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DAMN! That is not a beginner's size buttplug. Good to hear about some progress!

Thanks for the congrats. It was definately not the most comfortable thing, and it did take a while to get that thing in. I also hope she treats me with a little more...or more like an object.


Great minds think alike! When we bought this one, she was the one that picked it out. She skipped the smaller one, went right to this one..."It will fit...you will make it fit". Its takes some time, and a lot of lube.

She and I have been in sort of a funk, I have been stressed at work. Since around Christmas time, I noticed a drop in her sex drive. I tried to work with it, knowing that these things happen. I bought her flowers, books (she loves to read), scented candles for when she is in the tub, I poured her baths, gift cards to victoria secret...etc. And to top it off, I upgraded her wedding ring to a much larger diamond.
Well I got a lot of thank you's...she didn't seem to really appreciate it.

So, when we sat down the other night, instead of going the route of "what can I do for you"...I went "what have you done for me?". I told her "I have been going out of my way to be good to you, even when I am stressed at work." "I have tried a lot of things, I have spent money on you, poured your baths...etc" I kinda let her have it...not yelling at her, but talking to her firmly. I think thats what did it. She seemed to be missing her "man". Thats when she responded in kind by playing the "game" with me. What it tought me is to not forget that she married me as her man, and that I need to be that for her more often. And in turn, she will dom me sometimes.


Orban, good to hear from you, and I was glad to see your wife is kinda back into this again. Great news. Never thought of it as a hemoroid medicine.


I would have to agree with you on that Ted. It took some time for me to make it work, and then when it came time to take it out again...well, I am glad it comes out pretty quick. Although it was some progress, I don't think it will translate into more cuckolding. She just refuses to seek out someone else.
So its a wait and see kinda thing. I am still working on the massage thing. Just can't find someone that has the table and the proof they can do the job. I am not giving up just yet.

Any stories of recent use of the butt-plug or the extra large dildo?

Love reading your updates

Unfortunately no new fun stuff to report. With the kids getting older, birthday parties for friends/family...etc, etc, etc....I feel like when we get home its eat, shower, and bed...and out in minutes. Plus this past weekend she was broke. Good thing I was out of town with the old neighbor! At least the strip club was a good time!

A little comment I like to use on my wife when she is broke (has her period). "You know hon, just because the roller coaster is broke, you don't have to shut down the whole theme park...The log ride is still open, isn't it?" Her response is..."The log ride is never open!" My final words to her..."Your mouth isn't bleeding, is it?" We usually get a laugh out of it.

I wish I had something, but nothing much seems to be the status quo now a days.

It was the usual Tuesday night with me going to watch O.N. bowl. It was also the last night of bowling for the season. We left the alley, got back to my house, I went down stairs to get some beer...he went to go harass my sleeping wife. She was in bed, but apparently not sleeping yet...but close. I came upstairs with the beer, as he was just coming out of my bedroom laughing. I didn't say anything, neither did he.

O.N. and I sat down at my computer and we watched some videos on youtube, we chatted a bit, and little bit later my wife came in to ask me to turn down the speakers. I did, but in the mean time O.N. had reached up and slid, rather he kinda flicked her shoulder strap on her shirt down, so her tit was almost hanging out. I looked at her and scolded her for not dropping the other one. She was in a sleepy daze, just pushed the strap back up and walked out back to the bedroom.

I went to get another beer, he went back to the bedroom...talked with her real quick, came back out, we watched some more videos, finished that beer, and he left for home. He mentioned that he was going right home and not over to his gf's house. Funny thing, her place is about a mile from mine...his house is about 10 miles away. He was very adamant about not going to see her.

Ok, so now why am I updating? As my wife and I were talking today, we talked about O.N. and his gf, we were both commenting to each other on how we think he might be having second thoughts about her. Thats when my wife told me what he told her last night, the last time he went into the bedroom. He walked in, teased her, then said..."You know you miss it", she rolled back, looked at him..."mmm, yes I do"...as he turned to walk back out..."So do I".

