Ways to secretly convince your wife/gf into becoming slutty.

I'm new to this, and would like to know of any ways which have worked for other guys, and ideas relating.
zac _ gcn at hotmail

be open with her about your desires. tell her each time you fuck her that you dream of her with another man.

I have a new girl friend now and in the beginning she was shocked. now she know and starts to get interested. last night she brought it up as part of our foreplay

'Only to tease you darling'. Sure. but, at least she is playing along.

She even suggested she teased me to see my reaction. I came fast and hard. She smiled and said; 'jesus babe, you really turn on on this don't you?'

I used to married to a hot wife. It took years to warm her up for her first additional dick. It will take time in this relation also

But, now we are open about it, and the rest will come
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

I am willing to be a little open about it, but I don't want to be TOO open, if you know what I mean. She may be offended if I say it too clearly.

Is there any ideas on how to get her to "come up with the idea herself"?
zac _ gcn at hotmail

start with watching porn together...see how she reacts when she sees a pretty white girl getting fucked by a BBC....my xgirl used to get sopping wet...thats when I knew she wanted to try it.

That's where my wife is now. I pop in a "Blackzilla is fucking my wife" dvd, and eat her out. She gets sopping wet. Then I slide in the largest silicone vibrator I have been able to find, and she comes really hard.
I agree that is hard to turn that corner though and admit that I would like her to be fucking blackzilla herself. I would love some advice to get to the next level.

Guys, if you are SURE you want to move down this path, eventually you will need to tell your wife, so let her know earlier rather than later. Yes she will be shocked, and try to figure out what your motives are, but all you need to do is be honest. Most girls have NO idea that a guy can actually get off on his girl doing is with someone else without that guy wanting more for himself.

Explain in detail that it is all about her and building your relationship. Convince her you have NO desire to play around yourself. It is strange at first, but the only way to get there from here is to talk to her about it and if your not able to talk to her about everything by the time she actually does it, then you wont want to do it, because the only way for a couple to live this lifestyle is if they can tell each other everything.

Good luck!!

I spent many years as a masseur, and a number of guys who wanted their wives to become hotwives, or just to loosen up about sex, would treat them to a massage. I was (and am) very good at starting slowly and eventually taking more and more liberties until she either stops me or we are clearly into it.

So, breaker, my advice is to find a male masseur who knows how to use massage to seduce, and knows how to do it without scaring your wife away (that is, he knows when to stop). It is a great way to slowly introduce her to the touch of another man.

How would I find a masseur like that in the Philadelphia area??

sounds pretty manipulative to me. If she is ready for it, she will say yes, of not its a no
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

It's always her decision. It's just a matter of finding the right angle to present it to her, and getting her used to the idea so it's not such a crazy idea to her.
zac _ gcn at hotmail

Any ideas on "the right angle" ?

that, breaker, is exactly what manipulation stands for.
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

I always read posts from guys on here asking how do I tell her and describing some sort of big talk. I don't think it has to be such a big talk. I think a lot of guys on here are so insecure in their feelings regarding the cuck thing that they make a big deal, where there is none. Just be yourself, part of you is this kink and she'll get to know it. You're the one hiding it.

Even though I am a cuck, I dated a lot before getting married. As I got a little older and comfortable with my kink, I just started letting girls know about it as I got to know them.

I would bring up the fact that promiscuous women turned me on.

When ever I would see a girl in a slutty outfit, I would tell girlfriend, I wish I could take you out in that.

I would ask lots of questions about their sexual pasts, getting them used to talking to me about enjoying other men.

Tell them when a guy was checking her out, goof around and get her to flirt a little. Just regular mundane things like lot.

Once a girl feels comfortable that a. Your not going to treat her like a slut after she acts like a slut and b. That you are not doing this to get other pussy, most will take to the lifestyle.

I had a fantastic cuck relationship with my ex-gf and y my wife cucks me now and it's becoming a pretty regular thing.

I have brought up the cuck thing with 5 women to some degree and never got a negative reaction. I am not saying they all fucked a guy while I watched that same week. It took a while before we were all comfortable enough to actually do something. Ultimately, I really only did the full cuck thing with two of them, but I still had hot times with the others just talking and fantasizing about.

