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vslay
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# Posted: 25 Apr 2008 22:44:09
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I love this site.. I am by no means judging anybody. I am very curious to know.. What about the CHILDREN of "bred wives"?? I have read many posts on this site, I enjoy the broad spectrum of opinions, and the information shared...and certainly the sexy wives and gf's. Having said that... I do notice there seems to be a slice of CP's members that find the danger..or the quest .. of getting there beloved wives/gf's pregnant by a stranger, bull, interracial affair... I've noticed a trend with this segment seems to be.. the more opposite looking the cuck/hubby/bf...the more "thrilling" the couple seems to find it. As if the more obvious the situation is with a childs appearance differing from the busband/bf....the better. OK so I get it... I even understand it on some level...its cool because all parties are CONSENTING adults... BUT what about the child/children of these cuck/affairs??
I want to repeat I am not judging. please don't be defensive..This is a fact finding mission.. I am looking for a diolauge. These are some of my questions. Are you honest with the child?? Does he/she grow up to believe their mothers husband is their biological fathers?? I mean I just looked at my own question of "are you honest with them" its a stupid question... you cant possibly tell a child they were bred by a "bull" ...can you??
Think of all the damage it causes a child to grow up raised to believe their stepfather/mothers husband is their biological dad... only to find out one day they were decieved. Eddie Vedder still bitches about it to this day...Have you seen the true movie "Into the Wild"?? It deals a blow to some young men/ women that they sometimes never recover from.
I want to make it clear I am not saying the cuck couple are inadequate parents in any way. Ive read many of your posts and you are wellspoken and kind hearted people...JRSwing comes to mind. He and Eve are very popular on this site, and for good reason..Eve is gorgeous and her husband is a smart, cool dude. Their posts are hot as hell and have given many of us much turnon and enjoyment, myself included.
Can anyone weigh in on this subject.. I really want to talk about what is the fair thing to do for the kids in this situation.
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tightslider
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# Posted: 25 Apr 2008 22:56:13
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Of course no one would find your question offensive. This is a very real question. Most talk regarding this topic is in the realm of fantasy. Actually, most of this entire cuckold topic is fantasy in most people's minds. That's not saying that there are not people who do all of this, but the vast majority on this site and most sites similar to this do not.
It gets them off, but in reality most people live normal lives.
There are those that do go into this lifestyle. Many, for a short time and others for a more prolonged time.
Of these, there are the few who actually try the pregnancy aspect of this lifestyle, and yes it needs to be taken very very seriously. there is another life being brought into a situation that by society's norms is not considered "normal" or even "healthy". There are many, many repercussions to the people involved, both legally and ethically, as well as the good of the child.
Sometimes people do things in the act of desire with these consequences, it can be said the same for those even outside of the cuckold world. There are many unplanned pregnancies there as well.
I think those that wish to do it think very hard and then think some more about all aspects of this decision prior to doing it. In the end it is ultimately ALL of the adults responsibility (yeah I know a foreign word in today's society!) for the end results.
My 2 cents...
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Tom7766
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 01:13:21
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My opinion as a Therapist for Alt Lifestyle couples is that while they can certainly be very loving parents the kids in a case like this always find out and always have problems. This is a situation where you put the kids in a very obvious abnormal position and they typically feel that thier fathers deserve no respect and their mothers are sluts. Thye feel their whole existence was and is just a game. Please please do not go there!
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vslay
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 02:44:03
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Tom.. Thank You for weighing in... But i think its important we "go there" because it is happening, right here in our online community, and all over the country as avidenced by the diversity of our posters. We shouldnt just turn our heads to this. I want to put it out there and I will take whatever criticism comes my way. I am the last guy to tell anyone else what to do in the privacy of their own homes..but in this case I am speaking for the kids that cant speak for themselves. STOP THE "BREEDING" getting our crooked rocks off for one fantastic night shouldnt result in a lifetime of confusion, pain and hurt for a life that begins in the process.
I feel like such an asshole, I typically despise people who worry about others and whats good for them.. I am the huge proponent of live and let live.. its a free country..etc..
Perhaps my opinion could change if one couple spoke up and told me of a childs life that began as a breeding party... that is working out well.
