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dblue1
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 13:47:16
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Has this lady given you any thoughts about eventually making your husband your ex husband but still living with him?
When you talked about it with your husband and Danny, whose opinion was more important to you?
Did she give you any insight into how her husband handled becoming her ex?
Are you still off birth control? If so how would getting pregnant by Danny effect your relationship?
Are you starting to consider yourself single instead of married?
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 14:16:25
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Quoting: dblue1 Has this lady given you any thoughts about eventually making your husband your ex husband but still living with him?
Yes, most definitely!
Quoting: dblue1 Did she give you any insight into how her husband handled becoming her ex?
He handled it very well apparently but I hope to have a good chat with him about it and get his persepctive. I know from Mary's point of view she found it very exciting. He ex was the best man as well!
Quoting: dblue1 When you talked about it with your husband and Danny, whose opinion was more important to you?
It was about the same. Hubby is disappointed that he can't be there but very excited at the thought of me having African Americans fucking me. Danny is a little jealous and hurts too but he knows I am a free woman.
Quoting: dblue1 Are you still off birth control? If so how would getting pregnant by Danny effect your relationship?
Yes I am still off birth control. If I get pregnant now it could be either Danny's or Malcolm's. Danny is not bothered about who the father would be...as long as it wasn't hubby.
Quoting: dblue1 Are you starting to consider yourself single instead of married?
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dblue1
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 14:58:03
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God, your responses are so fucking sexy.
I wonder if your husband knows you don't consider yourself married to him anymore?
It's almost like in your mind he's already your ex.
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 15:46:47
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Quoting: dblue1 I wonder if your husband knows you don't consider yourself married to him anymore?
I am certain that deep down he does. I don't wear his ring anymore and I don't let him touch me. So it is obvious........he is probably too afraid to ask the question because he will have to confront the issue then.
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dblue1
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# Posted: 15 Aug 2008 16:48:32
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If he asked the question what would you say? If he brought up the idea of being "really separated" how would you respond?
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mred4682
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# Posted: 16 Aug 2008 17:53:51 · Edited by: mred4682
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I feel sorry for your husband FG  Good luck to you.
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oleeaglefeather
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# Posted: 17 Aug 2008 03:16:07
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Denny,
I remember when I spoke up against fungall. She tried to spank me too. Time for this eagle to shit again....
Fungall can't handle criticism. Her fricken post is littered with self-absorbtion. She doesn't give a shit about her husband. For some reason - She NEEDS him! When that's done, she'll kick his ass to the curb.
My disapointment will be when this all comes crashing down. The board will never hear about it.
You know, the suicide attempt?
The blood and guts sprayed all over her bedroom, with the note that says "I love you, but I can't have you". "I can't take it anymore" "Goodbye"
What's that worthless piece of skin around a vagina called?
Oh ya, FUNGALL!
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dblue1
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# Posted: 17 Aug 2008 03:31:00
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I hope I'm not the only one who just reported that last comment to the moderators.
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denny1970
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# Posted: 17 Aug 2008 05:45:59 · Edited by: denny1970
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dblue:
"Dude this is supposed to be a supportive forum. "
Supportive of what? The lifestyle? Sure, I'll agree to that. Supportive of people pissing their marriages away? Not so much. Sure her story was hot, but unless your sub kink is *really* strong...which apparently is the case...the ending is kind of a downer, but not unexpected: real life always has a way of asserting itself.
Like I said before, real people can make these things work long-term, in FunGal's case there aren't any kids involved and the marriage was relatively short so the fallout is restricted. I actually think her story is great: hot in the beginning, but the end should serve as a healthy reminder and warning to folks that might jump into the deep end without really considering the cost: Not something to be entered into blindly.
I think the other responses about the story echo my thoughts...only without the detailed critique. I'll stand by my opinon that I think the "point-of-no-return" was when Bill was allowed (by both of them) to start limiting hubby's access.
