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kcdk
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# Posted: 26 Jan 2008 23:40:43
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My girlfriend and I have been talking for some time about my fantasy...for her to fuck other men, with me or without me. She's always been keen but very hesitant about actually doing it and the effect it could have on our relationship.
Tonight she has gone to a big party to see a bunch of old friends she hasn't seen in years, and also, by her own words, to see if she's "still attractive to men". She bought a new outfit for the evening.
I seriously doubt that anything will happen tonight, as she doesn't like the idea of "cheating", but this is the biggest opportunity and the closest we've come, so the chance is there. I can imagine this is pretty tame to most members here, but I just feel the need to write about this to people who can relate to it.
At the moment she's been out for about 2 hours and she's already been hit on a few times, once quite seriously. Nothing has happened at this point I know, but I think the thought is in her mind (and she knows it's in mine).
So, I would love to hear everyone's opinion about whether or not you think there's a chance tonight. I'd also like to hear the women's opinion about what might be going through her mind tonight.
I'll post more as the evening progresses.
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 00:42:33 · Edited by: kcdk
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A bit more about her: she's 25, petite, and incredibly sexy. She's slept with many men before me (around 30) so she's very experienced. I convinced her to wear sexy underwear tonight "just for me" 
She is now engaged in conversation with a guy who's been staring at and complimenting her eyes (she has beautiful eyes). I haven't heard from her in about an hour, though I don't think anything will happen without me knowing it (she knows she needs to call me and check first...is that realistic?)...
...still I'm very excited and nervous sitting here at home...
So anyone, please comment. I want to hear from you experienced folks and from the ladies!
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Hrellir
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:00:50
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Keep on telling us how things progress. She might not be able to control the situation 100% so the call might come afterwards or not at all. Just a story when she is home. Been there
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irishred13
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:01:58
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Any news? The first part is always the most exciting.
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:08:03
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Nothing yet.
Hrellir: I know, there's a very slim chance she's stroking another guy's cock right now...it's driving me nuts, even though I'm pretty sure nothing's going on.
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wifedateshubwaits
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:08:28
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It sounds like you are getting closer, just keep encouraging her and let nature take its course. Of course you also need to make sure that if she does fuck another guy, don't freak out. At first the reality can sometimes be more difficult than the fantasy, but if you can work through it, the benefits of this lifestyle can be many. Good luck!
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:15:15
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I can't really encourage her, she says it makes her feel pressured, so I have to back off and just wait to see what happens 
I sent her a text about 10 minutes ago, but no reply yet...
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wifedateshubwaits
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:21:09
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Just encourage her in a non-threatening way. Let her know how much you love her. Let her know that you want her to have a good time. Let her know that whatever she decides to do is fine with you, but that just the thought of her flirting with another guy is making you hard. Good luck.
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:26:13
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Still no reply to the sms...my imagination is getting the better of me hehe
I wonder if she has another guy's cock inside her pussy right this second...
It's the most frustrating experience I've ever had actually I want to sms again to see where she is, but I don't want to bug her while she's out. I guess I also don't want to interrupt something on the off-chance that something is going on...
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:44:23
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It's now been over 2 hours since I heard from her, and 2 unreplied sms's. My excitement is starting to get mixed with a little fear hehe If i don't hear from her in the next 30 minutes I'll try calling her.
What do the ladies think is going on in her mind tonight?
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Hrellir
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:52:20
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Wait and calm yourselt, the fun starts when she is home.-)
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 01:57:16
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She won't be home tonight, she's staying out of town until tomorrow...
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 02:17:14
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Okay, so she was busy looking for someone with her sister. As I figured, nothing going on yet. I asked if she was flirting and she said no, but always with a little ;) at the end of it...Either she's obscure or she doesn't even know how to play hehe
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kcdk
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 03:30:21
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I just spoke with her on the phone. She said she had something to tell me, but that nothing had happened, it was something someone had said to her. Hmm...maybe, but she seemed very keen to "tell me tomorrow". What do you guys think, is she downplaying it until she can tell me when she sees me, that something did happen, or is she being honest? She's not really one for games...
