redimac
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#1 Posted: 6 Jul 2009 16:15
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"I want this, it's all I think about!" How do I get her to cuck me??
As a bull, this question is often posed by cuck wanna be’s. Truth is, this is most often initiated by the hot wife. So how do you get her to make the move?
Well, first, discuss your fantasy with her....9 times out of 10, you'll find that already has her suspicions, and if you approach it directly and sensibly, she is likely to be responsive to the idea.
My advice is to go slowly and introduce everything and feel her out in stages.
Be nice to her for a week or so, give her good sex and spoil her a little. Take her out, have fun together. When she's in a great mood watch the movie Animal Instincts with her. (be sure to get the first one, the one with David Carradine - the other ones suck) Here's a preview:
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Watching this will totally bring up the subject of her watching and swinging in general. It's not a porn movie but a mainstream movie that deals directly with a man watching his wife have sex with other men. Chances are, he will probably deny that it would turn him on even though it does. You will have to take a chance and confess to her that it's something that does turn you on and something that you fantasize about. Even if you have to say that you'll probably never do it but that it's fun to fantasize. That might get her to loosen up and talk more about the fantasy and his feelings if she feels it's not going to lead anywhere.
Depending upon what she says, you might then have to bring it up over the next few weeks or months, especially when you're having sex. Watch the movie again and have sex during the sexy parts when the husband is watching. Show her that it turns you on. Let it develop slowly. Introduce more games and fun into your sex with her. Get more lingerie to turn her on and show her that you're having fun.
When the time is right, I recommend that you find a stranger to meet with, have him come over and then agree for her to just give him a handjob. Nothing more. That way, if it's too much for your wife, it was only a handjob and you can stop. No harm done. Tell her not to go all the way and don't kiss him or his dick. If it's just a hand job and your wife totally gets upset, you can stop the games and you didn't go too far. On the other hand, if it does turn her on, it will leave her wanting more.
Next find a guy that you like and who would be willing to play along and meet him for coffee or a drink. You should do most of the talking, have your wife stay a little out of the way. Then sit off in the corner, out of the way, turn down the lights, have your wife put on something sexy and give the other guy a little massage and hand job. Make things light and fun, sexy and non threatening. When the guy cums and leaves, be sure to have sex with your wife, GOOD sex. And then stay close to her over the next few days and be nice. Reassure her that the other guy is just a sex toy, nothing more. A 'walking dildo'. Once he sees that you are not upset with these other guys and that you don't leave him after and in fact, you are happier and the sex is better, he will warm up to the idea of swinging. (don't call it cuckolding at this point).
Be sure to talk to her about her feelings and how she felt while you were watching. Keep her excited and horny. Then have the guy come over again and have her give him a handjob but this time, you ask her to lick his dick a little bit.
And the next time, she sucks it a little more and so on.
You get the idea.
Joe Preston
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brianheater
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#2 Posted: 6 Jul 2009 17:02
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Sounds good man
is this from personal experience?
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redimac
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#3 Posted: 7 Jul 2009 00:16
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Personal as I am a bull, and saw this in operation...this or variations of it work to get things going...
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#4 Posted: 8 Jul 2009 01:59
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excellent guidance redimac, thank you for posting!
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Michael732
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#5 Posted: 15 Jul 2009 04:11
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That's really good stuff. Thanks for posting.
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redimac
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#6 Posted: 17 Jul 2009 19:36
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welcome...
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redimac
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#7 Posted: 30 Jul 2009 01:12
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bump it  Joe Preston |
califax
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#8 Posted: 31 Jul 2009 00:49
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thanks for this great post.
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redimac
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#9 Posted: 31 Jul 2009 01:09
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califax
if you try, let us hear how it went...
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redimac
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#10 Posted: 20 Aug 2009 15:51
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What is your experience...
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redimac
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#11 Posted: 6 Sep 2009 18:03
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today?
