Neighbors hot tub

Seems I killed this thread, sorry allen, I will just sit back and drink my crown, thats what she said

carocpl: Its not you...its the wifes bf. He just does not seem to be really into this anymore. I think that my cuckolding has come to...or is close an end.

My wife and I knew that this would happen eventually, but thought it would be later...not sooner. Although we are disappointed that he has been distant with fucking her...he is still my best friend and my respect for him is no different.

I would definately like for my wife to continue to cuckold me, I know she won't. She has a connection with the neighbor...that I can't see her having with someone else. She seems to want or need some sort of connection with someone before she would even think about being intimate. I love my wife and do not want her to do anything she does not feel comfortable with. It is completely up to her if we were to continue...with someone else.

This has definately been a cuckolding of convenience. If we didn't have the neighbor and friend we do...it would not have happened. I have enjoyed everyones comments, words of encouragement, and advice.
I will of course post any updates as they may come along.

Are we done with the neighbor?...Mostly yes
Will my wife cuckold me again?...No

This was an incredible journey for my wife and I. I will continue to visit cuckold place, commenting on posts, continue reading on how some new "friends" continue their journey as cuckolds and of course read up on those working to become a cuckold.

Thank you everyone.

-Allen & Erika

That would suck if they stopped, Allen. But didnt the same thing happen a week or so ago?

Frequency of sex goes up and down all time, even in healthy marriages. So dont give up.

Maybe its time for your wife to have a serious talk with him. If you are all such good friends, he should be open to it. Maybe say to him, "(name), theres something on my mind that I need to talk to you about." Then she can just reassure him that he is both of your best friend, that it has been a lot of fun playing with him, and that she wants him to be happy. Maybe she can get him to open up whats going on inside him. Maybe he feels guilty, or sad about not having a girlfriend of his own. Maybe he's worried about hurting your wife when he does get a girlfriend that he wants to be exclusive with. Maybe he's worried about losing your friendship when that happens. I can see that. I know I dont have all the details, but maybe its just a matter of reassuring him that you will always be friends no matter what.

In any case, I hope you dont leave the forum. Your comments and advice to me have been very encouraging and I would miss it.

They did get together not that long ago. I think that they will from time to time mess around...even have sex...but it will be few and far between. I know he is feeling lonely...wanting someone for himself. I can't blame him for that...no one wants to be alone.

I also think that my wife needs to talk to him. I have given him many chances to open up to me, but he won't. He did on one occasion come over to my house to talk with my wife (I was not home). I was asked not to mention what they talked about. So, he seems to be able to open to her...now its her turn to come to him. That won't happen for a couple days though. He is out of town till Sunday. I want her to take that opportunity to get it out of him. Lets see what happens.

As for me...I won't be leaving the forum. I love it here. This place was here for me when I was a wannabe to when I became a cuckold. I love reading on how others are progressing, the pics, caps...pretty much everthing.

Overall, unless the neighbor decides to step it up with my wife...I think this thread is about finished. And that ladies and gentlemen...would suck.

allen so sorry to here how its turning out so far.but remember even thou it was short lived as mine was, you and erika have had more than a lot of people here and that my friend is something to be proud of.its nice to have real people here to follow cause there are ups and downs to this,and you were always honest with us not making things up we wanted to hear. hope we dont lose you two. i for one would love to have you keep this thread going with updates about you and erika,and your life together. i think erika and the neighbor need to get away for a weekend together to have time alone and talk (or whatever).really wanted her to help him paint topless lol

Wow this was such a great thread. I would hope it doesn't end. You have been a real inspiration to all of us Allen

