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John Sally
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# Posted: 23 Jan 2008 20:52:47
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My wife and I have a good sex life, and she tells me that I am able to satisfy her needs sexually. She is usually submissive to me. She does not know that I have cuckold fantasies about her.
Lately we have been doing some things to spice up our sex life such as toys, porn, sexy clothes for her etc.... It really turns her on when I talk dirty to her during sex. She always whines for me to tell her dirty things, and she wants me to say the dirtiest things possible. All the while I cant get it out of my head imagining her being fucked by another guy, seeing his dick going in and out of her. When she asks me to talk dirty to her I want to tell her things about her being a whore and wanting to have another man's dick. I also want her to tell me nasty things about other guys, it for me is the biggest turn on.
The problem is that I am a bit nervous of what she might begin to think if I start letting out these things during sex. She is pretty conservative, and I dont know if she will freak out or just get turned off.
Any suggestions on how to ease this sort of thing into the picture?
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lolboy
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# Posted: 23 Jan 2008 21:56:25
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go for it, my wife and i lovely dirty talk. She loves telling me as i fuck her all about how much she loves other mens bigger and better cocks and she can wait to fuck a real man who know how to look after a girl in bed. She wants me to find a real man to satisfy her sexual needs. Her view is that she deserves good sex with a real man all this is being said whilst I do my best which is never enough
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Allen
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# Posted: 23 Jan 2008 22:56:58
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i would say take it very slow. my wife early on (about 4 years ago) was always turned on by watching porn with me. after some time of watching together we watched an interracial gang bang vid, damn she was hot and wet, i then played on the idea of her and interracial sex. went great for awhile. i then introduce the cuckold thing to her, at first she was ok, but i then got carried away with it...now she isn't into the cuckold talk, and not to much interracial talk either. sooooo, take it really slow, exspecially with her being brought up conservative, it takes time for some. good luck
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dinky
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# Posted: 24 Jan 2008 01:54:53
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I was in exactly the same boat. you have to use your wifes submissiveness to your advantage. during sex she would often yell for me to use her.
I would reply....yeah - you love being used, you love being treated like a slut don't you. in the heat of the moment she would admit it. this got to be a more common theme. I would call her from work and tell her that I was going to use her when I got home. she was definitely ready by the time I got there. slowly I started bringing other people into our dirty talk, telling her that since she enjoyed being used, I was going to tie her up, invite friends over and let them use her and treat her like a slut. this usually made her come hard. right before I would come I would usually say "god I can't believe my wife is a slut. then come. (just to put the idea in her head) one day after sex I asked her, which is worse? that you want to be used and treated like a slut, or that I want to watch you be used and treated like a slut? she was surprised and asked if I was serious, I said I don't know (I lied) I guess it would be kind of a turn on.... about two months later it happened with a guy she worked with. she was telling him about her cooking, he said it sounded good, so, she invited him our house for diner, I told her I would clean up. when I went into the living rom she was sitting on his lap. it went from there.
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John Sally
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# Posted: 24 Jan 2008 06:09:11
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Lucky guy dinky!
Yeah my wife too enjoys being called a slut or "my whore" during sex, but it seems to always involve around what we are doing together. I am still unsure how to bring out I guess you could say her true "inner slut", and get her into talking or fantasizing about cuckolding in bed.
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Blood167
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# Posted: 24 Jan 2008 09:19:35
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Rather than trying to transition into seeing her fuck another man, you should approach the idea of a threesome. Invariably, after you talk about the fun you'll have with two women, she'll bring up the alternate scenario of her with two men.
You have to be surprised at that, before reluctantly agreeing that it is only fair. Continue till fantasizing about multiple partners in bed with you is a regular occurence.
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John Thkoog
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# Posted: 24 Jan 2008 09:33:40 · Edited by: John Thkoog
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John Sally
the word "slut" implies multiple partners. It is inescapable. If she likes to be called slut, then on some level, she is fantasizing about fucking for sex and not love, and with other men. You simply cannot be a slut and have sex with only one man.
And to prove that I'm right about her feelings - she feels shy about the word slut and has in the past insisted that you can only use it in bed, and NOT ALL THE TIME. She insisted that you don't say it every time you have sex.
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John Sally
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# Posted: 24 Jan 2008 16:19:23
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Quoting: John Thkoog John Sally the word "slut" implies multiple partners. It is inescapable. If she likes to be called slut, then on some level, she is fantasizing about fucking for sex and not love, and with other men. You simply cannot be a slut and have sex with only one man. And to prove that I'm right about her feelings - she feels shy about the word slut and has in the past insisted that you can only use it in bed, and NOT ALL THE TIME. She insisted that you don't say it every time you have sex.
