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RonMac55
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# Posted: 24 Mar 2007 22:03:51
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I'm doing fine. It's confirmed. I will attempt to sit down in the next day or so to let you all know what I know at this point.
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SNJ_Dom
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2007 14:59:32
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We all look forward to your next update, Ron!
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RonMac55
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2007 19:08:54
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OK--so here goes. It's happening--confirmed. I wasn't getting anywhere with my wife--she was stonewalling--did admit she saw him "in passing" every now and then at the gym they both attend--but that's it. She was still absent long periods during the day, other trips out in the evenings with little explanation--but I still got nowhere.
For whatever reason--call it morbid curiosity--I turned my attention to Jason--knowing where he lives and works I did what I could to find out what I could about him--weird maybe, but it's hard not to be a little curious about the guy you think/know is fucking your wife. I admit--strange as it sounds--I hung out near is condo a couple of times--chilled in my car drinking coffee--he'd go for his run everyday, leave for work, etc--saw nothing out-of-the-ordinary really--like a regular 20-something single guy--never saw my wife come or go, which I was also curious about.
Anyway, it all finally broke last Sunday--and it broke because I was horny. We were home together--the ideas, thoughts, insecurities, etc--were racing through my mind--I can't possibly tell you exactly how aroused, excited and fearful I was--but I approached her, using advice that I'd gained here (thanks, btw). I confronted her--said I'd seen his truck at our house and that I'd found the discarded t-shirt. My wife was absolutely ashen--she denied it only briefly, and that admitted--through sobs, that she'd been cheating--that since December she'd been sleeping with Jason several times a week. She was honestly terrified--like I'd never seen her before--and I was filled with love and sympathy for her. I felt guilt, fear, insecurity, and an abundance of lust--I never asked why, I only tried to reassure her that it was ok...that I understood, and that I was okay with it. She cried, I reassured her again--as best I could. Where do you go from there--it wasn't an easy few days. Things were quiet. I was sick inside, emasculated, but overwhelmed with lust--I can't tell you, despite it all, how turned on I was. My mind has been racing with images.
Midweek I suggested we talk more--and the fear came alive in her eyes again. I assured her again that everything was fine--that it would be fine--and that's when I told her that I didn't expect her to end her affair with Jason--that that fact that it had gone on now for months told me that she'd found something she needed--I told her I'd noticed the changes in her--that she looked and seeme d younger in many ways. She was utterly shocked at my suggestion that she continue--no doubt she thought I'd insist it end.
Urgghhh...forgive me for about 20 minues, I need to take a phone call--I will be back to conclude...sorry for the suspense...unintentional...but I don't want to retype...
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RonMac55
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2007 19:59:01
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Okay...sorry...phone call over. So midweek we talked--it took awhile, but I actually assured my wife that I wasnt going to leave her, and that I understood what had happened and why. I reminded her that this is something we'd spoken of during some of our rare, but enjoyable sex play. She decided to sleep on it some more, wouldn't commit to whether or not she'd continue seeing Jason--but was reassured--I was still upset in many ways, but honestly, more turned on then ever. That night while she slept I jerked it 3 times--I haven't pulled something like that off since my teens.
