How do I get my gf to feel comfortable making fun of my lil penis?

My ex gf used to make fun of it constantly. She even had sex with other guys although it was without my knowledge. But she used to make fun of my little dick and laugh and tell me how pathetic it was. I've told my new gf a little about how I like it. But she says she'd never disrespect me like that. How do I get her to know its not disrespectful to me and that it really turns me on? Do I just tell her straight up or is that too direct you think? Once she makes fun of my manhood does that mean the respect is gone?

try to ask her what she craves sexually, like when your at the deepest (if we can call it deep) inside her, ask her if she'd like you to go deeper...eventually the truth will come out...that your pencil isn't adequate. once that step is passed who knows what will happen

Maybe try making comments or jokes yourself. Maybe the more she hears from you the more comfortable she will be. Also when she does say something make sure she know how much of a turn on it is. My ex loves 2 turn me on so she is always making comments on my size. It did take her a while, but once she got the hang of it, saw how much i liked it she goes all out. public places is the best.
tony

Honesty is always the best way to go, but I can tell you from experience, unloading all of your kinkiest thoughts and desires into one conversation can overwhelm and frighten others. Gently, maybe even jokingly, suggest a dildo or a sleeve to enhance the length and/or girth of your own cock. Tell her you want to try it to see if it might add a little excitement for her.

Well here's the thing, it's either something she will enjoy doing and hasn't done because she's worried for your ego, is thinking about doing but doesn't think it's quite fair or won't like it at all.

In the initial cases you just have to be honest but even so in a relationship you have to be fair with her, give HER the opportunity to be open about it with you, share your feelings about it but get her to open up first.

When was the last time you fulfilled one of HER fantasies?

Before the next time you have sex talk with her and ask her if there's anything else she'd like to try, if there's any fantasy she's had that she's wanted you to try on her. Give her a blanket thing, she may not want to discuss it right away or need to think about it so give her the time necessary.

Eat her pussy more, go down on her, be romantic, whatever idea or fantasy you suggest should still be with the love and caring that comes with the relationship itself.

That's right, even if you HAVE a small penis that doesn't excuse you as a male to try and please your wife/gf/lover in some way and just because you do have a small one it doesn't mean you can't.

Now, for the introduction of the fantasy itself it depends on how conservative she is with whatever fantasy she introduces and how deep your relationship is. Do you love her? Do you want this thing to be long term or do you not care? If you DO want it to be long term don't just blurt it out, introduce it little by little.

So, assuming you fulfill one of her fantasies, pay attention to her needs and really work on pleasing her(yes, little dicks really ARE just as capable in the sac if you work it right) she'll actually come to you and if you're really on top of it, so to speak and do the things she really goes wild for you she'll go to it quickly.

When it comes time for her to ask you just tell her something like "Well, I don't want you to freak out but...I'd like it if you...made fun of me a little...just a little to see if you're comfortable with it."

She may not be into it at first, even if it's something she's been thinking about and her fantasy may actually involve YOU being much more dominant, it's not exactly a shaky foothold but you DO have to be willing to take a "not sure" or "no".

Don't push the topic, introduce it and if you DO work on pleasing her(not the fantasy of having another male but you yourself) she WILL try a little bit but she'll need to be encouraged.

When she DOES do it have fun with it at first, likely she'll be terrible, even wanting to do it and further she may not have a comfortable rythm like a professional might have, give her suggestions but don't make it into a big deal, don't turn it into an office meeting of all the stuff you want to hear, invariably it's better if she figured out where HER head and fantasy might take it.

She WILL get into it eventually, especially if she see's how much it turns you on, and yes, even if she IS getting terrible you have to act like it does, you have to build her confidence, remind her it's OK if it's not too great at first but it turns you on to see her try.

I'm assuming you want her to be more aggressive in general and much more dominant, well I can tell you it works both ways, as much as I've had a few girls want to drop down in front of me a few of those still wanted dominance over me, you have to be willing to go both ways with her.

It's one of the few things I don't understand, I get the fantasy here but even in a truly situated cuckold relationship it's STILL a relationship and especially if it's full cuckolding I would think that every now and then no matter how "small" it is there has to be a switch in the power play every now and then, if not full then back to romance, eventually you have to acknowledge that you two belong together and regular sex, every now and then, is GOOD for the Relationship.

Well that's the best way really, work on her needs and help her to ask YOU what you want to do then introduce slowly and gradually, that's the only way really for ANY fantasy introduction.

I don't know........ I figure people have enough obstacles in relationships and life in general.

A husband sowing cuckold seeds in his wife's mind for his own personal kink is like someone complaining to his boss that he is paying him too much money; knocking on his landlord's door to tell him he feels that his rent should go up; going to the police station to gripe that he runs red lights all over town and never gets any tickets - even showing the cops videos of his traffic vi0lati0ns.......................

Cuckolding happens often enough. The difference between looking to be cucked or looking for trouble is?
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IASP,

Or like bumping a 7 year old thread?

Why not? It addresses what I consider to be a perennial facet of some cuckold themes. Without firing across anyone's bow. Too many guys believe this line of thinking is cool. I do not know one lady who feels comfortable with such thought. Just sayin'.
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