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mred4682
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 06:02:12
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Once your mind accepts the fantasy of being a cuck, I believe for many they are trapped without a way back. Ever since I saw my first wife with another man, there was no way I could go back, it was part of what broke that marriage up, not the key thing, but part. Now I am in a wonderful marriage with a women who loves me to death, but also loves having other guys and I know I could never live another way.
Last Thursday my wife enjoyed yet another new boyfriend for the first time and he turned out to be better sexually than any guy she had been with and it yet again sent my emotions spinning.
All my life I had felt insecure about my size and performance yet wanted more than anything to please my partner. Turning to be a cuckold was partly a desire to see if I really was as in adequate as I thought I was and another part wanting to please my partner. Now that I've watched my wife with many other guys I know the real truth, however I also know that NONE of them could ever love my wife as much as I do.
We have talked at times about her continuing, and for me there is absolutely no way I could ever take that from her. Luckily it still turns me on like crazy and we both love it, but honestly although she claims she loves me so much she could walk away from it, I know I couldn't no matter how much jealousy or whatever else I felt.
Once you watch the one you love have better sex with someone else I believe a lot of men become trapped. Even if they chose not to ever do it again, they know the truth and will never forget it. If you never do it, you will always wonder.
Luckily at least for me, there is no other way I would want to live, but I'm just lucky my wife loves it all as much as I do and loves me as much as she does.
Be careful if you’re not as lucky as I am, you could find yourself in a trap you don't know how to get out of, either in your mind or in reality. Once it happens it won't be easy to walk away from it, not that you would want to. 
I know, I know, I know, too analytical for all of you that are here just for the fantasy of it all, have fun!
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countryWa
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 07:11:02
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Is feeling "inadequate" a necessary part of cuckolding? Somehow I doubt it. I say this because I know for a fact I am a good lover. The proof is in the pudding, as they say, before I married I had a lot of girlfriends and they would often come back around for sex after we broke up. One remaining "legacy" from 15 years ago is now married but still on call My cock is pretty good 6.5" and thick, straight. I am not so bad to look at, I got that from my dad who is a really handsome guy, and my mom who was the local town sweetheart. I am well-educated, well-traveled, bilingual, financially very secure, and etc.
Having said that, I would like my wife to have a good strong fuck by a total stranger. She is just too good in bed not to share, built for sex and an enormous appetite. What kind of pervert am I? I guess a cuckold, maybe some other term. When I read the humiliation stories here I do not identify with that part, but a lot of the other stuff sounds "right on".
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jamesriske
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 08:37:08
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Quoting: countryWa Is feeling "inadequate" a necessary part of cuckolding? Somehow I doubt it. I say this because I know for a fact I am a good lover. The proof is in the pudding, as they say, before I married I had a lot of girlfriends and they would often come back around for sex after we broke up. One remaining "legacy" from 15 years ago is now married but still on call My cock is pretty good 6.5" and thick, straight. I am not so bad to look at, I got that from my dad who is a really handsome guy, and my mom who was the local town sweetheart. I am well-educated, well-traveled, bilingual, financially very secure, and etc. Having said that, I would like my wife to have a good strong fuck by a total stranger. She is just too good in bed not to share, built for sex and an enormous appetite. What kind of pervert am I? I guess a cuckold, maybe some other term. When I read the humiliation stories here I do not identify with that part, but a lot of the other stuff sounds "right on".
I agree.
I watch my wife fuck other guys from time to time and I'm not small or inadequate at all. We have a great relationship.
My advice to guys pondering this lifestyle is to start with something small. Have her give a handjob only while you watch and see how you both feel. Take small steps leading up to full on sex.
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 13:20:46
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My wife has been cucking me now for 13 years we have been together for 15 years. I am small with only 3 inches on a good day and I cum very quick. She has a very large sex drive and a very large pussy, so she needs big cocks to make her cum. So it works well for us for her to play with bulls. It has made us closer and is a very inportant part of our relationship. We find it has made us very open about everything in life and has helped us no end. We love each other very much ans consider her lovers as sex toys.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 15:07:25
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Small steps are a good idea. My intention of the post was to point out that once you dive right in you may not have a way back.