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snogwatcher
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 04:19:20
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kcdk
You may be pleasantly surprised with what she may have to say--- maybe the first time she only went down on this guy, & sucked his cock. The question is, if so, did he come in your wife's mouth! I think "for starters" it would be better if her new friend merely gave her a mouthful of his hot ejaculate. Encourage her, so that maybe at a future meeting, she opens her legs for him----
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wifedateshubwaits
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 15:51:04
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Just make sure you continue to support her in her exploration. When my wife was first getting started, I would always make sure I was waiting for her when she returned home. The house would be clean, flowers would be on the table and I would be waiting like a little puppy anxious to see my wife. I constantly reminded her that I would remain faithful, but that she had the "right" to play with other men. I also made it a point to take her shopping for sexy clothes every chance I got and she enjoyed the affect her new wardrobe had on me and other men.
Eventually she took advantage of her freedom and it's been a great addition to our marriage. If she does start fucking other men be prepared for her to go a little wild for awhile. When my wife finally discovered that she could have her cake and eat it too, she did take advantage. It was great to have her behaving like a slut with lots of different men, but the numerous nights alone did get old for me. I'm still proud of myself for never complaining and after a year or so she did start dating less frequently.
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hiropro2000
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# Posted: 28 Jan 2008 04:28:47
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Any word on what happened?
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amicosalepepe
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# Posted: 28 Jan 2008 18:16:54
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kcdk
so she fucked like an animal and in the end you were not that pleased ??
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kcdk
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# Posted: 30 Jan 2008 00:55:32
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Nope, actually nothing happened in the end. She thought quite seriously about it a couple of times, and she gave me a few very juicy comments about it when she got home ("I would've liked to have slept with him", that sort of thing), but that was it.
I have more to update (if anyone is still interested?), but will have to do it in a day or so.
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like2wacher66
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# Posted: 30 Jan 2008 01:30:46
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would love to hear what else happened. did she feel his cock? with her hand or pressed up against it?
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mcevin
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# Posted: 30 Jan 2008 05:30:09
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Isn't there an old song, by the Eagles I think: "There's going to be a hard-on tonight, a hard-on tonight, I know..."
Love,
Jamie
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mcevin
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# Posted: 30 Jan 2008 05:30:31
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Isn't there an old song, by the Eagles I think: "There's going to be a hard-on tonight, a hard-on tonight, I know..."
Love,
Jamie
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Cuckmannen
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# Posted: 30 Jan 2008 10:06:24
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 [b][/b]Tell more please
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Hrellir
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# Posted: 31 Jan 2008 21:25:28
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Whats it gonna be boy, yes or no??
take care
Hrellir
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kcdk
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# Posted: 7 Feb 2008 23:34:40 · Edited by: kcdk
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Sorry about the long wait...
As I already said, nothing actually happened. There was an encounter with an old flame, one she is (still) very attracted to. They talked, he suggested they go somewhere more comfortable so to speak, and she said that she would've really liked to have fucked him (she's been with him in the past, but never slept together). In the end however, she said no and nothing happened.
She's cheated on boyfriends in the past, and she says she doesn't want to do that anymore. I guess the personal pride and feeling of accomplishment she is experiencing overrules any thoughts of trying to do something.
To be clear, I do not want her to cheat on me! I am actually very happy that she isn't the person she used to be in that sense. I love her very intensely...I just want her to fuck a lot of other men with my knowledge... ;)
We've spent a lot of time talking about this (and related) things over the past days. As I explained above, and because she feels a little pressured by all this, we've agreed that she is NOT allowed to do anything, and there is no expectation. I encourage her to flirt, maybe get a kiss or a rub up against someone, whatever she is comfortable to do. If she sees or talks to someone she'd really like to fuck, all she can do is tell me that.
She feels much more comfortable with that for now, and maybe we'll move onto something else when she's ready.
The interesting thing is, she has recently jokes a couple of times about 'maybe I should be an escort, do you think I'll make money?'. These were clearly jokes, but then the other day she said that she thinks she'd like to try doing it for one night. When I asked...bewildered and a little excited at the same time...her first reaction seemed like she meant it seriously. After a moment she said she wouldn't seriously do it, but I'm not so sure...She has even asked if I would pay her for sex, she wants to see what it's like.
I don't know that I would ever be comfortable with the reality of it...but I have to admit that the idea excites me very much sometimes. It seems a little excessive, but the thought of her coming home after a night of fucking several guys is intoxicating.
Sorry this is so long, but I am still hoping that more women would join the men in giving their thoughts on my situation. It's hard enough to understand my own feelings on this subject, I sometimes struggle to completely understand hers.
Thanks for all the advice so far
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