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biggs
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# Posted: 9 Feb 2006 20:14:03 Reply
It seems like alot of people on this site are actually closest gays (not that it matters), and are more interested with sucking dick themselves opposed to having there women dominate them. Am I wrong to think that a gay man seeking to come out of the closest is not actually the same thing as a hetrosexual man being dominated in his social life/married life with his wife/gf being the same thing?
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amstermatt
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# Posted: 9 Feb 2006 22:57:00 Reply
No!! We are not gay.. We do it becouse we love our wifes/gf and want them to be as happy as possable.We will do anything to please our wifes/gf. Thay do this (in many cases) becouse we ask them to go out and find men to have sex with , and in many cases we find the men for them. We love are wifes/gf and love to watch them in action.. We are only helping them to have fun with there lovers.. Hope that tells you what you want to Know..
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amstermatt
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# Posted: 10 Feb 2006 00:38:16 Reply
Very well said.. Thank you
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drdneast
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# Posted: 10 Feb 2006 01:56:04 Reply
I agree with gstore and well put. Although I enjoy sucking cock and even taking it occassionally in my pussy, I have never been hot on kissing guys and would never want to be in a full time relationship with a male. I always considered myself bibecause of that. In the end, who knows who cares. As Lennon said, "Whatevere gets u through the night."
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dave miller
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# Posted: 10 Feb 2006 12:55:40 Reply
Sexual. I like that.
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biggs
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# Posted: 10 Feb 2006 18:30:15 Reply
I like your answer gstore with the exception that it did not mention what this site is "all about'. This site is a cuckold fantasy site that as I understand details a mans life with a significant women that is unfaithful to him or free somehow to do what ever she may feel like.....blah blah. The idea of sucking another mans cock without direct reference to her being there/direction would indicate a more bi life style (my opionion). While on the contrary doing it/not doing it with her being satisfied seems more like the straight foward cuckold fantasy.
So to ask the question once again....why does so many cuckolds center there stories/fantasies around sucking a mans penis without actually centering the act around there wife/gf.
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Slutwifes_bihubby
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# Posted: 11 Feb 2006 06:32:24 Reply
gstore wrote:
"(read before flaming)" you said. -- etc.
Fine post, gstore; I won't attempt to improve on it because I can't.
But I will add just one thing for our inquisitive friend:
Many/most of us started sucking cock because our wives/girlfriends demanded it. Whether we enjoyed it right away or developed an appreciation for it, those of us who do suck cock for our wives are quite proud of our roles, either way.
Me? I'm bi. Some people say there's no such thing; I say they're fucked in the head. If it doesn't work for them, fine. Either way, gstore is right: ultimately, it's about being sexual, not about identifying oneself to some random, pre-ordained, cookie-cutter pattern.
What about you, Bihubby? you ask. Well, I love cock, and I've said it before. I think cock is every bit as beautiful as pussy, although given a choice, I'd suck pussy before I'd suck cock. It's just the fact that I'd suck cock at the drop of a hat that confuses some people.
In my case, when I suck my wife's lover's cock, she's usually either getting licked silly by the "bull" or she's fingering herself watching me, or he's fingering her as she's watching me worship his beautiful, powerful, sexy realman cock. And so on. You figure out the positions; they are many, and ... fucking gorgeous ...
Shame -- so many cocks (annnnnnnnnnd so many sweet pussies), and me with only one mouth. Anyone care to, uh, occupy it? Trust me, my wife will understand ...
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biggs
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# Posted: 11 Feb 2006 19:37:15 Reply
I think this discussion would make it clear too me that I may actually be more of a swinger than a .......whatever. I for example would rather leave my other enjoy her exploits on her own (dick aside). I am also a cronic cheater/swinger in the "hetrosexual" class anyway (I banged my signifcant others best friend last night....lol).
If I were to call my self a cuckold I would also have to call myself a BULL at the same time. I am not a small dicked male, I have/doing/will sleep with assorted women in relationships. My true and only passion in my own life style is strickly women, and my question was only of intrest(not ment to "sucker punch").
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Kali
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# Posted: 12 Feb 2006 10:08:04 Reply
Some are some aren't.