My wife never treats me like a sissy or a wimp, but she does push my jealousy buttons and points out size differences, which turns me on most of the time.
Honestly I would love to be able to fuck her like the other guys, but since I can't I could never take that away from her, it ends up being a whirl wind of emotions.
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wifedateshubwaits
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 15:22:21
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Although I don't get to watch my wife, I know exactly how you feel about not turning back. Even after ten years of being a true cuck, I still get butterflies in my stomach when she tells me she has a date. Seeing the woman I love, the woman to whom I have sworn to be faithful, primping to go out with another man is so incredibly exciting. Seeing her anticipation, her lust and raw sexual desire is intoxicating and is only surpassed by the glow of satisfaction that she exudes when she gets home. So no, there is no way either of us would want to change anything.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 17:40:36
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Ahhhhhh.... the addiction of it all. Even if she doesn't get addicted, we do...! Once you've experienced that stew of sexual-emotional arousal, there is no going back.
And no... you don't need the sub-sissy-bi-humilation thing. There are those that include those fetishes along with the cuck fetish, but many don't. I'm hung just as well as many guys my wife has seen, and I'm actually Dom.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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countryWa
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 18:09:15
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Great comments in this thread. Thanks a lot PalmCoast I can relate to that, and love jriske idea of starting very slow. Great stuff thanks all. More thoughts appreciated.
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slippy02
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# Posted: 26 Jul 2008 02:31:04
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Have to agree about great and realistic comments, nice thread.
While i have to openly admit that i am cuckold, am also not into the sissy thing nor am i into some of the other extreme forms of fun others seem to think is neccessary to be cuckolded by your own wife.
I do agree that it is an addiction and even if she does not become addicted/obsessed we do. I love the fact that other men have enjoyed my wife and she has enjoyed them too. I have never been denied my own pleasure with her, except short term, while another guy has been doing her and maybe i have wanked myself off while waiting or awaiting her return from a date out with some boyfriend etc.
I still get so excited by some guy just chatting and/or looking her over, knowing where such situations have led to in the past.
I would like to add that these posts/thread is one , if not the most realistic i have read on this site and gives some encouragement from the one liners.
I also have to add that some of the fantasy stuff posted on this site, is still good too and the pics found are generally great stuff.
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JUANITO
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# Posted: 1 Aug 2008 09:18:51
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Long before I ever even heard the terminology "cuckold" or knew anything about this phenomenom or lifestyle I was treated to another man's wife. When she told me that her husband knew about our affair
and approved of it I was totally dumbfounded. Having been brought up to be possesive and jealous I could not understand for the life of me how a man could enjoy having his wife fucked by another man.
But that was then, this is now! When I finally got my turn to become the cuckold husband it was like a whole new world had opened up for me. I could finally understand that husband of long ago letting me fuck his wife! The thrill and excitement I felt knowing my sexy wife was fucking aonther man's brains out just totally blew my mind and YES!!! I became totally adicted to the experience...to the point that it was I from from that time on who would encourage my wife to fuck other guys. Sex became incredibly enjoyable for me, much more than it had ever been when I played the "jealous" role. To this day I cannot find anything more sexually mind blowing for me than to see another man's big cock entering my wife's beautiful pussy while I moan and wish I could be licking it right then even as he fucks her! WOW! WHAT A RUSH!
I once got to lay under my wife in a 69 position while another guy entered her from behind doggy style as I was eating her pussy down below! That was such a rare treat that I have never been able to duplicate that moment. Of course I couldn't help partially touching with my tongue the shaft of his cock as he fucked her while I ate her. Many bulls will not go along with this as they feel it is a homosexual act...I don't see it that way...I just feel I can be right there to provide exra pleasure for her as I lick her clit while he is fucking her. If I accidentally lick his shaft, so be it...I am not homosexual, but it is just that I so much enjoy eating her pussy that I feel it has to be an extra treat for her to feel my tongue as well as his cock at the same time. Just writing about it gives me an icredible hard on like nothing else could! If any of you have ever experienced this you would know what I mean! TOTALLY MIND BLOWING!
