Fantasy to reality - anyone been there - advice needed!

Hi, whilst on holiday I've just been told by my girlfriend that she's pregnant by another man. We've gone through a difficult period recently and it happened with a co-worker friend who gave her a shoulder to cry on. She tried to abort but it didn't work and as a consequence she was forced to tell me. I get off on the cuck fantasy and have watched her having sex on a couple of occasions in the past. I played around a bit in the past (but always told her) and feel upset that she was intending to deceive me but because of our history I can't really complain, I guess she was getting a little payback.

But what happens now? We're having big fun playing around with the idea of her keeping the baby - the pregancy is a huge turn on for both of us and we're having the most amazing sex. I could bring it up as my own though I'm not young (49) and my family know I've had the snip.

Anyone had a similar experience??

Terence

just tell the family you decided you wanted a child, and she was artificially inseminated at the hospital. no big deal.

get a life dude. that was cheating with you in the dark.
eezdaze

dump her. she can't be trusted. not only did she cheat on you, but she went so far as to abort, and only told you when that failed and she had no other option. she was in a corner.

since you already were an established cuck, why did she need to cheat on you? since you are a long term couple, dont you think she should have gone to you when she first found out she was pregnant so you could work it out together.

you sound like a nice guy. she sounds like a lame girlfriend that would be a very bad choice as a wife.

you should walk out on her.

think this over carefully. all that really matters is that yu love your wife and that you love the child she has with you as the father. if the cuckolding part is a turn on for you then stay with this woman - she will make you happy.

dump her she is not trustworthy and will never will be fantasy and reality are two different things.trust and honesty are two critical parts in a relationship.she has neither

Far be it from me to contradict all these saintly posters with perfect marriages, but I think the decision to stay with her or not is a lot more complex than bumper-sticker slogan about "trustworthiness."

Also, it has nothing at all to do with cuckolding and little to do with the fact that she is pregnant. The issue for you is this: The two of you were on the rocks, she had an affair -- can you both be OK with that? It is easy for these sanctimonious strokers to tell you to "dump her," but the vast majority of married men and women cheat at some point and many couples can work it out.

The baby is obviously a complication, but how much of one? If you both still want to be married to each other, why should it matter? I know, easy to say, sure, harder to feel. How do you feel? Can you handle the idea that it is someone else's?

Time for some real honest blunt talk between your wife and you about the future and this child and what role (if any) you will play and the biological father will play, etc.

Leave how hot you are out of the conversation for now. BUT, if you decide you love each other and want to stick together and are on the same page about raising the child, THEN, you should feel free to indulge in all kinds of fetish cuckold play about what has happened. (In fact, it will be healthy to and help you both to confront things and heal.)

Good luck to all three of you however things work out.

If it's a turn on for you, go with it. It happened to me and I just went with it and have not regretted it. Knowing that another man bred my wife has always been a great turn for me. Enjoy the thought as often as you can.