Sorry to be a kill joy in this most-fun forum,, Believe me I am not going to dwell on this in the meantime...I will be snapping the carrot to the hott wives and gfs ,,, daily.
But for the kids sake....STOP BREEDING
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Facers
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 09:24:43
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And along those lines, single mothers should never get married and kids should never, ever be adopted.
The question itself isn't offensive. The fact that it's brought up by the same, small handful of people is.
What about all those "I want to see my daughter fucked by BBC" posts?
How about the husband that was tied up, bent over the table getting ass raped while his wife cheered the guy on?
If you're going to crusade..then crusade with both guns blazing. Go after the shit that has actually HAPPENED and posted, not the shit that is posted with "ifs" and "might bes".
We're all entitled to our opinons, and if I came across as feeling otherwise in this post I apologize. But in any form of adult lifestyles, aren't WE the ones that should be keeping our opinions to ourselves if it sounds judgemental? We get enough of that from the holier then thou types in the real world...we don't need it here on a forum for the actual lifestyle.
If you were part of some "Sheep Fuckers Anonymous" forum, it wouldn't be appropriate to for me to go there and start preaching about how wrong it is.
If you're so worried about children, go volunteer at a church or an organization that is working to help the REAL AND KNOWN children of need.
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afwmisom
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 10:20:22 · Edited by: afwmisom
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The bastard child would be looked down on by and in comparison to the children born from the husband and wife. So even though the goal was to somehow humiliate the husband by truly cuckolding him, the father of the bastard child would be the one shamed, as his offspring will have to struggle for legitimacy. In the case of BBC, this would just perpetuate class division based on color by having the interracial kid illegitimate and the white kids legitimate. The half black kid would grow up feeling that something was less worthy in him.
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vslay
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 11:44:23
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facers, I am worried about children, How do you know Im not volunteering? I like this site, the lifestyle etc Im just saying, lets draw a line at conception
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Facers
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 14:42:32
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Who is "let's"?
Live your life, let others live theirs. Just as I don't know if you volunteer, you don't know the details of how a child is conceived around here. Some kids are born to two married, dedicated, monogomous people and are treated like utter crap.
And that's the point: You don't know.
Don't start drawing lines here, else you'll open the door for everyone to draw lines elsewhere.
Same with afwmisom. What about artifical insemination born children? What about white couples that adopt a black child, or mixed race child?
The only lines drawn with this post are assumptions. This particular forum is for pregnancy risk and even planned pregnancies. If I don't agree with a particular forum, I don't go into it. I leave the members be. I ask you practice the same tolerance.
I respect you don't agree with it, but no one asked if ya did to begin with.
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mcevin
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# Posted: 26 Apr 2008 16:16:05
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Okay, so right off, I find the whole cuckold fantasy thing way hot. Of course I'm not even married yet. I'm a SWF, 24, in graduate school. I have way too much of my own shit to take care of to ever judge anybody else, so don't interpret any of the facts I might bring up as being, god-forbid, "judgemental."
Mom cucked dad with her (black) boss when I was 12. Now this was not a "cuck wears panties and cleans up afterwards" life-style deal. It was more like dad was gone a lot getting his business started and mom couldn't keep her knees together. So after The Divorce, I went from living in a big house with my own nanny to living in Section 8 housing with my own pimp. I went from being a nice little Catholic schoolgirl to Roseville Junior High in the Bad Part of town. So you see, I sort of have a different take on the whole cuckold thing. I still think the fantasy is way hot, though.
So anyway, of course mom's boss dumped her, and mom went through a bunch of live-in studs. One of them tried to **** me. It was in mom's "hunk" phase, where their age, collar size, and IQ are all in the low 20's. I stayed away from home as much as I could after that. Besides, mom wanted me to baby-sit my half-brother, who I hated because I blamed him for the whole thing. (Remember, I was thirteen and hurting.) So then I got caught shoplifting in the Mall of the Americas and this guy made me suck him to keep him from turning me in. That was bad, but it started me off on my career as a suxtress. I was the only ninth-grader to go to the Senior Prom, WITH a SENIOR, wonder why? I had a lot of therapy, but I looked it up on the internet and learned what to say and how long to wait before I said it, so I got declared "cured" and could go back to gymnastics.