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renebe
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# Posted: 1 Aug 2008 14:25:31
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Quoting: mred4682 Ever since I saw my first wife with another man, there was no way I could go back
Been there. Well, sort of. I wasn't anywhere near the "crime scene", but I knew my girl friend of the time was with another guy. It was enough to get hooked.
Quoting: mred4682 it was part of what broke that marriage up
Done that. The same girl friend later became my wife. I found it increasingly hard to cope with the fact that she didn't have much sex with other men. In fact, she only had sex with another guy three or four times in all of the almost ten years we were together.
It wasn't the major reason of our brake up. But it was one of the roots of what became an increasingly unsatisfying relationship -for the both of us.
This is one of the major threats of the trap. It can cost you a relationship that could probably have lasted a lot longer if it wasn't for your cuckolding feelings. Another threat, off course, is that your wife has a lot more chances to find a guy she could leave you for.
And you though are very conscious of the risks involved, there is no way you can walk away from it. The stakes are high. But so are the rewards.
Quoting: mred4682 Now I am in a wonderful marriage with a women who loves me to death, but also loves having other guys and I know I could never live another way.
I know. I'm in the same position here. The thought of losing her is killing me, but still I cannot stop myself from thriving her into the arms of another man. The more she likes him, the more I love it. And the more I fear it.
Quoting: mred4682 Last Thursday my wife enjoyed yet another new boyfriend for the first time and he turned out to be better sexually than any guy she had been with and it yet again sent my emotions spinning.
My wife doesn't have many new boyfriends. In fact, she would prefer only one guy ,to date steadily. Not just for a good fuck, but for the whole package.
It isn't hard for her to find someone who's better sexually: I'm a lousy fuck. Finding a guy who's as nice as I am is a bit more of a problem (I do have my qualities), but that's exactly what she's after: finding someone who's at least as nice as I am (preferably even nicer), and a good fuck.
Can you see the danger here? I can. I'm very aware of the danger. And still I can't help myself. If that's what she needs to be able to fuck another guy, then tha's what she gets. I'll thrive her right into the arms of het prince charming if I have to.
Quoting: mred4682 We have talked at times about her continuing, and for me there is absolutely no way I could ever take that from her.
To take it from her?? Hell, there is no way I could ever take that from me!! Being a cuckold is in a way very egocentric.
Quoting: mred4682 Luckily at least for me, there is no other way I would want to live, but I'm just lucky my wife loves it all as much as I do and loves me as much as she does.
Same here.
Quoting: mred4682 Be careful if you’re not as lucky as I am, you could find yourself in a trap you don't know how to get out of, either in your mind or in reality. Once it happens it won't be easy to walk away from it, not that you would want to.
It isn't merely "not easy" to walk away from. It's quite impossible. You'll walk away from your wife -however much you love her- before you walk away from cuckolding. It is an addiction and I submit it's a hell of a lot stronger than many other addictions.
Quoting: countryWa Is feeling "inadequate" a necessary part of cuckolding?
Nope. Feeling inadequate or felling a lesser person or being submissive are no necessary parts of cuckolding. The only necessary part is that your wife fucks other men.
I am a submissive, I do (and like) the sissy stuff, I am being humiliated. In short: the works. And I like it. But I could just as well be a dominant or a daddy dom. In a way I'm kind of a chameleon. If my wife wants me to be her pervert submissive little sissy slut, then that's what I'll be. If she wants to be the slut and needs a self assured master to get her to fuck many men, then that's what I'll be. Anything she needs to be able to fuck other men. Anyway she wants it.
Quoting: mred4682 My intention of the post was to point out that once you dive right in you may not have a way back.
There is no way back. Not for me.
Quoting: wifedateshubwaits Although I don't get to watch my wife, I know exactly how you feel about not turning back. Even after ten years of being a true cuck, I still get butterflies in my stomach when she tells me she has a date. Seeing the woman I love, the woman to whom I have sworn to be faithful, primping to go out with another man is so incredibly exciting. Seeing her anticipation, her lust and raw sexual desire is intoxicating and is only surpassed by the glow of satisfaction that she exudes when she gets home.
