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fredsthe1
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 06:26:07 · Edited by: fredsthe1
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sexyfungbcpl
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 06:49:18
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umm, just do it dude and then communicate with your love.
Realize that she probably deserves a better fuck than you and revel in her ecstasy.
Strap in and enjoy the ride.
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Hidihi
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 07:28:25
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I agree with sexyfungbcpl. If you don't do it now you'll never know what it realy feels like and like many of us on here end up spending your entire life wishing you had done it while you could. It sound like you have found someone who would like to try this lifestyle with you. I admire you for your courage of telling your secret - which I had always been ashamed of admitting - to a girl you only knew for a few month. You're v lucky that she responded in the way she did. Maybe one of the girlfriends I had in the past would have done the same had I been prepared to take the risk you have. I would have been a lot happier in my marriage than now, as I had never discussed my deepest desires with my wife of 15 years before we got married other than asking her to dress slutty and show-off her figure which she agreed to do when we were out to please me, but I never took this any further for fear of losing her and more importantly because my pride would not let me. She was very innocent and naive then but now we know that she is in fact a very traditional girl and thinks this fetish is weird and that I am probably a closet homo. We did try swinging once and I watched her taking it from someone else but she is not nearly as keen on the idea of cucking me as I am and would much rather put all her effort in looking after our home and children. The result is I spend my time frustrated and wishing things were different. We have not had sex more than twice over the past year!
Good luck and please keep us updated.
hidi
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Hidihi
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 07:29:04
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I agree with sexyfungbcpl. If you don't do it now you'll never know what it realy feels like and like many of us on here end up spending your entire life wishing you had done it while you could. It sound like you have found someone who would like to try this lifestyle with you. I admire you for your courage of telling your secret - which I had always been ashamed of admitting - to a girl you only knew for a few month. You're v lucky that she responded in the way she did. Maybe one of the girlfriends I had in the past would have done the same had I been prepared to take the risk you have. I would have been a lot happier in my marriage than now, as I had never discussed my deepest desires with my wife of 15 years before we got married other than asking her to dress slutty and show-off her figure which she agreed to do when we were out to please me, but I never took this any further for fear of losing her and more importantly because my pride would not let me. She was very innocent and naive then but now we know that she is in fact a very traditional girl and thinks this fetish is weird and that I am probably a closet homo. We did try swinging once and I watched her taking it from someone else but she is not nearly as keen on the idea of cucking me as I am and would much rather put all her effort in looking after our home and children. The result is I spend my time frustrated and wishing things were different. We have not had sex more than twice over the past year!
Good luck and please keep us updated.
hidi
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afwmisom
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 08:43:42
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actually you have already done it. you have put the idea in her head and she looks at the world differently. you are already beyond the point of turning back. enjoy the ride.
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Peter C
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 09:34:41
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It is only natural to feel anxious. Talk to your girlfriend and discuss possible scenarios. Agree ground-rules and make sure if either of you are concerned about its effect on your relationship, that it stops.
Peter C
Proud that a young man has fucked my mature wife.
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Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 13:26:45
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the love you two share will develope into something even greater. I love how cucking has made my sissy cuck more attentive to my needs and desires. Sissy has taken her place rather well and never had any doubts when it started that she has belonged in her submissive role always and I know I was always meant to deny sissy everything I give my lovers. Our marriage of 18 years is better then ever I get hard hung cock from real men and come home to my sissy girlfriend to share the details......
Sissy fag Jess... come and clean up my pussy now you little fag!
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fredsthe1
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 16:01:03 · Edited by: fredsthe1
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milestogo
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 17:45:02
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You have a peerfect situation. Don't blow it. Do anything you can to get her to pread her legs and then trea her like a queen.
miles
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Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 17:49:02
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fredsthe1
Love, Honesty, Respect, Understanding, Companionship, Servitude, and Dominance are whats most important for rules.
Sissy fag Jess... come and clean up my pussy now you little fag!