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Slutwifes_bihubby
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# Posted: 13 Feb 2006 02:44:58 Reply
gstore wrote:
You see "Swinging" ISN'T cheating..if you are having sex with another couple and your wife doesn't know it...That's CHEATING...Swinging is an contemporary term for "wife swapping" and you're not swapping anything but LIES (to your wife).
Again gstore hammers the nail squre. There is nothing about cuckolding -- or swinging, for that matter -- that says "cheating". In fact, I guarantee over 99% of swingers would reject, completely reject out of hand, anyone whose spouse wasn't aware of what they were up to, no matter what they looked like or how appealing they might otherwise be. We want nothing to do with people like that. We fuck around with consent; we're not homewreckers.
Thanks again, gstore, for setting the record, er, straight!
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tabitha_and_patrick
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# Posted: 2 Aug 2006 15:11:52 Reply
My hubby likes the cocks. He likes them because I LOVE them.
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karli kunt
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# Posted: 3 Aug 2006 00:34:57 Reply
There are many different types of cuckold relationships. Some cuck hubbies don't suck cock, don't take it in the ass and don't crossdress. However, they still enjoy having their wives cuck them. On the other hand, some Dominant Wives enjoy "forcing' their cucks into feminine sissy behavior. However, this doesn't mean the hubby is gay. In fact, the opposite is usually the case.
I was firmly heterosexual and was brought up to be a macho male who dreamed about fucking as many women as I could. When My First Wife started cuckolding me, she wanted to totally dominate and control me. One of the ultimate ways to demonstrate her power over me was to "force" me to suck her Lovers' cocks. At first, I objected, resisted and was totally opposed to the idea. Eventually, she, of course, exercised Her Will and made me do it. Once I had sucked several men's cocks, I actually learned to like it, enjoy it and even crave the yummy taste of cock and cum. However, I DO NOT CONSIDER MYSELF GAY.
I have no desire to kiss a man and am not the least bit interested in dating them or being with them exclusively. I still love women and prefer to spend most of my time with Dominant Women. All of the things that you might characterize as being gay, such as sucking cock, getting fucked in my sissypussy and crossdressing are simply to satisfy the demands of my wife and Mistresses.
Moreover, my wife's Lovers feel more comfortable around a cuck hubby who is feminized, sissified, sucks cock and takes it in their sissypussy. There is no fear that they will suddenly have to deal with an irate and angry macho male husband suddenly seeking revenge. My wife's Bulls know they can completely and totally control a feminized sissyslut cuck hubby. Moreover, they enjoy the blowjobs and they especially enjoy fucking my sissypussy when my wife is having her period or is out of town. Actually, even when my wife is available, she is not very found of anal sex. Most of the time that's my job and the Bulls, who all seem to love a nice, tight, white, wet and creamy sissypussy, really appreciate having that service available. Because My Mistresses and I provide a full array of sexual pleasures, we always seem to have more Bulls to play with than we have time.
My wife feels more secure in her position knowing that I am feminized and sissified. She has the ultimate leverage to keep me from being unfaithful to her and/or changing my mind at some point in the future. Having shown my cocksucking skills off to soo many of our friends and with so many pix of me dressed en femme getting fucked, I'm clearly in no position to ever disobey and/or cause her any problems in the future.
It is this ultimate control that leads so many Women to opt for a sissy cuck hubby. It is the reason so many experienced Cuckoldresses advise wives who are considering the Lifestyle to "force" their cuck hubbies to suck cock. It is precisely because so many straight husbands are opposed to it that a Domme Wife should force the issue. Even if she doesn't particularly enjoy watching the cuck hubby suck cock, she should "force" him to do it because of the way it deepens and enhances her control over him. The same goes for forcing him to take a strap-on or a Real Man's cock in his sissypussy. Nothing makes a cuck hubby more submissive and obedient than being forced onto all fours, face down in the pillow, ass up in the air getting fucked deep N hard. Once a cuck hubby has been mounted, there is almost no remnant of that pig-male ego left and almost no chance the cuck hubby will later rebel and/ or resist other demands of his wife and/or Mistress.
Your little cocksucking sissyslut pantydoll kunt-gurl,
Ms. karli kunt
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jamesriske
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# Posted: 3 Aug 2006 04:50:01 Reply
Not that it's any big deal but any guy who sucks cock or takes one up the ass without a gun to his head is gay.
