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Kyle from Kansas
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# Posted: 29 May 2006 20:49:15
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Hi
I am currently overseas in the other place, not Iraq. My wife Jenny and I have been married for 2 years and we have a month old baby. I left for my deployment right after Abby was born. While we were trying to conceive, about 1 year ago now, our foreplay would include fantasizing about Jenny fooling around and fucking her old boyfriend Phil. He was sent to Iraq and I married Jenny after he was out of the way. I guess you can say Uncle Sam helped her decide who she wanted to marry. As luck would have it, I am now deployed and he is coming back to Kansas. I have told her during our foreplay that if I ever had to leave and she felt like she really needed a man around the house, that I would understand if she would get some help from some willing guy. She has teased me about what if she finds a guy who would really like to "help her out". I told her that she can use whatever help he wants to give, because she is wearing my ring and I trust her.
I found out I was leaving when she was 6 months gone. During some of our pregnant loving, she asked me if I still meant what I said about her accepting "help from a willing guy", especially with the baby and all. I told her that I really meant it and especially with a new born.
Fast forward to today, and yesterday, I got an email from Jenny with all the baby news, everything is very well with Abby and mom. She also told me that she told me that Phil, the guy in Iraq, sent her a letter with his email and said if she was still interested, he would like to see her again when he gets home on 30 May. He did not know that she is married, but I think he knew that I was not going to sit by and let that chance pass me by.
Jenny asked me if I really meant it about her getting some male assistance while I am gone (for work around the house naturally :wink)
I immediately emailed her back and said yes. I told her that it would be really OK if she met him when he returned, it is always nice to have someone waiting for you and especially a hot girl like Jenny. I don't have to worry about her needing sex for a while since she is still recuperating but it is hot to think about what could occur if the right "sparks" rekindle between them.
I would like to correspond email wise with anyone who might have experienced a similar situation or some one who might have some ideas on how I can encourage Jenny to really relax and enjoy the "ride".
My email is ftrileykyle@yahoo.com
Thanks
Kyle
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Kyle from Kansas
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# Posted: 30 May 2006 20:06:27
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Clean up
I really appreciate your feedback on what I am experiencing. I have had a few comments already about how dangerous it is to have another man be so close to a wife and new born and all that can entail. There is a certain
very highly erotic thoughts,not actually dealing with sex, but with the fact of Phil possibly taking care of Jenny's needs and being close to Abby. It is also erotic because, Abby could have been his daughter but Uncle Sam intervened. Now the tables are turned.
Again I have told Jenny that whatever happens happens and let life happen. (Hope that makes sense). I have told her to send me pictures during my tour and I really would find it "hot" to get a picture eventually
of Phil, Jenny and Abby doing something together.
I hope this doesn't sound insane, but I feel that since I was dealt this hand (deployment), Jenny and I should handle it in the best way possible. We have talked about this before I left, and I told her that now is when she really needs help with a new born and this would be the best for her and little Abby. So it is not like I am playing with their lives, especially Abby.
Jenny said that she will do her best, with having pictures of me around the house to start influencing Abby now, teaching her who daddy is. I know that there is a risk that if Phil stays for any length of time he might be seen as daddy. That is a real risk, but we have discussed it and have agreed on this plan of action. I have to be really honest and say, it is also a huge indescribable turn on to know that my romantic rival is in a position to have a great influence on my wife and my daughter. The daughter that could have been his if Uncle Sam did not send him overseas first.
Thanks again for listening. I hope I can continue to let you know what happens and how things develop. Just trying to make the best out of a really sucking situation.
Kyle
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patt
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# Posted: 31 May 2006 05:17:32
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Do you think that your wife is sleeping whit phil?.Woudl you like it to append?
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Kyle from Kansas
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# Posted: 31 May 2006 19:09:46
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Clean Up
Pat
Last night, our time, I sent Phil an email where I told him to just enjoy my home and be there for Jenny and Abby. He sent me an email back saying that he will be careful not to start anything that might not be able to be stopped. I told him that he really should not even give it a thought and just act ( I had a huge hard on while I typed this) as though he was dating a young single mom and that the only people he should worry about or care about are Jenny and Abby. I nearly came in my PT gear when I hit the send button.
He wrote back saying that a lot of the old feelings are coming back and hard. I told him, enjoy and that I would totally understand if he and her eventually decide he should move from the guest room to the masterbed room.
This morning he wrote me and said that nothing really happened last night. Jenny cooked a nice meal and he spent time holding Abby when she got restless. After dinner, Jenny fed Abby. She asked Phil if this bothered him and he said, no not at all and he then asked if she minded if he just sat and talked with her while Abby had dinner. He said that she covered her breast as Abby ate, that modesty was rather cute, since Phil was the guy who took her virginity a few years ago. After Abby finished eating, Jenny put her to bed and then they watched TV for a while.
I hope to hear from Jenny soon. I really mean this and hope that Jenny and Phil decide to play house together without any restrictions. Thinking of that will keep me hard for weeks. If her and Phil get pregnant then I guess that means Abby will have a little brother or sister.
I hope that one of these days I get an email from Jenny that starts with "Honey last night "we" had a date......."
Kyle
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Joseph Smith
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# Posted: 2 Jun 2006 03:36:58
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I know what a turn-on this is - have been there - done that.
That being said, there is no way you can anticipate the emotional entanglements that are going to arise - only 'cause you haven't been there. Believe me, what you have all experienced so far is the tip of the iceberg. Myself, I lost my firs wife because we invited a friend into our bed. I had no problem with accepting him as a sexual object only - and the sex was fantastic. She, on the other hand, could not seperate love from sex. She came to resent me because I didn't "love" her, if I would let another man have her. He told her he "loved" her, and would never, ever share her with anyone else. Not the same, I know - but I am just trying to say that until you're into the middle of it - you just don't know!
BYW - my second child is by another father - and that child is loved equally with the others by my wife and I. It can be done. In the beginning, I would think of the baby's father when I would be by the crib, but through the years all thought of the "other man" have faded - and I AM the father.
Once again, best of luck - and keep us all posted.
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Smitty
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# Posted: 3 Jun 2006 10:21:59
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Hey Kyle has he fucked your wife yet? Keep us up-dated!
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rdvrk
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# Posted: 17 Apr 2008 23:07:48
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Wow, what an interesting situation! I'm happy to hear that you found a solution to a difficult deployment problem. It takes a lot of trust and love to encourage another man to develop a deep relationship with your wife, and I applaud you for your sincerity and openness.
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neukcpl
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# Posted: 18 Apr 2008 19:10:06
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wow this is deep. i would love to be in your situation, hot wife at home. ex lover helping her out. sound like it could end up in hole load of trouble but enjoy the ride. hey he will be deployed again soon no doubt.
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redimac
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# Posted: 19 Apr 2008 17:57:24
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Sounds like you should do this
Joe Preston
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rdvrk
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# Posted: 22 Jun 2008 22:48:48
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Hey, can you update us on this?
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