Have you ever backed out at the last minute?

We all talk about our wonderfull nights when our wives get everything they want while we watch or wait, or for those guys that havn't been lucky enough to enjoy it yet what they dream will happen.

But have any of you ever taken your wife all the way to the point of her starting to mess around and then changed your mind?


I am embarrsed to admit that about a year ago I did this very thing and I will NEVER EVER do it again.

My wife had had sex with this guy a few times and she really enjoyed him. He found a girlfriend that we later found out was bi and we all became almost like friends. They called us one night around 11pm and asked if we could come over and take pictures of them. We both knew what they really wanted was to play with my wife, but without much descussion we headed over to their place.

After a few drinks, Jon and his girlfriend started making out and then he started kissing my wife as his girl was on the other side of him playing with his cock. For some reason the jealousy started racing through me, more than it had ever watching my wife with just other guys. Soon Jon had the two girls kissing and playing with each other's breasts. All three of them would take turns kissing each other. Soon both girls were playing with his cock and kissing and my mind just exploded. I wasn't turned on in the least and I Felt EXTREMELY left out and embarrased and jealous. I didn't know what to do.

My heart started racing so much I was starting to have angina, which I do have at times because I've had heart surgery, but normally it only occurs under extreme exercise or extreme stress. I felt traped so I got up and headed for the door. My wife noticed and looked up at me and all I could say was, I'm sorry I can't do this. I felt so bad!!! I had intended on just going outside and letting them continue, but of course my wife and I have always agreed to do everything together so she got up, got dressed and followed me.

For the next 2 to 3 hours we faught over how much I embarassed her. I felt like crap and my wife was pissed for days. I tried to write an appology that I felt left out and it was different her being with a girl and a guy, but they knew I had watched my wife with 3 guys at once so they really didn't understand. It was absolutely horrible.

Moral of the story: Make sure you are ok with things before you get into the situation and Talk talk talk with your wife before hand. It was such a spure of the moment thing that my mind went crazy and my wife and I didn't talk at all about it before hand. I will NEVER EVER ask my wife to leave again I will be there to support whatever she wants.

Now I can't wait for another situation like that. It would have been hot.

Am I the only one that has been so stupid to take it that far and then back out?

Unfortunately I'm one of those guys not lucky enough yet to watch my wife with another guy. I think I will love watching her in action, but I do wonder if it's possible that I will change my mind, like you did, when it's actually happening...when I'm actually watching another man's hands roaming over her naked body and his stiff cock sliding in and out of her pussy. I guess until it happens there is really no way to know how I will feel. But I can't wait to find out.

SalP: It does indeed bring on VERY powerfull feelings!!!!

Our first time was the most intense experience either my wife or I have ever experienced, thats why I was so surprised when I couldn't handle her with a guy and a girl. I know I could now, but I wasn't prepared then.

This is the entire reason I made this post. Take my advice, once your there and they are starting to have fun, it is WAY to late to back out. Make sure your ok with it before that point. Of course that is hard when you have no idea how you will react until then, but once you make the commitment, stick with it. Then don't make her feel a bit guilty aftward!!!! I've done that too, and that was a mess as well. Its a lot of fun, but try to control your emotions so she has the wonderful time you want her too. Remember its about them, not us...

mred: I think I got a small sample of these feelings when I watched my wife get a massage. I really loved seeing the guy massaging her completely naked body, especially when he began rubbing and squeezing her ass cheeks, and then rolled her over and massaged her inner thighs while staring at her pussy. And it was great seeing that she was enjoying it more than I was. I think I'm ready for her to try the real thing.

yup, communicate, communicate
Joe Preston

lol i've done this twice now mred

my wife has done this to two guys now and lucky for me i had there phone numbers to ring them as i would hate waiting for someone who leave you there and cant phone you
let me know what you think of my small cock that my wife has to see and tell her what you think is it a cock or a clit i got or should she make me a sissy cuck in pink nickers you tell us please thanks