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biggs
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# Posted: 3 Aug 2006 05:44:28 Reply
since i started this post I have decided to try sucking dick, the thought was part of the continueing partern of wanting to be dominated. I dont consider my self gay, but I do love sucking on a man dick till he cums in my mouth. The idea of satisfying a man and having his dominance forced down my throat as I swallow ever drop of cum is a huge turn on. With this said I dont consider men sexxy or good looking, but I am addicted to "cum in mouth".
I prefer to suck dick and not be sucked by a man.
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jamesriske
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# Posted: 3 Aug 2006 07:36:45 Reply
Ok, am I the only one who sees a problem with this quote:?
""""I dont consider my self gay, but I do love sucking on a man dick till he cums in my mouth."""""
That's gay. But you know, who cares? What's with all the labels? So, you're a little bit gay. So what?
The problem I have is with labels of staight or gay. The reality is that most people fit in between.
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talented one
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# Posted: 5 Aug 2006 08:32:05 Reply
I agree with James. I love fucking women and I enjoy sucking cock too, preferably at the same time. I just like variety in my sex life.
I dont walk down the street and think "he's a good looking guy, i'd love to suck his cock", but I do look at women and think, "I'd love to fuck her".
If sucking a guy's cock or cleaning up a creampie makes me bi, then that's what I am. I dont lose any sleep over it . We are what we are, just enjoy it while you can.
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bundaddy
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# Posted: 10 Aug 2006 23:45:55 · Edited by: bundaddy Reply
in my situation my gf is the one who started it all! as a part of our sex play she introduced a strap-on for me to suck and eventually she took my ass. just part of role play and giving up control. after a while we decided she would have others and tell me about it. One night after she was out with her booty call she came home full of cum and demanded i eat her pussy! i did it and things have never been the same.
after that i rarely had sex. she would let me clean her and would fuck my ass often., all the while denying me ejaculation. i was desperate so i begged her to to let me be in the room with her so at least i could see the action. be careful what u wish for because that was the night i got my first taste of cock in my mouth and ass. she and her fuck were done but he wanted more. she told him if he did it would have to be with me!! i was horrified and he seemed not into it either. she grabbed my head and shoved it down on his cock. it got hard in a second. it was ok so i did as i was told,so did he! she told him to fuck me so i got on all fours and he pushed it in. it went in easy because of her strap-on fucking.
now i look forward to the sex because it is the only sexual contact i get. i love her and she loves me. so i don't consider it gay.just the way it has to be!
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denny1970
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# Posted: 11 Aug 2006 02:41:39 Reply
"it would seem that if the cuck was gay, so would be the bull who wanted him sucking his cock. Grin."
I'd have to agree with Riven & JR on that...takes two to tango...bwahahaha...if that's your thing, fine...but don't leave the bull out of the equation.
In the same vein, I'm of the same mind as Riven, although not so far down the D/s path. I want to see her pimped-out because her and I are into it...not because I'm into the whole submissive tack. In my mind, any "dominant bull" that's tapping my wife is going to be respectful, particularly to her, and me for the *priviledge* of me allowing him to have her. Period. Anything else is a recipe for trouble.
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Gothicuck
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# Posted: 11 Aug 2006 03:14:25 Reply
I can't speak for anyone else but I have always been very bi. I LOVE pussy and I also like cock, what can I say. LOL. Call me whatever you want, it doesn't matter to me in the slightest.
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gussie
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# Posted: 22 Aug 2006 17:13:19 Reply
I don't consider myself gay, i am Bi and i enjoy both men and women. Once I tried a big Black cock i found I could not resist trying more. I have met with couples and married men. I ejoy eating pussy and sucking cock.
I find myself aching to suck cock. I love creamfilled pussy, I have tried anal and enjoy it.
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Rick Patterson
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# Posted: 1 Sep 2006 16:01:19 Reply
Does it really matter if you label someone gay or not. I don't consider myself gay. But I would love to suck a cock. Preferably a hot looking shemale. Or take turns with my wife sucking one. I would never get turned on kissing or touching a guy. All I'm interested in is the cock. I think a guy wants to know that his wife is enjoying whatever happens in their encounter. You want to watch your wife really enjoy herself because you enjoy seeing her feel good and be happy. I don't think any of these guys care about the guy screwing his wife. So no, I don't think they are gay. Now if you care more about the guy screwing your wife than your wifes pleasure than yes, you might be gay.
