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fun_gall
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 16:43:13 · Edited by: fun_gall
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The other night when laying in bed with my lover Bill I commented that my having his baby was probably the ultimate cuckolding act and he disagreed with me. He told me that he had a friend (who was actually his mentor and introduced him to cuckolding) who eventually married the wife of a couple he was cuckolding. Apparently she divorced her husband but kept him living with them as a lodger. Eventually they married and the ex-husband was best man and a witness. He even went on honeymoon with them.
I didn't respond to this because I got the impression that maybe he was hinting that we should do the same thing, and this is something I don't plan on doing and don't want to confront just now. Anyway, it did get me thinking if this was the ultimate act of cuckolding. What do others think here?
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 16:59:00
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I have voted for the first option but I have to admit that option 2 might well be the ultimate act.
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calumxj
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 17:11:23
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Definately the first.
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casualmelb
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 19:47:16
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The first. No doubt about it.
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Austin_hydecpl
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 20:32:14
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I'd say the answer depends on whether it comes from the perspective of the husband or the wife.
From the wife's perspective, clearly the answer is the first. Few things can speak louder about the most basic and fundamental feelings of a woman towards the men in her life than whom she selects to father her child.
But from the perspective of the husband, I think the primary motivation in this lifestyle is to hold up one's wife as so desirable that other stronger and more viable men will *naturally* claim her--and yet she will remain the life partner of the cuckolded husband. To have that that final validation stripped away--and to concede that his wife is better off with her lover in every regard--seems more of a sacrifice to a cuckolded husband.
In my estimation, raising her child will likely not be a burden for hubby, regardless of who fathered it. Given the struggles with self-esteem that come part and parcel with cuckolded men, he may rationalize that having *superior* genetics is to the advantage of the child he will help raise.
The real questions in my mind surround at what point a child needs to be told who their actual father is. No moralizing from me on that point; I don't have an answer to that one.
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cumhubby
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 20:46:46
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In my humble opinion, a wife who trains her husband to assist her in pleasing and servicing her lover is the ultimate. Having a child or divorcing the husband is much too extreme in my book.
To me, the idea that a wife truly loves her husband but loves the attention of another man's cock is the perfect scenario.
Not only does the husband willingly accept the other man as the preferred lover, but he also assists in what ever way he can to enhance the pleasure of his wife and her lover by orally servicing them before, during and after they fuck.
This dominance by the wife should nd after the lover leaves. Then all returns to normal for the couple and they resume their loving relationship.
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WimpGerd
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:44:04
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No dought, the second.
Catastrofically humiliating for the hubby but extremely erotic nevertheless.
Once in a while buttfucked by Bill, spanked, used and abused forever, sissified, teased asnd denied, caged 24/7/365.
Even though I think castration should be the ultimate.
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baiout
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 00:12:41
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Hi fun gall, been loving your posts, you truly are a fantastic Cuckoldress and your hubby is very lucky indeed.
I voted for #5 as that would truly be my ultimate fantasy and the ideal top of all humiliation.
Keep up the great work and best of luck on the pregnancy.
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draclif69
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 01:56:46
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The only reason I didn't vote for marrying the lover is purly the technicality of the husband no longer being a cuckold by definition. The game is over so to speak. I went with child.
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Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 04:01:25
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I have a fantasy of living with my lover, keeping my sissy femmed cuck in the house and a few steps behind lover and I in public (of course sissified) to serve us, clean us after sex, fluffing my lover, and offering her mouth and sissy ass to my lover also. I think of so many fun things lover an I could do to humiliate sissy fag Jess. It is our ultimate fantasy!
Sissy fag Jess... come and clean up my pussy now you little fag!
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 10:09:34
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Quoting: WimpGerd Even though I think castration should be the ultimate.
Thanks.
I did think of including that but knowing as much as I do now about it I decided against it because of the dangers involved.
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tinydickjohny99
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 11:57:30
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there is always chemical castration a shot of depo last 3 months
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linlin
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 12:00:07
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I have voted for the first option but fhe forth was also our practice
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 12:13:48
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Option 2 really isn't an option. Since Cuckoldry is between a husband and a wife, once they divorce the Cuck relationship is terminated and it's merely another failed marriage. Option 1 would probably be our choice, since it involves a lifetime commitment.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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londoncuckold
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 12:41:47
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voted 2, even poster above says its not cuckolding ..
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 13:24:47
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Quoting: PalmCoastCouple Option 2 really isn't an option. Since Cuckoldry is between a husband and a wife, once they divorce the Cuck relationship is terminated and it's merely another failed marriage. Option 1 would probably be our choice, since it involves a lifetime commitment.
If the couple do physically separate and the husband moves on then yes I agree that it is no longer a cuckold relationship. However in this case the husband does not move on, he stays in the former marital home where the lover has taken his place, not just in the marital bed, but also in terms of legal status.
