Have met a girl I like and want to mention cuckolding to her ?

I have been cuckolded a few times in the past but the girls weren't aware I new or that I was loving them being so bad to me, these relationships eventually failed, which I think may have been due to lack of communication / honesty.
I was single for many year's but have now met a Beautiful slightly chunky Brunette Girl who was working in a bar and wearing a tight skirt that growled at me.
I some how charmed her and have arranged a date with her and would like some advice on how to let her know I want her to be the boss and ultimately cuckold me and turn me into her maid if Im lucky.

Thanks in advance

Cuckolding, although it may seem very natural to us, does have a tendency, at least initially to shock some people. I think it's better to feel her out first. Bring the conversation around to jealousy being sure to let her know how you are not the least bit jealous, and on the contrary you appreciate honesty and open communication. If things progress well from there you will instinctively know when it may be the right time to open up to her about your desires of being the cuckold mate of a dominant woman. Who knows? You may strike gold, but you must proceed with caution...you do not want to scare her away...break it to her gently and show her your submissive side at every opportunity. Good luck and hope all your cuckold wishes become reality.

I agree with you that honest communication of what you want is the key to getting what you want brucea, but you may want to get past a few non-sexual "get-to-know-each-other" sharing areas before you dive into sexual turn-ons. (I'm not saying treat cuckolding different than another fetish, but most people don't get down to sexual preferences on the first date.)

Once it is appropriate for sex to come up, I'm all for being up front and telling her flat out what you like. You can use some standard strategies to ease into it and avoid the shock impact JUANITO rightly warns of:

1. Somehow lead the conversation to sex, kink, and fetishes generally, before you talk about your specific desires. She will feel safer speaking in the abstract and you will be able to gauge her open-mindedness. As the conversation progresses you will naturally begin to share things like "that is hot," "I'd be open to trying that once," or "I've done that."

2. Let her talk back and forth - it is a conversation, not a confession or an interrogation (at least not by you.) The idea is to build a safe atmosphere of shared confidences and trust.

3. You may want to share and exchange views on various kinks before narrowing down to cuckolding fetish specifically. Framing matters and many women will be more open to this fetish if it is broached in the context of kink, and not in the context of relationship. BUT, that doesn't mean, in terms of sharing your own feelings, that you need wait until you've come out with you fem-dom and domestic service, etc. fantasies. Don't stall on this one if the opportunity to be upfront comes faster or first. Go where the conversation takes you, just make sure you steer it enough that you can get to sharing your cuckold feelings.

4. Be ready to take questions and interrogation from her and disarm alarm. She may ask why you feel that way, or why you would want that, or "wouldn't it make you sad," or "so, are you like gay?" or whatever. You must not get flustered, angry, or defensive. Be ready to be deeply sincere, totally honest, and calm. Also, it helps if you have actually though about what to say and aren't totally tongue-tied (although a little blushing is very endearing.)

Anyway, that is what I've gleaned from my experience and I hope it is helpful; good luck with this!
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Thanks for the advice