That's the nice half.
The rest:
I'm still amazed that people around here seem to equate disagreement with hating or worse yet an attempt to control someone...that's just a giant leap of logic dude. I can't even fathom how anyone could possibly be controlled by reading a critic. Then again, reading the response of you and your fellow fart-sniffer cageme I guess you two guys are probably vulnerable to the Jedi-Mind-Trick too.  Maybe you and him should start with PMs and move on from there?  Go ahead and click the red X all you want. If I get paddled by the principal for expressing honest disagreement, so be it.
OleEagleFeather:
I can understand you being salty because MrsBBBUD got all up in your biznatch for daring to express agreement with the then-current object of her frustration...and I agree with the lament that the bitter end of the story probably won't make a post....but I gotta say that the last little comment at the end was a bit harsh. Unless I misread, FG wasn't venting her spleen on you, MrsBBBUD was. 
FunGal:
I feel bad for you and your husband both...It is obvious that you are moving on, hopefully the hubby does too. Best of luck to you both.
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 18 Aug 2008 11:22:34
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Quoting: oleeaglefeather I remember when I spoke up against fungall. She tried to spank me too. Time for this eagle to shit again.... Fungall can't handle criticism. Her fricken post is littered with self-absorbtion. She doesn't give a shit about her husband. For some reason - She NEEDS him! When that's done, she'll kick his ass to the curb. My disapointment will be when this all comes crashing down. The board will never hear about it. You know, the suicide attempt? The blood and guts sprayed all over her bedroom, with the note that says "I love you, but I can't have you". "I can't take it anymore" "Goodbye" What's that worthless piece of skin around a vagina called? Oh ya, FUNGALL!
I am trying to work out whether or not you are just a nasty piece of work or a simpleton under the influence of drink or something............
Just to make it loud and clear.....I DO CARE ABOUT MY HUSBAND If I didn't care about him I would have left him a long time ago and still be doing the same things as I do now. Just because the fundamentals of our relationship has changed doesn't mean to say I don't love him. There will also be no 'kicking him into touch'. He will always be part of my life for as long as he wants me to be.
In caring about him I also make sure that whatever I do he is able to handle it. I know him better than anyone and I know just what buttons to press and when to press them. This has been a journey of discovery for both of us. When I started out wanting something 'extra' in my marriage I had the choice of doing what countless others do, like my sister, have affairs and cheat with complete disregard for their husbands/partners I didn't want to do that because I love him and didn't want to hurt him. Instead, with the help of CP I brought him on board. I gradually introduced him into the world I wanted to go into and as we have journeyed I have always had thought for his well-being. Hubby is where he is now because that is where he wants to be. If he wasn't enjoying the ride he would have got off a long time ago!
Oleeaglefeather
You need to get a dose of reality. You seem to be living in a strange and gory world. And as for the anatomy of a Vagina.....It is obvious to me that your biggest problem is not being able to get one for yourself! Perhaps if you were a nicer person you wouldn't have this problem.
As for not being able to take criticism.....I am a lawyer and I can mix it with the best of them. Just be sure you have a very thick skin because my tongue can be like paint stripper!
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dblue1
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# Posted: 18 Aug 2008 12:23:07
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Fun_Gall you are awesome.
Sometimes I wish I was your husband.
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MrsBlackBlowupDoll
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# Posted: 18 Aug 2008 16:31:56
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Quoting: denny1970 Occasionally grown-ups have been known to be in the lifestyle.
True, but clearly you aren't one of them denny1970. Rarely have I seen such adolescent behavior on this site as you exhibit. Your most recent post makes those Republican and Democratic commentators who scream non-sequitur talking points and back-handed insults at each other on US talk shows. Indeed it is so hyperventilating - in the "did not and you are too and besides what is wrong with that; oh I always knew you liked him best" manner - as to be almost unintelligible.
