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fun_gall
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 14:16:44
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Anyone reading my forum topic 'Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding' will know that I have been cuckolding my hubby for few months now. Following a conversation with hubby last night I was wondering how long have people on here been in a cuckolding relationship.
Has it just been a short sexual phase that you have gone through?
Has it been a long term relationship that has lasted a number of years?
Or has it lasted the whole of your relationship so far?
It would be interesting to see your responses.
Thanks
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 14:35:01
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For us it was an evolutionary process over many years, that included dabbling in MFM, light bondage and discipline, MFF, a little swinging and eventually settling in on our preference for her with others. The process took maybe 8 years total, of which I would consider 3 or 4 years to be Cuck. It may be a phase, though. Human sexuality is seldom static. Preferences often change over time...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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Canuckcuck
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 15:46:31
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Married for 28 years shes been cuckolding me for 4 with me knowing almost since our wedding day before i knew
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macca121
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 15:47:20
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Two and a half years. Married for almost 8 years
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watcherdoit4fun
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 17:18:33
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one and a half years, 23 married. my wife said it took me a long time to convince her. pretty sure i couldn't stop her now.
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 19:13:30
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Interesting responses.............The reason I asked is that when we were chatting about things last night hubby gave me the impression that he thought it was a passing phase and that a couple of years from now I won't want to do it. Personally, I can see me still cuckolding him well into my 50's!
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ravishmywife
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 19:22:38
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My wife's been through phases, and still does. The need comes and goes, and when it comes, she spreads joy all round 
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Rodger
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 19:40:07
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fun_gall, and how did you respond to hubby when he said his cuckolding would be a passing phase of yours?
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MaxMasters
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 20:10:16
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My question is: where is the line between cucking and good old fashioned adultery? You experienced cucks out there: do you experience pain or joy when your wife is out getting royally, repeatedly, and passionately fucked by some other guy she's currently all hot for? My wife and I (married 6.25 years now) have slowly discussed the cuckold concept for about 2 years now, but only in the last 3 months has she found men (and now, one in particular) she craves to be fucked by. Causes me a lot of pain, and I'm not really "included" in the fun (other than driving her to the train station to go off to be with him for the weekend). If she dominated/humiliated me, I'd at least get my rocks off on it, but as it is, all I get is hearing, in ever-increasing shocking detail, how he pounded her and falls more and more in love with her. So, I'm feeling less a cuck than just an old-fashioned suffering bastard being cheated on by his wife. Any thoughts, suggestions, comforts, admonitions, or ideas will be gratefully read.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 20:47:56
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Max... everyone gets off on certain aspects of it. What you described is exactly what we enjoy. We're not into ANY of the female domination or humiliation aspects... in fact I'm very Dominant, and my wife is submissive. We both love it when she goes out with another guy, then comes home and relives her experience when we're together. That keeps our bedroom in high gear for weeks afterward.
Prior to her going out... we both enjoy the anticipation... planning her evening... teasing each other... we sometimes even abstain from sex together for several days beforehand to heighten the tension. Of course, I enjoy watching her at times, and even the occasional MFM. Either way... it sounds like you may need to confide in your wife and let her know you're not getting out of it what you want or need... see if you can get her to help bring some balance to the situation, and give you more of what you need to get your engine revved up...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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Sexy sub TV
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# Posted: 11 Mar 2008 20:55:22
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We have been together 12 years. I've had sex with other men during all 12 years. My partner has been aware of it for the last 10 years, and has been my cuck for all those 10 years. Our relationship has slowly developed in that time.
I have to say though, since I was recently introduced to this site by my sissy, the 'sex' life we have has been re-ignited. We've already shared one new experience, and that was mainly due to me getting really turned on by reading some of the 'Cuckold Captions' posts. I love those captions - reading them gives me loads of ideas of what to say and do to my sissy!!!
Tracy xxx
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draclif69
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 03:37:57
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So far we only do it in my fantasies. She doesn't really like to even verbally play the game.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 07:04:33
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We have been married for a little over a year and we started before we got married, so we have been doing it for about 2 years. I don't think it will change much, considering I'm quite a bit older than my wife, and would have no way of replacing what she gets from her lovers.
Max. Personally I think you really need to talk with your wife. Let her know what you want. Your allowed to both be happy. Like PalmCoastCouple says: They like it that way you don't have to. If you like to be with her tell her. We tried having my wife go with a guy by herself once and she started falling for him and it did NOTHING for me. We have NEVER done that again. I'm always there and a part of things, and for the most part most of our experiences have been wonderful. This lifestyle can be wonderfull or it can destroy some marriages. I've been there as well, with my ex.
