don't think I want to install any spy camera stuff yet. I felt guity enough about spying on her on the computer, and if she found the equipment, that would be enough to upset her and scare her off.

Well, I've got to get to work around here. Dave is supposed to be coming the Friday after next (May 30). Maria was dropping hints that she would like the placed cleaned up for him. She works part-time and I am retired, so that will likely leave it up to me to do all the cleaning. That's arousing by itself...like I am serving them. Cleaning and making everything nice so they can fuck in our house. Damn I am submissive.

ouchcbtman
So how is it going? Have you been able to talk to her yet? I bet if you are trash talking her while you are fucking her and then slide down to lick her pussy clean after you have cum in her all the while telling her how badly you wish it was Dave's cock that just fucked her and dumped a load of his thigh cream in her she will be game. Let us know every day of your progress. This is an important step in your relationship and we want to be there with you all the way.

Soon maybe this will be your wife

I once had a 'friend' (I had met through my wife's job!!) staying with us off and on while he was in town. He was an over-the-road long distance semi truck driver who ended up in our area for about 3 or 4 days twice a month. I innocently enough had offered him to stay with us. Whenever in town he stayed with us. Unknown at the time to me, my wife would fuck him on our bed while I was at work! I didn't find this our until 8 years later...what a trusting soul I was!! Now it turns me on!!...back then I probably would have been furious and maybe our marriage would have ended...glad I didn't know it until I had finally matured and could welcome my wife's 'outside-the-marriage' sex and thus accept my role as a willing cuckold.
If you are ready and willing to accept it (which I think you are!) I would level with her, first of all telling her that you are VERY OK with it and you will continue to love her no matter what...who knows? Maybe you will end up as a 3some and it may totally blow your mind with lust!! Either way, good luck...you are actually in a position which is enviable by many men. REALLY!

ouchcbtman
Well, I've got to get to work around here. Dave is supposed to be coming the Friday after next (May 30). Maria was dropping hints that she would like the placed cleaned up for him. She works part-time and I am retired, so that will likely leave it up to me to do all the cleaning. That's arousing by itself...like I am serving them. Cleaning and making everything nice so they can fuck in our house.

Well you have a week before Dave is due to arrive. Have you had "The Talk" with Maria yet? Has she promised to fuck Dave with you knowingly present in the house? We want to hear all the details leading up to the moment you get the grand prize. Good luck

Well you better get busy with your clean up duties...you don't want to disappoint a good prospective bull...maybe your other 'clean up' duties will be more pleasant after he has satisfied your wife. Good luck and keep us advised.

when I was married to my first wife, a short, cute, strawberry blond, an old boyfriend would show up and take her out.

let me give some perspective. while in college I began dating Cindy and we became a couple. we were both virgins and enjoyed a weekend at the beach learning how to do it. we weren't very good at it but kept trying.

I had a buddy in the fraternity who sensed he was very alpha while knowing I was very beta. at a kegger I had fallen down half ***** behind a dune, gazing at the sky. rick walked over and not seeing me took out his superior cock and started pissing. I don't think he knew I was there, at least at first because he aimed the spray right at me.

I had one of those defining sub space moments where even though I knew how humiliating letting him piss on me I just stayed there and let him empty his water on my face, my shirt and pants. he must have been ******** a lot because he covered me.

as he was zipping up he told me to stay, like I was a dog. naturally I obeyed.

a few moments he appeared close by. the darkness prevented me from getting a good look but I recognized the head of my pretty girlfriend swallowing that huge weapon.

over the next months Rick would come to our apartment, tell me to get him a beer while he took Cindy's hand and led her to the bedroom.

after graduating, moving and getting married I thought we were finished with Rick and his domineering ways until I got home one night to hear Cindy tell me he was coming by to spend the week.

as she made up the bed in the spare room I knew it was for me and not for him.
J

Yes, five days to go. So over the last week, whenever we talked about Dave's visit, I refered to him as "your boyfriend". Like, "Your boyfriend will be here soon!" in a joking way, teasing her, like I don't really think there's anything between them. At first she would just joke back, like: "oh yeah, and I can't wait 'til he gets here so we can have some fun!", but then just roll her eyes, so I knew she was joking. Then SHE started to call him her boyfriend all the time, and now she's not rolling her eyes when she says it. Like she is trying to test me, and she could back out if I got mad and say "I was just joking...you were the one who called him that!".