The night I turned 18 I was waiting by the door with my stuff, and when the clock struck, I moved in with my loser boyfriend, opening a whole new phase of my so-called life. At least mom couldn't keep me from contacting dad, who was living in France with a girl my age. (!) My half-brother wound up living with his grandmother on the South Side, near Stoney Island. I went to find him a few years ago to apologize for how I treated him when we were kids, but he didn't even remember. We had a good time,though, we went downtown on the El and hung out. He doesn't seem too damaged. I know I got mom's slutty genes, but I don't think he did. He's not a scholar, but he's pretty good at baseball, who knows?
SO anyway, it's all right now, in fact it's a gas! I dumped my loser bf and went back to school. I have an MA in Dance Performance and I'm teaching and working on an MBA so I can take over dad's business. I might go to Law School next, whatever I can do so I don't have to grow up. I have dad's smart genes, but I know I have mom's slutty genes, so I'm probably not the nice girl you want your son to marry. I might make a good cuckold's wife, though.
Love,
Jamie
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vslay
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# Posted: 27 Apr 2008 05:24:48
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I dont need anyone to ask me... screw that , I'll say it again. A cuck affair is no way to begin a life.. see above story
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Facers
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# Posted: 27 Apr 2008 13:47:27
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Yes above story sounds like a rough road that one tough chick had to travel.
I have heard stories of rough roads travelled by people never in a "cuck" lifestyle. I've heard stories of rough roads travelled by rich and poor, two loving/parent homes of "normalcy" and from broken homes and abusive parents/teachers.
I've heard the stories where good Catholic wives won't abort their rapist's baby, and the husband raises it as his own with her.
I've heard them, and I know a few personally.
So fucking what?
I say being born to welfare parents is no way to start a life. I say being born to a girl still in high school is no way to start a life.
Should I get on my high horse too?
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jrswing
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# Posted: 27 Apr 2008 17:44:29
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vslay
In case some of you are wondering why we have not posted a response yet, (my wife noticed right away when this thread started) it is mainly because we were not sure if this was truly a serious question or just someones attempt at getting people rialed up. But we finally decided to add our two cents in for the record. Ok, first off we have 2 wonderfull children that I/we love very much neither of which is biologicaly mine in fact both are from 2 different men whom my wife selected to impregnate her. Having said that I love my children, accept them as if they were mine and take care of them as if they were mine, I am their father. My wife and I have a wonderfull marriage and I am told that I am a wonderfull and caring father. In fact I have been told by many family members that since I had my kids I am a much better person, a happier person. I can honestly say that I gladly acccepted my wife getting pregnant from two of her boyfriends who I can honestly say are still in our lives as friends/bulls because in our case I knew that there was a chance due to in accident as a child that I could never have children. Although, her boyfriends know that they have fathered children they are not involved in our childrens lives. In a sense they were sperm donors that my wife carefully selected, both are healthy, intelligent, succesfull and handsome men that just happened to not want children because of their careers. Now to answer your questions we do not intend to tell our kids how they were conceived but iI can tell you this, I was there for my wife for 40 weeks during her pregnancies, I was there when they were born and cut there unbilical cords and it was I that welcomed them with open arms when the doctor after the c-section handed them to me. I am a firm believer that getting someone pregnant does not automaticaly make a man a father, it is what you do after that makes you a father, getting up in the middle of the night to cover your infant son because he might be cold even though you are tired from not sleeping because your wife has been breastfeeding every 2 hours or willingly taking that extra shift because you could use the extra money to take the kids to Sea world. In fact I personally know many people who's real father didn't give a shit or do anything for them instead as in in one case it was another man they willing called dad because he was their for them both physicaly, mentaly and emotionaly all their lives. This brings to mind my step brother who calls my father dad because his biological father is a total deadbeat. So judge us if you must it really doesn't matter to us but as Facers said you really don't know all the facts. By the way thank you Facers for your responses on this thread.
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vslay
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# Posted: 27 Apr 2008 22:41:02
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not judging, I was serious, I wanted to know the kids are allright. thanks I feel alot better now I can continue enjoying your posts
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