I have just had an email from a wife that has done this. She has four children, two to her ex-husband and two to her ex-lover now new husband. They started off cuckolding at the husbands request and she fell in love with her lover and he moved in permanently. After she got pregnant she divorced her husband and married her lover. He never went on honeymoon with them - he stayed at home looking after the children, but he was the best man at the wedding and paid most of the bill. They have been married 5 years now and they all get on together well. The ex-husband does his fair share of housework and child rearing and is a regular babysitter for them. She occasionally gives her ex hand jobs and blow jobs, so a form of sexual contact still remains, and the ex sometimes watches them have sex.
She tells me that in her mind this is the ultimate act of cuckoldry and a very humiliating one at that.
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draclif69
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 16:21:53 · Edited by: draclif69
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I would agree with that. The idea of that causes more fear in me than elation I would normally get from humiliation. Perhaps because it's so different from the norm. I dunno.
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WimpGerd
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 19:01:21
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Dearest Fun_Gal,
the real problem is exactely the sexual one.
For how long it would be exciting for you to humiliate and demean your hubby once he becomes an ex-hubby?
The all porpouse of cuckolding is to have the wife state her superiority and sexual freedom while involving whiteboy hubby by humiliating, punish, control, denie and defeat him.
For how long would this be exciting for you to do once he's your ex?
For how long you'll want to include him in your sexual life?
It sounds boring on the long run or strenuous to say the least?
But who knows?
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imnpmpimwc2
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 21:13:51
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The ultimate cuckolding act, is the wife denying to her husband the pleasure of ever again allowing his prick to enter her cunt.
The husband's humiliation from being denied sex is then multiplied ten-fold when he learns that another man has gained sole use of the cunt to which his prick is barred.
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sum1fun
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# Posted: 28 Mar 2008 19:49:39
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I think it would be the ultimate cuckolding act of all if a cuckoldress offers you sex, you get all excited and go through all of the foreplay, giving her an orgasms orally etc and then allowed to enter her but then to be denied after a single stroke or two. Completely frustrating to have to stop at that point but by doing so, it's truly sex that you are offered and denied. This could be coupled with being tied, forced to watch a bull have her instead, cross dressed and teased and then followed up at a later date by having a friend or neighbour come over because “she heard about your predicament”...she offers to have sex with you and then does the same thing to you all over again. Imagine being allowed to penetrate that gorgeous neighbour lady you have always had a crush on and then denied and teased at the last second.
Another humiliating scenario is possibly force bi along with a hidden cam so your friends and your wives friends can see what you did.
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PeterCuckold
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# Posted: 29 Mar 2008 11:55:25
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I voted 5, then i explain ultimate as most humiliating.
2 is more humiliating, but outside the meaning of the word cuckolding.
I want to add that I think that cuckolding (like also sex and bdsm) should not be seen as an Olympic sport: why should things always have to driven to extremes? There are also other things in live.
A bit awkward that this thread (and also others of fun_gal) is in the "basic" section, the word "ultimate" in the question says enough.
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casualmelb
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# Posted: 29 Mar 2008 20:05:41
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Quoting: PeterCuckold A bit awkward that this thread (and also others of fun_gal) is in the "basic" section, the word "ultimate" in the question says enough.
Well, to be fair to her, she started off the other thread almost 6 months back planning to get her husband into cuckolding. Then it was a perfect fit under "Basic Cuckolding". However, over time she has moved into ultimate cuckolding. I doubt if she expected herself to be in this situation 6 months back. And as this thread is a an off shoot of her original thread, it kinda makes sense, although doesn't fit exactly in this section.
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rdvrk
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# Posted: 4 Apr 2008 22:47:36
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We've talked a lot about the possibility of her divorcing me for someone else, and my wife knows she has my blessing if that's ever what she wants to do. I love her with all my heart, and I know our relationship is challenging for her. If leaving me would make her happy, I'd support it 100%.
She actually got this offer from her last boyfriend, but turned him down (which led to a really unpleasant break-up between them). She is, at heart, not a promiscuous woman, so the split between her marriage and her sex life is sometimes difficult for her, and she has said explicitly that if she were ever to marry someone else it would be a traditional, monogamous marriage.
It's an awkward thought for me, but at the same time, I can't deny that it would be gratifying in a very deep way to experience the "ultimate rejection." Being cut off from her sex life has been intense and gratifying for me, and the thought of being cut off from her life entirely is terrifying, yet perversely exciting to me.
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Mark916
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# Posted: 4 Apr 2008 22:57:22
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You're not sure if he wants to replace your husband and this is the man whom you want to be the father of your baby? If wishes to claim you, what will you do if he wishes to claim the baby? And would your husband even care if the baby-daddy was awarded sole custody?