Then closest I came to "The Talk" with her (so far) was when we were talking about Dave after dinner and a couple of glasses of wine. She was telling me that Dave and his wife Tammy were having marital problems. (Yeah!! ...well, I guess I shouldn't root for their marriage to fail, that's creepy, but it does increase the chances of Maria and Dave becoming close) I said: "You really like Dave a lot, don't you?" and she admitted she did, and that she was looking forward to his visit. She said she hoped I was ok with it (his visit), and said she thought I would like Dave as a friend. I almost told her the whole truth right then, but chickened out. I just said that I knew she and Dave were good friends, and that I wanted her to be happy and enjoy his visit. She hugged me and said, very emotionally--I thought she was going to cry--"you're such a good husband."

I just realized that I haven't described Maria for you. I told you we are in our 50's. Maria is about 5' 6" and 160 lbs. A little extra weight but she still looks good. She was a cheerleader in high school and junior college and still has beautiful legs and a great smile. When she likes a guy, she smiles and her face lights up and it's clear she's interested. She has shoulder-length very dark-brown hair. She's has Mexican-American ancestry, with medium dark skin. She's employed part-time at an elementary school, working with slow c h i l d r e n. She is kind and friendly and basically an angel, so when I think of her cheating on me, the betrayal is even more poignant and erotic to me.

Dave, meanwhile, is our age, 6' 2" and over 200 lbs. He has worked in various physical jobs and is pretty solid.. bigger than me at least. I'm 5' 10" and 170 lbs, not very muscular and have worked at desk jobs my whole life. I don't think he's better-looking than me, but he is more masculine. He's stronger and more active and athletic than me. I can see why Maria might prefer him to me.

Anyway, back to the dirty details. The after-dinner talk we had was on Friday night. Yesterday, she went to do some errands and shopping. This morning, she went to visit her mom and dad (about 40 minutes away) and I went snooping. I found a Macy's bag in her underwear drawer. She bought several pairs of skimpy and lacy panties and a couple matching lace bras...she hasn't bought any fancy underwear, just the standard cotton comfortable kind, for several years. I know this means she is expecting to take off her clothes for him. I was kind of stunned and shaky as I looked through the bag, at the first real evidence that my sweet wife wants to fuck him. When she comes home, I am going to kiss and lick her pussy in thanks.

Very nice, it certainly seems as if Maria is looking forward to Dave's visit. I liked how you eased into telling her how much you knows she cares for Dave and you only want her to be happy. You handled that superbly. You put her at ease about her bringing Dave into your house and life. It is interesting that she kept her new panties in the shopping bag. I wonder if she thinks she is hiding them from you? Good plan to orally worship her little pussy. While doing so remember to taunt her with little things like: It's a shame Dave doesn't know how sweet your pussy taste, I bet Dave will be wanting some of this before the week is over, imagine how hot and kinky it would be if this were Dave licking your pussy while I was napping in my chair, baby for a real kinky fantasy tonight I'm going to get one of your toys pretend it's Dave then after I make you orgasm with the fake Dave I'm going to lick and fuck you to another orgasm! While fucking her with the dildo keep talking to her about it being Dave 's dick. Tell her how hot it would be if it weren't just fantasy talk during sex play. Afterward if she sounded put off by it you could just explain that it was just sex talk. However I don't think she will object at least not sincerely. Add a little kicker if you have sex with her in the next couple days. Ask her if she wants you to pull out when you cum so she will be completely fresh for Dave when he arrives? Oh and when he does arrive shortly afterward make an excuse to run up to the store so as to give them a few minutes alone. Don't stay gone for more than 30-45 minutes. Just long enough for them to kiss and get reacquainted as old friends. I seriously doubt she would fuck him that quickly but would enjoy the alone time to say hi. That is unless she spent a lot of time on her makeup and was wearing her brand new sexy panties. Please keep us informed of the future events as they happen

GREAT SUGGESTIONS BY i122...give them every opportunity possible. Encouragement at every turn!

Only 2 days left to wait. How are you holding up? Has Maria given you any indications of her intentions?

Good ideas so far.

Let me suggest something to you that might make things a little easier.

You may want to say to her, "I think it would it would be entirely understandable if you wanted to ***** with him while he's staying here. I'd be okay with that."

xoxoxo

Christine (transgendered and a cuck, not born female)

Have I mentioned how much I hate the new censoring that's going on in this site? Eww!

