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Piranha
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# Posted: 19 Jan 2008 15:54:43
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Hi all,
i like many out there spend most of my time on this site reading rather than posting. I could do with a little advice on something that happened last year and where i should go next with it.
A bit about me first, for as long as i can remember i have fantisized about my wife fucking someone else, someone from a one night stand and coming home and getting cosy with me, the thought drives me wild lol I was always sure i could handle it.
Anyway back to my wife, last July i noticed that she was keeping her phone on her person at all time, also she had it on silent 99% of the time too. i started getting abit susicious of this, the more suspicious i got the more 'tabs' i would keep on her. All the signs were there, new underwear, always geetting made up to go anywhere. Short trips to the shops that took alot longer than they should have etc.
I was certain that she was getting fucked by someone else, her sex drive was off the scale too, we were shagging at least twice a day plus whatever she was getting elsewhere. One of the most blatent signs was that during sex in the missionary pos. my cock slipped out, without looking i found the hole and carried on, thing was i found her arsehole and my cock slid straight in, no resistance atall. We hadn't done anal for about 3 yrs.
After one particularly horny session while we were having sex i asked her if she would fuck someone else, her reply straight away was 'if you want me to', it was a dream come true at the time. Mind was never off the subject of getting her hooked up and the fact she probably was already getting her quota of extra cock.
Things took an unexpected twist though, i started to panic about the situation, i asked her if she was seeing someone else and she denied any wrong doing, eventually after a month of detective work i found a text ' meet me at my place', it was under a womans name but she hadnt siad she was meeting anyone. I called the number and got an answer phone messag from a guy called simon. My dreams and my worse fears both came true. I confronted her about this guy and told he i wanted it to stop, when she realised i knew his name she backed right down, i changed her phone and number and things have returned to normal again - in fact we're a much stronger couple now.
The thing is, i still want her to go and fuck someone else, i've told her that i want her to and she is very reluctant to go ahead, i know im to blame for this reluctance. What i panicked over was the fact it was going on behind my back and i was worried she would run off with this fella.
But never the less i still constantly think about getting her to agree to go out and find a new lover. I could even handle her going to see the same guy as long as i know about it.
So where do i go from here ? Should i resign myself to the fact that i fucked up the only chance of it happening again, or because she's done it once is that a cert that she would do it again ?
I would love your views on this situation and any advice you can give will be very greatly recieved.
Paul.
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Piranha
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# Posted: 20 Jan 2008 08:20:09
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No advice atall ?
Im not someone trying to make up a fantasy, what i typed above actually happened, some experienced guidance would be nice. 
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ninto
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# Posted: 20 Jan 2008 08:37:56
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Are you sure you're ready? She cheated on you, and you freaked out about it.
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Stevie444
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# Posted: 20 Jan 2008 12:48:58
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I suggest you meet a local easy going guy, chat to him and he might help you make things happen.
Steve
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Piranha
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# Posted: 20 Jan 2008 14:10:17
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your right ninto, i did ferak out, more of a worry of her running off with who ever he was.
But i still have the most amazing urge to have sex with her after she's been used.
Its getting the jealousy part under control, like i said she knows i want her to do it again and she shy's away from the subject when i bring it up.
This must of happened to someone else, do you think as she's strayed once behind my back she could/would be persuaded to do it again ?
Paul.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 20 Jan 2008 17:54:46
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It doesn't sound to me like you want her to "stray behind your back". From the way you have made it out she cheated. Nothing can change that. It is possible to have a life where you know everything and she can have sex on the side as well, but not without the two of you talking a LOT more. Of course she is scared now. The reason she probably hid it was because she probably did have more than just sexual feeling for this guy. If you position it so that the two of you are doing it together than she can focus on you. You have screwed up, but only that you should have told her that it really hurt you that she left you out of it. You should have told her if and when she does you want to know everything. Be carefull though, women can lose themselves emotionally to the guys they are fucking. I have no idea where your wife is in that area. You need to find out. If she cant totally open up to you down to every detail of what already happened without you getting TOO jealous on her then you guys are NOT ready. Trust me, I have been there and I did make my women feel bad for it, but now I get to be there every time she plays and our marriage is the best. I can't handle her going by herself because of my jealousy. YOu need to figure out what will work for the two of you. Doesn't sound like your ready yet. You need to do some full out talking!!!
Good luck.
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Peter C
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# Posted: 20 Jan 2008 19:32:18
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I found your post very interesting. I can relate to how you felt then and feel now. As far as I know, my wife Debbie has never had an affair, but I was wxcited by the thought of her having sex with someone else. It took me a good couple of years to plant the seed in her head and a lot of persuasion and encouragement before she eventually slept with a young guy she'd met.
The night it happened I was fine. I was out shopping in a supermarket with the kids happy in the knowledge that a few miles away my wife was in another mans bed fucking. I picked her up from the railway station later and she looked like the cat that got the cream. We drove home and I was soon hearing all the details of her evening. It was great hearing how this guy had taken her back to his flat, stripped her and fucked my wife 3 times. I fucked her too, I guess to reclaim my territory, so to speak.
I was turned on by the thought of my wife taking a toy-boy lover as a "bit on the side" and we made plans for her to see him maybe once or twice a week for sex. A day or two later though, insecurity kicked in. I was worried that he was better in bed than me (she said he wasn't), that he had a bigger cock than me (she said he didn't) and that she might run off with him. I regret it now, but I asked her not to see him again. This, coupled with the fact that he didn't rush to call her afterwards, put her off this cuckold lifestyle and she swore never to repeat the experience and she has stuck to her word.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but I wish I had held my nerve and let things take their course. He did seek her out after a few days in the hope of another shag, but she turned him down. If I hadn't been so rash to put a stop to it, Debbie may well have agreed to keep seeing him and probably would have had seen him for awhile. Looking back, I'd have enjoyed that, but blew it.
Peter C
Proud that a young man has fucked my mature wife.
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JUANITO
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# Posted: 5 Feb 2008 06:55:59
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Amazingly enough, many times we try for years to get our wives to do it and then we blow it at the end. Once you have reacted in a negative way to one of her affairs it is difficult to convince her that you would welcome her unfaithful behavior at any time in the future.
Many guys have let jealousy and insecurity get in the way of a great erotic cuckold lifestyle. Many times I have had to fight the insecurity feelings we get when we think our lady may run off with her stud. Thus far she has stuck by me. Many times she has thanked me for bringing out the "whore" within her and letting her act on it. I think it lives in all women, but if they do not have a male who backs them up and loves them in the process, they will never act on it. I try at every turn to make my lady feel as though she is my absolute and beloved queen for allowing me the priviledge of being with her while she fucks another guy. If I ever feel any jealousy I supress it and it soon turns into a feeling of erotic enjoyment. This is advise to all who hope to succeed in keeping your wife "hot", which is what we all want.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 6 Feb 2008 03:09:00
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Good advice Juanito! You are so right about turning the jealousy and insecurity into enjoyement. I think it is the only way to survive this lifestyle.
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