I'll bet it is just the winter funk. Spring is around the corner and your neighbor is gonna be horny as hell soon..lookin to breed ;) !
Also , most guys talk a lot of shit but don't or can't put up. He took it as far as he is willing to go.
It is probably too heavy for him.
I know if a woman starts telling me she loves me, then it's time to leave.
Few exceptions. My ex-wife and my current gf.
I think you would get better results if your wife ignores him.
Maybe even tease him by saying she has a meet up with another.
Pretty soon he will be flashing those 'cat' lights ...he may even install a spot light at some point to get her attention!
Either way, Erica has crossed that line from innocent to hot wife so she isnt kidding anyone that she likeded it! Why deny the fun!? Forget the 'friendship" part and the caring for him stuff.
You have a Hubby Erica, you want cock! Women often try to justify being horny with love. They were taught that to have sex you have to be in love. That was then. He quit because she started talking about Feeeeeelings and got him freaked.
He probably thinks, Hey , i dont want to steal anyones wife!
And that is why we Love Sluts!
NSA baby. Hump 'em and Dump 'em,Hit 'em and Quit 'em!Cut and Run! No hassles!
Your neighbor isn't looking for a relationship...of anykind.
He has no steady 'cuase he doesn't want one.
He is nice and all but he seems to want to be single.
Anyway. take it for what it's worth.
Love the thread and I too would hate to see the end of it!
did ya have fun?

Update: The neighbor seems to be moving on with a woman for his very own. While I would prefer he be moving to a more frequent sexaual relationship with my wife...I can't blame him for wanting someone in his life to "be" with.

Ok, now this might sound "sappy"...but he is first and foremost my best friend. He, my wife, and I shared a great fantasy. This has brought my wife and I closer together, and now with him departing from the fantasy...its time for my wife and I to become even more close. With her emotional attatchment this will be harder for her than me. I will have to step up my support for her to keep us out of any "funk".

Overall, I need to make sure that when we do still come together as friends...we keep things like nothing happended. I can...but it will be hard for my wife.

I know that he has begun to move on, based on my conversation with him last night. I was going to come over to have a couple beers and just hang out. He mentioned he had some cleaning up to do...(ok, not that unusual), but he seemed in a hurry to get things done. I told him that I would catch him tomorrow. Later, as I was getting ready for bed I noticed a strange car in his drive...and knew. I can't say for sure that my wife and the neighbor will never get together again, but it will most likely not be as it was before.

TO ALL THAT HAVE READ AND SUPPORTED MY WIFE AND I ON THIS THREAD:

Thank you all for your support, your words of encouragement, your advice, and of course all the comments. I know that I will still frequent this forum, watching, reading, and commenting. Its now my turn to see how others keep their cuckold relationships going...and how others try to start a cuckold relationship. If something were to change, I would definately report it.

This has been a fun one...and I hope to some day be a cuckold again.

-A&E

Well said, Allen. Well said.

I'm going to miss this tread. Thanks Allen for all the insights.
Whatever you do in life is insignificant, but it is very important that you do it, cause nobody else will
Gandhi

Maybe you should give us his email address...
HIT1969

I started reading this thread a little late. I have to say it is one of the best threads on this site. Thank you for allowing all of us to share this experience with you and your wife.

iwmwtcm said it best....A&E it was a fun ride, but dont give up cause once ya get the taste it hard to go without. thank you... keep in touch

Hi Allen,
I've been offline for a little while, so have just caught up on your latest posts. What a bummer it looks like it's all come to an end, but obviously the friendship the three of you share is the most important thing of all. I wonder, do you think the neighbour was starting to develop feelings for Erika, so has pulled back before things got out of hand? Isn't that part of the risk and the angst of the cuckold - that the wife and the lover will develop a bond that the husband is not a part of?
I have to say that I have you and Erika to thank for our foray into my wife experiencing another man. It was definitely your postings that finally made her agreeable to the idea. She has only had a few meetings with the one guy, but she is keen to keep things going.
So, to you and Erika, thanks so much for sharing your experiences. Don't leave the forum, and please keep in touch.

My wife and I talked about this, pondered what really made the neighbor change. She and I think a couple factors were part of it.

One, he is most likely lonely. All of our friends have someone, a gf, or a wife. Most have started families and are moving forward with life.

Secondly, he most certainly has feelings for Erika. He and I both have roughly the same taste in women. He and I are a lot alike in personality. I would have to say that if my wife and I didn't have kids, and things were just a little different...she may have left me for him. And yes, for some reason that turns me on. Definately part of the angst...exspecially when she spent the night on new years...and he was the first to have her in the new year.