But anybody who is seriously dating a woman and is not sharing his cuck desires with her has no real excuse. Grow a pair and tell her you want her to be a slut. In the final analysis, trust me, it's a pretty good deal for them too.

And what is the worst thing that can happen she thinks you're a pervert. I know there are women who don't think their husbands are perverts, they are called bored wives.


The worst thing is I am sure there are some wannabes on this site, whose wives are cucking them, yet communication is so bad that they don't know they've reached the promise land yet.

it's about honesty, youre trying to say?
I totally agree...
stupid questions dont exist...
stupid answers however....

Thanks Fun and games, I think that was about the best advice I've received.
I guess there are so many ways to characterize this desire(especially because even I don't fully understand what it is), and I am trying to think of the most innocuous way to characterize it for her to avoid damaging my marriage too badly. (Something that her female mind can understand and be ok with.)
Is it that I want her to be a slut, or to act slutty, to screw other guys, or to indulge my fantasy that she wants to screw other guys, or could I just say as you suggest that "promiscuous women turn me on", but how do you elaborate on that?
I guess that I am also concerned because often on this site I hear people referring to great cuckold relationships in the past tense, which makes me concerned that taking this step destabilizes the relationship, which I guess shouldn't be a big surprise.

My wife fucks other guys pretty regularly and I still don't totally understand it. Anyone who has any fetish and thinks they can totally understand why is full of shit.

Why ask why? You know you want her to fuck other guys. She should know you want her to fuck other guys. You may gain insight, while you go along, but you're definitely not going to before you even start.

This is by far one of the best resources I've seen on the subject:
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My wife does not want to cuckold me even tho i have almost begged her to do it. she knows what i want and she likes to role play in bed and she has great orgasms. has anyone arranged for their wife to meet someone who wants to fuck your wife but wife doesnt know the meeting is arranged.

use a large strap on dildo which watching porn of women enjoying large cocks.

then turn the porn off and put your dick inside her.

do it every time you make love.

it works.

Thanks for the link!
I only just started reading, but so far...Spot on!
Who's Your Bitch.single,cuz not man enuf to attract a woman.
Will meet for sissy sex with yor cuck!!

Things can go wrong, like the wife cheating outright...But if you are able to get past that like the wife and I are trying to do, things can still work out. Lately, I've been using a penis extension to really add that extra size (I'm already a solid 7.5 inches and have decent girth) but she liked that full 9 and took it all. Deep down, she is the slut we both know she is. And I adore her for it.

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Hey

This is great thread

55 yr old hubby with a 53 yr old wife. I want to see her have the best. To be all that she can be. Hoping that she at some point may date!

I have been encouraging my wife to wear lover cut tops and shorter skirts and heels. Some limited success. Been taking dance lesson for 2 years, that has assited a lot.

We are going on a cruise 10 Oct out of Florida.

Woudl enjoy hearing suggestions etc.

Thanks

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The website has been discontinued. I wonder if it will pop up somewhere else?

More thoughts from a guy with an every couple of months cheating wife (i.e., not really a cuck) who lives on her stories of her escapades:

First, if you are going to do it, or she is, try to do it before she gets too old and nasty. No offense to the many men here that love their beautiful, fat, saggy wives (I agree, there's beauty in all women), but there's nothing worse than seeing some of these pictures with 50 somthing broads trying to fit ten pounds of sugar into a five pound bag and wearing outfits that should be reserved for fit women. Only sick derranged fucks will hit that shit if they are not in love or in debt to it, and you might not want her to spend time with so many sick pervs. So, the sooner the better, as I say.

I also invite you to look at the basic cuckold thread and my first story of hearing my future wife losing her virginity to another man. I don't know how to attach links, but the title is self-evident.

My perspective with my wife is that I like the confident feeling I have knowing that she is a well satisfied woman, even if I only indirectly do the satisfying (by pretending to ignore the signs of her extracurriculars). I get my satisfaction from hearing stories (when she is kind enough to share). She has the best of both worlds: me for all the husband stuff, provider stuff, parenting stuff, pussy eating stuff, and she takes the occasional horse cock when she needs it. What woman would not want that?

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OK I figured it out. Plus, my story is in the cuckold world thread.