Works for me.

Thats great news Allen! My fingers are crossed for you!

Well it seems that you will be cuckolded again soon!

Wow! I just popped an anticipation boner. Can't wait to hear what's next! (I realize my comment was pretty childish, but I just finished spending the weekend with some old college buddies.)

Well, I just got over a multiple day sickness...I think might have been e-coli. I was able to suck it up and the wife and I went on our bus party trip. When ever possible O.N. would tease my wife when his gf was not looking.
Two things made this past weekend a bummer...me being sick, and her having her period. Other than teasing, thats all they did.

Something else did catch my attention. While on the bus, O.N. was talking up front with some other people. His gf was talking to my wife and I...she mentioned (in her now extremely drunken state) how he had made her mad earlier this week. She wanted another guys perspective I guess. I told her my position on what she told me...which happened to be the same as his...my wife agreed with me...hehe. His gf then proceded to tell us that she was so mad at him that she ended up cutting some of her hair. For me...if that was my gf...I would have dumped her on the spot. I have dated a psycho in the past...and this was a huge red flag in my book. Now you reall couldn't tell because she curled her hair that night, but damn...

I plan on having a talk with him in private...maybe over a couple drinks. He might know, but I doubt he does. We will see what happens I guess.

Allen
Hope it all works out man, he definetly needs to dump the crazy you know what.

How's this going? Hope she gets some soon!

Allen - I really wouldn't recommend trying to talk to ON about his gf. Twice in my life I felt it was necessary to give a close friend an "outsider's perspective" on bad relationships they were in with truly crazy women. In both cases it backfired horribly. The friend would get even more upset because they knew that I was right. It ended up hurting my friendships with them much worse than it hurt their relationships with their gfs. Eventually in both instances my friends ended up telling me "you were right. I should've listened." But this was years later. The damage was done.

Besides all that, wouldn't it be hotter if your wife and ON started banging again without your manipulation? I'd think it would be much more exciting if it happened of it's own volition. I'm sure the only thing worse than not being able to get your wife to be a "hotwife," is having her be a hotwife and then stopping. I understand sitting back and waiting is much easier said than done.

Thanks guys for the continued interest. I just don't get women sometimes. One minute she really wants to role play, toys, orgasm denial, pushing my buttons, then she turns it off. Something seems to be on her mind...I will have to get it out of her. What is on her mind? Damn it.

This past Tuesday O.N. came over to my house to help me with some work I have been doing to my ATV. He is kind of a carburator expert...it needed to be re-jetted for the snorkel kit I was installing. Well, as we were working we were also drinking a few beers. We eventually finished that part of the project, and made it back to my house. While sitting by the bar, I did bring up the bus trip night. I told him that I needed to tell him something that happened that night and as a friend I thought was important. He looked at me for a second, and said that if its something that is coming from me, its important to him. I told him the short conversation that ran up to his gf telling me that he made her mad that one night, she ended up going home and cutting her hair. I told him that as a friend it raised a red flag to me and that I thought he should know.

He looked at me for just a second, he laughed a little and proceded to tell me that she normally does cut her own hair. He said that he and she were supposed to go over to Kelly's (not her real name) to get his/her hair cut. (Kelly cuts my hair to). But because he made last minute plans with one of our guy friends, his gf was in fact mad at him, and instead of going over to Kelly's on her own, she went home and cut her own hair. So, I guess it was not as much a big deal. Either that, or he is covering for her.

So, Ted...I think you are right in that things might have been better left alone, but then again I have seen him once since then and talked to him a few times. I don't think things are damaged, but I do have hopes I might have brought to his attention to keep an eye on her actions. I have a feeling that he is not as happy as he was just a couple months ago. She does not seem to be fitting in with the other girls in our group of friends...at her own choice. But, that is something I will not be mentioning to him.

