how do you explain?

So I have really been liking the idea of getting knocked up by one of my boyfriends. In fact my husband and I are planning a gang-bang-pregnant night for me in a few months or so.... But one question that occured as I read many of these threds is how do you explain to so many of your friends, family and so on why it is that your baby is mix racial and yet you and sometimes even your husband are neither black?????
I have shyed away from sex with a black man for many years no matter how much I want it because of the fact if there was a chance I got pregnant I would have no clue how to explain the fact that my baby is a different color then both their mommy and daddy is........
Got any thoughts on this?

I have spoke to a number of people who have done this and they have replied in different ways:
1/ Husband or wife have found out that they cannot have children or the likeihood is slim (e.g. weak, slow sperm) and had artificial insemination but a mix up resulted in a black baby
2/. The marriage was goin through a bad patch and the wife had a one night affair that resulted in pregnancy
3/. The married couple wanted to embrace the interracial lifestyle to break down racial barriers

since the baby is likely to be light colored, just say one of you (the parents) has an ancestor who was dark skinned. and you think its a lovely thing to have.

or do the non-issue happy hippy explanation ("we're happy and wanted to experiment/it was purposeful, why, do you have a problem with it?")...might also be easier to 'justify' or 'explain' if you had a kid together already...

you should probably be able to parse private and public issues to keep a certain level of normalcy etc.

ancestor in the family on his side is the best answer,not all the answer but probably the best answer.All that really matters is that bubby is loved looked after and has a good happy family life.That is the most important thing.The other is do it as many times as u can to do it again, lol im still trying to get another one to look after.