But let us at least start with this one, as it is the heart of the matter:
Quoting: denny1970 So now a critique is castigation? I suppose maybe when you just can't brook any disagreement. Whatever Then again you also seem to think that I am being rude and disrespectful simply by daring to disagree so I shouldn't be suprised [sic].
Let us review: You intruded upon a civil discussion with an unrequested, harshly judgmental, mocking attack. In the course of that attack, quite aside from various implied faults, you accused fun_gall of outright dishonesty. Have you checked the definition of "castigate" lately?
It is depressingly common for people to justify their rudeness by saying that they were "only giving their opinion," or "just being honest." Let us be clear: unsolicited criticism is rude. It has been considered so in Western society for a very, very long time. It is particularly rude when what you are criticizing is people's private conduct and relationships. (It is not as if fun_gal has suggested a political program here.) I would also add that criticism is not the same as opinion. To be constructive and contribute to a conversation, it needs to be written respectfully. (In case you weren't sure trashing people for not having made "smart decisions," and calling them liars, is not respectful.)
The invitation implicit in a bulletin board like this is to enter into civil discourse, not to abuse your anonymity by being rude. Fun_gal, who is our hostess here, if you will, made it very clear to you that your tone was unacceptable and your advice unwanted:
Quoting: fun_gall What is your problem Denny? If you want to offer advice then fine, other wise keep your nose out! My lifestyle is my business and all parties to it are very happy, thank you!
At this point, etiquette offered you two options: You could apologize and change your tones to suit this thread, or you could leave it and find some other corner of this large site or vast internet where you feel more comfortable.
Instead, like a drunk who's been cut off, you got courser and louder and more obnoxious. I know you are safe (as we all are) behind your screen name, but that is no excuse for making a scene.
You say you have no control issues. Good. Prove it by leaving the thread. Show us you don't need to dominate this discussion by leaving us in peace to return to our civil discussion.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 18 Aug 2008 17:17:25
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>In caring about him I also make sure that whatever I do he is able to handle it.
FunGal: If he is truly happy as you insinuate then I guess my being sorry for him is mis given. But the way you write it, it doesn't sound to me like he is happy but that he is just "able to handle it".
I'm NOT judgeing or putting you down, hell I have followed your thread from the beginning and been turned on by a lot of it. If he is having the time of his life than great, but to me it doesn't really sound like he is enjoying it, but that it just turns him on, but as you say you do know him best. We know him only by what you tell us. Maybe its time to introduce him back to this forum and have him comment for himself.
I tried to write this with respect. I by no means mean to Judge you or your life. It just amazes me that your husband could go as far as you have taken him when it wasn't even his idea in the first place. I know I couldn't and I've been into the idea of Cuckolding for over 15 years, but everyone is different. Once again good luck to you, keep us all posted.
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 18 Aug 2008 18:04:18
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Quoting: mred4682 >In caring about him I also make sure that whatever I do he is able to handle it. FunGal: If he is truly happy as you insinuate then I guess my being sorry for him is mis given. But the way you write it, it doesn't sound to me like he is happy but that he is just "able to handle it". I'm NOT judgeing or putting you down, hell I have followed your thread from the beginning and been turned on by a lot of it. If he is having the time of his life than great, but to me it doesn't really sound like he is enjoying it, but that it just turns him on, but as you say you do know him best. We know him only by what you tell us. Maybe its time to introduce him back to this forum and have him comment for himself.
Yes, perhaps it is the way I have put things across that may have confused you. I do tend to be perhaps brief and impersonal and this might come across as being uncaring. And yes, perhaps I should encourage him to pen his feelings and explain things from his viewpoint.
I am not sure though that I would describe him as having the time of his life - in the way that I would feel in his place. I am starting to learn a lot about emotional masochism. I know a bit about physical masochism but I knew little about emotional masochism till I started cuckolding him. I know that he has all the normal feelings a person has such as jealousy and hurt but at the same time he gets so turned on by it all. I know that he finds it hard to explain and understand why he should get so excited about me being with another man and be so jealous at the same time.
