Beg wife to turn me gay

My wife and I have been into cuckolding for 4 or 5 years now.

She has a steady boyfriend that she sees for fun and I have only had the head of my cock inside her for the last year or so. She is aware of how much I love sucking cock and she buys me panties and calls me a sissy but she is unwilling to give up on sex with me. She loves the feel my hard sissy cock rubbing on her wet pussy and she cums over and over without me even penetrating her.

I have been trying for a while now to convince her to stop having sex with me. She is wonderful in encouraging me to have sex with men, I just wish she would tell me that I am only allowed to have sex with men from now on. I know some of you will say that I am already gay but I am not. I love pussy and will always want it. I just craved to be controlled by someone who will not ever let me have sex with a woman again.

Any thoughts or others like me?

it will occur to her in time.
Joe Preston

yeah you are already gay even if you don't want to admit it you are

You are very welcome to your opinion Kevin. I am sure there are alot of peopole who would agree with you.

I think it is fair to say that I am like you, although a bit further along. My wife and I celebrated the 10th anniversary of my last penetration of her in December and this summer will be nine years since she last put her lips on my little sissy cock. Also, she has so reconditioned me that it would seem fairly absurd for me to even try to convince anyone I was still straight.

But moving on to your situation, I have some thoughts: Your wife is already having sex with others but rebuffs your requests to permanently deny you. Based on my experience and observations of other relationships, I suspect that this is because of love and fear. She loves you and is clearly at least willing, perhaps even happy, to engage in cuckolding, humiliation, and emasculation activities. But she is afraid that discontinuing sexual activity with you might damage what is currently a loving and happy relationship. She may feel that the contact with your penis is a reassurance that it is all a bit of a game, that despite her humiliating you, cucking you, and encouraging you to fuck men, your relationship with each other is still solid and primary in your lives. She may feel that you will withdraw from you intimacy from her if she withdraws the physical aspect.

My advice is this:

1. Make it non-threatening. Nothing bad happening is the best cure for fear. It took a few relapses by her before the ban on penetration became permanent. Once she got comfortable it was easier for her. Even after, she was comfortable because she knew: (A) that as the mistress she could overrule it at anytime, (B) that we still did everything else except penetration. After nearly two-years she was willing to extend the ban to blow-jobs because she knew that the initial ban had not brought any negative turn in our relationship. Today she won't even touch my penis, no longer lets my tongue in her mouth and rarely lets me touch her sexually at all. But it went step by step.

2. Make it a game. Try getting a chastity and have her put you in it and see how long you can go. Keep extending the period. Do not bug her for sexual attention in this time - leave it to her. She may find that not having your dick at the ready is not such a big thing to her after all.

3. Get her another lover. I know you say she cucks you. You need to see if you can't help her into a relationship with another man so sexually exciting or satisfying that sex with you become more of an obligation than something she feels like doing.

4. Give her the power. Remember: at root, she is afraid of where this will go. Give her the power to override the rules anytime she wants. Just having the power will make her feel more comfortable. She may even use them sometimes, just to reassure herself. But if you never ask her to (which means no begging for sex with her) and she knows it excites you that she won't, you'll find that she will refrain out of respect and love for you. Once it has been going on for a while, she will think it would be a shame to break such a record. (My wife confessed to me once that she never thought it would go more than a few months, but after two years it seems to her like it would be such a huge failure if we stopped now. She now assures me it is for life.)

5. Be OK with her backing out. If she says "no blow-jobs for a year," but then relents and gives you one after a few weeks, don't think its all over. Tell her you are grateful for it but that you do not expect another one for the rest of the year. After a while, she will feel that you are really happier if she refrains.

6. Demonstrate to her how you want it in a non-pushy way. Make it what you ask for for Christmas, birthday, etc. When she has gone for a period of time without doing something for you, tell her how hot it gets you that she hasn't and how grateful you are for making your dreams come true, and how much you love her, etc.

Anyway, it worked for me. (In spades.)

Good luck.

Any updates?

My wife has forbidden me sex for approx 2 years now yet willingly gives it to her various lovers. She told me that the only penetration sex I will ever have in the future will be when men are fucking me ! She often wanks me until i am close to orgasm then makes me admit that im gay and that i only want to have sex with men in the future. She makes me beg for her to forbid me sex with her for the rest of our lives.
She makes me beg for it to be that way while keeping me close to orgasm so that i am in a vulnerable state !

Yup. that was how we started. You are in for a long and enriching journey of denial, desire, and self-discovery. Congratulations and good luck. Truly, I envy you. I wish I could go back and live it all over again.