In case it's not fixed, the word I typed was
s l e e p

xoxoxo

Christine

It is past ridiculous, bpop. The word for what is in a glass at a cocktail lounge was censured as xxxxx. It starts with a d and ends with a k and has ***** in it...what is wrong with that word? Or as you say the word for what all of us do on a daily basis to get some rest that starts with an s and ends with a p also becomes a bunch of x's. Go figure!

Fuck Fuck Fuck

He's not coming. He called Maria yesterday and the construction project got delayed. He is not even sure if he'll be able to take it once they start working again.

She was upset but tried to hide it. I spent the evening trying to cheer her up: made her favorite dinner and afterwards she drank her beer while watching tv, and I massaged her toes. After she got a little buzzed, she talked about Dave and and again admitted how much she liked him.

I'm feeling sad myself. I've spent most of the last week doing nothing but thinking about my wife and her male friend, and fantasizing about them, and it just feels empty.

Sorry to hear that!

Maybe it will be easier for her to talk about, now that it's unlikely to happen.

"Would you have wanted to s l e e p with him if he stayed with us?"

"You know I'm okay with that, right?"

xoxoxo

Christine

ouchcbtman
Wow talk about a big disappointment for all three of you. It may not lead to anything more than points for you but why don 't you suggest that the two of you drive up to Dave's town for a weekend. Tell her that she should contact the other couple she and Dave use to double day with and see if the 5 of you could go out for dinner. Like I said it may not lead to anything right away other than points in your favor. Who knows maybe after dinner the other couple may go home early and you can invite Dave up to your hotel room for an adult beverage. Who knows where that may lead

The last time I posted on this thread was almost two years ago. Dave, my wife Maria's friend, had cancelled his plans to stay with us for several weeks for a job. She was very disappointed, as was I. Three weeks ago, Maria told me the visit was back on, and, as I type this, Dave has been here for two days, and today he and my wife have taken my jeep out for the day to ride in the desert, giving me some alone time to write. I plan to post what happens while he is with us, in case anyone is interested.

Anyway, I want to start with what has happened over the last couple years.

Maria was so upset that Dave didn't come last time that she got really down and depressed for several weeks. She moped around, not talking much, kind of in her own world. She was obviously thinking about Dave a lot. She didn't seem to want any help from me. I did the best I could to be supportive, but she didn't want to talk about it and kept to herself, ******** a lot or staying in our office on the computer. I made her favorite meals, did all the housework, and was as attentive as I could be. I felt so bad for her that I considered contacting Dave myself and asking him to visit, even if it was just a short one, and that I would pay for his airline ticket. I was too cowardly to do that, but it worked out anyway, because about then, Dave began calling and texting her a lot. He must have figured out that she was down, and soon they were talking on the phone at least daily. He would call on our landline if he couldn't reach her smart phone, even though he knew I would normally answer that line. They didn't seem concerned that I knew how close they were becoming. I figured that she must have figured out my desire to be cuckolded and had let Dave know. That was embarrassing, and I felt a little humiliated to have to bring her the phone so they could talk, or take messages for them but I was happy to do it if it made Maria happy. And it did. She was soon out of her depression, and was bright and cheerful again, especially after spending an hour in the office or bedroom talking (or FaceTiming) with him with the door closed. I was pretty sure what was going on during those sessions, and the thought of her exposing herself to him had me excited and hard much of the time.

Meanwhile, I was working on encouraging her behavior. If she ignored me all evening while texting with Dave, instead of being grumpy or hurt, I became even more attentive: bringing her snacks, turning down the TV so she wouldn't be distracted, getting her slippers and helping her put them on, etc. I wanted her to know that, no matter what she did with Dave, nor how badly she treated me, there would be no adverse consequences for her. All these submissive gestures, however, seemed to have the opposite affect. She suddenly became more discrete in her contacts with Dave: her conversations became shorter, and she ceased hiding in the bedroom to FaceTime with him. I sometimes came home to find her alone with her phone in the bedroom with the lights off, but she would come out as soon as she knew I was home. I think that she had figured out what I was up to, and either was grossed out, or mad at me for trying to manipulate her. Anyway, my hopes for a more open cuckolding relationship seemed over, at least for the time.

Thanks!

Oops! My 2/25/16 entry was supposed to be in the stories section, because it is fiction. The earlier posts were non-fiction, but I decided to try to complete the real story with my imagination. Sorry.