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redimac
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#12 Posted: 3 Apr 2010 16:36
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bump this
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redimac
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#13 Posted: 5 May 2010 00:12
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dgggg
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minuteman
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#14 Posted: 5 May 2010 19:48
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That was great info. I like the small steps and non threatening way. Also to refer to him as a sex toy or dildo is good. Is the movie "Animal Instict" a little scary as far as going to far and getting in trouble? I definitely think the part about the husband wanting to watch and the wife wanting to play is perfect.
I have been working with my wife to turn her into a hotwife. I have made suggestions as to what I want her to do and what I like, but I feel I should change and say that I know it is what "she" wants. Saying things like " I know you like to show off" and " I know you like men to flirt with you because of how sexy you look".
Has anyone else watched Animal Instict with their wife and what was the result?
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redimac
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#15 Posted: 5 May 2010 22:38
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of course, your mileage may vary, but I’ve experienced a few cuck wanna be’s who took an approach like this…effectively.
Joe Preston
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JUANITO
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#16 Posted: 7 May 2010 08:16
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Redimac: If that is in fact your photo next to your text you do look so dam familiar! Have you done some porno flicks? If not you sure look like a guy I have seen on film doing white wives...no kidding, man! You are a dead ringer for the guy!
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#17 Posted: 7 May 2010 18:51
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Juanito: You're joking, right? That's Vin Diesel.
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redimac
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#18 Posted: 7 May 2010 20:28
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kdfrog yup Vin Diesel avatar, baby!  Joe Preston
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liketolook
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#19 Posted: 25 Jun 2010 16:47
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anyone have any other films, porn or regular, that can help expose a wife/gf to the idea of cuckolding etc?
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#20 Posted: 29 Jun 2010 22:56
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That's really great advice redimac, do you mind if I add to it, from a woman's point of view?
Firstly, a hand job might not necessarily be the best thing for all women - you know your wife best, pick something she loves doing and feels confident with, could be a massage (just his back or all over), sucking his cock, or just touching and flirting. I think for some women a hand job is a bit scary (that they won't get it right for the guy) and not that sexual for her, so check what she'd like to do.
Secondly, you might scare some women by talking about 'swinging' - they might worry that you're doing/saying all this so that you can do the same with another woman. Or they might think you're gonna be taking them to some dodgy 70s style orgy party (no offence to anyone who does this, it's just probably not the first image you want to put in your wife's mind if you want her to start cuckolding you). I think the term cuckolding is ok personally, but maybe redimac is right to be a bit cautious at first.
I haven't seen the film, but what a good idea! It's reassuring for a woman to see that this is a common fantasy. When Took first told me about his fantasy I thought he might be the only one, until he showed me this website! (Liketolook, why don't you show her cuckoldplace?)
I suppose like redimac was saying it's just really important to take it very slow and be very reassuring. Personally I loved the fact that my husband's secret sexual fantasy was me! Ok not just me, me with another guy, but even so, not every wife can say that, so I'm sure your wives will be very happy to hear that you fantasize about her sexually.
Mrs Took. x
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wannasuk
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#21 Posted: 30 Jun 2010 05:25
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good advice! I will try, I am gettting the video now
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Mike W
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#22 Posted: 30 Jun 2010 11:52
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NETFLIX does not have it!! Where to rent??
Life is short, play hard.
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wannasuk
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#23 Posted: 30 Jun 2010 15:25
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piratebay has it
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#24 Posted: 1 Jul 2010 01:24
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I agree with the whole jist of redimac's plan and it is good to see Mrs. tooks input as a woman- very enlightening. In my discussions in moving my wife over the edge, I have put the idea of another guy doing her as her "sex trainer", like a trainer in the gym, except for sex skills. sounds better than walking dildo, and not as scary or emotionally threatening as a "lover". she is also having a problem with me as a cuckold, not a manly or inspiring thought, I told that I'm not one, because that connotes the man who doesn't know or doesn't agree with his wife having sex with others, whereas, I and other husbands are encouraging and facilitating the sex with others- I have put it in terms of her "hotwifing", the wife having sex with others for the mutual enjoyment of the couple, not the victimization or putdown of the husband. she hasn;t done it yet, but getting closer! phredd2003 |
redimac
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#25 Posted: 8 Nov 2010 23:32
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phredd2003
sound cool......
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