I hear you. And that's exactly how it is: if she doesn't want us to be there, we won't. If she wants us to see it we will. If she wants to humiliate us, or likes her man to humiliate us, we let them. Short of murder there isn't a thing we wouldn't do to get what we need: those butterflies, the intoxicating excitement, all the things that we feel when she gives herself to another man.
Quoting: PalmCoastCouple Ahhhhhh.... the addiction of it all. Even if she doesn't get addicted, we do...!
Indeed.
Quoting: slippy02 While i have to openly admit that i am cuckold, am also not into the sissy thing nor am i into some of the other extreme forms of fun others seem to think is neccessary to be cuckolded by your own wife.
It is not necessary for me, as a cuckold. But I am very able and willing to comply if it is what she wants, needs or likes. Anything she needs to sleep with other men.
Quoting: JUANITO Long before I ever even heard the terminology "cuckold" or knew anything about this phenomenom or lifestyle I was treated to another man's wife.
rotfl. I even did that! Poor lady, she must have been very disappointed with me. I think her husband was too, though he was probably very pleased I shot a load or two into his wife. Sweet memories of a time when I still fucked women. However bad and inadequate I was, I did have a few women. *sigh*
Quoting: countryWa Great comments in this thread.
I agree. Let's keep 'em comming!
rene.
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myalleymyalley
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 03:54:00
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wow,
yes
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myalleymyalley
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 03:58:41
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wow,
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mred4682
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 08:36:35
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Sounds like most of you that have responded to this thread agree that they want nothing else but to keep their wives cumming.
The guys that amaze me are those husbands in situations like "Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding" and other posts on this sight. Although I see how they get to that point, for some of the same reasons each of us have listed in this thread, I kind of wonder if they really wanted it to go that far.
That is my fear in all of this is not even being a part of her sex life in any way. I love being a part of it, by helping her pick which guys and be able to watch and take part and feel jealousy as he fucks her better than I can. But I still want to be able to physically be with her some how. Even if that is just creampie and cuddling and rubbing against her aftward.
My hope is that by continueing to talk and always playing together we will never fall to far into the trap. But I do admit some of the things some of the rest of you are doing (letting her go on her own, being made fun of, ...) do turn me on.
For now things are better than they ever could be. Here is to hopping things will stay that way. And lets keep them cumming!
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lavalamp777
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 09:50:09 · Edited by: lavalamp777
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I agree with many posts here. Although I do have a small penis, like 4.5 inches, I am still a pretty aggressive guy when it comes to women and fucking. My ex gf was the type that wanted to be treated like a pile of dirty laundry, so I had to adapt my techniques to satisfy her. Im not sure if I ever fully satisfied her, but I sure gave it my best. But I don't feel extremely inadequate or want to be controlled to full extents.
I think many people here take the aspects of cuckolding to extreme levels. Posts where people talk about their wives leaving them, being denied sex or physical contact, having their cocks put into metal objects, etc, is a bit off for my tastes. I get turned on by my wife or gf being a sex machine and getting pleasure from other sources. I do like some of the mild humiliation aspects, mild denial, mild control, but at the end of the day, or at least a few days, I want access to that cum filled pussy. If I don't get that, time to move on to the next fish.
Maybe that's just me though, who I am to judge? Perhaps there are a couple here that realistically would get a divorce and be a slave to a woman that really doesnt give a shit about them? Honestly I think that is rare though, and for many that is just a fantasy on this site. Most that have a wife would not want things to go that far, and those that reside in their basements like vampires and beat off to the captions section maybe would, but first they gotta get some sun rays in them before approaching women in RL.
I think I fall into the hotwife's husband type category, with some mild cuckolding. Although I have never been cuckolded yet, I know I would enjoy greatly the jealousy aspect of it and the pre stages of planning events out with her and her "man" whoever he may be. I like getting to know all the details, and planning events of them going out etc, her bringing him over and me pretending I am a room mate or something.
I also was a natural cuckold before I even knew what a cuckold was. My ex told me she had fantasies of having 2 guys at once etc. At first I was pretty mad and confused about her desires, but they grew on me and I came to accept them. Although my ex was never involved with other men while with me, we sure did plan alot of scenarios with guys we knew in our lives, none of them successful I must say  .