Between our midweek talk and Friday dinner, my wife's attitude relaxed more--some of the bit of despair I felt diminished and we had a great dinner, lots of wine, laughed--honestly talked and connected more than we have in awhile--I admitted to her that in addition to "understanding" her affair, that I was also aroused by it. Though she was a little taken aback--I think she recalled previous talks and foreplay where the issue had come up--so I don't think she was COMPLETELY surprised. The wine helped, we relaxed, went upstairs--I got hard quicker and with more ease than anytime I recently recall--and we actually had decent intercourse--we both climaxed hard. We talked--more foreplay--and my wife admitted more of her secrets to me--at least some for now. As we continued our sex play she confessed that she'd been immediately and powerfully attracted to Jason--that it was pure lust and nothing else--that she wasn't particularly attracted to his personality--that it was pure lust and she'd felt it right away. She was insecure about it--being older, and never assumed there would be reciprocation on his part--he remained to her--the type of guy who could have any woman he wanted--then they went to lunch I'd encouraged--something clicked. She said there was flirtation over lunch, emails, and a few workouts together at the gym--she was powerfully attracted. She said the flirtation was there--but with hesitation--both of them assuming the other wouldn't engage any further. She decided it would go nowhere--she wasn't sure that she could even do it given the chance and she was still reasonably convinced he wasn't interested. So--further into December, a few days after she makes this decision--she goes out for drinks with some friends (this is the norm for her at least once a week). They go to a different place than usual--and lo and behold, Jason is there, with a few buddies of his. There is small talk--my wife tried to be inconspicous in front of her friends--in short order Jason asked her if she wanted to just go "hang out" somewhere as he had to work in the morning and wasn't planning to stay late. Without protest or pretense she got in his truck and they drove to his place. Honestly, she's still being shy on the details--but, it sounds like it didnt take long--they chatted, the chat turned personal--intimate--and they went to his bed. Of course I recall this evening--I did get a message from her saying she'd be staying at some friends because she didn't want to drive...too much wine (this isnt out of the ordinary either)--she admitted to me the sex was good--that it was repeated--that they were still awake at dawn--and that the sex had been so rigorous that Jason called in sick to the police department. She again decided this was something she'd never do again--in spite of how good it was...by the early afternoon of that same day she was back at his place--and so the affair began.
Now this story took...hmmm...5 or 10 minutes to tell and I quickly gained the hardest erection I've had in years--I surprised her with a second round of intercourse--she apologized one last time for "everything"--and she cried some more--I'm still trying to reassure her.
So that's where things stand--she's aplogizing less, things are going "sort of" back to normal--we haven't discussed it deeply again so I have no idea yet if she's seen him--no idea if she'll tell him I know--but the one thing I made clear to her was--that if this were to continue--and I do genuine support that--that I expect to at least be informed about it--the effect it has on me beign obvious.
So there you have it for now--happy to update more soon...
RM55
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Amazonking
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2007 20:39:05
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Congradulations! It sounds like everything is starting to go your way. Amazing what a little communication will accomplish. And as FDR once said: "The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.
However, this is no time to relax your efforts. Positive reinforcement can only produce positive results. Continue to reassure your wife that you love her; no woman will ever tire of hearing "I love you" from her man (men). Encourage the affair with Jason. As a matter of simple conversation, ask her when she plans to see him again. Encourage her by asking what turns Jason on; for example, he is a leg man. Then encourage her to encourage him by wearing heels, hose, garter belt and a mini-skirt the next time she sees him. The more sexual pleasure Jason gives your wife, the more open minded and relaxed she will become. Once she is totally hooked and at ease, it should be easy to expand your role (and your pleasure) as her cuck.
Keep at it and soon you will join the rest of us in knowing the ultimate pleasure that comes from watching as another man fucks your wife silly.
Oh yeah, remember: pictures, pictures and more pictures. Cuckolding makes for great "Kodak moments."
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!
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cleanandjerk1
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# Posted: 30 Mar 2007 08:07:59
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Thanks for keeping us updated. It sounds like your working things out. Hope all the best for both of you.
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panos_yogi
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# Posted: 30 Mar 2007 16:33:33
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Well thanks for letting us in on this. My mind goes to another scenario, however: that, having been found out, she is building this shoring-up scenario that is all cool etc. It may be true - and it may not (someone who has said one lie with a straight face can tell another). What to do? Nothing, justbe prepared, be on the watch - and, that reminds me, try to watch!! Would that be a blast?
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zenner
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# Posted: 30 Mar 2007 22:29:24
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shamborn
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# Posted: 30 Mar 2007 22:50:28
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way to go, Ron! I'm proud of you for supporting and loving your wife.
Have you asked specifics about him? His body? His cock?
I agree with Amazonking, step it up so she see's you're not just "tolerating" it but are having as much fun with it as she is. Maybe buy her something sexy and tell her it's for her next date with him.
I'm so glad this has brought you two closer.