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Milf_Lover
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 18:12:44
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Dont worry ,, Do it..you will not lose her,she will be happier and love you more ..
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mred4682
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 19:57:02
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Wonderful rules from Jeanne and girlfriend Jess!
If you have read their posts they sound like they are in a VERY extreme cuckold relationship, howerver she puts Love, Honesty, Respect and Companionship at the top of her list. I agree COMPLETELY.
My wife and I are not nearly as extreame. My wife gets to have sex with anyone she wants, I only get to cum after she does, and I get to be part of everything, but I'm not really treated like a wimp and our liste would start exactly the same.
This lifestyle can be anything a couple wants to make it, but as long as you follow those rules, things will work out fine and you can have the time of your life. Enjoy!!! 
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torontoboy
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 10:35:49
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I'm curious to hear what develops in your relationship Fred!
I'm in a somewhat similar situation, except we're at the very (extremely) early stages of our relationship. She's made some admissions and comments that lead me to believe that she would definitely be willing to cuck me one day. I haven't pushed her, just been in awe at the luck at meeting this girl.
I posted in the Cuckold World section, but perhaps I should have posted in this section instead... Anyway, here are my posts:
http://www.cuckoldplace.com/1_50012_0.html
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Iadoreher
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 10:52:05
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In my opinion, a very important thing is: don't hurry! I have made this mistake, and it has ruined our relation. Don't hurry. Don't push too much. Eventually, it will happen. And be mentally prepared. It might be different than you think.
Have fun!
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scubarogue
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 12:11:58
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There are exceptions to every rule but:
The biggest mistake I see made is for cuck to not be present when his wife does other guys. That's how you become an outsider. It's a bit more intimate and she has room to develop stronger feelings for her lovers.
If you don't care if you keep the relationship, wait at home for her. Odds are she'll replace you with someone else. If you want a permanent relationship, be with her and experience it as a couple.
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male37slave
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 14:02:03
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My suggestion is to go slow and communicate. You don't have to take it from fantasy to full-on cuckolding in just one experience. Take it in steps and communicate, communicate, and communicate even more. For example, maybe the first time, set up watching her flirt, dance, and maybe be touched by someone. Then go home and talk about how it felt. Talk about what you liked and didn't like. Talk about what she liked and didn't like. If all goes well and you are both confortable with it, go to the next level of her touching him, or giving him a hand job. Again, talk it through afterwards. Also give it some time between taking these steps in case someone is having feelings they aren't sure how to communicate initially and needs a little time to understand how they are feeling well enough to communicate it. There are many feelings that you go through and it can become confusing. IF everything continues to go well and you are BOTH happy with the lifestyle, before you know it you will have evolved into a cuck lifestyle and you both will be happy. If at any time in the evolution something becomes a problem, you can stop playing and deal with it before it becomes a huge problem.
Good luck and please give us updates.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 5 May 2008 16:43:21
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I agree with both scubarogue and male37slave. The only time my wife and I had big issues was when we tried having her go alone. However there are ALYWAYS issues of some sort so keep communicating.
Good advise.
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fredsthe1
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# Posted: 6 May 2008 21:29:21
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I have come to the realization that this lifestyle needs to remain a fantasy and only a fantasy confined to the bedroom. The odds of something good coming from this don't out weigh the risk of a great relationship being ruined forever. She is my perfect partner and would never want to chance losing her. Yes, we have both talked about this lifestyle in detail. It's just not worth the risk when there is so many "safe" things we can be doing to keep a spark in the bedroom. Wish everyone the best!
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mred4682
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# Posted: 7 May 2008 16:51:47
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Deleted and all ha?
Yes there are MANY risks in actually being in this lifestyle, trust me. However, people climb mountains, ski dive, bungie jump....... All those things have big risks, and some people say big payoffs as does this. There is absolutely NOTHING more intense then seeing your wife with someone else. If you big reservations, then your making the correct choice by chosing not to get into it, you literally can lose everything. Enjoy your life and have fun in whatever you do.
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