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jeff t
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# Posted: 7 Sep 2006 06:57:24 Reply
;)Well just thought I would get my 2 cents worth in on this one before I
toddle off to bed. I am about to see my fifty third year in a month or so.
When I was younger; 20 to late 30's I fucked close to fifty woman and
ate out most of them to several orgasms over the
course of our 31 year marriage. I also got fucked 3 of four times, and sucked cock a few times. However, not once with my wife being present.
I never would consider myself gay, maybe bi under very narrow circumstances; if one has to use a label. I not into the humiliation thing, my own cock is at least average, maybe a bit more. I just love sex in
non tradional ways. I love oral: cunt is always my first choice. But, I will
admit if I see a hard, cut cock with a shape body, I turns me on.
I put all of this in the past-tense since I have not seen that kind of action
in thirteen years. Now its just monogamous sex, and seldom at that.
Unlike alot of guys who get to be my age, I never let myself go. I am still
shape. However, it seems with attainment of a certain age none of that
matters. You get that old tag on you like it or not. In all the years I have
never considered myself gay.
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devilish
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# Posted: 3 Oct 2006 15:03:36 Reply
does this in youre opinion make all Bulls gay because they get there cocks sucked by a cuck husband ?????
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Bill mgee
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# Posted: 18 Jan 2008 08:11:18 Reply
Sorry for bumping this thread after 2 years, but No, I do not think they are gay, but rather bi. They get pleasure off their wife being dominated and they being dominated as well. There is nothing wrong with that. It's 2008. Sex is about having fun.
devilish It makes him bi if he enjoys it. Is it a crime to enjoy it? no, but he does so he's bi. I don't know why people use euphemisms about homosexual activities. I mean it is what it is.
18 years old. Black male looking forward to meeting couples.
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tinyone
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 05:35:23 Reply
i don't know if I am bi but nothing is more exciting to me than watching my wife fuck a man that has a huge cock. I do love seeing that fat cock but I love even more my wife enjoying her stud while i watch.
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Bill mgee
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 07:05:13 Reply
I wouldn't consider that bi at all. It's just living an voyeur moment. However, servicing a FB because your wife says so, I believe is bi/gay. If you truly objected it, you would not have considered such a thing.
It's like someone telling you to rob a store and saying, I'm not doing it because I want too, I'm doing it because my so and so told me too. Well, no one is holding a gun to your head.
I understand the goal is to please your wife or partner, but what I don't get is downplaying homosexual activity as if it were coerced. That really irks me. You have essentially given up your manhood through this lifestyle, but you can't admit that you like sucking a cock? is there something wrong with that?
I'm not a sissy fanatic, but at least they are upfront about their activities.
18 years old. Black male looking forward to meeting couples.
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Shrinking Violet
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 08:14:56 Reply
I would look on it more as a question of Is it Pleasurable vs Forced...
If the relationship you are in feels good/ pleasurable and is done with the consent of both/ all partners in that relationship then who cares what type of 'socio-economic sexuality' group society says you belong to.
I've started to look at the world a different way since my husband gave me his 'permission' to look for a lover. I've experienced two men as lovers since then and to my surprise I know and love my husband more now than when I started.
If our relationship wasn't as strong as it is, it would have ended quickly in divorce. As a result of the our activities I believe that our marriage is stronger as a result.
The act of Oral (on male and female) is the act of that person in trust. You're placing your sexual ability on the line when they place their mouth on you. If they bite down your fucked! (excuse the pun)
So taken on the amount of trust involved, its a matter of love, respect and trust, but there must also be pleasure involved as well... FOR ALL PARTNERS INVOLVED
The Goddess rules the Horned God
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Bill mgee
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 09:01:57 Reply
that's why I am saying. If all parties is enjoying it, why does it matter if it has a label? I think people are afraid to admit to their selves that they enjoy the same sex openly.
18 years old. Black male looking forward to meeting couples.
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creamcleaner
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 10:36:57 Reply
Why is it that woman can be bi and no one seems to mind in fact it is a turn on. Then when a guy is bi he is labled gay and told by so could straight guys there is no such thing a a bi male? Just my thought as a bi male.
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