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macca121
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 09:42:11
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I agree with mred4682, you need to talk to your wife and express your needs. These things don't always work out first time. I felt excluded when Stacey first took a lover, even though this had been at my instigation.I don't think it was deliberate. We were both feeling our way into new territory.
Second time round, Stacey has been careful to meet my needs as well as those of her own and her lover's, although there are always going to be points of disagreement, particularly about the pace of developments('going public' for example).There's a big difference between cuckolding fantasies and cuckold reality!
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 10:20:14
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Quoting: Rodger fun_gall, and how did you respond to hubby when he said his cuckolding would be a passing phase of yours?
I didn't say anything because I didn't know how he might respond if I told him otherwise.
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Rodger
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 10:35:28
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I can take a good guess!! LOL
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 10:37:40
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Quoting: MaxMasters My question is: where is the line between cucking and good old fashioned adultery?
You have raised a good point there Max. If a wife is commiting adultery then her husband is a cuckold whether he knows about it or not. From the sound of it you are not enjoying being cuckolded and you should really talk to your wife about it. If she needs to have sex with other men then she should really be trying to accommodate your needs as well.
As with Macca we are feeling away into new territory and I have to be very aware of my hubby's needs as well as my own. Fortunately I have an experienced lover who is gently easing both hubby and I into new areas.
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Sa Tyr
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 13:16:52
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Within two months of getting together she started cuckolding me and telling me all the details afterwards. She liked young energetic studs. We lasted together just over 2 years in this situation. Finally, after ruining me financially in that space of time, she left me for someone younger than her, tall and athletic with much more money than I ever could hope to have. Sometimes I wonder what kept me with her and the answer I always come-up with is that I must have enjoyed the stinging, bitter-sweet emotional pain of those mental pictures. I am an addisted voyeur.
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MaxMasters
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 14:00:28
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Thanks much to PalmCoastCouple, mred, macca, and fun_gall for your kind and thoughtful responses. Yes, I think my wife isn't being considerate to me in this, focussing soley on her pleasure in being with her hunk, whom apparently is outrageously good and pleasurable to her (their first meeting, he apparently actually fucked her all night long, and they went to bed at 7:00am). It's been very very painful for me, and I know I'm about to encounter a very painful weekend of her being with him Thursday through Sunday. I guess one question I have for those in similar situations is: how does one deal with the pain? I can't think straight, can't work, can't move when I even imagine her with him. I wish it could be all light and sexy and fun, like it sounds like it is for the rest of you. But I'm deeply in love with her, and it tears me up that she gives him her body fully, while she withholds from me.
--Cuck In Pain
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essentiauk
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 16:45:27
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14 years together, been cuckolded for about 12 of those years, went about 3 years once with her having no boyfriend but that was just circumstance in that there weren't any suitable candidates about, a bit of a dry patch if you like....she usually has one on the go, often two and for about 18 months once 3 regulars.....just one at the moment who she has been with about 15/18 months,,,,
Tony
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newsub4a
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 19:34:21
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Max, We have been doing actually D/s femdom cucking for a year or so. It is NOT always light and fun. In BDSM lingo cucking is in fact edge play and can be very dangerous emotionally. We have in fact had some very bad times with my emotions and cucking.
My honest suggestion to you, all fantasy play aside, is that you need to talk to your wife about how you feel and how hurt you are. COnsider counseling if you can afford it. If your wife blows off your concerns you had better consider marriage counseling if you want to save your marriage. Married folks have a certain obligation to care for their spouses and see to their well being. IMO, this is even more so in an alternitive lifestyle marriage. Communication is the key to a happy and successful marriage.
The two of you need to decide how you will be invovled and what it will take for you to deal with how you feel. I am not saying that she should stop playing, but rather she should devise some way to include you. While cucking is physical adultry, the true crime in the marraige is emotional adulty. That is a tough one to recover from.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 13 Mar 2008 05:47:06
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Max I think you really need to talk with your wife. If your not enjoying it then it is hurting your marriage not helping it. You might get better at accepting it, but if it doesn't turn you on, it will never get better. I agree with newsub4a. This life style by far is NOT easy. If your not comunicating you might as well find a good lawyer. I hope you to can find what will work for the two of you..
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# Posted: 13 Mar 2008 10:50:48
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Been with my wife for 16 years she never stopped fucking guys even when we met. I found out and enjoyed her playing and since then she has cucked me. We both get so much from this relationship and we never want to stop.
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scubarogue
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# Posted: 16 Mar 2008 03:18:13
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I'm in my second marriage. My first wife started cuckolding me within the first year. We were married almost 24 years and she was doing other guys the entire time.
With my second wife, I explained the lifestyle and we made sure it would work for us before we got married. We've been married for a little over 10 years and she has been doing other guys the whole time we've know each other.
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