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denny1970
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 02:28:59 · Edited by: denny1970
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FunGal:
"I am trying to work out whether or not you are just a nasty piece of work or a simpleton under the influence of drink or something............"
Is that for me or OleEaglefeather? I've said what I wanted to say, and then some. Reveiwing, I think it came across more harshly than intended, and for that you have my apologies.
As I said before, best of luck to you both.
MrsBlackBlowupDoll:
I was going back to lurking actually, somehow I knew that you just couldn't resist taking another shot though.
"Rarely have I seen such adolescent behavior on this site as you exhibit."
Then one of two things is true:
1) You haven't read enough of the posts here
2) You haven't read your own posts.
I vote for a combination of 1 and 2.
Your sort-of-clever but not really jabs I think speak much more about you than they do me.
If it makes you feel better to vent your spleen on anyone who disagrees with you, or your ad hoc definitions of "rude" and "implicit posting guidelines", go for it. Really. I couldn't give a rat's ass what you think MrsBBBUD.
You're not really arguing with me anyways...I think you're arguing with an ongoing mental-construct combined from all the folks who've dissed you real and imagined. Hey, if that works for you, you go with that. I bet the same voices in your head told you to dump on Oleeaglefeather too.
As far as me accusing FG of being a liar, I don't recall that at all. Maybe when you're done cutting and pasting dictionary definitions into your post text trying to sound coherent you can look that up too...Given that a sizable percentage of the stories here are fiction I don't see how raising that point qualifies as an accusation of lying. Except through your bellyfat-colored lenses of paranoia of course.
The last little quip of yours is just about priceless:
In order to demonstrate that your paranoiac rant about me being a control freak (for daring to disagree with you...your hubby must not do that much, huh? Pisses you off???) ISN'T true...in order to show that, I need to do JUST as YOU say? ha...ha...ha.
I'm excercising control by not laughing so hard my drink doesn't spew out over my keyboard.
Tell you what, Mrs Bizzatch, I'll exercise some charity and stop "clubbing the baby seal"as it were, by wasting keyboard clicks replying to your febrile, faux-indignant, puerile rantings. Let's see if you have enough self-control to abstain from continuing your polemic....
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 11:49:40
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Quoting: denny1970 FunGal: "I am trying to work out whether or not you are just a nasty piece of work or a simpleton under the influence of drink or something............" Is that for me or OleEaglefeather?
It was for OleEaglefeather
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 11:53:22
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Quoting: cuckoldsissymaid Hi Fungal, I am a sissycuck, you have handled you cuck very well and seem to be very loving to him. My wife has many lovers and I myself am really a 50's style house wife/maid. Have you tried putting your hubby in petticoats for me it changed my life showed me my place. Its a really small thing but it did the trick for us
Thanks for your comments.
Putting hubby in petticoats or womens clothing is not something that we have tried or ever will. Hubby is not into that and it's not something that I would like to see either.
Glad that it works for you both though.
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randyadrian
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 12:33:12
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I love your posts fun_gall.
I know you are reluctant to post pix, because it could potentially increase your chances of being recognised. But it would be SO nice if you share a 'non-facial' shot or two with all your admirers!
It sounds like your sister has a similar sex-drive to yours!
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dblue1
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 13:14:19
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I can't wait to hear about her last weekend with Danny.
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 13:47:22
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Quoting: randyadrian I know you are reluctant to post pix, because it could potentially increase your chances of being recognised. But it would be SO nice if you share a 'non-facial' shot or two with all your admirers!
Maybe in the future
Quoting: randyadrian It sounds like your sister has a similar sex-drive to yours!
Yes she does....she's not into black guys though. I love my Sis but I don't like the way she puts her marriage at risk.