But I have no regrets, because just planning and talking about that stuff got us so hot and worked up, it was amazing. I remember my ex wearing her old high school kilt skirt one day when a friend of mine she wanted to fuck came over. She was wearing a bright neon pink thong and had totally done herself up, waxed legs, tanned, nice heels, done her hair, new highlights, everything. Our plan was that we were going to watch a movie, and before we would start I would say that I had to run to the store because I forgot the salsa for the chips. In the meantime she would stay with him chilling on the couch. The plan was that she would bend down to put the DVD in while I was gone making her skirt go up, showing him the "goods", seeing his reaction etc. It was basically just a tease to see what would happen. We did our plan but nothing happened, I guess he just was not interested in her or maybe he was too good of a friend to do something. Later on they talked online and stuff, and she basically told him that she likes him and would like to fuck. He said he wasnt interested, so nothing ever happened, but damm was it exciting. We just needed a better variety of candidates, and it was difficult with her because she wasnt a total slut. She wanted to know the guys first and trust them on some level. Once she had that it was all good to go.
Anyways Ive rambled on here way too much, but I guess its alright since I never post. Time to get back to viewing the 9 % of good content on here, and planning my next devious/cunning relationship
Take it easy, don't put your penis in a metal tube!
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lavalamp777
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 10:16:37
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Also I would like to add that many peoples on this site will agree that cuckoling is an act of the male being submissive. I disgree with this to some extent, because by wanting/allowing your partner to do what she does, you are in a way controlling the scenario to get what you want, which is to get off and feel all tingly. Some guys who are true doms share their wives with strangers and tell them to fuck whoever at command, it gets them off. Really cuckolding has the same effect to the male, it's just done in a different way. That is my theory anyways.
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Hearnest
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 10:45:30
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Even if you don't consent to cucking, your wife will probably cheat on you at some point anyways...so that will answer your question if you were "always wondering."
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mred4682
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 17:13:08
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> Even if you don't consent to cucking, your wife will probably cheat on you at some point anyways...so that will answer your question if you were "always wondering."
Now thats a sad way to view it. I'm pretty sure my wife would not cheat on me, but we have only been married for a couple years and she is VERY young so how do I know. I would rather her stay happy sexually so she doesn't want to cheat.
lavalamp77: I tend to agree with your ideas. I can't ever see us getting to the exreme points. My wife tells me often she doesn't want to hurt me, but she will be the first to say she likes the aspect of making me jealous. Well this may very well be an adiction. Here it is 810 and I was suppose to be at work at 8. Better get to work. LOL
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lavalamp777
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# Posted: 16 Aug 2008 05:47:24
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mred4682: Yup I had the same thing with my ex gf. I don't believe she would cheat on me without my consent. She always asked me if I am sure and ok with it, too much sometimes actually.
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denny1970
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# Posted: 17 Aug 2008 06:16:23
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mred4682:
Great thread, man! And I have to say, a breath of fresh air too. I could not agree with you and PalmCoastCouple more. The whole scheme of sharing my wife with another guy to the enjoyment of all concerned is one hell of a powerful kink...a trap for sure.
I have to second the comments about real-life and the fact that most guys don't want things to get out of hand, agree that the other thread is a sad ending.
PalmCoastCouple
I'm in the same boat you are, not into the sub gig at all, not an inadequate guy at all: I'm physically powerful, decent looking, smart&successful, and I have a decent 6" that I'm good at working with. I've been on both sides of the cuck/bull fence. I just happen to get really excited sharing, that's all. I also am keenly aware that you have to tread carefully because a marriage is worth a hell of a lot more than a kink.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 20 Aug 2008 02:37:24
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By all means it is a trap, but it is OUR responsibility as adults if we don't like how far things go to get ourselves out of the trap. I just think a lot of guys just keep going blindly, thinking they don't have a choice. Thats not their wives fault, its theirs.
This is an awsome life style if everyone keeps talking, and continueing to let each other know what they want. There is every different extreme, and trust me for those of you that are new to this, people are doing the things that are posted. Maybe not the people posting, but someone is.
No one is going to be just like you! So I think we need to figure out what we want and take responsibility for taking ourselves there.
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