I found out where the cuckold urge in men comes from!!!

Dear Fellow Cuckold Enthusiasts:
It has puzzled me for years where a man's urge to be cuckolded could come from. From an evolutionary perspective, being cuckolded and powerd to invest years in caring for a young that does not carry your genes is a worst case scenario.
Surely a gene for such an urge would have been selected against until it was gone. So I was confused as to why so many of us would have such a strong urge for it.
I was also concerned that the implication of wanting to be a cuckold was that somehow you were gay, but I have never thought of myself as gay, or that you were somehow abnormal or even perverse.
I decided to research the phenomenon from an evolutionary psychology perspective, and I think that I have hit paydirt in some recent research in the journals of this young science, and I wanted to share it with everyone.
Hopefully we can now understand where this powerful and puzzling urge is coming from, and realize that we are not gay or abnormal or perverted, but instead that we are the product of (and the winners of) millions of years of human evolution. For if our ancestors did not have these traits, we would not be here.
Below is an excerpt from a key paragraph and below is a link to the article.
I would welcome your feedback
Paul

"An interesting implication of the notion of male intra-vaginal competition is that male sexual arousal need not always be tightly connected to male sexual preferences. In general, men physiologically respond to sexual situations that match their sexual interests (something that is not quite true in women). But intra-vaginal battles demand men to
become aroused to situations that are actually unpleasant for them, for instance the suspicion of their partner’s infidelity. Men, therefore, may become very sexually aroused at the idea of their partner having sex with someone else, even though they would strongly avoid such a situation (see work by Pound, 2002). Of note, partner swapping seems to
involve older couples and appears to be a way to reignite flagging sexual passions."

The full article is here: The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

This study is somewhat limited, but presents some plausable areas for further study. The fucus is on perceived avaidance of cuckoldery by couples.

this article is consistent with other studies i have seen on cuckolding and is consistent with the documentary "sperm wars" which says that we want to fuck our wives even more if we (husbands) even think they were fucking other guys. and when we do fuck them we come more sperm so that our sperm can battle the other guys sperm. great stuff.

Interesting-I had read that book but never heard of the documentary. Where can I see it?

Although there are many theories as to our motivation for wanting our wifes to cuckold us, one of the best theories I have heard deals with the fact that after a while of sex with same partner it becomes somewhat boring and predictable.

We (husbands) begin to loose sexual desire for our wives...however if we perceive her to be attractive to other males, and we know that she can entice a sexual response in another very virile stud who can fuck her brains out, we love the idea of watching this! It is the proof we need that we must be wrong if we don't find her attractive and desirable. It is an ego building thing..." other guys want to fuck my woman, therefore she must be very desirable sexually...if this is so then I must desire her too or I will loose her to the other studs!".