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cuckhsbnd
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 15:13:32
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Hello fun gal,
I just want to compliment you on your thoughtful and generous posts. I also hope that you will not let any negative commentary dissuade you from continuing. Emotional masochism is fraught with misunderstanding due to the incredible emotional complexity of a true cuckold marriage. Nobody has the right to judge you publicly, and you have no need justify your life and your marriage to anybody. We simply fortunate that you share with us.Few people have ever been as sentient and spot-on as yourself. My compliments.
Cuckhsbnd
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slavecuckwannabe
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 15:39:05
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Don't let all the criticisms get to you. There are far more people who love your posts than don't. I think you're one of the most eloquent and clearly genuine posters on this whole site. If I were you I would just ignore them. Love your updates - keep up the good work!
P.S. It would be nice to see some type of photo - if for nothing else then just to get a sense of who you are. Thanks.
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mred4682
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# Posted: 19 Aug 2008 20:58:23
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Thank you for responding to my post. I don't know much about "Emotional masochism", but it is all very interesting. I personally can't see how in the world you would make it work as time goes on, but hey if it is working for you guys great.
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thebitbucket
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# Posted: 20 Aug 2008 07:58:04 · Edited by: thebitbucket
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fun_gall
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# Posted: 21 Aug 2008 11:46:03
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Just to let you guys know that I will be off to Detroit tomorrow for two weeks. I am taking my laptop and hope to keep in touch and let you know what is happening.
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dblue1
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# Posted: 21 Aug 2008 12:43:58
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Good luck Fun_Gall!
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ashes2flames
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# Posted: 22 Aug 2008 21:52:25
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Have a great time Fun_Gall ..
And don't stress out over the trolls. I'll say it again .. the absolute best way to deal with them is by clicking the red "X" next to their name and ignoring them. Don't give them the attention they crave. Don't feed the trolls!
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cuck4mis
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# Posted: 23 Aug 2008 03:50:46
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Fun Gal,
In a way, I feel bad in that I believe I may be the first on this post to have expressed reservations with where your relationship is headed. My concern, as seems to to be Mreds, was how far your relationship had gone and how quickly. It was only a year ago (no, I did not go back to the first post but have been following it all along so, fellow cucks, cut me a break if I'm off by a few months) that you were thinking about such a relationship.
I was fine with how quickly things had progressed until you talked about the fact that you were uncertain of your husband's place in your future, and that there probably wasn't any. However, I stopped communicating after Denny launched into you because I didn't want to add fuel to the fire. I think Denny went way too far (sorry Denny) but, now that things have settled down, am willing to say that I agreed with Mred that your husband was being neglected and would soon be forgotten and shoved to the curb.
What you and many bulls may not understand is that we cucks looked to you as an example of what a great cuckold relationship could be because, until after you returned from a brief hiatus, you always expressed that your husband came first, no matter what, yet you clearly "pushed his buttons" to your and his benefit. I think that when you started talking about the likelihood that your husband would not be part of your future, many of us saw ourselves in your husband's place and became very concerned. Most, if not all of us, love our wives tremoundously and anything that makes us remember that we could lose our wives as a result of "permitting" a cuckold relationship tends to scare the hell out of us.
Thank you for clarifying that your intent may have been miscommunicated in your post. Your messages are always exciting to read and I hope that you will continue to push the boundaries of your relationship with your husband so long as you keep him foremost in your heart. Good luck in Detroit and please keep us posted on your adventures. We'd love to hear your husband's perspective should you chose to allow him to post.
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# Posted: 23 Aug 2008 04:50:38
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When wives introduce things into their cuckold husbands, that must hurt! (sorry to interrupt - just trying to distend you)
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PeterCuckold
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# Posted: 25 Aug 2008 22:00:31
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Quoting: fun_gall Just to let you guys know that I will be off to Detroit tomorrow for two weeks. I am taking my laptop and hope to keep in touch and let you know what is happening.
Have a nice time, i am curious about Your adventures!
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