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swhwwfubbbd

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#31 · Edited by: swhwwfubbbd
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Bpop unless you refer to the authors ( for instance researchers in psychology, unless your doing so as a student or acaedemic for non profit in US and UK) your taking the ideas from and reusing them without permission then the permister who made the PDF has already created the unlawful act, assuming this is the case? We may never know because I for one won't be laying out the big bucks for this. These ideas laid out I'm guessing have no references and paid no dues. Looking at the layout of what he tells us in the PDF much would be of relatively low grade worth as we are already very aware of our wives thoughts and feelings and very aware of their 'tells'.
The thing out of this that might be is the challenge alluded to with the suggestion it is reverse psychology... Admittedly that in itself may be of little worth considering reverse psychology is something we all used on our 5 year old kids but I'll keep an open mind!

I would grant you that if we copy a document that already has copyright issues then that might be a further breach.
As you say putting into his own words may be safer.
Some how doubt we going to get that though and just some further esoteric "it's too difficult to explain", though that is not my attempt to ask why it works just how to do it because such why questions tie psychologists up for years in research without the benefit of a final answer. I just would like to know the principle to see if it is worth applying.
Perhaps I myself am trying to be a agent provoketer. And attempting some form of challenge to get some information.......
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fractious

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Gang,

I'm back!

So last time I wrote on her I mentioned challenging my wife and mentioned the process had begun...

Well here's an update. Like the guide said to do, this past weekend I spend some quality time with my wife on Saturday. It was a crummy day outside so we stayed in and cuddled in bed. We were play fighting a little bit and one thing led to another... we started kissing a little and I felt her up a little. She tried to do the same and I resisted. Then I said to her, "I don't need it from you! I bet you that you can't even make me want it! In fact, if you can get me to want it, I'll do all the housework!" She looked at me like yea right, then proceed to pull down my pants and start sucking me off. For the first five or so minutes, I just kept saying "See, it's not working. You can't make me want you." After about 10 minutes into the dare, I started gave in. At the end of the banging her, I told her it was really hard for me to resist her, even for 2 minutes... Well just like the cuckold guide said, she was giddy and gloating! "I knew you wouldn't be able to resist me!"

So what does this do? Well according to the guide, it is reducing her sexual attraction to me and allowes her reclassify me in her mind, among other things. This is key. Ideally we want our woman to think of us as loving and careing, but weak. They need to feel like they need and want another man and have to feel comfortable you'll continue to provide for them when you tell them of your cuckold desires..

Permisterally I think this one thing is going to help a lot... there is a lot more to it, but that's how I'm applying it to my own relationship as of right now. I'm going to continue to challege her while starting the submissive body language techniques this week... more to come.
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fractious, that sounds great!

swhw, I think you are mistaking the difference between academic plagiarism, and copyright law--the two are not the same issue. Similar in many ways, but not the same.

Academic plagiarism is stealing ideas without attribution.

Copyright infringement involves using someone's elses words.

xoxoxo

Christine
swhwwfubbbd

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No bpop wasn't mistaking merely using the supposed field that ppl have to refer to with this type of PDF would require referencing.
You would have seen I agreed with you changing my position had you continued to read.

Fractious thank you for a workable example, taken on its own this could be more helpful if you can supply us with some more workable answers. Also you say that you need to give submissive body language. So that would be not holding her gaze following her 'wins'. Putting yourself at a lower position to her following her 'win'.
There are others I know for instance during watching TV comedy or when someone tells a joke that you should follow her lead when she laughs. Another would be that you look to her for making decisions.
Problem is fundamentally you'd start to look in my mind beyond just getting her enjoying other men but you'd look like you were no longer a husband! I know this is a perpetual problem with cuckolding and how can one have their cake and eat it. I really don't mean to undermine your effort and purpose because I'm always looking to learn. My previous writing here was issuing a challenge to gain further information. Good luck in your efforts.
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fractious

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Hi Gang,

Figured I stop back in and let you all know I'm really making progress since starting to use the strategies in this guide. Sounds silly to say, but before reading the guide, I didn't really know how to start. By following the steps, it's turning out to be easier than I though. The biggest change I noticied is in myself and how I am approaching the situation. Before the guide, I was always relcutant about the whole situation because I didn't know if the steps I was taking were going to help or harm the situation. However, what I've found thus far is that if you follow the techniques, and you start to notice the things happening as expected and as a result, you gain confidence. This in turn in a powerful, as the confidence and motivation start to feed off each other and propel you to do and say things you might not normally do.

I'm going to have a bigger update at the end of this upcoming weekend... Going to try to take a big step forward! No juicy stuff -- yet!
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