Ahhh!!!! A lot easier said than done.

Allen, what's up, man? Anything new with you?

Alllen, I've followed (subsribed to) your thread for awhile as it was one of the hotter ones here. It's been awhile, is everything ok? Any movement either way? Thanks.

I would love to add anything new and exciting. Our old neighbor seems to be very happy with his gf and in no way compromise that. I still can't get my wife to find interest in anyone else. She and I have talked about cuckolding many times and unless the situation is something like we had before we moved...I can't see anything happening...as much as I would love it to.

How feesible would it be for you to move back to your old house....

Moving back would not work for us. We moved mainly for two reasons. One, a bigger house, and two, the schools for our kids. Even if we were still at the other house, I am pretty sure they still would not be getting it on. He has his steady gf now and she is moving in with him.

Allen,

Your wife should try Ashley Madison. My wife found the guy she is cuckolding me with on there, and that was over a year ago. Took a couple trys to find the right guy, but far easier than anything else. Just my 2 cents.
A dominant Mistress / wife and submissive slave / husband. Just the way it should be.

Thanks snmk22. I can't say what the issue is with my wife, but she has no interest in doing it again. She tells me that it was a special circumstance. He and I/my wife already had a relationship as neighbors and friends, so she already had built a trust and felt comfortable around him, even if alone with him. She would have to build that again with someone, and to be honest I do not think she wants to. She has told me a number of times that she has no interest in seeking "it" out. So very frustrating.

Hi Allen,
What a shame that your lovely wife is not interested in cucking you again.

I have been re-reading your thread back from the beginning - you and your wife have had some fantastic experiences, and to this day, I credit you for my wife finally taking the plunge and experiencing sex with another man outside of our marriage - she is still seeing the same guy (last time was 6 months ago when he stayed the night at our house while I was away on vacation with our kids - he fucked her in our bed night and morning, the cum stains were still there for me to see when I returned).

The one thing I have learned is to not pressure my wife into doing something she doesn't want to do, or will get no enjoyment out of. Your wife knows the pleasure that the two of you enjoyed from her cuckolding you, so maybe she will start something again in her own time - slow and steady wins the race my friend.

Good luck and still keep us posted.

"slow and steady wins the race my friend." Thank you. I really believe its still in her to do it, but only time will tell. I am glad you and your wife are enjoying the great things cuckolding has to offer. Here is to your and your wife enjoying much much more.

Thanks Allen - must be reasonably user friendly time zones between NZ and USA at the moment (2.30 in the afternoon here).
I just really wanted to say to you that you and Erika have obviously got a really good thing going, cuckolding or not, and sometimes it's good just to appreciate what we have without getting too greedy for more

Speaking of getting greedy for more, we have afew days coming up where my wife and I will be home alone (kids will be on school holidays at one of the grandparents). We have invited P (my wifes lover) to come and stay at our place again if he wants - this time with me home, so that could be an interesting night (or two). I should really tell all on my own thread, but somehow I find it easier just tagging on everyone elses. Hope you don't mind

I don't mind at all. I am here to share what I have and if someone wants to share along with...not a problem. I did start a new thread "Then and now" to share anything new, not really exciting things between the wife and I.

http://www.cuckoldplace.com/1_75043_1.html

I really appreciate your kind words. I am curious, what is it like in New Zealand? I am looking for different places to possibley vacation, sometime in the next couple years. Thanks again for sharing your/your wife's journey. Please continue to share...

how about a town with a big military base? ;) lots of clubs and bars to take her to with or with out you . They know why a man takes his wife to those places. im sure it would get her juices flowing!
did ya have fun?

She does have a thing for the Marine uniform...hehe...

She did say to me yesterday that she does miss doing "it" for me, but that she can't seek it out. Rather is has to be more of a "kinda just happen" type thing.

Its beautiful in San Diego right now
did ya have fun?