The neighbor has also met someone new. He and I ran into this girl last week. As it turns out, they went to school together. Funny thing...she and I have a mutual friend. Small world hey? Anyway, I went with him on Tuesday to watch him bowl. We then met her at a local bar after bowling. She came back to his place after. I was not bothered by it so much. However the wife did see them walk into his house...and that she said it was a bit hurtful.

Last night, after the kids were in bed for a bit...she and I walked next door where he was in the upper unit of his duplex. A friend of ours was there with him...helping remodel. When we walked in I could see he was unsure and a bit fidgity. He had a hard time making eye contact with the wife. She and I both knew he was uneasy about her being there. He was in one of the rooms putting up a ceiling fan, so to help push things between them...I asked the friend a question about something going on in the other room. He and I walked out...leaving my wife and the neighbor alone in the room. She told me it took a minute for him to begin to talk with her. She said it seem hard for him...obviously he cared. It didn't take long before it things got to a normal level. She wanted him to know that she was Ok with him...and that things shouldn't be weird. She said that they seemed to get a "were cool about this" betweem them.

drpool: I am honored to know that my wife and I (and the neighbor) were a contributing factor in your "wife experiencing another man". That put a smile on my face this morning. Congrats and enjoy the ride....I bet your wife is.

hey allen & erika, how are you guys doing? really miss you guys feels like my best friends moved out of town. i bet shes got you wore the fuck out picking up the slack. keep in touch if just to update your life together, miss ya....steve

Dodged a bullet as of yesterday. She was a week and a half late, the last time they met was late Feb. She met with flo yesterday and we both breathed a sigh of relief. While her getting pregnant from him is very erotic...its not something we would really want for real. We were confused because she and I have been "fixed", but as I understand...nothing is 100%.

Whats kinda hot about this though, is last night she told me "you know, I had basically just resigned or wrapped my head around that if I am preganant...the baby would be his"

The neighbor: He does have someone now, she and my wife get along very well. That was a big thing I know he was worried about. He didn't say it, but I could tell by his nervousness. Anyway, we are all still around, and its getting warmer out. The wife is loosing weight quickly and I know she is planning on teasing him as much as she can when she is finally able to lay out. In about another month...let the teasing begin!!!

Pregnancy scare? Wow, that must have been a pretty intense week and a half! From how you desribed their relationship, I would also have to guess that it would have been his. Maybe you should have been more thorough when you cleaned her up, lol.

Nice to hear he has a girlfriend. Is your wife feeling any jealousy knowing what the girlfriend is getting in the bedroom while she isnt?

What is Erica hoping for with the teasing?

I just had a thought! Maybe your wife can hook up with the two of them while you wait for her at home. Maybe Erica would enjoy eating a creampie herself (from the girlfriend)!

It was in fact a crazy week and some change not knowing. But we also went through something like this last year about this time. So, maybe its just part of her cycle. She and I both think that if she were pregnant...it would have to have been his since we both went through with procedures.

I can say that its been some time since I have seen my best friend/neighbor this happy. And yes the wife started with quite the bout of jealousy, but has quickly realized that she has to let it go. She can see how happy he is, and she actually gets along with his gf.

Teasing...well, lets say that for some reason he and his gf don't work out...he has to still know that he can have my wife at any time...and she wants to keep his eye on her. Exspecially now that she is working out and losing weight.

As far as the three of them hooking up...I will guaranty that she will cuckold me with someone else before she hooks up with a chick. Although, she does like to eat his cum...so...?????

nice to hear things are working out as best as possible. so are you looking for a new friend to get really close to for a new chance or anyone she knows that might do the trick? and dont forget us when she lets you get new pics...lol good luck

Tell ya what. I will talk to the wifey and see if she will pose for some pics. I would love to see her in the poses...and see her naked as well..