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shamborn
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# Posted: 30 Mar 2007 22:57:21
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Better yet--use her vibrator on her and talk about Jason! "You love that hard, young body don't you...! (etc.)"
and tell us about it! ;)
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xyzzyx
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# Posted: 2 Apr 2007 22:47:36 · Edited by: xyzzyx
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sorry I posted before I read the rest of the posts, last one I saw was march 14... but man you sure took a long time to see the obvious...
I do not mean any offence, none at all, I appreciate your honesty, and of course proceed as you see fit.
But get a grip man, your wife is fucking this guy, you see his car in the driveway and say "it might" be him...
HELLO - its him!
WTF - now maybe you don't want to confront her and even like the agony, that is all well and good but don't throw your brains out the window!
She is having sex, if not a full fuck than handjob, blowjob etc. now decide what to do next... the part about wondering is OVER!
Best of luck!
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RonMac55
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# Posted: 23 Apr 2007 15:28:12
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Only have time for a quick update--for those interested she's definitely still seeing him--was apprehensive for a week or two after everything was exposed, but now she's seeing him as often as before--if not more often.
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RonMac55
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# Posted: 23 Apr 2007 15:28:39
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Only have time for a quick update--for those interested she's definitely still seeing him--was apprehensive for a week or two after everything was exposed, but now she's seeing him as often as before--if not more often.
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panos_yogi
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# Posted: 28 Apr 2007 08:05:53
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Mmmm. Can be a big turn on, fucking her after she has been worked over by the other guy... Enjoy it while it lasts. But, in order not to have her get too involved with this guy, I would suggest trying to persuade her to fuck another; you both get a balst and it becomes more impersonal
Panos
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Rodger
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# Posted: 2 May 2007 22:30:51
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I thought this was an amazingly horny read!
I will be back to check on progress!
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skiermodx
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# Posted: 3 May 2007 21:37:38
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This is a hot story and situation, sounds like it may get hotter. Thanks for sharing.
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cleanandjerk1
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# Posted: 15 May 2007 10:58:21
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Anything new with you? How are you holding up?
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Hotcarl23
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# Posted: 19 Jun 2007 01:51:07
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Curious also...
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arthurarthur
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# Posted: 29 Jun 2007 01:56:52
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thats awesome Ronmac...glad you came back to post! i bet you two are having a great time too:D ...
did ya have fun?
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Gruntman
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# Posted: 11 Jul 2007 23:44:14
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So Ronmac what happened ? Did your marriage implode?
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advani
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2007 02:38:55
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Do update us. Kind of agree with panos_yogi here. She seems to be getting just too attached with the cop.
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Gruntman
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# Posted: 22 Aug 2007 05:41:44
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I'll take the silence as yes.
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LRusci
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# Posted: 12 Sep 2007 03:57:20
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This is one of the hottest stories ever!
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oleeaglefeather
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# Posted: 18 Sep 2007 03:57:40
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It's very unwise to get involved with a cop in this situation. If this thing backfires, you'll lose your wife for good. Not much you can do in retaliation - his "friends" will see to that.
Find someone new.
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Danj
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# Posted: 18 Sep 2007 04:32:26
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No updates in a LONG time...wonder what happened?
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domywifeplease
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# Posted: 18 Sep 2007 05:49:39
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He got bored of making up the story. LOL
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RonMac55
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# Posted: 27 Oct 2007 06:14:41
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Well...yes...it's been a long time since I've logged in here, or even been online with for that matter--other forces at work there. My wife is still seeing him--it's quite an open thing and something I've come to enjoy and participate in--though only from afar. I'm still very much here, and hoping to participate in the forum again on a more regular basis.
Seeya soon...R
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cleanandjerk1
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# Posted: 5 Nov 2007 13:28:42
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Sooooo...... What is happening?????? 
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Baldrick
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# Posted: 5 Nov 2007 16:10:17
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Yes Update please..
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Baldrick
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# Posted: 2 Feb 2008 11:46:17
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I really would like to find out how this ends, or carries on............
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