Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding

I would never rule it out forever but when he does make a play for me I gently move his hand away and tell him that 'it' belongs to Danny and Malcolm now and that he should not be touching me without their permission. Of course, I know that he would never ask.

And yes, it is taunting, and I enjoy it very much.



Of course he has to be completely faithful to me, handjobs or not!

Fun_Gall you moving your husband's hand away is very, very erotic.

Does your last sentence imply that handjobs may become a thing of the past?

It really does seem like the days of you and your husband being a romantic couple are coming to an end.

I am not moving in with Danny and if the relationship got to that stage he would come to live with me. I sometimes stay over and it is nice having a change of clothes there istead of taking an overnight bag all the time.



Yes but I am not ready for that yet



We have touched on it but things are a long way off on that scene at the moment.

Oh, I didn't mean you'd be moving in with Danny. I just meant keeping some stuff at his place is a positive step in the relationship.

How have you touched on the "just friends" thing with your husband and how did he react? Did he get hard?

How do you feel when Danny presses you to make the separation official. Does it turn you on? Make you feel wanted? Or make you feel pressured?

I agree. I love doing it. I love letting him kiss me and when his hand wanders down there, either moving it away or giving him a look of disapproval and asking him to stop. It lets him know that what I once gave to him, I now give to someone else, and that which was once his belongs to someone else now. It gets him very excited too. He will sometimes say "I bet you don't stop Danny touching you?" and I will tell him "Of course I don't it's his now!". He gets really hard at that!



I can't see me ever stop giving him a hand job but he also cannot take it for granted that every time he is horny, a hand job awaits. Sometimes I touch him and don't take it further and other times I might start to masturbate him and then stop. Make him plead and beg for it before finishing him off.

Dude this is supposed to be a supportive forum. If you - like many of us - like what Fun_Gall has to say then let her know. If you don't then just move on.

You know they old saying "Don't say anything if you don't have anything nice to say."

What's the point in coming here and giving people shit - unless your kink is being a judgmental prick?

Fun_gall had the right idea from the beginning--this denny asshole is nothing but a pathetic control freak who has to piss all over anything he can't wrap his sweaty paws around.

Reasoning with a troll is out of the question. You see that red x next to his user name? I urge everyone enjoying this forum to click on the x, then fill out the reason why this prick is so annoying--just like I did.

And to denny--bye-bye, asshole.

Rock on Cageme.

Denny is a self absorbed twatwaffle.

wow, hot and exciting yet tears my heart up

Thought you guys might like to know that I will be off to the US soon for a couple of weeks. I think I mentioned a while ago that I have been chatting to a lady from there that lives the lifestyle (She married her black lover and her ex-husband lives with them). Anyway, I have got to know her quite well over the last while and she has invited me over. Her ex will be going to stay with his brother and his family and I will have his room. Her husband will be off-limits but Mary has promised me that I will be taken well care of!

I thought long and hard about it and after discussing it with hubby and Danny I have decided to go. I wouldn’t say that either of them is entirely happy with my decision but I am sure they will get over it! I will be going alone of course and I am no doubt in for a good time! I will keep you guys posted.

Meanwhile, I will be staying with Danny this weekend……it will be his last weekend with me for a while so intend to make it special for him!

Has this lady given you any thoughts about eventually making your husband your ex husband but still living with him?

When you talked about it with your husband and Danny, whose opinion was more important to you?

Did she give you any insight into how her husband handled becoming her ex?

Are you still off birth control? If so how would getting pregnant by Danny effect your relationship?

Are you starting to consider yourself single instead of married?

Yes, most definitely!



He handled it very well apparently but I hope to have a good chat with him about it and get his persepctive. I know from Mary's point of view she found it very exciting. He ex was the best man as well!



It was about the same. Hubby is disappointed that he can't be there but very excited at the thought of me having African Americans fucking me. Danny is a little jealous and hurts too but he knows I am a free woman.



Yes I am still off birth control. If I get pregnant now it could be either Danny's or Malcolm's. Danny is not bothered about who the father would be...as long as it wasn't hubby.



Single

God, your responses are so fucking sexy.

I wonder if your husband knows you don't consider yourself married to him anymore?

It's almost like in your mind he's already your ex.

I am certain that deep down he does. I don't wear his ring anymore and I don't let him touch me. So it is obvious........he is probably too afraid to ask the question because he will have to confront the issue then.

If he asked the question what would you say? If he brought up the idea of being "really separated" how would you respond?

Denny,
I remember when I spoke up against fungall. She tried to spank me too. Time for this eagle to shit again....

Fungall can't handle criticism. Her fricken post is littered with self-absorbtion. She doesn't give a shit about her husband. For some reason - She NEEDS him! When that's done, she'll kick his ass to the curb.

My disapointment will be when this all comes crashing down. The board will never hear about it.

You know, the suicide attempt?
The blood and guts sprayed all over her bedroom, with the note that says "I love you, but I can't have you". "I can't take it anymore" "Goodbye"

What's that worthless piece of skin around a vagina called?
Oh ya, FUNGALL!

I hope I'm not the only one who just reported that last comment to the moderators.

I am trying to work out whether or not you are just a nasty piece of work or a simpleton under the influence of drink or something............