I would love for her to look for a another lover, but I don't see it happening anytime soon. She enjoyed having that "special connection" with the neighbor, and well, thats something she feels that she needs in order to do something like this again. FRUSTRATION!!!! I loved being her cuckold and would love to be again.

Allen: Erika is very hot and went a long way. If recall it took her sometime to want to do something with the neighbor then him to react to her advances. As you noted there was a connection due to the friendship and trust. She seemed to enjoy it and will again. Give her some respectful time and am sure she wil begin to miss it as well. At that time she and you will find another new friend for her. Look forward to the pics and updates.

You are correct. She did take some time to warm up to this, and yet I do think she might do it again. A new friend, or maybe even a stranger. I beleive she will again want someone to "give it to her" better than I can...but yet have that love when she comes home.

The time is 10:56. Its a familiar time of night, and yet not familiar enough to remember what should be happening about now?????

The neighbor and I just got back home from bowling. He does have a gf, but not yet slept with her. Hey, no judging..he is a genuine nice guy!!! But yet my wife just happened to get a text from him..."oops...I must have forgotten to lock the door"

She went over to investigate.

yee haa- game on

My wifes investigation found.....CLOSURE.

Here is what happened. Last night my wife went to the gym later than usual. So I was not able to got to bowling right away. The neighbor and I usually travel together. Last night I had to wait for her to get home before I left to go. I did show up a little later to bowling, just in enough time to catch the third & last game. We hung out for a couple beers after they were done and both decided that we didn't want to go out to the locals after...it was getting later.

Time being the major factor for not going out for a couple more, and because he told me that "they" have a date tomorrow. Ok, sounds great, my friend has plans with his gf, she and he seem to be moving along great. As he and I were walking into our houses, I saw him flick the "cat lights" on, then quickly off. What the heck was he doing? I looked up to see my wife at the window, she opened up the window, "hey, no teasing"...to him. He quickly went inside..as did I. She and I didn't think much of it. I jumped into the shower, my wife came into the bathroom with an urgency that I have not heard in some time. "What do I do I do...is he just teasing?" I said "what?...You got a text?...What does it say?"...."It says...opps, I must have forgotten to lock the door"

Now to say the least, we were both not sure where he was going, just toying, teasing, or serious? She sent back "Not nice to tease, I thought we were done with this?"...he..."says who?" Ok, now she is looking up at me and I told her..."go see whats up". She told me as she left..."he and I need to talk about this".

Talk about it...they did. They talked about us, them, and his new gf. The hard part was not to get into it, she did touch him, and him her. But other than a little petting...nothing. She told me that it was very hard for her not to just jump him, and she could tell he was holding back as well. It wouldn't have take much. Basically when it came down to it, she did not want to start up again, invest emotions into something that was just going to be a one timer. She told me that she could see them getting together again if he and his gf ever break up, but not until then. She and his gf get along very well, and are on track to becoming friends as well. (Damnit! )

Ultimately, the neighbor and my wife have a bond that holds them together, and its that same bond that will keep them apart.
That bond also has the power to wreck a lot of lives...and that in part is something they both want to avoid at all costs.

Sorry for being "PREMATURE" in my post last night...but doing something premature is something a cuckold is good at...

are you kidding thats good news. the doors open to more.the fact that they did anything is not really closure when erika can cope with being the other woman,she can have real fun. she can have him with you knowing,and still have the fun of sneaking around without his gf knowing...if only for hand jobs or bjs plus a lot of petting... that my friend is a good time!

hey allen how are you guys doing ? well i hope! hows erika doing with the losing weight now that its getting nicer out (even up there in wis.) dont forget us when she starts posin for pics again.....lol.. good luck my friend lightning does strike twice sometimes....

It is 10:45 on Tuesday night. Currently the neighbor is in my basement, with my wife...I wonder what is happening? Wooohooo!!!!! Who cares...as long as she gets it from him, and I get her after!!!

Very nice. let us know how she looks after he is done in the basement!

Are you serious Allen? What happened to the girlfriend? Is he and your wife going to start up again?

I hope as Im writing this that you are enjoying a sweet creampie!