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PeterCuckold
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# Posted: 5 Apr 2008 08:47:09
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Quoting: Mark916 what will you do if he wishes to claim the baby?
This is a legal matter and probably different for the USA and GB. In my own country the husband is always the lawful father, no matter what. I guess that is the same in GB, and not in the USA.
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Rover68uk
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# Posted: 5 Apr 2008 11:53:20
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I can appreciate what others have been saying but think that option 2 is indeed moving on from the cuckolding of hub and wife.
Having thought about it a little more then the wife having the lovers child has to be the top act as that is a public statement of acceptance and of display to the world.
Although that could then be explained as somethign that happened on, say a trial separation!, the fact of having the child and staying as a married couple whist publicly keeping the lover on the scene is surely the biggest humiliation?
As Fun Gall and hub have advised the family that they are "on a break" surely the ultimate humiliation would be now to simply admit that they are back together and that hub is a cuck as he cannot fulfill the role of the "man of the house". Keeping Bill on the scene then is the constant humiliation, before friends and family...just my thoughts anyway.
Sadly still a wannabe
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Randy4Fun417
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# Posted: 14 Apr 2008 15:15:19
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With my encouragement, my wife of 8 years began taking lovers five years ago. The quality and durations of my erections had left both of us frustrated and she has a strong sexual appetite. She had a few semi-long term trysts, but most were one-night stands. I loved sloppy seconds and cream pies when she came home. She’d be so swollen from being with sexually superior men that she could actually cum on my inferior dicklet.
She is basically a one-man woman, so after a couple years as a hot wife, she quit the lifestyle, leaving us both frustrated. Then we met her boyfriend. They have been lovers for 17 months. After they became lovers, they both began to fall in love. I encouraged it, because he is a great guy and I love her with all my heart. She made it clear that she is uncomfortable having sex with more than one man. I told him that if he would regularly take care of her sexual needs, I would stop trying to have sex with her (“trying” is about all I could do) and her pussy would be exclusively his.
This month marks one year since I have had intercourse with my wife or have tongue kissed her. The only sexual intimacy we have had in a year is when her boyfriend calls me into the bedroom to eat the fresh cream pie that they just made, and that is rare.
She refuses to verbally humiliate me because she is so tender hearted, even though I assure her that it is a turn on for me. But she is finally comfortable talking on the phone with him so I can hear her sweet love talk with him, which is sweeter than it ever was with me. Of course, I get as hard as I ever get hearing this.
He lives out of town and sees her about twice a month. He’s looking for a comparable job here so he can move in with us. Seven months ago I moved into the guest room, so she sleeps alone, waiting for the day that he can claim his place in the master bedroom.
Here’s our experience with the options in the poll:
1. A wife/partner having her lover's child – She has a hysterectomy, so it’s not possible, but we all three truly wish it were. If he decided to move it, the child would be raised as his and I would be “uncle Randy”. If he decided to keep his independence, the child would be raised as mine.
2. A wife divorcing her husband, marrying her lover and having her ex-husband live with them. After they admitted that they were in love, I told her that I would never seek a divorce, but if she wanted to take his name, I would do it for her. We agreed that if we did this, we’d move to another town and I’d be introduced as her relative who lives in. I gotta admit that from m perspective, this is the hottest option, but that might be because option 1 is not possible for us.
3. A wife/partner sissyfying her husband/partner. He is slowly convincing her that I need this. She has bought me panties. For our one-year sexless anniversary, they are planning a surprise, but I know that part of it is that she bought me new panties and is printing a message on a tee shirt for me to wear with them. They both encourage me to play with men since I have no sex with her.
4. A wife/partner making her husband/partner submit to sex with her lover. This has happened, but not at her direction, but his. I love to worship his superior cock because of all the pleasure that he brings her. He hasn’t done it in months, but I loved when he bent me over and had his way with me. That’s what he was doing when I promised to never have sex with her again. He exploded when I said that.
5. A wife/partner having her lover live with her 24/7 and making her husband/partner a lodger. This is our current plan, once he finds a comparable job here. He shared Christmas and Easter with us, along with my adult children, so he is already seen as part of the family. We have not told them about his intimate relationship with my wife, but I know that they suspect.
I admit that the more extreme cuckolding stuff is enjoyable to me because of my erectile dysfunction. If not for that, I would probably still be getting sloppy seconds and would not be as open to him totally taking my place with her romantically and sexually, which he has done. But, given the circumstances, I am very happy with it, and she is very much in love and sexually fulfilled.
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rdvrk
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# Posted: 17 Apr 2008 23:16:20
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Randy, you're totally awesome! I always look forward to your posts. You set the gold standard for extreme relationships. Bless you, her, & him!
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