Just to make it loud and clear.....I DO CARE ABOUT MY HUSBAND If I didn't care about him I would have left him a long time ago and still be doing the same things as I do now. Just because the fundamentals of our relationship has changed doesn't mean to say I don't love him. There will also be no 'kicking him into touch'. He will always be part of my life for as long as he wants me to be.

In caring about him I also make sure that whatever I do he is able to handle it. I know him better than anyone and I know just what buttons to press and when to press them. This has been a journey of discovery for both of us. When I started out wanting something 'extra' in my marriage I had the choice of doing what countless others do, like my sister, have affairs and cheat with complete disregard for their husbands/partners I didn't want to do that because I love him and didn't want to hurt him. Instead, with the help of CP I brought him on board. I gradually introduced him into the world I wanted to go into and as we have journeyed I have always had thought for his well-being. Hubby is where he is now because that is where he wants to be. If he wasn't enjoying the ride he would have got off a long time ago!

Oleeaglefeather
You need to get a dose of reality. You seem to be living in a strange and gory world. And as for the anatomy of a Vagina.....It is obvious to me that your biggest problem is not being able to get one for yourself! Perhaps if you were a nicer person you wouldn't have this problem.

As for not being able to take criticism.....I am a lawyer and I can mix it with the best of them. Just be sure you have a very thick skin because my tongue can be like paint stripper!

Fun_Gall you are awesome.

Sometimes I wish I was your husband.

True, but clearly you aren't one of them denny1970. Rarely have I seen such adolescent behavior on this site as you exhibit. Your most recent post makes those Republican and Democratic commentators who scream non-sequitur talking points and back-handed insults at each other on US talk shows. Indeed it is so hyperventilating - in the "did not and you are too and besides what is wrong with that; oh I always knew you liked him best" manner - as to be almost unintelligible.

But let us at least start with this one, as it is the heart of the matter:



Let us review: You intruded upon a civil discussion with an unrequested, harshly judgmental, mocking attack. In the course of that attack, quite aside from various implied faults, you accused fun_gall of outright dishonesty. Have you checked the definition of "castigate" lately?

It is depressingly common for people to justify their rudeness by saying that they were "only giving their opinion," or "just being honest." Let us be clear: unsolicited criticism is rude. It has been considered so in Western society for a very, very long time. It is particularly rude when what you are criticizing is people's private conduct and relationships. (It is not as if fun_gal has suggested a political program here.) I would also add that criticism is not the same as opinion. To be constructive and contribute to a conversation, it needs to be written respectfully. (In case you weren't sure trashing people for not having made "smart decisions," and calling them liars, is not respectful.)

The invitation implicit in a bulletin board like this is to enter into civil discourse, not to abuse your anonymity by being rude. Fun_gal, who is our hostess here, if you will, made it very clear to you that your tone was unacceptable and your advice unwanted:



At this point, etiquette offered you two options: You could apologize and change your tones to suit this thread, or you could leave it and find some other corner of this large site or vast internet where you feel more comfortable.

Instead, like a drunk who's been cut off, you got courser and louder and more obnoxious. I know you are safe (as we all are) behind your screen name, but that is no excuse for making a scene.

You say you have no control issues. Good. Prove it by leaving the thread. Show us you don't need to dominate this discussion by leaving us in peace to return to our civil discussion.

Yes, perhaps it is the way I have put things across that may have confused you. I do tend to be perhaps brief and impersonal and this might come across as being uncaring. And yes, perhaps I should encourage him to pen his feelings and explain things from his viewpoint.

I am not sure though that I would describe him as having the time of his life - in the way that I would feel in his place. I am starting to learn a lot about emotional masochism. I know a bit about physical masochism but I knew little about emotional masochism till I started cuckolding him. I know that he has all the normal feelings a person has such as jealousy and hurt but at the same time he gets so turned on by it all. I know that he finds it hard to explain and understand why he should get so excited about me being with another man and be so jealous at the same time.

It was for OleEaglefeather

Thanks for your comments.

Putting hubby in petticoats or womens clothing is not something that we have tried or ever will. Hubby is not into that and it's not something that I would like to see either.

Glad that it works for you both though.

I love your posts fun_gall.

I know you are reluctant to post pix, because it could potentially increase your chances of being recognised. But it would be SO nice if you share a 'non-facial' shot or two with all your admirers!

It sounds like your sister has a similar sex-drive to yours!

I can't wait to hear about her last weekend with Danny.

Maybe in the future



Yes she does....she's not into black guys though. I love my Sis but I don't like the way she puts her marriage at risk.

Hello fun gal,

I just want to compliment you on your thoughtful and generous posts. I also hope that you will not let any negative commentary dissuade you from continuing. Emotional masochism is fraught with misunderstanding due to the incredible emotional complexity of a true cuckold marriage. Nobody has the right to judge you publicly, and you have no need justify your life and your marriage to anybody. We simply fortunate that you share with us.Few people have ever been as sentient and spot-on as yourself. My compliments.

Cuckhsbnd

Don't let all the criticisms get to you. There are far more people who love your posts than don't. I think you're one of the most eloquent and clearly genuine posters on this whole site. If I were you I would just ignore them. Love your updates - keep up the good work!

P.S. It would be nice to see some type of photo - if for nothing else then just to get a sense of who you are. Thanks.

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Just to let you guys know that I will be off to Detroit tomorrow for two weeks. I am taking my laptop and hope to keep in touch and let you know what is happening.