You are definitely correct, only in bed and only in private she wants to be called a slut.
She does though get excited watching porn where a woman takes on multiple partners, or when group or rough sex is involved. When she is hot I have asked her if she wished she was that girl getting taken by all those guys, and she always denies that she would like it, but yet she cant take her eyes off the screen!
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countryWa
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# Posted: 25 Jan 2008 08:07:48
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Same deal with my wife, who happens to be Asian. We have kids in the school district, and a lot of people here have money (wealthy area). Most of the guys have older caucasian wives who look pretty tired out, so I started to get used to the fact that my own wife gets a lot of looks. Once I told her I had a dream that she left our bed and went to some other place, and started fucking someone else. She got extremely wet and fucked me like crazy right there on the spot. Everything sort of came together. Now I talk dirty as I'm fucking her. I tell her she is going to go out and get fucked. I tell her she is a bad girl who wants a stranger to fuck that little pussy. A stranger with a big dick. Then she is fucking a group of strangers. The story goes on and sometimes takes a new turn. For now it's only talk, and we both enjoy it a lot.
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dinky
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# Posted: 6 Feb 2008 06:29:29
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the superbowl party we went to was at a friends place from work. all the guys had their wives there. the women mainly had no interest in the game and spent their time in the kitchen. there was one single guy at the party , about 5 minutes into the game, he said he was going to get another beer. he spent the entire night in the kitchen with the married women. all of us could hear them laughing and having a great time. he apparently was quite a charmer. I was watching the reactions of some of the other men at the party, some were getting pretty iratated. some were joking "well if he wants my wife, he can have the bitch."
my wife who is very quiet and reserved told me today that the company he works for is near where she works. she said all the women got his business card, and a she was thinking of calling him up to meet for lunch sometime next week.
she slowly started to rub my crotch and said "some of the guys at the party would kill their wives if they suggested such a thing, but that turns you on doesn't it? I admitted it did. all she said was good....she smiled and said she was off to bed for the night.
I don't know if that means she was just playing with me, or if she was serious. since we have been doing this, she has only been with one other guy.
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DarsLangly
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# Posted: 26 Feb 2008 08:15:10
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I wouldn't try to finesse this because you will come across as fake - for the obvious reason that you are faking it! Just tell her what is really in your head. It is better to be honest, and you are way, way, way more likely to get your own needs met (she's not a mind reader!). Just be emotionally prepared to have her tell you she couldn't do it. She will likely need to tell that to herself at first; in my experience, this sort of affirmation of good morals has to get aired before she goes away and really thinks about it. Assuming she does this, the right response it to say that's fine, you respect her boundaries, but that doesn't change what turns you on. Stick to your guns, and she'll come to appreciate you and be turned on by your kink.
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brenda
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# Posted: 26 Feb 2008 09:09:42
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when my wife and i used to try and have sex many years back she would tell me that im useless and coulnt satisfy anyone , and couldnt even get her preggy , but would go on to tell me how wonderfull her black lover is and that when he pushed deep into her what a fantastic feeling it was and how she would orgasm many times, and how great he is at sex & he made her preggy , and today i am only here to support the kids she has. i do love her but accept she has needs. it seems that my little white sperm was no good compared to the loads of black seed i assume that he must push up her as he has no problem getting her preggy, and she wants another baby to him soon . comments
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rdro396
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# Posted: 7 Apr 2008 22:37:37
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I handled early dirty talk a bit different. I would egg her on by calling my own cock small. Like, “come on baby, come on that little pencil dick” and “I love your big wet pussy…” and eventually it became small cock talk. That then evolved into her needing a “big real man’s cock” and that really started to get her off… now she says, “Come on little school boy cock” and “fuck me with that little pencil dick” and “I bet you can’t even feel my big pussy.” It gets me off and it has really made big cock talk for her better. Now she claims she needs a “big, fat cock to stretch my wet pussy…”
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Vol92
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# Posted: 8 Apr 2008 22:50:55
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Quoting: rdro396 Now she claims she needs a “big, fat cock to stretch my wet pussy…”
Do you want her to cuckold you or is it just a fantasy for you?
Please let us know if she takes the next step and she gets that "big, fat cock" to stretch her pussy.
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kicking888
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# Posted: 8 Apr 2008 23:52:32
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These are great suggestions and it's great to hear the progression of inciting the ladies to talk more freely in bed. Any other experiences?
Anyone think they can take the progression from talking to reality?
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